{"id":132098,"date":"2020-02-20T10:27:48","date_gmt":"2020-02-20T07:27:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=132098"},"modified":"2020-02-20T10:27:48","modified_gmt":"2020-02-20T07:27:48","slug":"usaq-sakit-soz%c9%99baxandirsa-ozu-d%c9%99-t%c9%99kc%c9%99-oynayirsa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=132098","title":{"rendered":"U\u015faq sakit, s\u00f6z\u0259baxand\u0131rsa, \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 t\u0259kc\u0259 oynay\u0131rsa&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssis deyir ki, valideynl\u0259r diqq\u0259tli olmal\u0131, u\u015faqlarla bir \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t kimi davranmal\u0131d\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>ARANTV.AZ<\/strong> Kaspi.az-a istinad\u0259n yaz\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259qdim edir.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;U\u015faqlar bizim g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yimizdir&#8221; ifad\u0259sini i\u015fl\u0259tm\u0259y\u0259n, e\u015fitm\u0259y\u0259n yoxdur. B\u0259s yax\u015f\u0131, bu c\u00fcml\u0259nin mahiyy\u0259tini tam m\u0259nas\u0131 il\u0259 anlay\u0131b, buna \u0259m\u0259l edib u\u015faqlar\u0131 qoruyan n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r insan var? G\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yimizin yax\u015f\u0131 olmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu g\u00fcn\u00fcn u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 qorumaq, onlar\u0131n t\u0259lim-t\u0259rbiy\u0259si il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olmaq \u0259n vacib \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259rd\u0259n biridir. Amma \u00e7ox t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rini, ba\u015fqa u\u015faqlarla davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fczg\u00fcn qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndir\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259n valideynl\u0259r d\u0259 var. 0-3 ya\u015f aras\u0131nda u\u015faqlar\u0131n dem\u0259k olar ki, \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti eyni inki\u015faf yolu ke\u00e7ir. Lakin 3 ya\u015fdan sonrak\u0131 d\u00f6vrd\u0259 h\u0259r u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259m\u0259xsus x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri formala\u015f\u0131r v\u0259 a\u00e7\u0131q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc b\u00fcruz\u0259 verir.<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<p>B\u0259zi u\u015faqlar \u00e7ox aktiv olur, dan\u0131\u015fma\u011fa, \u00e7oxlu suallar verm\u0259y\u0259, d\u00fcnyan\u0131 \u00f6z \u00fcsullar\u0131 il\u0259 k\u0259\u015ff etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. H\u0259tta, h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q aktiv olan, bir yerd\u0259 dayanmayan u\u015faqlar olur ki, b\u0259z\u0259n valideynl\u0259r bundan \u015fikay\u0259tl\u0259n\u0259r\u0259k h\u0259kim\u0259 v\u0259 ya u\u015faq psixoloquna m\u00fcraci\u0259t edir. Amma el\u0259 u\u015faqlar da var ki, h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q sakit olurlar. H\u0259mya\u015f\u0131dlar\u0131 il\u0259 oynam\u0131r, \u0259laq\u0259y\u0259 girmir, he\u00e7 n\u0259y\u0259 reaksiya vermirl\u0259r. Dindirm\u0259s\u0259n, dinm\u0259z, &#8220;a\u011fz\u0131 var, dili yox&#8221; fikrin\u0259 uy\u011fun g\u0259lir v\u0259 \u00e7ox t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, valideynl\u0259r bunu m\u00fcsb\u0259t hal kimi qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirirl\u0259r. H\u0259tta, u\u015faqlar\u0131 d\u0259c\u0259l olan valideynl\u0259r \u00f6vladlar\u0131na h\u0259min sakit u\u015faqlar\u0131 n\u00fcmun\u0259 kimi t\u0259qdim edirl\u0259r. Lakin bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin bir \u0259mmas\u0131 var. Bel\u0259 ki, Amerika Sosial H\u0259yat D\u0259rn\u0259yi ail\u0259d\u0259ki s\u00f6z\u0259baxan, h\u0259dd\u0259n art\u0131q n\u00fcmun\u0259vi u\u015faqlar\u0131n da narahatl\u0131q do\u011furan m\u0259qamlar\u0131n\u0131n oldu\u011funu