{"id":114008,"date":"2019-12-30T13:35:20","date_gmt":"2019-12-30T10:35:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=114008"},"modified":"2019-12-30T13:35:20","modified_gmt":"2019-12-30T10:35:20","slug":"butun-qadin-probleml%c9%99ri-buradan-qaynaqlanir-dahi-psixoloqun-k%c9%99sfi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=114008","title":{"rendered":"B\u00fct\u00fcn qad\u0131n probleml\u0259ri buradan qaynaqlan\u0131r &#8211; Dahi psixoloqun K\u018f\u015eF\u0130"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ham\u0131m\u0131z yax\u015f\u0131 bilirik ki, s\u0259hvl\u0259ri etiraf etm\u0259k \u00e7\u0259tin olur.<\/p>\n<p>B\u0259z\u0259n haqs\u0131z oldu\u011fumuzu bil\u0259-bil\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc m\u00fcdafi\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259, k\u00fcsm\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 hirsl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 davam edirik. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 neqativ v\u0259 aqressiya h\u0259m \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u0259, h\u0259m d\u0259 yax\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131za qay\u0131d\u0131r. Bu halda evd\u0259 ail\u0259daxili m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259r v\u0259 g\u0259rginlik yaranr.<\/p>\n<p>R\u0259fiq\u0259l\u0259r bir yer\u0259 y\u0131\u011f\u0131\u015fanda tez-tez \u00f6z m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t probleml\u0259rini m\u00fczkair\u0259 edir, \u0259rl\u0259rind\u0259n \u015fikay\u0259t etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131rlar. Lakin psixoloqlar m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6r\u00fcr ki, qad\u0131nlar birinci n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6z daxili probleml\u0259rini h\u0259ll etm\u0259lidir. V\u0259 \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn ki\u015fil\u0259ri g\u00fcnahland\u0131rma\u011f\u0131 dayand\u0131rmal\u0131d\u0131r. Psixoloq Mixail Labkovskiy \u0259mindir ki, \u0259g\u0259r qad\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259 ancaq neqativ g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u0259, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn ail\u0259d\u0259ki m\u00f6vqeyini ciddi n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259n ke\u00e7irm\u0259y\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259r.<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<p><strong>ARANTV.AZ<\/strong>\u00a0 m\u0259\u015fhur psixoloqun ail\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri v\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsi probleml\u0259rin h\u0259lli il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259ri il\u0259 tan\u0131\u015f edir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik s\u0259nd\u0259 gizl\u0259nib<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>El\u0259 insanlar var ki, uzaqdan xo\u015fb\u0259xt olduqlar\u0131 d\u0259rhal se\u00e7ilir. Onlar\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda h\u0259r \u015fey qaydas\u0131ndad\u0131r: sevimli \u0259r, u\u015faqlar, g\u00f6z\u0259l karyera v\u0259 s. Bel\u0259 insanlara h\u0259s\u0259d aparmaq yox, sad\u0259c\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. \u018fsas m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 qavray\u0131\u015f v\u0259 emosional durumdan as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. Raz\u0131 olma\u011f\u0131, ki\u00e7ik \u015feyl\u0259rd\u0259n sevinm\u0259yi \u00f6yr\u0259nin. Onda \u0259traf\u0131ndak\u0131lar\u0131n tamamil\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fdiyini \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz d\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259c\u0259ksiniz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Qad\u0131nlara da seks laz\u0131md\u0131r<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Qad\u0131nlara seks laz\u0131m deyil&#8221; fikri d\u00fcz deyil, onlar\u0131n da ki\u015fil\u0259r q\u0259d\u0259r intim ehtiyaclar\u0131 var. Lakin bu hissl\u0259r qad\u0131nlarda n\u0259vazi\u015f v\u0259 mehribanl\u0131qla ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Ki\u015fil\u0259ri ittiham etm\u0259k, onlar\u0131 heyvani v\u0259 \u00f6z primitiv t\u0259l\u0259batlar\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 g\u00fcnahland\u0131rmaq \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 t\u0259\u015f\u0259bb\u00fcs\u00fc \u00f6z \u0259lin\u0259 alma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f. Qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 n\u0259 ist\u0259diyini v\u0259 n\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n xo\u015fun g\u0259ldiyini de. Ola bilsin ki, siz bir-birinizi t\u0259\u0259cc\u00fcbl\u0259ndir\u0259 bildiniz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00dcr\u0259kd\u0259n ist\u0259<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Statistikaya s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmaq al\u0131nmayacaq! Gender r\u0259q\u0259ml\u0259rind\u0259 bo\u015fanmaq v\u0259 yenid\u0259n nikaha daxil olmaq imkan\u0131 \u00e7oxdan tarazla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131l\u0131b. B\u0259s niy\u0259 b\u0259zi qad\u0131nlar he\u00e7 bir d\u0259f\u0259 d\u0259 olsun ail\u0259 qura bilmir, dig\u0259rl\u0259ri is\u0259 bir ne\u00e7\u0259 d\u0259f\u0259 \u0259r\u0259 gedir? M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 psixikadad\u0131r. Burada n\u0259 zahiri g\u00f6rk\u0259m, n\u0259 d\u0259 xarakter rol oyanm\u0131r. H\u0259r bir insan xo\u015fb\u0259xt ya\u015faya bil\u0259r, sad\u0259c\u0259 bunu \u00fcr\u0259kd\u0259n ist\u0259km\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>He\u00e7 bir norma yoxdur<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u018fg\u0259r s\u0259n\u0259 t\u0259k yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131rsa, qoy bel\u0259 d\u0259 olsun. T\u0259nhal\u0131q qorxusu 80 ya\u015fdan sonra yaranmal\u0131d\u0131r, ondan tez yox. \u00c7\u00fcnki t\u0259klik yaln\u0131z \u00f6l\u00fcm yata\u011f\u0131nda diskomfort verir. S\u0259n g\u0259nc v\u0259 g\u00fccl\u00fcs\u0259n, t\u0259kliyi c\u0259sar\u0259tl\u0259 t\u0259bii hal kimi qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndir. Odur ki, yar\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc kompleks\u0259 salma\u011fa son ver!