{"id":105844,"date":"2019-12-10T15:31:04","date_gmt":"2019-12-10T12:31:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=105844"},"modified":"2019-12-10T15:31:04","modified_gmt":"2019-12-10T12:31:04","slug":"psixoloqdan-s%c9%99rt-aciqlama-toyda-tort-yem%c9%99k-ustund%c9%99-g%c9%99lini-doy%c9%99n-b%c9%99yl%c9%99r%c9%99-yazigim-g%c9%99lir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=105844","title":{"rendered":"Psixoloqdan S\u018fRT A\u00c7IQLAMA: “Toyda tort yem\u0259k \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 g\u0259lini d\u00f6y\u0259n b\u0259yl\u0259r\u0259 yaz\u0131\u011f\u0131m g\u0259lir”"},"content":{"rendered":"

Son g\u00fcnl\u0259rin \u0259n aktual probleml\u0259rind\u0259n biri sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 b\u0259yl\u0259rin g\u0259lini d\u00f6ym\u0259sidir. Bu d\u00f6y\u00fclm\u0259 hallar\u0131 toyda qondarma ad\u0259t- \u0259n\u0259n\u0259miz kimi t\u0259qdim olunan “tort yem\u0259k” \u00fcst\u00fcd\u0259 ba\u015f verir. B\u0259y g\u0259linin, g\u0259lin d\u0259 b\u0259yin a\u011fz\u0131na tort par\u00e7as\u0131 uzadaraq bir- birl\u0259rin\u0259 \u015firinlik edirl\u0259r. G\u0259linl\u0259r bu zaman ad\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259c\u0259l q\u0131z obraz\u0131 yaradaraq tort par\u00e7as\u0131n\u0131 gah ir\u0259li, gah geri uzadaraq g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131 il\u0259 zarafat edirl\u0259r. El\u0259 bu m\u0259qamda d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcl\u0259r ortaya \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. Hirsl\u0259n\u0259n b\u0259y g\u0259lini el\u0259 toyun ortas\u0131ndaca \u015fill\u0259y\u0259 “qonaq” edir. Maraql\u0131d\u0131r, indiki b\u0259yl\u0259r niy\u0259 bel\u0259 aqressiv davran\u0131r?<\/p>\n

Bununla ba\u011fl\u0131\u00a0Sonxeber.az-a dan\u0131\u015fan psixoloq V\u0259fa \u018fkb\u0259r bel\u0259 b\u0259yl\u0259rin aqressiv olmalar\u0131n\u0131 onlar\u0131n utancaql\u0131q hissl\u0259ri il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259ndirir:<\/p>\n

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“\u00c7ox rahat, intellekt v\u0259 yumor hissin\u0259 malik olan b\u0259yl\u0259r var ki, bu zarafat\u0131 \u00e7ox g\u00f6z\u0259l qar\u015f\u0131lay\u0131rlar. Bu zarafat\u0131 o insanlar q\u0259bul etmirl\u0259r ki, onlar c\u0259miyy\u0259t i\u00e7ind\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rini rahat hiss etm\u0259y\u0259n insanlard\u0131r. Bel\u0259 insanlar kompleksli, utancaq, \u00e7\u0259king\u0259n, \u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259 q\u00fcsur bil\u0259n insanlard\u0131r. \u018ftrafda kims\u0259 onunla zarafat etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanda h\u0259min \u015f\u0259xs onu zarafat kimi deyil, \u0259l\u0259 salmaq kimi anlay\u0131r v\u0259 avtomatik olaraq aqressiv \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 reaksiya g\u00f6st\u0259rirl\u0259r. Bu, normal reaksiya deyil”.<\/p>\n

\"PsixoloqdanV\u0259fa \u018fkb\u0259r qeyd edib ki, yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6y\u0259n b\u0259y birinci olaraq xan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 al\u00e7ald\u0131r. Psixoloq bildirib ki, h\u0259min b\u0259yl\u0259r bununla “s\u0259n m\u0259nd\u0259n a\u015fa\u011f\u0131san, h\u0259l\u0259 s\u0259n m\u0259ni \u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 sal\u0131rsan?” dem\u0259k ist\u0259yir. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 bel\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda durmaq \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tin olur. Problem insan\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 ocaqdad\u0131r. Ail\u0259 ona do\u011fru t\u0259rbiy\u0259 v\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc do\u011fru ifad\u0259 etm\u0259k \u015f\u0259klini \u00f6yr\u0259d\u0259 bils\u0259ydi, h\u0259min b\u0259y \u0259n az\u0131 toyunda xan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 p\u0259rt etm\u0259zdi.<\/p>\n

Psixoloq h\u0259m\u00e7inin bildirib ki, ail\u0259 quran \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131n n\u0259 dem\u0259k oldu\u011funu he\u00e7 ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fcr:<\/p>\n

