Aliml\u0259rin m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, sir\u00a0 saxlamaq psixi durumunuza\u00a0 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n z\u0259r\u0259r ver\u0259 bil\u0259r. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 insanlar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti qeyb\u0259t edib\u00a0 \u00f6zl\u0259rini qoruyaraq, dig\u0259r insanlar\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 korlay\u0131rlar. Lakin \u00f6z psixikan\u0131z\u0131 qorumaqla b\u0259rab\u0259r, ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n da\u00a0 h\u0259yat\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn\u00a0 problem yaratmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259ni elmi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n h\u0259ll etm\u0259yin etibarl\u0131 yollar\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Siz\u0259 etibar olunan sirl\u0259ri saxlaya bilirsinizmi? Sirr saxlamaq irad\u0259 imtahan\u0131d\u0131r. Siz\u0259 \u0259man\u0259t edil\u0259n sirri saxlamaq \u00e7\u0259tindirs\u0259 v\u0259 i\u00e7inizd\u0259\u00a0 sanki bir \u201cqa\u015f\u0131nt\u0131\u201d hiss edirsinizs\u0259, dem\u0259k olar ki, bildiyiniz bu informasiya siz\u0259 art\u0131q \u0259ziyy\u0259t verir.\u00a0 T\u0259tqiqat\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131n s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, sirl\u0259rin a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131 v\u0259 yaxud dedi-qodular orqanizmimizi\u00a0 v\u0259 ruhumuzu d\u0259rhal sa\u011fald\u0131r. Ancaq bunu etm\u0259k olarm\u0131? Bu m\u00f6vzunu m\u00fczakir\u0259 ed\u0259rk\u0259n, m\u0259\u015fhur ingilis \u015fairi v\u0259 t\u0259nqid\u00e7isi Samuel Consonsun s\u00f6zl\u0259ri yada d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr .Onun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, \u00f6z sirrini saxlamaq m\u00fcdriklikdir v\u0259 bu sirrin ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n da saxlaya bil\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259rin\u0259 \u00fcmid etm\u0259k\u00a0 sad\u0259c\u0259 axmaql\u0131qd\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\u018fvv\u0259lc\u0259 niy\u0259 sirrinizi b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k ist\u0259diyinizi bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. \u201cKolumbiya biznes m\u0259kt\u0259binin\u201d psixoterapevtl\u0259rinin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, insanlar sirl\u0259ri il\u0259 t\u0259k qalmaq ist\u0259mirl\u0259r v\u0259 t\u0259klikd\u0259n qorxaraq \u201cgizli d\u00fcnyalar\u0131n\u0131\u201d ba\u015fqalar\u0131na \u201c etibar\u201d edirl\u0259r. B\u0259zi insanlara m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n bir bilginin sirr oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yl\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259\u00a0 onlar \u00f6zl\u0259rini\u00a0 sanki bir \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259 i\u00e7ind\u0259 hiss edirl\u0259r. B\u0259zil\u0259ri bir sirri payla\u015f\u0131b,m\u00fczakir\u0259 ed\u0259r\u0259k rahatl\u0131q tap\u0131rlar, b\u0259zil\u0259ri is\u0259 kiml\u0259r\u0259s\u0259 xo\u015f g\u0259lm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onlara etibar edil\u0259n m\u0259lumat\u0131 ba\u015fqalar\u0131na yay\u0131rlar. Beverli-Xilzd\u0259n olan psixoterapevt Fren Uonfil\u015f sirl\u0259ri yaln\u0131z yax\u0131n insanlar\u0131n\u0131za (ail\u0259d\u0259n olan qohumlar\u0131n\u0131za) etibar etm\u0259yi\u00a0 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Onun fikirl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, bu m\u0259lumatlar\u0131 biz\u00a0 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 aidiyy\u0259ti olmayan bir insanla da b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u0259 bil\u0259rik. Lakin Fren Uonfil\u015f\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu psixoterapevtin q\u0259buna ged\u0259r\u0259k\u00a0 sizi narahat edib, bo\u011fan bu sirl\u0259ri onunla m\u00fczakir\u0259 edib rahatl\u0131q tapmaqd\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Baylor Tibb Kolecenin professoru v\u0259 icra\u00e7\u0131 