Dem\u0259k olar ki, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131 probleml\u0259r m\u0259kan\u0131ndan v\u0259 zaman\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq eyni olur.
\nSosial t\u0259minat, c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 tutduqlar\u0131 m\u00f6vqe, ail\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131lar\u0131, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 il\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 yaranan \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259r v\u0259 s. Lakin probleml\u0259r qad\u0131nlar\u0131n evdar v\u0259 ya i\u015fg\u00fczar olmas\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259 bilir.
\nM\u00fcasir xan\u0131mlar\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda i\u015f m\u00fch\u00fcm rol oynay\u0131r. \u0130\u015f h\u0259yat\u0131 xan\u0131mlara \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 t\u0259sdiq etm\u0259k \u015fans\u0131 verir, s\u00f6z\u00fcn \u0259sl m\u0259nas\u0131nda, m\u00fcst\u0259qilliyin\u0259 imkan yarad\u0131r. Daha d\u0259qiq des\u0259k, xan\u0131mlar\u0131n iqtisadi as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na son qoyur. Lakin \u00e7ox vaxt qad\u0131n\u0131n i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k, karyera qurmaq arzusu qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda s\u00fcni mane\u0259l\u0259r yarad\u0131l\u0131r v\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259tin \u00f6z\u00fc \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259yin etdiyi modeld\u0259n uzaqla\u015fmayan v\u0259 bundan k\u0259nara \u00e7\u0131xma\u011f\u0131 h\u0259d\u0259fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259n evdar qad\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fc \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7\u0259kil\u0259n s\u0259rh\u0259dl\u0259r i\u00e7\u0259risind\u0259 ya\u015fama\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r. S\u00fcni mane\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 h\u00f6km s\u00fcr\u0259n stereotipl\u0259rd\u0259n, x\u00fcsus\u0259n d\u0259 bu sah\u0259d\u0259 m\u00f6vcud olan \u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n ir\u0259li g\u0259lir. B\u0259s i\u015fg\u00fczar xan\u0131mlarla evdar xan\u0131mlar\u0131n aras\u0131nda \u0259sas f\u0259rq n\u0259d\u0259n ibar\u0259tdir?<\/p>\n
Elmir \u018fkb\u0259r: \u201cKi\u015fil\u0259r a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 xan\u0131mlara \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck vermirl\u0259r\u201d<\/p>\n
Psixoloq Elmir \u018fkb\u0259rin s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, i\u015fg\u00fczar xan\u0131mlar\u0131n d\u00fcnyag\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fc evdar xan\u0131mlar\u0131n d\u00fcnyag\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u0259n \u00e7ox f\u0259rqlidir: \u201c\u0130\u015fg\u00fczar xan\u0131mlar a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 xan\u0131mlard\u0131r, b\u0259z\u0259n ki\u015fil\u0259r a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 xan\u0131mlara \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck vermirl\u0259r. S\u0259b\u0259bs\u0259 birdir, t\u00fcrkl\u0259r demi\u015fk\u0259n, tahamm\u00fcl ed\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r. Bir d\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n qad\u0131nlar c\u0259miyy\u0259t aras\u0131nda \u00e7ox olduqlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259ks\u0259r ki\u015fil\u0259r q\u0259bul etmir\u201d. Psixoloqun fikrinc\u0259, evdar qad\u0131nlara nisb\u0259t\u0259n i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n xan\u0131mlar intim m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259n uzaq olma\u011fa can at\u0131rlar. \u0130\u015fg\u00fczar qad\u0131n daha \u00e7ox \u0259traf\u0131na \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc s\u00fcb\u00fct etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn can at\u0131r. Evdar qad\u0131n\u0131n i\u015fi-g\u00fcc\u00fc is\u0259 ev i\u015fl\u0259ri v\u0259 seriyallard\u0131r.