“Onlar \u0259zginlik kompleksind\u0259n \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n, kompleksli adamlard\u0131r. Onlar d\u0259rk etm\u0259d\u0259n ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qururlar. \u018fg\u0259r h\u0259min yola q\u0259d\u0259r do\u011fru g\u0259lm\u0259yibl\u0259rs\u0259, dem\u0259li h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 da \u00f6zl\u0259ri se\u00e7m\u0259yibl\u0259r. Bel\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r “M\u0259nim d\u0259 arvad\u0131m olacaq” t\u0259f\u0259kk\u00fcr\u00fc il\u0259 sad\u0259c\u0259 sosial statusu tamamlamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ail\u0259 quranlard\u0131r. Qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131n\u0131n q\u0259lbin\u0259 \u0259z\u0259nl\u0259r he\u00e7 n\u0259yin f\u0259rqind\u0259 deyill\u0259r v\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259ri tamamlanmay\u0131blar. Onlar\u0131n intellektual yumoru a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 olan insanlard\u0131r. M\u0259n el\u0259 insanlara baxanda yaz\u0131\u011f\u0131m g\u0259lir”.<\/p>\n

Psixoloq az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131larda daha \u00e7ox bel\u0259 hallarla qar\u015f\u0131lanma sual\u0131na is\u0259 bel\u0259 cavab verib:
\n“Kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r yumor hissi olan az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 ki\u015fisi g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259 bil\u0259r\u0259m. Xaricd\u0259 ana- ata \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 intim partnyor, qulluq\u00e7u axtarm\u0131r. O\u011fluna da sad\u0259c\u0259 yan\u0131nda g\u0259z\u0259c\u0259k g\u0259lincik axtarm\u0131r. Bu yen\u0259 d\u0259 ke\u00e7mi\u015f n\u0259slin problemi kimi g\u00fcnd\u0259m\u0259 g\u0259lir”.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Son g\u00fcnl\u0259rin \u0259n aktual probleml\u0259rind\u0259n biri sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 b\u0259yl\u0259rin g\u0259lini d\u00f6ym\u0259sidir. Bu d\u00f6y\u00fclm\u0259 hallar\u0131 toyda qondarma ad\u0259t- \u0259n\u0259n\u0259miz kimi t\u0259qdim olunan “tort yem\u0259k” \u00fcst\u00fcd\u0259 ba\u015f verir. B\u0259y g\u0259linin, g\u0259lin d\u0259 b\u0259yin a\u011fz\u0131na tort par\u00e7as\u0131 uzadaraq bir- birl\u0259rin\u0259 \u015firinlik edirl\u0259r. G\u0259linl\u0259r bu zaman ad\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259c\u0259l q\u0131z obraz\u0131 yaradaraq tort par\u00e7as\u0131n\u0131 gah ir\u0259li, gah geri uzadaraq g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131 il\u0259 zarafat edirl\u0259r. El\u0259 bu m\u0259qamda d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcl\u0259r ortaya \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. Hirsl\u0259n\u0259n b\u0259y g\u0259lini el\u0259 toyun ortas\u0131ndaca \u015fill\u0259y\u0259 “qonaq” edir. Maraql\u0131d\u0131r, indiki b\u0259yl\u0259r niy\u0259 bel\u0259 aqressiv davran\u0131r? Bununla ba\u011fl\u0131\u00a0Sonxeber.az-a dan\u0131\u015fan psixoloq V\u0259fa \u018fkb\u0259r…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":105845,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/f0d60516-0ff4-4441-8a52-d0a64f4d88e9.jpg",550,497,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/f0d60516-0ff4-4441-8a52-d0a64f4d88e9.jpg",550,497,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/f0d60516-0ff4-4441-8a52-d0a64f4d88e9.jpg",550,497,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/f0d60516-0ff4-4441-8a52-d0a64f4d88e9-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/f0d60516-0ff4-4441-8a52-d0a64f4d88e9-300x271.jpg",300,271,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/f0d60516-0ff4-4441-8a52-d0a64f4d88e9.jpg",550,497,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/f0d60516-0ff4-4441-8a52-d0a64f4d88e9.jpg",550,497,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/f0d60516-0ff4-4441-8a52-d0a64f4d88e9.jpg",550,497,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/f0d60516-0ff4-4441-8a52-d0a64f4d88e9-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/f0d60516-0ff4-4441-8a52-d0a64f4d88e9.jpg",550,497,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Son g\u00fcnl\u0259rin \u0259n aktual probleml\u0259rind\u0259n biri sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 b\u0259yl\u0259rin g\u0259lini d\u00f6ym\u0259sidir. Bu d\u00f6y\u00fclm\u0259 hallar\u0131 toyda qondarma ad\u0259t- \u0259n\u0259n\u0259miz kimi t\u0259qdim olunan “tort yem\u0259k” \u00fcst\u00fcd\u0259 ba\u015f verir. B\u0259y g\u0259linin, g\u0259lin d\u0259 b\u0259yin a\u011fz\u0131na tort par\u00e7as\u0131 uzadaraq bir- birl\u0259rin\u0259 \u015firinlik edirl\u0259r. G\u0259linl\u0259r bu zaman ad\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259c\u0259l q\u0131z obraz\u0131 yaradaraq tort par\u00e7as\u0131n\u0131 gah ir\u0259li, gah geri uzadaraq…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105844"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=105844"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105844\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/105845"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=105844"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=105844"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=105844"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}