{"id":106793,"date":"2019-12-13T08:55:06","date_gmt":"2019-12-13T05:55:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=106793"},"modified":"2019-12-13T08:55:06","modified_gmt":"2019-12-13T05:55:06","slug":"qizlar-niy%c9%99-evd%c9%99-qalir-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=106793","title":{"rendered":"Q\u0131zlar niy\u0259 evd\u0259 qal\u0131r?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>\u00c7ox vaxt bel\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131r: G\u00f6z\u0259ldir,a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131d\u0131r,h\u0259tta karyeras\u0131n\u0131 da qurub-30 ya\u015fa az qal\u0131b ail\u0259 is\u0259 yoxdur.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Evd\u0259 qal\u0131b?<\/b><br \/>\n<b>\u0130st\u0259r-ist\u0259m\u0259z adama pis t\u0259sir edir-\u0259traf\u0131ndak\u0131lar n\u0259inki \u0259r\u0259 gedib,h\u0259tta u\u015faq da t\u0259\u015fkil etm\u0259y\u0259 vaxt tap\u0131blar.O is\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonuna kimi ofisd\u0259 vaxt ke\u00e7irir.\u018fr\u0259 getm\u0259y\u0259 i\u015f mane olmur,\u0259ksin\u0259 ail\u0259 olmad\u0131g\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc i\u015f\u0259 h\u0259sr edir.Ba\u015flay\u0131r internetd\u0259 r\u0259fiq\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 gileyl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259:u\u015faq yoxdu,\u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259y\u0259 d\u0259 d\u00fcz-\u0259m\u0259lli ki\u015fi yoxdur,ya\u015f is\u0259 \u00f6z s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc deyir.<\/p>\n<p>Art\u0131q orta ya\u015flarda k\u0131\u015f\u0131ni b\u00fct\u00fcn z\u0259iflikl\u0259ri il\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u0259n,bu da ail\u0259 qurmaga \u00e7\u0259tinlik t\u00f6r\u0259dir.<br \/>\nH\u0259l\u0259 bir t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n d\u0259 can\u0131yanan qohumlarin,tan\u0131\u015flarin t\u0259zyiqi.Ba\u015fqa \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu dey\u0259s\u0259n qalm\u0131r,g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc yumub \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259kd\u0259n ba\u015fqa.Amma bu \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu deyil!Gec-tez bel\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259r dag\u0131l\u0131r,dagilmasa da onu qoruyub saxlamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r g\u00fcc s\u0259rf etm\u0259lis\u0259n.<\/p>\n<p>Psixologiya hesab edir ki,h\u0259r \u015fey o q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 pis deyil.Ail\u0259 qurmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn odlu m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259t o q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 vacib deyil.Ehtiraslar s\u0259n\u0259 hakim k\u0259sil\u0259nd\u0259 se\u00e7imini ay\u0131q m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 ed\u0259 bilmirs\u0259n.2-3 il ail\u0259 h\u0259yatindan sonra o b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmazl\u0131qlar\u0131 il\u0259 qal\u0131r.Ail\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ehtiras \u0259sas deyil.Birinci n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 dogmal\u0131q,ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k,bir-birin\u0259 dayaq olmaq v\u0259 \u00fcmumi maraqlar-bel\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259r daha m\u00f6hk\u0259m olur.Sevgi ail\u0259 quranlar\u0131 yand\u0131rmal\u0131 deyil,\u0259ksin\u0259 onlar\u0131 isitm\u0259lidir.