m\u00fcavini Asim \u015eah\u0131n s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, sirl\u0259rinizi sizi m\u00fchakim\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259 meyilli insanlara s\u00f6yl\u0259m\u0259yin. Bir sirri tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir insana v\u0259 yaxud uzaq olan bir dostunuza s\u00f6yl\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259rsiniz. Sirl\u0259nizi etibar etm\u0259kd\u0259n \u00f6nc\u0259\u00a0 h\u0259ms\u00f6hb\u0259tinizin yax\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n\u00a0 tan\u0131\u015f\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131na \u0259min olun. Uy\u011fun namiz\u0259dl\u0259r aras\u0131nda b\u0259rb\u0259rl\u0259r,barmenl\u0259r , qatarda tan\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funuz kupe qon\u015fular\u0131n\u0131z,internetd\u0259 yaz\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z tan\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z ola bil\u0259r. Asim \u015eah\u0131n sirl\u0259rl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 maraql\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259ri var. Onun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259\u00a0 g\u00f6r\u0259 bir sirri b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u0259rk\u0259n\u00a0 susmaq bar\u0259sind\u0259 bir s\u00f6z almaq laz\u0131m deyil, \u00e7\u00fcnki verdiyi s\u00f6zd\u0259n sonra\u00a0 h\u0259min insan sizin sirrinizi daha on n\u0259f\u0259rl\u0259 b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. He\u00e7 vaxt\u00a0 q\u0259lbinizd\u0259 olan sirrinizi,q\u0259lbinizd\u0259n ba\u015fqa he\u00e7 kim\u0259 s\u00f6yl\u0259m\u0259yin.<\/p>\n
M\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259,\u0259n \u00e7ox qad\u0131nlar onlara etibar edil\u0259n sirl\u0259ri saxlamaqda \u00e7\u0259tinlik \u00e7\u0259kirl\u0259r. Frans\u0131z filosofu Jan Labr\u00fcerin s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, ki\u015fi \u00f6zg\u0259sinin sirrini \u00f6z sirrind\u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 saxlay\u0131r, qad\u0131n is\u0259 yaln\u0131z \u00f6z sirrini qorumaqla m\u0259\u015f\u011fuldur.<\/p>\n
Samir\u0259 Ta\u011f\u0131yeva,\u00a0<\/strong>\u201c\u0130ki sahil\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Aliml\u0259rin m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, sir\u00a0 saxlamaq psixi durumunuza\u00a0 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n z\u0259r\u0259r ver\u0259 bil\u0259r. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 insanlar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti qeyb\u0259t edib\u00a0 \u00f6zl\u0259rini qoruyaraq, dig\u0259r insanlar\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 korlay\u0131rlar. Lakin \u00f6z psixikan\u0131z\u0131 qorumaqla b\u0259rab\u0259r, ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n da\u00a0 h\u0259yat\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn\u00a0 problem yaratmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259ni elmi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n h\u0259ll etm\u0259yin etibarl\u0131 yollar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Siz\u0259 etibar olunan sirl\u0259ri saxlaya bilirsinizmi? Sirr saxlamaq irad\u0259 imtahan\u0131d\u0131r. 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Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 insanlar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti qeyb\u0259t edib\u00a0 \u00f6zl\u0259rini qoruyaraq, dig\u0259r insanlar\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 korlay\u0131rlar. Lakin \u00f6z psixikan\u0131z\u0131 qorumaqla b\u0259rab\u0259r, ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n da\u00a0 h\u0259yat\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn\u00a0 problem yaratmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259ni elmi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n h\u0259ll etm\u0259yin etibarl\u0131 yollar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Siz\u0259 etibar olunan sirl\u0259ri saxlaya bilirsinizmi? Sirr saxlamaq irad\u0259 imtahan\u0131d\u0131r. 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