X\u0259yanet \u015firin g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259n z\u0259h\u0259rli bir team kimidir. Yey\u0259rik a\u011fz\u0131m\u0131z \u015firinl\u0259n\u0259r. Bir d\u0259 baxar\u0131q ki, z\u0259h\u0259ri qan\u0131m\u0131za i\u015fl\u0259yib, art\u0131q mehvimize yax\u0131nd\u0131r. Maraqla, heyacanla , xo\u015f hissl\u0259rl\u0259 ba\u015flayan x\u0259yan\u0259tin sonu yaln\u0131z pe\u015fmanl\u0131qd\u0131r!
\nH\u0259r g\u00fcn minl\u0259rl\u0259 ki\u015fi \u00f6z sevgilisin\u0259 v\u0259 ya h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131na x\u0259yan\u0259t edir. Ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011fa \u0259n \u00e7ox s\u0259b\u0259b olan da m\u0259hz x\u0259yan\u0259tdir.<\/p>\n
B\u0259s ki\u015fil\u0259r niy\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t edir?!<\/b>
\nBir d\u0259f\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259n ki\u015fi bunu t\u0259krarlamaqdan \u00e7\u0259kinmir. X\u00fcsus\u0259n d\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259ti zaman\u0131 tutulan ki\u015fil\u0259r ba\u015fqa qad\u0131nlarla yatma\u011fa y\u00f6n\u0259lir.
\nS\u00f6hb\u0259t cinsi \u0259laq\u0259d\u0259n gedirs\u0259, yox dem\u0259 ehtimal\u0131 0-a b\u0259rab\u0259r olur. Aldatma ehtimal\u0131 y\u00fcks\u0259k olan ki\u015fil\u0259r bir fikirl\u0259 q\u0259rarlar\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fdir\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r.
\nSevgisi bits\u0259 bel\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri davam etdir\u0259n ki\u015fil\u0259r \u00e7oxdur. Qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131 insan\u0131 \u00fczm\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri davam etdir\u0259n ki\u015fil\u0259r bir anl\u0131q ehtirasla b\u00fct\u00fcn fikirl\u0259rini d\u0259yi\u015fdir\u0259 bil\u0259r.
\nKi\u015fil\u0259rin h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131ndan ayr\u0131lma qorxusu olur. Bu onlarda fobia hal\u0131na g\u0259lir v\u0259 t\u0259k qalmaqdan qorxurlar. T\u0259k qalmaq qorxusu da ki\u015fil\u0259ri b\u0259z\u0259n s\u0259hv add\u0131m atma\u011fa v\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t\u0259 s\u00fcr\u00fckl\u0259yir. Bu k\u0259lim\u0259nin ard\u0131nda is\u0259 ne\u00e7\u0259-ne\u00e7\u0259 m\u00fcbahis\u0259l\u0259r, t\u0259hqirl\u0259r, h\u0259tta fiziki tezyiq\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r gedib \u00e7\u0131xan m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259r ve n\u0259hay\u0259t, ail\u0259nin s\u00fcqutu \u2013 yeni g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z d\u0259bi ad\u0131n\u0131 alan bo\u015fanmalar durur. G\u0259rid\u0259 qalan x\u0259yan\u0259t\u0259 u\u011frayan\u0131n sars\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lanmaq hissi, insanlara, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 cins\u0259 inams\u0131zl\u0131q ve zaman ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 nifr\u0259t hissinin yaranmas\u0131, stress, depresiyyad\u0131r.
\nNadir hallarda ise x\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259nin m\u00fcv\u0259qq\u0259ti v\u0259 ya bir anl\u0131q \u00e7\u0131l\u011f\u0131nl\u0131qla ail\u0259sinde yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 narahatl\u0131q ve \u0259ks\u0259r hallarda bo\u015fanma pe\u015fmanl\u0131\u011f\u0131. .<\/p>\n
Ki\u015fi x\u0259yan\u0259ti xarakterik s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n d\u0259 m\u0259ydana g\u0259l\u0259 bilir. Mac\u0259ra, adrenalin ehtiyac\u0131 duyan \u0259ks cins, b\u00f6y\u00fck ehtimalla gizli m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r arxas\u0131nca d\u00fc\u015f\u0259c\u0259k v\u0259 bu hissl\u0259ri ail\u0259d\u0259n gizli, yasaq m\u00fcnasib\u0259t kimi ya\u015famaq guya ona h\u0259yat \u0259\u015fqi g\u0259tir\u0259c\u0259k. Nec\u0259 dey\u0259rl\u0259r, bir n\u00f6v \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc cavan saxlayacaq.
