{"id":103809,"date":"2019-12-04T16:03:33","date_gmt":"2019-12-04T13:03:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=103809"},"modified":"2019-12-04T16:03:33","modified_gmt":"2019-12-04T13:03:33","slug":"xosb%c9%99xt-nikahin-sirrl%c9%99ri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=103809","title":{"rendered":"Xo\u015fb\u0259xt nikah\u0131n sirrl\u0259ri"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>\u201cNikahda k\u0259ram\u0259t var\u201d<\/em>\u00a0\u2013 deyirl\u0259r. Do\u011furdan da yeni evl\u0259n\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259r bir-biril\u0259rini el\u0259 sevirl\u0259r ki, x\u0259talar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u00fcrl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>H\u0259r iki t\u0259r\u0259f d\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131n\u0131n x\u0259trin\u0259 d\u0259ym\u0259m\u0259k , xo\u015fb\u0259xt etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn sanki \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131n\u0131r. El\u0259 is\u0259, s\u0259ad\u0259tinizin t\u0259m\u0259li olan bu xo\u015fb\u0259xt g\u00fcnl\u0259ri bacard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z q\u0259d\u0259r qoruma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Yerli-yersiz g\u00f6z ya\u015flar\u0131, g\u00fcnl\u0259rl\u0259 davam ed\u0259n k\u00fcs\u00fcl\u00fcl\u00fckl\u0259r ilk vaxtlar h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n diqq\u0259tini c\u0259lb ets\u0259 d\u0259, vaxt ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlara al\u0131\u015faca\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn silah\u0131n\u0131z \u0259vv\u0259lki kimi t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259r. Nec\u0259 dey\u0259rl\u0259r:\u00a0<em>\u201cArt\u0131q naz a\u015fiq usand\u0131rar\u201d<\/em>. Evliliyinizin bu ilk v\u0259 \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l g\u00fcnl\u0259rind\u0259\u00a0<em>\u201cyersiz nazla a\u015fiqinizi usand\u0131rmaq\u201d<\/em>\u00a0\u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l keyfiyy\u0259tiniz, a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zla onun q\u0259lbini f\u0259th etm\u0259lisiniz.<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<p><strong>Evl\u0259ndikd\u0259n sonra xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ni\u015fanl\u0131l\u0131q d\u00f6v\u00fcnd\u0259 bir-birinizl\u0259 nec\u0259 davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 unutmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.\u00a0<\/strong><strong>Evl\u0259nm\u0259zd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l ni\u015fanl\u0131n\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259l\u0259r etdiyinizi xat\u0131rlama\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/strong>\u00a0O sizi, i\u015f g\u00f6r\u0259rk\u0259n geyindiyiniz \u00e7irkli, yem\u0259k iyi g\u0259l\u0259n paltarla g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcm\u00fc? Sa\u00e7\u0131n\u0131z daranmam\u0131\u015f \u00e7\u0131xm\u0131\u015fd\u0131n\u0131zm\u0131 qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na? Tam \u0259ksin\u0259, onun g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 bax\u0131ml\u0131, s\u0259liq\u0259li olma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131n\u0131z. Onu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259kd\u0259n yorulmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, \u00a0g\u00f6r\u0259r-g\u00f6rm\u0259z q\u0259lbinizin \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131na mane ola bilm\u0259diyiniz o g\u00f6z\u0259l g\u00fcnl\u0259rinizd\u0259 tez-tez g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bir f\u00fcrs\u0259t axtar\u0131rd\u0131n\u0131z. G\u00f6z\u0259l s\u00f6zl\u0259r, aynaya baxanda onun g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 nec\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259r\u0259k \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u0259 s\u0259liq\u0259- s\u0259hman verm\u0259k, sevinciniz\u0259 sevinc qat\u0131rd\u0131. Xat\u0131rlad\u0131n\u0131z deyilmi? B\u0259s indi? H\u0259mi\u015f\u0259kind\u0259n daha \u00e7ox ehtiyac\u0131n\u0131z oldu\u011fu halda , bu g\u00f6z\u0259l davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131za niy\u0259 n\u00f6qt\u0259 qoydunuz? Yoxsa, xo\u015fb\u0259xtlikd\u0259n, s\u0259ad\u0259td\u0259n, sevincd\u0259n imtina edirsiniz? B\u0259lk\u0259 n\u0259yis\u0259 g\u00f6zl\u0259yirsiniz? B\u0259lk\u0259 &#8220;m\u0259ni bel\u0259c\u0259, oldu\u011fum kimi q\u0259bul etsin\u201d, dey\u0259r\u0259k i\u015fin asan\u0131na qa\u00e7\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z? Ancaq d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn ki, o sizi oldu\u011funuz kimi deyil, g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fcz kimi sevmi\u015fdi.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130ndi bu xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyin davam\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn siz d\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fcz kimi olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. B\u0259li, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 g\u00fcl\u0259r \u00fczl\u0259, \u015firin s\u00f6zl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131lama\u011fa t\u0259nb\u0259llik etm\u0259yin. Onunla evinizin daimi qona\u011f\u0131 kimi davran\u0131n, eyniyl\u0259 ni\u015fanl\u0131 oldu\u011funuz g\u00fcnl\u0259rd\u0259ki kimi \u00e7\u0131x\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na. El\u0259 olsun ki, bu xo\u015fb\u0259xt qonaq qap\u0131dan i\u00e7\u0259ri add\u0131m atar-atmaz b\u00fct\u00fcn yor\u011funlu\u011funu, probleml\u0259rini unudaca\u011f\u0131na, \u00f6z isti yuvas\u0131ndan ba\u015fqa he\u00e7 bir yerd\u0259 rahat ola bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259 inans\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>Ona g\u00f6nd\u0259rm\u0259k ist\u0259diyiniz mesaj\u0131, s\u00f6yl\u0259m\u0259k ist\u0259diyiniz g\u00f6z\u0259l bir s\u00f6z\u00fc gecikdirm\u0259yin. \u201c\u018fvv\u0259lc\u0259 o ba\u015flas\u0131n\u201d dey\u0259 g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259yin.