Bo\u015fand\u0131qdan sonra u\u015faqlar\u0131n ata il\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u0259sin\u0259 mane\u00e7ilik t\u00f6r\u0259dilm\u0259si problemi \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 bo\u015fanan ail\u0259l\u0259rin 98-99 faizind\u0259 m\u00f6vcuddur.
\nBunun t\u0259bii ki, m\u00fcxt\u0259lif s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri var. \u018fn vacib s\u0259b\u0259b g\u0259ncl\u0259rin, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n ke\u00e7mi\u015f h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131na aqressiya il\u0259 yana\u015fmas\u0131d\u0131r. Qad\u0131nlar \u00e7ox zaman u\u015faqlardan bo\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 silah kimi istifad\u0259 edir. Bu, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn ac\u0131 h\u0259qiq\u0259tidir.<\/p>\n
Bu davran\u0131\u015f is\u0259 \u00e7ox zaman ac\u0131 sonluqla n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259nir.
\nBo\u015fanma zaman\u0131 u\u015faq kiml\u0259 qalmal\u0131d\u0131r? U\u015faq anaya verilirs\u0259, ata u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 nec\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 bil\u0259r? Bu h\u00fcquqi bax\u0131mdan nec\u0259 t\u0259nziml\u0259nir?
\nH\u00fcquq\u015f\u00fcnas F\u0259rid H\u0259midli Sputnik Az\u0259rbaycan-a a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda bildirib ki, u\u015faq ail\u0259d\u0259 onun maraqlar\u0131na toxunan ist\u0259nil\u0259n m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin h\u0259lli zaman\u0131 \u00f6z fikrini bildirm\u0259k, habel\u0259 m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259 istintaq\u0131 v\u0259 inzibati ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar\u0131n gedi\u015find\u0259 dinl\u0259nilm\u0259k h\u00fcququna malikdir. F. H\u0259midli h\u0259m\u00e7inin \u0259lav\u0259 edib ki, BMT Ba\u015f M\u0259clisinin 1386 (XIV) n\u00f6mr\u0259li, 20 noyabr 1959-cu il tarixli q\u0259tnam\u0259si il\u0259 q\u0259bul olunmu\u015f U\u015faq H\u00fcquqlar\u0131 B\u0259yannam\u0259sinin 6-c\u0131 prinsipin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 azya\u015fl\u0131 u\u015faq m\u00fcst\u0259sna hallardan ba\u015fqa, anas\u0131ndan al\u0131na bilm\u0259z: “Burada m\u00fcst\u0259sna hallar dedikd\u0259, anan\u0131n u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259si v\u0259 inki\u015faf\u0131 il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olmaq imkan\u0131ndan m\u0259hrum olmas\u0131na d\u0259lal\u0259t ed\u0259n hallar ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcl\u00fcr. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, anan\u0131n psixi x\u0259st\u0259liyi, narkomaniya, alkoqolizm v\u0259 a\u011f\u0131r x\u0259st\u0259likd\u0259n \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259km\u0259si, u\u015faqla q\u0259ddar r\u0259ftara yol verm\u0259si, onlara qar\u015f\u0131 psixi v\u0259 fiziki zor t\u0259tbiq etm\u0259si, valideynlik h\u00fcquqlar\u0131ndan sui-istifad\u0259 etm\u0259si v\u0259 s. n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutulur”.
\nH\u00fcquq\u015f\u00fcnas qeyd edir ki, ancaq m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 h\u0259r bir i\u015f\u0259 f\u0259rdi bax\u0131l\u0131r. Y\u0259ni bo\u015fanma zaman\u0131 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n kiminl\u0259 qalmas\u0131 m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259 prosesi zaman\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259nl\u0259\u015fdirilir. U\u015faq azya\u015fl\u0131d\u0131rsa v\u0259 anan\u0131n saxlama qabiliyy\u0259ti varsa \u00e7ox zaman u\u015faqlar anada qal\u0131r: “B\u0259z\u0259n is\u0259 valideynl\u0259r qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 anla\u015fma il\u0259 ayr\u0131l\u0131r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, ail\u0259d\u0259 iki u\u015faq varsa biri anaya, dig\u0259ri ataya verilir. B\u0259z\u0259n is\u0259 anan\u0131n v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 al\u0131naraq u\u015faqlar ataya verilir”.
\nF. H\u0259midli \u0259lav\u0259 edib ki, u\u015faq ana il\u0259 qal\u0131bsa, m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259 q\u0259rar\u0131 il\u0259 h\u0259ft\u0259nin m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n g\u00fcnl\u0259ri u\u015faq atas\u0131 il\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcr. B\u0259z\u0259n is\u0259 h\u0259ft\u0259 sonlar\u0131 u\u015faqlar atada qal\u0131r. Bu da qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 anla\u015fma il\u0259 realla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r.