\nX\u0259yan\u0259tin dig\u0259r bir s\u0259b\u0259bi is\u0259 ki\u015finin n\u0259 vaxtsa etdiyi x\u0259yan\u0259tin qad\u0131n t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n ba\u011f\u0131\u015flanmas\u0131d\u0131r. Qad\u0131n\u0131 inand\u0131ra bil\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259 inan ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259 d\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn c\u0259sar\u0259t yaran\u0131r. Ki\u015fil\u0259rin fikrinc\u0259, g\u00f6z\u00fcn g\u00f6rm\u0259diyini q\u0259lb d\u0259 hiss etm\u0259z. Bu anlay\u0131\u015f is\u0259 daha sonra \u00f6z t\u0259sdiqini tapm\u0131r v\u0259 edil\u0259n x\u0259yan\u0259t qad\u0131n t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n a\u015fkarlan\u0131r.
\nB\u0259zi hallarda x\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259n insan\u0131n valideynl\u0259rini, hans\u0131 \u015f\u0259raitd\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcy\u00fc ara\u015fd\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131qda \u00e7ox vacib ve \u0259sas bir n\u00fcans ortaya \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. U\u015faq ail\u0259d\u0259 valideynlerinden birinin dig\u0259rin\u0259 xeyanetini bil\u0259r\u0259k b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcrse, bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t sonra s\u0259daq\u0259tsizliyi, x\u0259yan\u0259ti normal bir \u0259xlaq formas\u0131 olaraq q\u0259bul edir.\u00a0M\u00fc\u0259yyen bir zamandan sonra is\u0259 o da do\u011fru, normal bildiyi yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 t\u0259krarlay\u0131r.
\nX\u0259yan\u0259t n\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259 olursa olsun haqq qazand\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmayan, dinimiz\u0259, insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131za v\u0259 \u0259xlaq \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259miz\u0259 he\u00e7 c\u00fcr\u0259 s\u0131\u011fmayan b\u00f6y\u00fck bir yanl\u0131\u015fd\u0131r. Bu yanl\u0131\u015fa yol verm\u0259m\u0259k v\u0259 g\u00f6rm\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn is\u0259\u00a0 ed\u0259c\u0259yimiz \u00e7ox \u015fey \u00f6z \u0259limizd\u0259dir..
\nQad\u0131nlar v\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r aras\u0131ndak\u0131 f\u0259rq onlar\u0131n arzular\u0131 v\u0259 ist\u0259kl\u0259ridir. Ki\u015fil\u0259r t\u0259bi\u0259t etibar\u0131 il\u0259 \u00e7ox tez s\u0131x\u0131l\u0131r v\u0259 bezir. D\u0259yi\u015fk\u0259nliyi qad\u0131nlar \u00f6z\u00fc sevs\u0259 d\u0259, al\u0131\u015fqanl\u0131qlara daha \u00e7ox \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verirl\u0259r. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t qad\u0131nlar aras\u0131nda daha az m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 edilir. . Bir qrup qad\u0131nlar sad\u0259c\u0259 h\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131 q\u0259fil d\u0259yi\u015fim\u0259kd\u0259n qorxurlar. Bu is\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259nin olmamas\u0131ndan ir\u0259li g\u0259lir.
\n\u0130st\u0259nil\u0259n halda qad\u0131n v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259 bil\u0259r. \u201cKi\u015fi ba\u015fd\u0131rsa, qad\u0131n boyun\u201d misal\u0131n\u0131 yada sal\u0131n. Daim bax\u0131ml\u0131 olma\u011f\u0131, h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259yi sad\u0259c\u0259 h\u0259yat t\u0259rzin\u0259 \u00e7evirin. S\u00fcrprizl\u0259r haz\u0131rlay\u0131n, onun q\u0259lbini f\u0259th etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn a\u011flas\u0131\u011fmaz variantlara bel\u0259 \u0259l ata bil\u0259rsiniz. Neqativ emosiyalar\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n sahibi olma\u011f\u0131na icaz\u0259 verm\u0259yin. \u018fsas odur ki, daim sevimli qal\u0131n. Ki\u015fi psixologiyas\u0131nda n\u0259z\u0259riniz\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z faktlar\u0131 is\u0259 unutmay\u0131n.
