{"id":108183,"date":"2019-12-17T08:06:58","date_gmt":"2019-12-17T05:06:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=108183"},"modified":"2019-12-17T08:06:58","modified_gmt":"2019-12-17T05:06:58","slug":"qadin-kisi-munasib%c9%99tl%c9%99rind%c9%99-xosb%c9%99xtliyin-9-qaydasi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=108183","title":{"rendered":"Qad\u0131n-ki\u015fi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259 XO\u015eB\u018fXTL\u0130Y\u0130N 9 QAYDASI"},"content":{"rendered":"

T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edin, ki\u015fi il\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131 iyirmi add\u0131m ay\u0131r\u0131r. Bu zaman t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259n biri on add\u0131m atmal\u0131 v\u0259 dayanmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f s\u0259ni g\u00f6zl\u0259mirs\u0259, on birinci add\u0131m\u0131 atma, yoxsa on ikinci, on \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc v\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn h\u0259yat\u0131n boyu add\u0131mlar\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn atmal\u0131 olacaqsan. Qoy \u00f6hd\u0259sin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259n add\u0131mlar\u0131 h\u0259r k\u0259s \u00f6z\u00fc ats\u0131n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

ARANTV.AZ\u00a0<\/b>bu yaz\u0131da oxucular\u0131 u\u011furlu m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin 9 qaydas\u0131 il\u0259 tan\u0131\u015f edib.<\/p>\n

1.<\/strong>\u00a0\u018fks\u0259r vaxt daxil\u0259n biz\u0259 yax\u0131n oldu\u011funu hiss etdiyimiz insan\u0131 h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131za daxil edirik. \u018ftraf\u0131n\u0131zdan m\u0259mnun deyilsinizs\u0259, \u00f6z q\u0259lbiniz\u0259 n\u0259z\u0259r sal\u0131n. Dost sar\u0131dan b\u0259xtinizin g\u0259tirdiyini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fczs\u0259, bunun bir s\u0259b\u0259bi var, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz d\u0259 bel\u0259siniz. Odur ki, h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131za layiqli insan daxil etm\u0259k ist\u0259yirsinizs\u0259, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz d\u0259 el\u0259 olun.<\/p>\n

2.<\/strong>\u00a0N\u0259 veririks\u0259, onu da al\u0131r\u0131q. Sevgilinizl\u0259 onun sizinl\u0259 r\u0259ftar etm\u0259sini ist\u0259diyiniz \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 davran\u0131n.<\/p>\n

3.<\/strong>\u00a0Ham\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n sevgiy\u0259 ehtiyac\u0131 var. Sevgi – s\u0259mimiyy\u0259t, inc\u0259lik, qay\u011f\u0131, m\u0259suliyy\u0259t, etibarl\u0131l\u0131q, f\u0259dakarl\u0131q v\u0259 alic\u0259nabl\u0131q dem\u0259kdir. Bu keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox g\u00f6st\u0259rs\u0259k, bunun m\u00fcqabilind\u0259 bir o q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox \u015fey qazan\u0131r\u0131q. Qorxu, q\u0131sqancl\u0131q, as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131q, manipulyasiya, n\u0259zar\u0259t, \u0259sass\u0131z iddialar v\u0259 t\u0259hqir, \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259ri m\u0259hv ed\u0259n v\u0259 sevgi il\u0259 he\u00e7 bir \u0259laq\u0259si olmayan t\u0259zah\u00fcrl\u0259rdir.<\/p>\n

4.<\/strong>\u00a0H\u0259r bir s\u00f6z\u00fcn b\u00f6y\u00fck g\u00fcc\u00fc var. Bir s\u00f6zl\u0259 \u015f\u0259fa ver\u0259, dig\u0259ri il\u0259 \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u0259 bil\u0259rsiniz. Dedikl\u0259riniz\u0259 diqq\u0259t edin. Kinay\u0259, t\u0259hqir v\u0259 m\u0259z\u0259mm\u0259t \u00fcr\u0259kd\u0259 \u015f\u0259fas\u0131 \u00e7\u0259tin olan yaralar a\u00e7\u0131r. Bunlar gerid\u00f6nm\u0259z t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir. H\u0259r bir insan\u0131n q\u0259lbind\u0259 r\u0259dd olunma qorxusu olan bir u\u015faq ya\u015fay\u0131r. Ona z\u0259r\u0259r verm\u0259kd\u0259n qorxun. S\u00f6zl\u0259rin t\u00fck\u0259nm\u0259z g\u00fcc\u00fcnd\u0259n yaln\u0131z xo\u015f iltifat, t\u0259sdiq v\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259k m\u0259qs\u0259di il\u0259 istifad\u0259 edin.<\/p>\n