\nBu bar\u0259d\u0259 bir \u00e7ox ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar, t\u0259dqiqatlar var. B\u0259zi evdar xan\u0131mlar \u00f6zl\u0259ri evd\u0259 qalma\u011fa, ana v\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 v\u0259zif\u0259sini layiqinc\u0259 yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259y\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck vers\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259, \u0259slind\u0259, onlar bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259n raz\u0131 deyill\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki bu zaman evdar qad\u0131nlar yaln\u0131z ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131 il\u0259 ya\u015fama\u011fa m\u0259hkum olurlar. \u00d6zl\u0259rinin maraqlar\u0131 is\u0259 diqq\u0259td\u0259n k\u0259narda qal\u0131r. Bundan ba\u015fqa, onlar \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 inams\u0131z yana\u015f\u0131r, \u00f6zl\u0259ri haqq\u0131nda m\u0259nfi r\u0259yd\u0259 olurlar. Q\u0259tiyy\u0259tsizlik d\u0259 bu qad\u0131nlar\u0131n xarakterik x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tidir.Onlar qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131qlar\u0131 probleml\u0259r qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda \u00e7ox zaman aciz qal\u0131r, depressiyaya daha tez d\u00fc\u00e7ar olurlar. \u00dcst\u0259lik, bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n \u00e7ox gec \u00e7\u0131x\u0131rlar. Ev xan\u0131m\u0131 rolunun qad\u0131na nec\u0259 t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rdiyi bar\u0259d\u0259 fikirl\u0259r b\u00f6l\u00fcns\u0259 d\u0259, ham\u0131 bu r\u0259yd\u0259dir ki, pul qazanan qad\u0131n evd\u0259 daha b\u00f6y\u00fck hakimiyy\u0259t\u0259 malikdir. \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, ail\u0259 hakimiyy\u0259ti n\u0259z\u0259riyy\u0259sin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, burada \u0259sas m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 iqtisadi imkand\u0131r. H\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131ndan maliyy\u0259 as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 olan evdar xan\u0131mlar ail\u0259d\u0259 n\u00fcfuzsuz fiqura \u00e7evrilirl\u0259r. \u0130\u015fg\u00fczar xan\u0131mlarsa ail\u0259d\u0259 daha y\u00fcks\u0259k h\u00f6rm\u0259t\u0259 malik olurlar.<\/p>\n
Evdar qad\u0131n \u201crolu\u201d is\u0259 milliy\u0259tind\u0259n, m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n d\u00f6rd bir t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259 m\u00f6vcuddur v\u0259 qad\u0131nlar\u0131n b\u00f6y\u00fck \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n oynan\u0131l\u0131r.
\nBu xarakter, dem\u0259k olar ki, h\u0259r bir q\u0131z\u0131n u\u015faql\u0131q ill\u0259rind\u0259n arzulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 bir g\u00fcn m\u00fctl\u0259q ya\u015famaq ist\u0259diyi modeldir. Bu m\u00f6vzuda onlara n\u00fcmun\u0259 olan \u0259n yax\u0131n insan da analar\u0131d\u0131r. Analar\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 \u0259traflar\u0131ndak\u0131 dig\u0259r qad\u0131nlar\u0131 m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 etm\u0259l\u0259ri n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 yetkin bir qad\u0131n\u0131n nec\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t\u0259 sahib olaca\u011f\u0131, h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 hans\u0131 ideallar \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 quraca\u011f\u0131, ya da g\u00fcnl\u0259rini nec\u0259 ke\u00e7ir\u0259c\u0259yi haqq\u0131nda u\u015faqlar\u0131n a\u011f\u0131llar\u0131nda yava\u015f-yava\u015f bir model formala\u015fma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r. Yax\u015f\u0131 ail\u0259 qurmaq, g\u00f6z\u0259l ev sahibi olub, sa\u011flam u\u015faqlar d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirm\u0259k, qohum v\u0259 dostlara qonaq getm\u0259k, u\u015faqlar\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259si, al\u0131\u015f-veri\u015f, ev t\u0259mizliyi v\u0259 buna b\u0259nz\u0259r i\u015fl\u0259r bu modelin t\u0259m\u0259l xarakterini meydana g\u0259tirir.