<\/p>\n<p>\u018ftrafdakj\u0131lar\u0131n g\u00fcclu t\u0259zyiqin\u0259 baxmayaraq se\u00e7im ed\u0259rk\u0259n kor koran\u0259 etm\u0259m\u0259lis\u0259n.Ki\u015fid\u0259 ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t,insan gorm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131san.Yoxsa ancaq \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259k m\u0259qs\u0259dil\u0259 oglana yax\u0131nla\u015fsan,bunu onlar tez anlay\u0131r,ad\u0259t\u0259n bel\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n qa\u00e7\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p>B\u0259z\u0259n d\u0259 q\u0131zlar m\u00fcnasib\u0259tin alinmamas\u0131nda \u00f6zl\u0259ri g\u00fcnahkar olur.Ya t\u0259l\u0259bl\u0259ri h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q olur,ya da \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259r vermirl\u0259r.He\u00e7 bir halda ruhdan d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k lazim deyil.Fikirl\u0259\u015f ki s\u0259nin ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131n \u0259n \u00e7i\u00e7\u0259kl\u0259n\u0259n d\u00f6vr\u00fcd\u00fcr,h\u0259m d\u0259 bel\u0259 ya\u015fda qurulan ail\u0259l\u0259r daha uzun\u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc v\u0259 daha etibarl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ox vaxt bel\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131r: G\u00f6z\u0259ldir,a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131d\u0131r,h\u0259tta karyeras\u0131n\u0131 da qurub-30 ya\u015fa az qal\u0131b ail\u0259 is\u0259 yoxdur. Evd\u0259 qal\u0131b? \u0130st\u0259r-ist\u0259m\u0259z adama pis t\u0259sir edir-\u0259traf\u0131ndak\u0131lar n\u0259inki \u0259r\u0259 gedib,h\u0259tta u\u015faq da t\u0259\u015fkil etm\u0259y\u0259 vaxt tap\u0131blar.O is\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 g\u00fcn\u00fcn sonuna kimi ofisd\u0259 vaxt ke\u00e7irir.\u018fr\u0259 getm\u0259y\u0259 i\u015f mane olmur,\u0259ksin\u0259 ail\u0259 olmad\u0131g\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc i\u015f\u0259 h\u0259sr edir.Ba\u015flay\u0131r internetd\u0259 r\u0259fiq\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 gileyl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259:u\u015faq yoxdu,\u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259y\u0259 d\u0259 d\u00fcz-\u0259m\u0259lli ki\u015fi yoxdur,ya\u015f is\u0259 \u00f6z s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc deyir. Art\u0131q orta ya\u015flarda k\u0131\u015f\u0131ni b\u00fct\u00fcn z\u0259iflikl\u0259ri il\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u0259n,bu da ail\u0259 qurmaga \u00e7\u0259tinlik t\u00f6r\u0259dir. H\u0259l\u0259 bir t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n d\u0259 can\u0131yanan qohumlarin,tan\u0131\u015flarin t\u0259zyiqi.Ba\u015fqa \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu dey\u0259s\u0259n qalm\u0131r,g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc yumub \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259kd\u0259n&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":106794,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1390841420_osnovnye-oshibki-zhenshhin-v-karere-1.jpg",565,404,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1390841420_osnovnye-oshibki-zhenshhin-v-karere-1.jpg",565,404,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1390841420_osnovnye-oshibki-zhenshhin-v-karere-1.jpg",565,404,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1390841420_osnovnye-oshibki-zhenshhin-v-karere-1-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1390841420_osnovnye-oshibki-zhenshhin-v-karere-1-300x215.jpg",300,215,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1390841420_osnovnye-oshibki-zhenshhin-v-karere-1.jpg",565,404,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1390841420_osnovnye-oshibki-zhenshhin-v-karere-1.jpg",565,404,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1390841420_osnovnye-oshibki-zhenshhin-v-karere-1.jpg",565,404,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1390841420_osnovnye-oshibki-zhenshhin-v-karere-1-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1390841420_osnovnye-oshibki-zhenshhin-v-karere-1.jpg",565,404,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?cat=1\" rel=\"category\">C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"\u00c7ox vaxt bel\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131r: G\u00f6z\u0259ldir,a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131d\u0131r,h\u0259tta karyeras\u0131n\u0131 da qurub-30 ya\u015fa az qal\u0131b ail\u0259 is\u0259 yoxdur. 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