5.\u00a0<\/strong>G\u00fcv\u0259n, h\u0259yat\u0131n vacib \u00fcns\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fcr. Onsuz insan \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259li, narahat, \u0259s\u0259bi v\u0259 qorxu dolu olur, bir ba\u015fqas\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc emosional t\u0259l\u0259 i\u00e7ind\u0259 hiss edir, ona el\u0259 g\u0259lir ki, s\u0259rb\u0259st n\u0259f\u0259s alma\u011fa icaz\u0259 verilmir. Q\u0131sqancl\u0131q t\u0259klik qorxusudur, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 inams\u0131zl\u0131q v\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259tsizlikdir. G\u00fcv\u0259n, \u0259sl sevginin ayr\u0131lmaz hiss\u0259sidir.<\/p>\n

6.\u00a0<\/strong>S\u0259mimi olun. Sevgi h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tsiz deyil, o ya b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n, \u00e7i\u00e7\u0259kl\u0259n\u0259n, ya da quruyub m\u0259hv olan bitki kimidir. H\u0259r \u015fey onunla n\u0259 c\u00fcr r\u0259ftar etdiyinizd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. S\u0259mimi \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t su kimidir, onsuz he\u00e7 bir bitki ya\u015faya bilm\u0259z. Bir-biriniz\u0259 arzular\u0131n\u0131z, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tiniz v\u0259 hissl\u0259riniz bar\u0259d\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Onu sevdiyinizi v\u0259 qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirdiyinizi bildirin. He\u00e7 vaxt “s\u0259ni sevir\u0259m” dem\u0259kd\u0259n qorxmay\u0131n. Qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fi t\u0259rifl\u0259m\u0259kd\u0259n d\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kinm\u0259yin. S\u0259mimi t\u0259rif bir bitki \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn g\u00fcn\u0259\u015f kimidir, bu, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259riniz\u0259 yeni n\u0259f\u0259s g\u0259tir\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n

7.\u00a0<\/strong>Sevm\u0259k hiss\u0259-hiss\u0259 v\u0259 qeyd-\u015f\u0259rtsiz \u00f6z duy\u011fular\u0131n\u0131 qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 \u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259kdir. Sevgi almaq ist\u0259yirsinizs\u0259, onu \u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259yi d\u0259 bacarmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. N\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r vers\u0259niz, bir o q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox alars\u0131n\u0131z. E\u015fq bumeranq kimidir, h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 geri qay\u0131d\u0131r. Sevgi verdiyiniz adam t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n qay\u0131tmaya bil\u0259r, amma dolay\u0131 yolla olsa da siz\u0259 qay\u0131dacaq. Y\u00fcz misli qay\u0131dacaq. Bu halda xat\u0131rlamaq vacibdir ki, sevgi ehtiyat\u0131 sizd\u0259 qeyri-m\u0259hduddur. Sevgini \u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259kl\u0259 itirmirik. Yadda saxlay\u0131n ki, i\u00e7imizd\u0259ki sevgini itirm\u0259yin yegan\u0259 yolu ba\u015fqalar\u0131na verm\u0259m\u0259kdir. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n nadir hallarda sevm\u0259sinin bir s\u0259b\u0259bi odur ki, kimins\u0259 onlar\u0131 sevm\u0259sini g\u00f6zl\u0259yirl\u0259r. Ancaq bu, musiqi\u00e7inin “\u0130nsanlar r\u0259qs etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flayanda ifa etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flayaca\u011fam\u201d dem\u0259sin\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259yir. Odun atmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ocaqdan istilik g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259yin. Xo\u015fb\u0259xt m\u00fcnasib\u0259tin gizli d\u00fcsturu bel\u0259dir: H\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yiniz \u015feyl\u0259r\u0259 deyil, n\u0259 ver\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yiniz\u0259 diqq\u0259t yetirin.<\/p>\n

8.<\/strong>\u00a0Toxunu\u015f, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri g\u00fccl\u0259ndir\u0259n, sevginin \u0259sas t\u0259zah\u00fcrl\u0259rind\u0259n biridir. Bir insana toxunmaq onun ruhuna toxunmaq dem\u0259kdir. Y\u0259qin ki, el\u0259 buna g\u00f6r\u0259 kims\u0259 bizi incitdiyi zaman: “M\u0259n\u0259 toxunma!” deyirik. Sevdiyiniz insan\u0131 motiv olmadan bel\u0259 tez-tez qucaqlay\u0131n. Britaniyal\u0131 t\u0259dqiqat\u00e7\u0131lar bu bar\u0259d\u0259 klinikada t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259 ke\u00e7iribl\u0259r. Ba\u015f c\u0259rrah suallara cavab verm\u0259k v\u0259 \u0259m\u0259liyyat\u0131n \u00fcmumi mahiyy\u0259tini izah etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259m\u0259liyyatdan \u0259vv\u0259l ax\u015fam saatlar\u0131nda pasientl\u0259rin h\u0259r birini ziyar\u0259t edib. S\u0131naq zaman\u0131 c\u0259rrah bir ne\u00e7\u0259 x\u0259st\u0259sinin \u0259lini s\u0131x\u0131b. Onlar dig\u0259rl\u0259rind\u0259n \u00fc\u00e7qat daha tez sa\u011fal\u0131b. Birin\u0259 diqq\u0259tl\u0259 toxundu\u011fumuz zaman h\u0259m bizim, h\u0259m d\u0259 onun fiziologiyas\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fir – stress hormonlar\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259viyy\u0259si azal\u0131r, sinir sistemi rahatla\u015f\u0131r, immun sisteminin v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti, emosional durum yax\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r. Buradan bel\u0259 bir q\u0259na\u0259t\u0259 g\u0259lirik ki, g\u00fcnd\u0259 7-8 n\u0259f\u0259ri qucaqlamaq x\u0259st\u0259lik riskini azald\u0131r.<\/p>\n