\nKimi evdarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 pe\u015f\u0259 kimi q\u0259bul edir, kimi i\u015fsizlik, kimi d\u0259 sad\u0259c\u0259 h\u0259yat t\u0259rzi. B\u0259zil\u0259rinin fikrin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 is\u0259, evdarl\u0131q qad\u0131n\u0131n yara\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Amma he\u00e7 kim b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00f6rd divar aras\u0131nda ke\u00e7irm\u0259yi a\u011fl\u0131ndan bel\u0259 ke\u00e7irmir. M\u0259kt\u0259bi bitir\u0259n \u0259n ucqar da\u011f q\u0131z\u0131 da ali savad al\u0131b, diplomlu xan\u0131m olmaq arzusundad\u0131r. Lakin bir \u015fey d\u0259 var ki, \u00e7ox vaxt ail\u0259 quran q\u0131zlar arzulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015fin, karyeran\u0131n arxas\u0131nca ged\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r.
\nB\u0259s g\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n, qad\u0131n n\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 i\u015find\u0259n v\u0259 ya i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yi pe\u015f\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n imtina edib, evd\u0259 oturma\u011fa m\u0259cbur olur? \u018fn \u00e7ox qar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131lan s\u0259b\u0259b \u0259rin ist\u0259yi v\u0259 ya t\u0259l\u0259bidir. Buna ki\u015finin d\u00fcnyag\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fc, h\u0259dd\u0259n art\u0131q q\u0131sqancl\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u0259b\u0259b ola bilir. Psixoloqlar\u0131n q\u0259na\u0259tin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, \u00e7ox ki\u015fil\u0259r is\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131n iqtisadi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n azad olmas\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259mir. Onlar hesab edir ki, qad\u0131n\u0131n maddi t\u0259l\u0259bat\u0131n\u0131 ki\u015fi \u00f6d\u0259m\u0259lidir v\u0259 qad\u0131n \u0259n x\u0131rda ehtiyaclar\u0131n\u0131 bel\u0259 \u0259rin\u0259 deyib, ondan pul al\u0131b, sonra al\u0131\u015f-veri\u015f\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Qad\u0131n\u0131n i\u015fl\u0259yib, m\u00fcst\u0259qil olaraq qazanmas\u0131 v\u0259 pul sar\u0131dan korluq \u00e7\u0259km\u0259m\u0259si \u00e7ox ki\u015fil\u0259ri qane etmir.
\nQad\u0131n karyeras\u0131 arxas\u0131nda k\u00f6lg\u0259d\u0259 qalmaq is\u0259 ki\u015fi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259sl faci\u0259dir. M\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti d\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131n karyera sah\u0259sind\u0259 u\u011furlar\u0131na tab g\u0259tirm\u0259y\u0259n ki\u015fil\u0259rin ucbat\u0131ndan olur.
\nQad\u0131n\u0131n i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259m\u0259sinin ba\u015fqa bir ne\u00e7\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259bi il\u0259 d\u0259 rastla\u015fmaq olur. Bel\u0259 ki, b\u0259zi qad\u0131nlar \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc he\u00e7 bir s\u0259n\u0259t, pe\u015f\u0259, elm yolunda g\u00f6rm\u00fcr v\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 ail\u0259sin\u0259, oca\u011f\u0131na, u\u015faqlar\u0131na h\u0259sr etm\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131rd\u0131r. Yaxud da qad\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 inam v\u0259 q\u00fcvv\u0259 tap\u0131b, yolda\u015f\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259l\u0259bl\u0259rini ir\u0259li s\u00fcr\u0259 bilmir