\u00a0<em><strong>Onu n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox sevdiyinizi s\u00f6yl\u0259m\u0259kd\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kinm\u0259yin.\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><em><strong>V\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt ola bilm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn xo\u015fb\u0259xt etm\u0259kd\u0259n usanmay\u0131n.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sevda X\u0259lilova<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Psixologiya v\u0259 Konsultasiya M\u0259rk\u0259zinin psixoloqu<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Pcc.az<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cNikahda k\u0259ram\u0259t var\u201d\u00a0\u2013 deyirl\u0259r. Do\u011furdan da yeni evl\u0259n\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259r bir-biril\u0259rini el\u0259 sevirl\u0259r ki, x\u0259talar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u00fcrl\u0259r. H\u0259r iki t\u0259r\u0259f d\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131n\u0131n x\u0259trin\u0259 d\u0259ym\u0259m\u0259k , xo\u015fb\u0259xt etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn sanki \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131n\u0131r. El\u0259 is\u0259, s\u0259ad\u0259tinizin t\u0259m\u0259li olan bu xo\u015fb\u0259xt g\u00fcnl\u0259ri bacard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z q\u0259d\u0259r qoruma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Yerli-yersiz g\u00f6z ya\u015flar\u0131, g\u00fcnl\u0259rl\u0259 davam ed\u0259n k\u00fcs\u00fcl\u00fcl\u00fckl\u0259r ilk vaxtlar h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n diqq\u0259tini c\u0259lb ets\u0259 d\u0259, vaxt ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlara al\u0131\u015faca\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn silah\u0131n\u0131z \u0259vv\u0259lki kimi t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259r. Nec\u0259 dey\u0259rl\u0259r:\u00a0\u201cArt\u0131q naz a\u015fiq usand\u0131rar\u201d. Evliliyinizin bu ilk v\u0259 \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l g\u00fcnl\u0259rind\u0259\u00a0\u201cyersiz nazla a\u015fiqinizi usand\u0131rmaq\u201d\u00a0\u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l keyfiyy\u0259tiniz, a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131zla onun q\u0259lbini f\u0259th etm\u0259lisiniz.&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":103810,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/xosbext-nikah.jpg",440,308,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/xosbext-nikah.jpg",440,308,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/xosbext-nikah.jpg",440,308,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/xosbext-nikah-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/xosbext-nikah-300x210.jpg",300,210,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/xosbext-nikah.jpg",440,308,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/xosbext-nikah.jpg",440,308,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/xosbext-nikah.jpg",440,308,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/xosbext-nikah-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/xosbext-nikah.jpg",440,308,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?cat=1\" rel=\"category\">C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"\u201cNikahda k\u0259ram\u0259t var\u201d\u00a0\u2013 deyirl\u0259r. Do\u011furdan da yeni evl\u0259n\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259r bir-biril\u0259rini el\u0259 sevirl\u0259r ki, x\u0259talar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u00fcrl\u0259r. H\u0259r iki t\u0259r\u0259f d\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131n\u0131n x\u0259trin\u0259 d\u0259ym\u0259m\u0259k , xo\u015fb\u0259xt etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn sanki \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131n\u0131r. El\u0259 is\u0259, s\u0259ad\u0259tinizin t\u0259m\u0259li olan bu xo\u015fb\u0259xt g\u00fcnl\u0259ri bacard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z q\u0259d\u0259r qoruma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Yerli-yersiz g\u00f6z ya\u015flar\u0131, g\u00fcnl\u0259rl\u0259 davam ed\u0259n k\u00fcs\u00fcl\u00fcl\u00fckl\u0259r ilk vaxtlar h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n diqq\u0259tini c\u0259lb ets\u0259 d\u0259,&hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/103809"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=103809"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/103809\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/103810"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=103809"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=103809"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=103809"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}