\nValid\u0259 Abbasova<\/b>
\nPsixologiya v\u0259 Konsultasiya M\u0259rk\u0259zinin Psixoloqu<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
X\u0259yanet \u015firin g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259n z\u0259h\u0259rli bir team kimidir. Yey\u0259rik a\u011fz\u0131m\u0131z \u015firinl\u0259n\u0259r. Bir d\u0259 baxar\u0131q ki, z\u0259h\u0259ri qan\u0131m\u0131za i\u015fl\u0259yib, art\u0131q mehvimize yax\u0131nd\u0131r. Maraqla, heyacanla , xo\u015f hissl\u0259rl\u0259 ba\u015flayan x\u0259yan\u0259tin sonu yaln\u0131z pe\u015fmanl\u0131qd\u0131r! H\u0259r g\u00fcn minl\u0259rl\u0259 ki\u015fi \u00f6z sevgilisin\u0259 v\u0259 ya h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131na x\u0259yan\u0259t edir. Ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011fa \u0259n \u00e7ox s\u0259b\u0259b olan da m\u0259hz x\u0259yan\u0259tdir. B\u0259s ki\u015fil\u0259r niy\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t edir?! Bir d\u0259f\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259n ki\u015fi bunu t\u0259krarlamaqdan \u00e7\u0259kinmir. X\u00fcsus\u0259n d\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259ti zaman\u0131 tutulan ki\u015fil\u0259r ba\u015fqa qad\u0131nlarla yatma\u011fa y\u00f6n\u0259lir. S\u00f6hb\u0259t cinsi \u0259laq\u0259d\u0259n gedirs\u0259, yox dem\u0259 ehtimal\u0131 0-a b\u0259rab\u0259r olur. Aldatma ehtimal\u0131 y\u00fcks\u0259k olan ki\u015fil\u0259r bir fikirl\u0259…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":118474,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/1579033404_80119737_1004526213263830_8411074707056467850_n.jpg",511,265,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/1579033404_80119737_1004526213263830_8411074707056467850_n.jpg",511,265,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/1579033404_80119737_1004526213263830_8411074707056467850_n.jpg",511,265,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/1579033404_80119737_1004526213263830_8411074707056467850_n-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/1579033404_80119737_1004526213263830_8411074707056467850_n-300x156.jpg",300,156,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/1579033404_80119737_1004526213263830_8411074707056467850_n.jpg",511,265,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/1579033404_80119737_1004526213263830_8411074707056467850_n.jpg",511,265,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/1579033404_80119737_1004526213263830_8411074707056467850_n.jpg",511,265,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/1579033404_80119737_1004526213263830_8411074707056467850_n-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/1579033404_80119737_1004526213263830_8411074707056467850_n.jpg",511,265,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"X\u0259yanet \u015firin g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259n z\u0259h\u0259rli bir team kimidir. Yey\u0259rik a\u011fz\u0131m\u0131z \u015firinl\u0259n\u0259r. Bir d\u0259 baxar\u0131q ki, z\u0259h\u0259ri qan\u0131m\u0131za i\u015fl\u0259yib, art\u0131q mehvimize yax\u0131nd\u0131r. Maraqla, heyacanla , xo\u015f hissl\u0259rl\u0259 ba\u015flayan x\u0259yan\u0259tin sonu yaln\u0131z pe\u015fmanl\u0131qd\u0131r! H\u0259r g\u00fcn minl\u0259rl\u0259 ki\u015fi \u00f6z sevgilisin\u0259 v\u0259 ya h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131na x\u0259yan\u0259t edir. Ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011fa \u0259n \u00e7ox s\u0259b\u0259b olan da m\u0259hz x\u0259yan\u0259tdir. B\u0259s ki\u015fil\u0259r niy\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t edir?!…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118473"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=118473"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/118473\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/118474"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=118473"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=118473"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=118473"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}