v\u0259 bel\u0259likl\u0259 d\u0259, onun i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k arzusu h\u0259yata ke\u00e7mir. Bir \u00e7ox qad\u0131nlar arzulamad\u0131qlar\u0131 bu h\u0259yat t\u0259rzin\u0259 uy\u011funla\u015fa bilmirl\u0259r. Psixoloqlar\u0131n fikrinc\u0259, evdar h\u0259yat t\u0259rzin\u0259 uy\u011funla\u015fa bilm\u0259y\u0259n v\u0259 bu \u015f\u0259rait\u0259 d\u00f6zm\u0259y\u0259n qad\u0131nlar hamil\u0259liy\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox aktiv h\u0259yat s\u00fcr\u0259n qad\u0131nlard\u0131r. Bu xan\u0131mlara yeni \u015f\u0259rait\u0259 adaptasiya olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fctl\u0259q v\u0259 m\u00fctl\u0259q psixoloq k\u00f6m\u0259yi laz\u0131m olur. Lakin evdar qad\u0131n\u0131n psixikas\u0131n\u0131 xilas ed\u0259c\u0259k v\u0259 onu sabaha ruhland\u0131racaq bir s\u0131ra i\u015fl\u0259r, amill\u0259r var. Bunlara kitab-jurnal oxumaq, \u015firniyyat bi\u015firm\u0259yin sirrl\u0259rini \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k, \u0259lav\u0259 pe\u015f\u0259 kurslar\u0131na yaz\u0131lmaq, komp\u00fcter oyunlar\u0131, yoqa v\u0259 fitness, toxuma v\u0259 tiki\u015f \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k, r\u0259qs\u0259 getm\u0259k, parkda g\u0259zm\u0259k, dig\u0259r analarla tan\u0131\u015fl\u0131q, s\u00f6hb\u0259t, din v\u0259 ibad\u0259tl\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olmaq, m\u00fcxt\u0259lif vanna v\u0259 maskalardan istifad\u0259 etm\u0259k v\u0259 dig\u0259r m\u0259\u015f\u011fuliyy\u0259tl\u0259r aiddir.
\n\u018fslind\u0259 bu g\u00f6z\u0259l vasit\u0259l\u0259r v\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259r karyera quran, b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc yolda v\u0259 i\u015fd\u0259 ke\u00e7ir\u0259n ist\u0259nil\u0259n qad\u0131n\u0131n \u0259n gizli arzular\u0131d\u0131r. Onlar bunlar\u0131 etm\u0259y\u0259 vaxt tapm\u0131r, evdar qad\u0131nlarsa b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlarla m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olma\u011fa kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r vaxtlar\u0131 olsa bel\u0259, etmirl\u0259r.
\nB\u0259s g\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n, kim daha xo\u015fb\u0259xtdir? G\u00fcnd\u00fczl\u0259r i\u015f\u0259, ax\u015famlar evin\u0259, do\u011fmalar\u0131na yem\u0259k haz\u0131rlamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259l\u0259s\u0259n xan\u0131mlar, yoxsa b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc m\u0259tb\u0259xd\u0259, ail\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131lar\u0131 i\u00e7\u0259risind\u0259 ke\u00e7ir\u0259n qad\u0131nlar?<\/p>\n
\u0130rad\u0259 \u0130saq: \u201cYaln\u0131z daxil\u0259n azad qad\u0131nlar i\u015f h\u0259yat\u0131na can at\u0131r\u201d<\/p>\n
Tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f jurnalist \u0130rad\u0259 \u0130saq\u0131n da bu bar\u0259d\u0259 fikirl\u0259rini \u00f6yr\u0259ndik. Evdar qad\u0131nlar\u0131 as\u0131l\u0131, i\u015fg\u00fczar qad\u0131nlar\u0131 is\u0259 azad qad\u0131n kimi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndir\u0259n \u0130rad\u0259 \u0130saq m\u0259hz azad qad\u0131n\u0131n daha xo\u015fb\u0259xt oldu\u011funu deyir. C\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259m\u0259xsus f\u0259al m\u00f6vqeyi olan jurnalist xan\u0131m \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc q\u0259tiyy\u0259n evdar xan\u0131mlar\u0131n s\u0131ras\u0131na qoya bilm\u0259diyini deyir: \u201c\u018fg\u0259r des\u0259m ki, i\u015fl\u0259rim imkan vermir ev i\u015fl\u0259ri g\u00f6rm\u0259y\u0259, s\u0259mimi olmaram. Yox, m\u0259n s\u0131rf i\u015fim olmasa bel\u0259, ev i\u015fl\u0259ri il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olma\u011f\u0131 xo\u015flam\u0131ram. Amma m\u0259ni tan\u0131yanlar bilir ki, m\u0259n evdarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yax\u015f\u0131 bacar\u0131ram ve \u00e7ox s\u0259liq\u0259liy\u0259m. Sad\u0259c\u0259 ev i\u015fl\u0259ri g\u00f6rm\u0259yi xo\u015flam\u0131ram\u201d. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc s\u0131rf i\u015f qad\u0131n\u0131 hesab ed\u0259n \u0130rad\u0259 xan\u0131m\u0131n bunu psixoloji hadis\u0259 kimi qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirir. O bildirir ki, ev i\u015fl\u0259rin\u0259 s\u0259rf etdiyi vaxt\u0131 itirdiyi zamandan say\u0131r: \u201cAncaq m\u0259n qad\u0131nlar\u0131n ad\u0131ndan da dan\u0131\u015fa bilm\u0259r\u0259m. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, m\u0259nim anam da s\u0131rf evdarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 xo\u015flay\u0131r. Bununla da he\u00e7 kimi q\u0131naya bilm\u0259rik. Kimin n\u0259y\u0259 qabiliyy\u0259ti \u00e7at\u0131r, n\u0259y\u0259 h\u0259v\u0259si var, onunla da m\u0259\u015f\u011fuldur\u201d. Evdar qad\u0131nlar\u0131n psixologiyas\u0131ndan da b\u0259hs ed\u0259n m\u00fcsahibimiz qeyd edir ki, evdar qad\u0131nlar daha tez yolag\u0259l\u0259ndir, onlar \u00f6zl\u0259rini ve a\u011f\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131 da \u00e7ox \u0259ziyy\u0259t\u0259 salmaq ist\u0259mirl\u0259r. Onun fikrinc\u0259, evdar qad\u0131nlar h\u0259yata haz\u0131r deyill\u0259r. \u0130\u015fg\u00fczar qad\u0131nlar is\u0259 daha \u00e7ox h\u0259yata tabe olma\u011f\u0131 sevm\u0259y\u0259nl\u0259rdir: \u201cOnlar \u00f6z talel\u0259rini \u00f6zl\u0259ri t\u0259yin etmek ist\u0259yirlar. \u00c7ox vaxt buna nail olurlar da\u201d. Onun fikrinc\u0259, yaln\u0131z daxil\u0259n azad qad\u0131nlar i\u015f h\u0259yat\u0131na can at\u0131r: \u201c\u00c7\u00fcnki bilirik ki, yaln\u0131z iqtisadi t\u0259minat azadl\u0131\u011f\u0131n qarant\u0131d\u0131r. M\u0259n \u015fablon s\u00f6zl\u0259rd\u0259n qa\u00e7ma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131ram. \u00c7oxlar\u0131 etiraf etm\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259s\u0259 d\u0259, h\u0259qiq\u0259t budur\u201d.<\/p>\n
\u018fslind\u0259 m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 \u0259saslanaraq dey\u0259 bil\u0259rik ki, s\u0259h\u0259r a\u00e7\u0131lan kimi m\u0259tb\u0259x\u0259 ke\u00e7ib, \u0259ynin\u0259 \u00f6nl\u00fck tax\u0131b, bi\u015f-d\u00fc\u015f\u0259 ba\u015flayan qad\u0131n p\u0259nc\u0259r\u0259d\u0259n boylanaraq,\u00a0i\u015f\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259s\u0259n,g\u00f6z\u0259l geyimli qon\u015fu qad\u0131na bax\u0131b d\u0259rind\u0259n k\u00f6ks \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrs\u0259 d\u0259, ax\u015fam yor\u011fun ayaqlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fccl\u0259 s\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fcb, evin\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259s\u0259n i\u015fg\u00fczar qad\u0131n da art\u0131q yem\u0259yi haz\u0131r olub, p\u0259nc\u0259r qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda ail\u0259sini g\u00f6zl\u0259y\u0259n evdar xan\u0131mlara h\u0259s\u0259dl\u0259 bax\u0131rlar. H\u0259yat bel\u0259dir, insan \u0259lind\u0259 olanlarla yox, olmayanlarla daha xo\u015fb\u0259xt olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sanar. Qad\u0131nlar is\u0259 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 \u00f6zg\u0259sind\u0259 olan\u0131n h\u0259sr\u0259ti il\u0259 ya\u015fayar v\u0259 \u00f6z talel\u0259ri il\u0259 bar\u0131\u015fmazlar.<\/p>\n