a\u00e7\u0131qlay\u0131b. D\u0259rn\u0259k psixoloqlar\u0131 ara\u015fd\u0131rma zaman\u0131 ayd\u0131nla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131blar ki, \u0259slind\u0259, u\u015fa\u011fa xas olan d\u0259c\u0259llik, b\u0259z\u0259n ziyankarl\u0131q, hans\u0131sa balacada yoxdursa, bu, h\u0259m d\u0259 onun psixologiyas\u0131ndak\u0131 b\u0259zi poz\u011funluqdan x\u0259b\u0259r verir. Y\u0259ni h\u0259dd\u0259n ziyad\u0259 sakit u\u015faq g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259li bir cani, psixopat, qatil ola bil\u0259r. Aliml\u0259r t\u0259bii olmayan h\u0259r \u015feyin g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 f\u0259sad t\u00f6r\u0259d\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yini qeyd edirl\u0259r. Sakit, n\u00fcmun\u0259vi u\u015faq is\u0259 he\u00e7 d\u0259 t\u0259bii say\u0131lm\u0131r. Dem\u0259k ki, h\u0259dd\u0259n art\u0131q sakit olan u\u015faqlarda da m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n probleml\u0259r var. Biz d\u0259 m\u00f6vzunun aktuall\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alaraq ekspertl\u0259rl\u0259 u\u015faqlardak\u0131 h\u0259dd\u0259n art\u0131q sakitliyin s\u0259b\u0259bini v\u0259 bu kimi hallarda valideynl\u0259rin n\u0259 etm\u0259li olduqlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fd\u0131q.<\/p>\n<p>Psixoloq R\u00f6v\u015f\u0259n U\u011fur qeyd etdi ki, h\u0259r ara\u015fd\u0131rmaya da g\u00fcv\u0259nm\u0259k olmaz. Psixoloqun fikrinc\u0259, ne\u00e7\u0259 u\u015faq aras\u0131nda, hans\u0131 \u0259razid\u0259, hans\u0131 formada, hans\u0131 ya\u015f qruplar\u0131n\u0131n \u0259sas g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fclm\u0259si il\u0259 apar\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, h\u0259min u\u015faqlar\u0131n nec\u0259 v\u0259 hans\u0131 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n se\u00e7ildiyini bildikd\u0259n sonra ara\u015fd\u0131rman\u0131n n\u0259tic\u0259si bar\u0259d\u0259 \u015f\u0259rh verm\u0259k olar: &#8220;Y\u0259ni ist\u0259nil\u0259n ara\u015fd\u0131rman\u0131n hans\u0131 \u015f\u0259raitd\u0259 v\u0259 hans\u0131 \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259r alt\u0131nda apar\u0131lmas\u0131 vacibdir. Yoxsa ist\u0259nil\u0259n ara\u015fd\u0131rman\u0131n n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259nm\u0259k d\u00fczg\u00fcn deyil. Lakin bir u\u015faq h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n qaynay\u0131b-qar\u0131\u015fm\u0131rsa, sakitdirs\u0259, i\u00e7in\u0259 qapal\u0131d\u0131rsa, onunla maraqlanmaq v\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259bini \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. U\u015faqlar iki c\u00fcr &#8211; introvert v\u0259 ekstrovert olur. \u0130ntrovert u\u015faqla ekstrovertin davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131, insanlarla \u00fcnsiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri aras\u0131nda m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n f\u0259rql\u0259r m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 edilir. Ekstrovert u\u015faqlar tam rahat \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t\u0259 girir v\u0259 h\u0259mya\u015f\u0131dlar\u0131 il\u0259 qaynay\u0131b-qar\u0131\u015fa bilir. H\u0259min u\u015faqlar sanki h\u0259yata 1-0 \u00f6nd\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131rlar. Amma introvert u\u015faqlar\u0131n adaptasiya m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259si bir az \u00e7\u0259tin v\u0259 m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259li ke\u00e7ir. Bu u\u015faqlar\u0131n az dostu olur, amma dostluqlar\u0131 daha m\u00f6hk\u0259m v\u0259 uzunm\u00fcdd\u0259tli olur. Ekstrovertl\u0259rd\u0259 is\u0259 dostlar tez-tez d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259 bilir. Y\u0259ni onlar h\u0259r insanla \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t\u0259 gir\u0259 bilib, dostluq qururlar&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Psixoloq deyir ki, ekstrovert v\u0259 introvert m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259sini