\n“H\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259 ac\u0131nacaql\u0131 v\u0259ziyy\u0259tdir ki, b\u0259z\u0259n ana u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 atas\u0131 il\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 qoymur. Bu is\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259ri aqressivl\u0259\u015fdirir. Burada qanun pozuntusuna yol verilir. Amma reall\u0131q budur ki, b\u0259z\u0259n qad\u0131nlar u\u015faqlar\u0131 atalar\u0131 il\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcrm\u00fcr v\u0259 eyni zamanda aliment t\u0259l\u0259b edir. Bu is\u0259 \u00e7ox zaman faci\u0259vi hadis\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259nir” – dey\u0259 h\u00fcquq\u015f\u00fcnas \u0259lav\u0259 edib.
\nH\u00fcquq\u015f\u00fcnas bildirib ki, yetkinlik ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atmayan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n valideynl\u0259rd\u0259n hans\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda qalmas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 m\u00fcbahis\u0259 h\u0259ll edil\u0259rk\u0259n u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcn m\u0259nafeyi r\u0259hb\u0259r tutulmaqla u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n ya\u015f\u0131, onun fikri, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n valideynl\u0259rd\u0259n h\u0259r birin\u0259, qarda\u015f v\u0259 bac\u0131lar\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131, valideynl\u0259rin m\u0259n\u0259vi v\u0259 sair \u015f\u0259xsi keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri, valideynl\u0259rd\u0259n h\u0259r biri il\u0259 u\u015faq aras\u0131nda yaranm\u0131\u015f m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259si v\u0259 inki\u015faf\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u015f\u0259rait yaratmaq imkan\u0131 (valideynl\u0259rin pe\u015f\u0259si, i\u015f rejimi, onlar\u0131n maddi v\u0259 ail\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti, s\u0259hh\u0259ti n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 al\u0131nmaqla), ayr\u0131 ya\u015fayan valideynl\u0259rd\u0259n h\u0259r birinin ya\u015fay\u0131\u015f yeri \u00fczr\u0259 m\u00f6vcud v\u0259ziyy\u0259tini xarakteriz\u0259 ed\u0259n dig\u0259r hallar n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 al\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r.
\nF. H\u0259midlinin s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, valideynl\u0259rd\u0259n birinin maddi-m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t \u015f\u0259raitinin dig\u0259rin\u0259 nisb\u0259td\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcn olmas\u0131 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n h\u0259min valideynin yan\u0131nda qalmas\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259min olunmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259lledici \u0259sas ola bilm\u0259z.
\nEyni zamanda u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n m\u0259nafeyinin t\u0259l\u0259b etdiyi b\u00fct\u00fcn hallarda onun m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259 iclas\u0131nda dinl\u0259nilm\u0259k h\u00fcququ t\u0259min olunmal\u0131d\u0131r: “U\u015faq h\u00fcquqlar\u0131 haqq\u0131nda Konvensiyan\u0131n 12-ci v\u0259 Ail\u0259 M\u0259c\u0259ll\u0259sinin 52-ci madd\u0259l\u0259rinin t\u0259l\u0259bin\u0259 m\u00fcvafiq olaraq maraqlar\u0131na toxunulan ist\u0259nil\u0259n m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin h\u0259lli zaman\u0131 u\u015faq \u00f6z fikrini bildirm\u0259k, habel\u0259 m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259 istintaq\u0131 v\u0259 inzibati ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar\u0131n gedi\u015find\u0259 dinl\u0259nilm\u0259k h\u00fcququna malikdir. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n fikrinin obyektiv qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirilm\u0259sini t\u0259min etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onun pedaqoqun, t\u0259hsil m\u00fc\u0259ssis\u0259sinin n\u00fcmay\u0259nd\u0259sinin (t\u0259rbiy\u0259\u00e7inin), yaxud u\u015faq psixoloqunun v\u0259 ya q\u0259yyumluq v\u0259 himay\u0259\u00e7ilik orqan\u0131n\u0131n n\u00fcmay\u0259nd\u0259sinin i\u015ftirak\u0131 il\u0259 dinl\u0259nilm\u0259si m\u0259qs\u0259d\u0259m\u00fcvafiqdir. Maraqlar\u0131na zidd olan hallar istisna olmaqla, 10 ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atm\u0131\u015f u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n fikri m\u00fctl\u0259q n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 al\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r”.