Qad\u0131n\u0131n karyeras\u0131n\u0131 m\u0259hdudla\u015fd\u0131ran bir \u00e7ox ki\u015fil\u0259r bunu ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259, \u0259slind\u0259 ail\u0259d\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131n i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259yi bir \u00e7ox probleml\u0259rin h\u0259llin\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k etmi\u015f olur v\u0259 bir s\u0131ra \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fckl\u0259r\u0259 malikdir. Maddi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n bu ail\u0259 daha t\u0259min edilmi\u015f olur. Bu is\u0259 o dem\u0259kdir ki, \u0259r-arvad aras\u0131nda pul \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 m\u00fcbahis\u0259 az-az ba\u015f verir. Dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n, bu bir h\u0259qiq\u0259tdir ki, u\u015faq evd\u0259 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 anas\u0131ndan pul ist\u0259y\u0259r. Ana bu ist\u0259yi qar\u015f\u0131laya bilm\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 ana il\u0259 \u00f6vlad aras\u0131nda m\u00fcbahis\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. \u0130\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n analar is\u0259 maddi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n h\u0259m \u00f6z \u00fcr\u0259yind\u0259n, h\u0259m d\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcr\u0259yind\u0259n ke\u00e7\u0259nl\u0259ri h\u0259yata ke\u00e7ir\u0259 bilir. Bu h\u0259m atan\u0131n \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259ki y\u00fck\u00fc azald\u0131r, h\u0259m d\u0259 valideynl\u0259 u\u015faqlar aras\u0131nda xo\u015f m\u00fcnasib\u0259t yarad\u0131r. \u00dcst\u00fcn c\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 odur ki, he\u00e7 vaxt i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259n qad\u0131n bir n\u00f6v q\u0259na\u0259tcil olmur v\u0259 pul q\u0259dri bilmir. B\u0259z\u0259n is\u0259 g\u0259r\u0259ksiz \u015feyl\u0259r\u0259 pul verir, ba\u015fqa yerl\u0259rd\u0259 ucuz olan bir \u015feyi ilk g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fc yerd\u0259c\u0259 baha qiym\u0259t\u0259 al\u0131r.<\/p>\n
R\u0259fiq\u0259l\u0259rinin v\u0259 ya qon\u015fu qad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u0259ynind\u0259 t\u0259z\u0259 bir \u015fey g\u00f6r\u0259nd\u0259 qan\u0131 qaral\u0131r v\u0259 m\u00fctl\u0259q bu, \u0259ri il\u0259 aras\u0131nda m\u00fcbahis\u0259y\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olur.\u00a0\u0130\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n qad\u0131nsa pulun nec\u0259 z\u0259hm\u0259tl\u0259 qazan\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ox g\u00f6z\u0259l anlay\u0131r, maa\u015f\u0131 nec\u0259 x\u0259rclm\u0259yi bacar\u0131r. H\u0259m\u00e7inin, i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n qad\u0131n evdar qad\u0131na nisb\u0259t\u0259n daha cavan, bax\u0131ml\u0131 v\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, bu da ki\u015fil\u0259rin \u00fcr\u0259yinc\u0259 olur. Eyni zamanda, i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n qad\u0131nla h\u0259yat daha maraql\u0131 olur. \u018fn az\u0131 i\u015fd\u0259n sonra \u0259r-arvad g\u00fcn \u0259rzind\u0259 ba\u015flar\u0131na g\u0259l\u0259nl\u0259ri dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar.