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik = sabit psixoloji durum<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Harmoniya g\u00fcz\u0259\u015ft\u0259 getm\u0259kd\u0259dir&#8221; fikri \u0259fsan\u0259dir. G\u00fcz\u0259\u015ft n\u0259 s\u0259n\u0259, n\u0259 d\u0259 s\u0259nin t\u0259r\u0259f m\u00fcqabilin\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik g\u0259tirm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. Ail\u0259d\u0259 rahat, sa\u011flam ab-hava o zaman h\u00f6km s\u00fcr\u0259c\u0259k ki, siz ikiniz d\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rinizd\u0259n raz\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Normal m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r yaln\u0131z o adamla qura bil\u0259r ki, onlar \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc v\u0259 bir-birini sevirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>M\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri qurmurlar<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fd\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 bir az dinc\u0259l. Ail\u0259 s\u0259nin ikinci i\u015fin deyil. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 pul \u00f6d\u0259nilmir. M\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k laz\u0131m deyil, \u00e7\u00fcnki onlar ya var, ya da yoxdur. Yegan\u0259 \u015f\u0259rt: \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc oldu\u011fun kimi q\u0259bul et. Eyni zamanda partniyonu d\u0259yi\u015fdirm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma. Yenid\u0259n t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etm\u0259k, d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k, d\u00fcz\u0259ltm\u0259k laz\u0131m deyil. \u018fg\u0259r xo\u015funa g\u0259lmirs\u0259, ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131 tapmaq laz\u0131m g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Yekun<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ail\u0259d\u0259 harmoniyan\u0131n sirri \u00e7ox sad\u0259dir. O qad\u0131nda &#8211; s\u0259nd\u0259 gizl\u0259nib. S\u0259n h\u0259m m\u00fcsb\u0259t, h\u0259m d\u0259 m\u0259nfi emosiyalar\u0131 \u00e7\u0259k\u0259 bil\u0259rs\u0259n. \u018ftrafda yaln\u0131z yax\u015f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u0259yi \u00f6yr\u0259nin, bel\u0259 q\u0259rardan sonra h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n nec\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fdiyin\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn d\u0259 t\u0259\u0259cc\u00fcb ed\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259n.Publika.az<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ham\u0131m\u0131z yax\u015f\u0131 bilirik ki, s\u0259hvl\u0259ri etiraf etm\u0259k \u00e7\u0259tin olur. B\u0259z\u0259n haqs\u0131z oldu\u011fumuzu bil\u0259-bil\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc m\u00fcdafi\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259, k\u00fcsm\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 hirsl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 davam edirik. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 neqativ v\u0259 aqressiya h\u0259m \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u0259, h\u0259m d\u0259 yax\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131za qay\u0131d\u0131r. Bu halda evd\u0259 ail\u0259daxili m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259r v\u0259 g\u0259rginlik yaranr. R\u0259fiq\u0259l\u0259r bir yer\u0259 y\u0131\u011f\u0131\u015fanda tez-tez \u00f6z m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t probleml\u0259rini m\u00fczkair\u0259 edir, \u0259rl\u0259rind\u0259n \u015fikay\u0259t etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131rlar. Lakin psixoloqlar m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6r\u00fcr ki, qad\u0131nlar birinci n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6z daxili probleml\u0259rini h\u0259ll etm\u0259lidir. V\u0259 \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn ki\u015fil\u0259ri g\u00fcnahland\u0131rma\u011f\u0131 dayand\u0131rmal\u0131d\u0131r. Psixoloq Mixail Labkovskiy \u0259mindir ki, \u0259g\u0259r qad\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259 ancaq neqativ g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u0259, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn ail\u0259d\u0259ki m\u00f6vqeyini ciddi n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259n&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":114009,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/qadin_problemi.jpg",640,435,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/qadin_problemi.jpg",640,435,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/qadin_problemi.jpg",640,435,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/qadin_problemi-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/qadin_problemi-300x204.jpg",300,204,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/qadin_problemi.jpg",640,435,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/qadin_problemi.jpg",640,435,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/qadin_problemi.jpg",640,435,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/qadin_problemi-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/qadin_problemi.jpg",640,435,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?cat=1\" rel=\"category\">C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Ham\u0131m\u0131z yax\u015f\u0131 bilirik ki, s\u0259hvl\u0259ri etiraf etm\u0259k \u00e7\u0259tin olur. B\u0259z\u0259n haqs\u0131z oldu\u011fumuzu bil\u0259-bil\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc m\u00fcdafi\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259, k\u00fcsm\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 hirsl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 davam edirik. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 neqativ v\u0259 aqressiya h\u0259m \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u0259, h\u0259m d\u0259 yax\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131za qay\u0131d\u0131r. Bu halda evd\u0259 ail\u0259daxili m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259r v\u0259 g\u0259rginlik yaranr. R\u0259fiq\u0259l\u0259r bir yer\u0259 y\u0131\u011f\u0131\u015fanda tez-tez \u00f6z m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t probleml\u0259rini m\u00fczkair\u0259 edir, \u0259rl\u0259rind\u0259n \u015fikay\u0259t etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131rlar. 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