\nH\u00fcquq\u015f\u00fcnas qeyd edir ki, valideynl\u0259rd\u0259n hans\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda qalmas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n fikri dinl\u0259nil\u0259rk\u0259n Ail\u0259 M\u0259c\u0259ll\u0259sinin 52-ci madd\u0259sind\u0259 qeyd edil\u0259n “10 ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atm\u0131\u015f u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n fikri m\u00fctl\u0259q n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 al\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r” ifad\u0259si u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n bir valideynd\u0259n dig\u0259rin\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b verilm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yegan\u0259 \u0259sas deyil. Bel\u0259 ki, m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259 10 ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atm\u0131\u015f u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n fikrini dig\u0259r hallarla yana\u015f\u0131 m\u0259cmu hal\u0131nda qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259li v\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcn maraqlar\u0131n\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 almaqla m\u00fcbahis\u0259ni h\u0259ll etm\u0259lidir.
\nSosioloq \u018fhm\u0259d Mansurov is\u0259 bildirib ki, bo\u015fand\u0131qdan sonra anan\u0131n u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 ata il\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcrm\u0259m\u0259si problemi Az\u0259rbaycan ail\u0259sinin \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck probleml\u0259rind\u0259ndir. Bel\u0259 ki, qad\u0131nlar bo\u015fand\u0131qdan sonra ke\u00e7mi\u015f h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131ndan ac\u0131q \u00e7\u0131xmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onun \u00f6vlad\u0131 il\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u0259sin\u0259 m\u0259hdudiyy\u0259t qoyurlar: “Maraql\u0131s\u0131 odur ki, qad\u0131n bo\u015fand\u0131qdan sonra aliment t\u0259l\u0259b edir, amma u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 atas\u0131 il\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcrm\u00fcr. Bu is\u0259 ki\u015fid\u0259 aqressiya yarad\u0131r. Qad\u0131nlar atd\u0131qlar\u0131 add\u0131m\u0131n sonras\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcrl\u0259r. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n ata il\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcr\u00fclm\u0259m\u0259si h\u0259m d\u0259, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n psixikas\u0131na z\u0259r\u0259r vurur”.
\nSosioloq hesab edir ki, n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r ac\u0131nacaql\u0131 olsa da, Az\u0259rbaycanda h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 bo\u015fanma m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259ti inki\u015faf etm\u0259yib. F\u0259rdl\u0259r bo\u015fanark\u0259n, dost kimi qalma\u011f\u0131 bacarm\u0131r, d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259n\u0259 \u00e7evrilirl\u0259r. Bu da n\u0259tic\u0259 etibaril\u0259 cinay\u0259tl\u0259rin t\u00f6r\u0259dilm\u0259sind\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck rol oynay\u0131r.
\n“Yax\u015f\u0131 olard\u0131 ki, bo\u015fanma prosesi zaman\u0131 h\u0259r iki t\u0259r\u0259f qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 raz\u0131l\u0131\u011fa g\u0259lsin. Bu u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n sonrak\u0131 inki\u015faf\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259 vacibdir. D\u00fc\u015fm\u0259n kimi ayr\u0131lmaq t\u0259kc\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259ri deyil, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 da m\u0259hv edir” – dey\u0259 o, bildirib.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Bo\u015fand\u0131qdan sonra u\u015faqlar\u0131n ata il\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u0259sin\u0259 mane\u00e7ilik t\u00f6r\u0259dilm\u0259si problemi \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 bo\u015fanan ail\u0259l\u0259rin 98-99 faizind\u0259 m\u00f6vcuddur. Bunun t\u0259bii ki, m\u00fcxt\u0259lif s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri var. \u018fn vacib s\u0259b\u0259b g\u0259ncl\u0259rin, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n ke\u00e7mi\u015f h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131na aqressiya il\u0259 yana\u015fmas\u0131d\u0131r. Qad\u0131nlar \u00e7ox zaman u\u015faqlardan bo\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 silah kimi istifad\u0259 edir. Bu, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn ac\u0131 h\u0259qiq\u0259tidir. Bu davran\u0131\u015f is\u0259 \u00e7ox zaman ac\u0131 sonluqla n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259nir. Bo\u015fanma zaman\u0131 u\u015faq kiml\u0259 qalmal\u0131d\u0131r? U\u015faq anaya verilirs\u0259, ata u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 nec\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 bil\u0259r? Bu h\u00fcquqi bax\u0131mdan nec\u0259 t\u0259nziml\u0259nir? 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Bunun t\u0259bii ki, m\u00fcxt\u0259lif s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri var. \u018fn vacib s\u0259b\u0259b g\u0259ncl\u0259rin, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n ke\u00e7mi\u015f h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131na aqressiya il\u0259 yana\u015fmas\u0131d\u0131r. Qad\u0131nlar \u00e7ox zaman u\u015faqlardan bo\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 silah kimi istifad\u0259 edir. Bu, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn ac\u0131 h\u0259qiq\u0259tidir. 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