bir k\u0259nara qoysaq, bu zaman yerd\u0259 qal\u0131r travma m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259si: &#8220;Y\u0259ni u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n susqunlu\u011fu, sakitliyi \u0259g\u0259r genetik faktorla \u0259laq\u0259li deyils\u0259, dem\u0259k ki, u\u015faq travma al\u0131b. U\u015faq h\u0259m ail\u0259d\u0259n, h\u0259m d\u0259 getdiyi ba\u011f\u00e7adan, m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259n, \u00fcnsiyy\u0259td\u0259 oldu\u011fu h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir insandan travma ala bil\u0259r. Ara\u015fd\u0131rma zaman\u0131 bu tip u\u015faqlar\u0131n ail\u0259 basq\u0131s\u0131 il\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015fdiyinin \u015fahidi oluruq. Ail\u0259 h\u0259dd\u0259n art\u0131q t\u0259l\u0259bkar olur. Y\u0259ni u\u015faq yaln\u0131z ail\u0259sinin ist\u0259kl\u0259rini qar\u015f\u0131lay\u0131r. N\u0259tic\u0259 etibar\u0131 il\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn bu t\u0259l\u0259bl\u0259r, ist\u0259kl\u0259r u\u015faq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn y\u00fck hal\u0131na \u00e7evrilir. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n ilk olaraq ail\u0259, sonra da \u0259trafla \u00fcnsiyy\u0259ti k\u0259silir. Sad\u0259c\u0259, n\u00fcmun\u0259vi u\u015faq olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ail\u0259nin ist\u0259kl\u0259rini yerin\u0259 yetirir v\u0259 u\u015faqda &#8220;yax\u015f\u0131 oldu\u011fum, onlar\u0131n dedikl\u0259rini etdiyim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ail\u0259m m\u0259ni sevir&#8221; fikri formala\u015f\u0131r. Bel\u0259c\u0259, sakit, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 qapanan olur&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Bundan ba\u015fqa, fiziki zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa m\u0259ruz qalan, etdiyi s\u0259hv\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 c\u0259zaland\u0131r\u0131lan u\u015faqlarda da bu hal m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 edilir&#8221; dey\u0259n R\u00f6v\u015f\u0259n b\u0259y bildirdi ki, bu kimi hallar u\u015faqda &#8220;m\u0259n bacar\u0131qs\u0131zam, u\u011fursuz biriy\u0259m&#8221; kimi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259r formala\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r. Bu da h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n n\u00f6vb\u0259ti m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259, \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t kimi formala\u015fmas\u0131na m\u0259nfi t\u0259sir edir. \u0130st\u0259r \u015f\u0259xsi h\u0259yat\u0131nda, ist\u0259r i\u015f h\u0259yat\u0131nda \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 yer tapa bilmir. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259, valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqlara qar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7ox basq\u0131 etm\u0259sinl\u0259r, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 \u015fidd\u0259td\u0259n uzaq olsunlar. \u00d6vladlar\u0131na ki\u00e7ik i\u015fl\u0259r tap\u015f\u0131r\u0131b, onlar\u0131n m\u0259suliyy\u0259t hissini duymas\u0131na k\u00f6m\u0259k etsinl\u0259r. B\u0259z\u0259n g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fck ki, b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259r u\u015faqlara &#8220;polis g\u0259lib s\u0259ni aparacaq, h\u0259kim g\u0259lib iyn\u0259 vuracaq&#8221; tipli ifad\u0259l\u0259r i\u015fl\u0259dirl\u0259r ki, bu da yanl\u0131\u015fd\u0131r. Bunun zarafatla deyildiyini bilirik. Sad\u0259c\u0259, u\u015faqlarda m\u00fcc\u0259rr\u0259d t\u0259f\u0259kk\u00fcr inki\u015faf etm\u0259diyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bunun zarafat, ya h\u0259qiq\u0259t oldu\u011funu ay\u0131ra bilmirl\u0259r v\u0259 bu, onlarda travma, qorxu yarad\u0131r. Bu da u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n qapal\u0131, \u00fcnsiyy\u0259td\u0259n uzaq olmas\u0131na g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xard\u0131r. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259, valideynl\u0259r diqq\u0259tli olmal\u0131, u\u015faqlarla bir \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t kimi davranmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. \u018fg\u0259r \u00f6zl\u0259ri \u00f6hd\u0259sind\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259 bilm\u0259s\u0259l\u0259r, m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssis\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t etsinl\u0259r&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Sosioloq Cavid \u0130mamo\u011flu qeyd etdi ki, sakitlik, h\u0259r u\u015faqda m\u00fcxt\u0259lif s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n ola bil\u0259r: &#8220;U\u015faq inki\u015faf\u0131 \u00fczr\u0259 m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n h\u0259r ya\u015f d\u00f6vr\u00fcn\u0259 uy\u011fun emosional inki\u015faf dinamikas\u0131 var v\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn valideynl\u0259r, m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259r, psixoloqlar, y\u0259ni u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n inki\u015faf\u0131nda rolu olan h\u0259r k\u0259s bu dinamikan\u0131 bilm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 bu sah\u0259d\u0259 t\u0259liml\u0259rin ke\u00e7irilm\u0259si, t\u0259bli\u011fat v\u0259 maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259 i\u015fi a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 oldu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn valideynl\u0259r \u0259ks\u0259r hallarda u\u015faqlar\u0131n ya\u015f\u0131na uy\u011fun emosional inki\u015faf\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fczg\u00fcn qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndir\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r. Onlar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r ki, u\u015faq sakitdirs\u0259, \u00f6z\u00fc\u00a0 t\u0259kc\u0259 oynay\u0131rsa v\u0259 x\u00fcsusi bir aqressiya hal\u0131 yoxdursa, dem\u0259li, h\u0259r \u015fey qaydas\u0131ndad\u0131r. \u018fslind\u0259 is\u0259 h\u0259min u\u015faq zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa m\u0259ruz qalm\u0131\u015f ola bil\u0259r. Bel\u0259 u\u015faqlarda \u00e7\u0259king\u0259nlik, qorxaql\u0131q, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259qapal\u0131l\u0131q, k\u0259k\u0259l\u0259m\u0259, d\u0131rnaqlar\u0131n\u0131 yem\u0259 kimi emosional h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259r yaran\u0131r. Valideynl\u0259r daim u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. \u018fg\u0259r u\u015faqda bu hallardan hans\u0131sa biri varsa, m\u00fctl\u0259q psixoloqa m\u00fcraci\u0259t etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. D\u00fczd\u00fcr, bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 f\u0259rdi yana\u015fmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Sakitlik h\u0259r u\u015faqda m\u00fcxt\u0259lif s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n ola bil\u0259r. Ancaq ist\u0259nil\u0259n halda, valideynl\u0259r \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259si v\u0259 ya psixoloji v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti bax\u0131m\u0131ndan, h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisin k\u00f6m\u0259yin\u0259 ehtiyac duyurlar&#8221;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssis deyir ki, valideynl\u0259r diqq\u0259tli olmal\u0131, u\u015faqlarla bir \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t kimi davranmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. ARANTV.AZ Kaspi.az-a istinad\u0259n yaz\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259qdim edir. &#8220;U\u015faqlar bizim g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yimizdir&#8221; ifad\u0259sini i\u015fl\u0259tm\u0259y\u0259n, e\u015fitm\u0259y\u0259n yoxdur. B\u0259s yax\u015f\u0131, bu c\u00fcml\u0259nin mahiyy\u0259tini tam m\u0259nas\u0131 il\u0259 anlay\u0131b, buna \u0259m\u0259l edib u\u015faqlar\u0131 qoruyan n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r insan var? 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