9.\u00a0<\/strong>Kimis\u0259 seviriks\u0259, ona azadl\u0131q verm\u0259liyik. O, q\u0259rar verm\u0259kd\u0259 s\u0259rb\u0259stdir. \u0130st\u0259diyimiz deyil, ist\u0259diyi \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 ya\u015famaqda azadd\u0131r. H\u0259r birimizin f\u0259rqli m\u00fchit\u0259, \u015f\u0259xsi “sah\u0259y\u0259” ehtiyac\u0131 var. \u0130nsanlar m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 s\u0259rb\u0259st olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar, \u0259ks halda \u00f6zl\u0259rini t\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 hiss ed\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r. Birini h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n sevirsinizs\u0259, onun ist\u0259kl\u0259rin\u0259 v\u0259 ehtiyaclar\u0131na h\u00f6rm\u0259t etm\u0259lisiniz. Sevdiyiniz insan\u0131 azad buraxmaq h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 asan olmur, amma ba\u015fqa yol yoxdur. H\u0259yat\u0131n hikm\u0259ti is\u0259 deyir: “Ba\u015fqas\u0131na n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox azadl\u0131q vers\u0259k, o da biz\u0259 bir o q\u0259d\u0259r yax\u0131n olar”.Publika.az<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edin, ki\u015fi il\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131 iyirmi add\u0131m ay\u0131r\u0131r. Bu zaman t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259n biri on add\u0131m atmal\u0131 v\u0259 dayanmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f s\u0259ni g\u00f6zl\u0259mirs\u0259, on birinci add\u0131m\u0131 atma, yoxsa on ikinci, on \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc v\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn h\u0259yat\u0131n boyu add\u0131mlar\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn atmal\u0131 olacaqsan. Qoy \u00f6hd\u0259sin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259n add\u0131mlar\u0131 h\u0259r k\u0259s \u00f6z\u00fc ats\u0131n. ARANTV.AZ\u00a0bu yaz\u0131da oxucular\u0131 u\u011furlu m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin 9 qaydas\u0131 il\u0259 tan\u0131\u015f edib. 1.\u00a0\u018fks\u0259r vaxt daxil\u0259n biz\u0259 yax\u0131n oldu\u011funu hiss etdiyimiz insan\u0131 h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131za daxil edirik. \u018ftraf\u0131n\u0131zdan m\u0259mnun deyilsinizs\u0259, \u00f6z q\u0259lbiniz\u0259 n\u0259z\u0259r sal\u0131n. Dost sar\u0131dan b\u0259xtinizin g\u0259tirdiyini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fczs\u0259, bunun bir s\u0259b\u0259bi var, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz d\u0259 bel\u0259siniz. Odur ki,…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":108184,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[24],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/relations1.jpg",800,450,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/relations1.jpg",800,450,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/relations1.jpg",800,450,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/relations1-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/relations1-300x169.jpg",300,169,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/relations1.jpg",640,360,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/relations1.jpg",800,450,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/relations1.jpg",800,450,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/relations1-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/relations1.jpg",800,450,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"Maraql\u0131<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edin, ki\u015fi il\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131 iyirmi add\u0131m ay\u0131r\u0131r. Bu zaman t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259n biri on add\u0131m atmal\u0131 v\u0259 dayanmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f s\u0259ni g\u00f6zl\u0259mirs\u0259, on birinci add\u0131m\u0131 atma, yoxsa on ikinci, on \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc v\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn h\u0259yat\u0131n boyu add\u0131mlar\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn atmal\u0131 olacaqsan. Qoy \u00f6hd\u0259sin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259n add\u0131mlar\u0131 h\u0259r k\u0259s \u00f6z\u00fc ats\u0131n. ARANTV.AZ\u00a0bu yaz\u0131da oxucular\u0131 u\u011furlu m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin 9 qaydas\u0131 il\u0259…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/108183"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=108183"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/108183\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/108184"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=108183"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=108183"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=108183"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}