\nLakin i\u015fg\u00fczar xan\u0131mlar\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131 he\u00e7 d\u0259 problemsiz deyil. Bizim xan\u0131mlar\u0131m\u0131z i\u015fl\u0259s\u0259l\u0259r bel\u0259, ictimai h\u0259yatda h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 passiv m\u00f6vqed\u0259 dayan\u0131rlar v\u0259 ya dayanmal\u0131 olurlar. Bu, milli ad\u0259t-\u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259rimizd\u0259n, t\u0259rbiy\u0259 \u00fcsulumuzdan ir\u0259li g\u0259lir. Bel\u0259 ki, bir qayda olaraq, Az\u0259rbaycan ail\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 q\u0131zlara \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc yax\u015f\u0131 aparma\u011f\u0131, daha d\u0259qiq des\u0259k, h\u0259r \u015feyl\u0259 raz\u0131la\u015fma\u011f\u0131, mehribanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259dirl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki m\u0259hz qad\u0131nlar \u0259n\u0259n\u0259 v\u0259 etik normalar\u0131n da\u015f\u0131y\u0131c\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. Dig\u0259r promleml\u0259r\u0259 g\u0259linc\u0259, n\u0259d\u0259ns\u0259, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u0259m\u0259yi ki\u015fil\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirilir. Qad\u0131n i\u015finin asan i\u015f kimi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirilm\u0259sin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 q\u0259ti etirazlar\u0131n\u0131 bildirirl\u0259r.
\nHe\u00e7 bir insan\u0131n, qad\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131 probleml\u0259rd\u0259n s\u0131\u011fortalanmay\u0131b. \u018fn \u0259sas\u0131 odur ki, evdar v\u0259 ya i\u015fg\u00fczar olmas\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq, qad\u0131n problem\u0259 bel\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc layiqinc\u0259 t\u0259qdim ed\u0259 bilsin v\u0259 \u0259zml\u0259, inamla onun \u00f6hd\u0259sind\u0259n g\u0259lsin. El\u0259 is\u0259 u\u011furlar!<\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Dem\u0259k olar ki, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131 probleml\u0259r m\u0259kan\u0131ndan v\u0259 zaman\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq eyni olur. Sosial t\u0259minat, c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 tutduqlar\u0131 m\u00f6vqe, ail\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131lar\u0131, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 il\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 yaranan \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259r v\u0259 s. Lakin probleml\u0259r qad\u0131nlar\u0131n evdar v\u0259 ya i\u015fg\u00fczar olmas\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259 bilir. M\u00fcasir xan\u0131mlar\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda i\u015f m\u00fch\u00fcm rol oynay\u0131r. \u0130\u015f h\u0259yat\u0131 xan\u0131mlara \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 t\u0259sdiq etm\u0259k \u015fans\u0131 verir, s\u00f6z\u00fcn \u0259sl m\u0259nas\u0131nda, m\u00fcst\u0259qilliyin\u0259 imkan yarad\u0131r. Daha d\u0259qiq des\u0259k, xan\u0131mlar\u0131n iqtisadi as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na son qoyur. Lakin \u00e7ox vaxt qad\u0131n\u0131n i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k, karyera qurmaq arzusu qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda s\u00fcni mane\u0259l\u0259r yarad\u0131l\u0131r v\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259tin \u00f6z\u00fc \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259yin etdiyi modeld\u0259n uzaqla\u015fmayan v\u0259…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":108822,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1524821933_screenshot_2.jpg",660,371,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1524821933_screenshot_2.jpg",660,371,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1524821933_screenshot_2.jpg",660,371,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1524821933_screenshot_2-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1524821933_screenshot_2-300x169.jpg",300,169,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1524821933_screenshot_2.jpg",640,360,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1524821933_screenshot_2.jpg",660,371,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1524821933_screenshot_2.jpg",660,371,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1524821933_screenshot_2-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/1524821933_screenshot_2.jpg",660,371,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Dem\u0259k olar ki, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131 probleml\u0259r m\u0259kan\u0131ndan v\u0259 zaman\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq eyni olur. Sosial t\u0259minat, c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 tutduqlar\u0131 m\u00f6vqe, ail\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131lar\u0131, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 il\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 yaranan \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259r v\u0259 s. Lakin probleml\u0259r qad\u0131nlar\u0131n evdar v\u0259 ya i\u015fg\u00fczar olmas\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259 bilir. M\u00fcasir xan\u0131mlar\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda i\u015f m\u00fch\u00fcm rol oynay\u0131r. \u0130\u015f h\u0259yat\u0131 xan\u0131mlara \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 t\u0259sdiq etm\u0259k \u015fans\u0131 verir,…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/108821"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=108821"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/108821\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/108822"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=108821"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=108821"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=108821"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}