{"id":132875,"date":"2020-02-21T12:18:51","date_gmt":"2020-02-21T09:18:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=132875"},"modified":"2020-02-21T12:18:51","modified_gmt":"2020-02-21T09:18:51","slug":"butov-olan-h%c9%99rbci-valideynl%c9%99r-yarim-qalan-ovladlar-yerd%c9%99yism%c9%99nin-z%c9%99r%c9%99rc%c9%99k%c9%99nl%c9%99ri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=132875","title":{"rendered":"B\u00fct\u00f6v olan h\u0259rb\u00e7i valideynl\u0259r, yar\u0131m qalan \u00f6vladlar – Yerd\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259nin z\u0259r\u0259r\u00e7\u0259k\u0259nl\u0259ri"},"content":{"rendered":"

Onlar\u0131n \u00fcmumi v\u0259zif\u0259si var; d\u00f6vl\u0259t sevgisi il\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u0259\u015fm\u0259k.<\/p>\n

B\u0259z\u0259n bu b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u00fck yax\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131n yar\u0131m qalmas\u0131 il\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ns\u0259 d\u0259, onlar\u0131n yaln\u0131z \u201cA\u201d se\u00e7imi olur: \u0259mr\u0259 tabe olmaq!<\/p>\n

H\u0259rbi qulluq\u00e7ular\u0131 deyirik… Onlar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti valideyndirl\u0259r. T\u0259yinatlar\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 olaraq m\u00fcxt\u0259lif \u0259razi d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259li olurlar. Bu da birba\u015fa \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259sin\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olur. Bu yerd\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259 u\u015faqlara nec\u0259 t\u0259sir edir?<\/p>\n

Klinik psixoloq Afaq \u018fmirli \u201cMediaPost\u201da a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 ayd\u0131nl\u0131q g\u0259tirib:<\/p>\n

\u201cYerd\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n xarakterind\u0259n, temperamentind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olan m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir. El\u0259 u\u015faqlar var ki, onlar \u00f6yr\u0259\u015fdikl\u0259ri m\u00fchiti d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259yi psixoloji olaraq pis ke\u00e7irill\u0259r. Bu, ad\u0259t\u0259n, daha h\u0259ssas, h\u0259y\u0259cana v\u0259 t\u0259\u015fvi\u015f\u0259 meyilli u\u015faqlarda olur. B\u0259z\u0259n onlar\u0131n bir m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259\u015fm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bir il, ya da ill\u0259r laz\u0131m g\u0259lir. Birinci sinf\u0259 ged\u0259n \u015fagird t\u0259dris ilinin sonunda m\u00fc\u0259llimin\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r. Yaxud da \u0259ksin\u0259, sinif yolda\u015flar\u0131 il\u0259 dil tapmaqda \u00e7\u0259tinlik \u00e7\u0259kirl\u0259r. Bu c\u00fcr u\u015faqlara t\u0259bii ki, yerd\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259 m\u0259nfi t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259c\u0259k. Amma el\u0259 u\u015faqlar var ki, onlar daha m\u00f6hk\u0259m xarakterli olurlar. Onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yeni \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t qurmaq, tan\u0131\u015fl\u0131q yaratmaq daha maraql\u0131 olur. H\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 yeni m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 h\u0259v\u0259slidirl\u0259r. Bu, onlara m\u0259nfi t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rmir\u201d.<\/p>\n

\"B\u00fct\u00f6v
\nAfaq xan\u0131m ki\u00e7ik ya\u015fl\u0131 u\u015faqlar\u0131n tez-tez yerd\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259sini arzuolunan hesab etmir:<\/p>\n

\u201c\u00dcmumilikd\u0259, t\u0259bii ki, ki\u00e7ik ya\u015fl\u0131 u\u015faqlar\u0131n tez-tez yerd\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259si arzuolunan deyil. \u00c7\u00fcnki u\u015faqlarda m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131q hissi olmal\u0131d\u0131r, m\u00f6vcud yerd\u0259 oldu\u011fu m\u00fchit\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131q hissinin yaranmas\u0131 onlarda m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n bir stabilliyi yarad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 onlar \u00f6z yaratd\u0131qlar\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olduqlar\u0131 i\u015f\u0259 b\u0259lli stabilliyin yaranmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259traf m\u00fchitd\u0259 d\u0259 b\u0259lli stabillik olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Amma valideynin i\u015fi tez-tez m\u00fchit d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259kd\u0259n ke\u00e7irs\u0259, onda bu c\u00fcr valideynl\u0259r\u0259 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6r\u0259 bil\u0259rik ki, u\u015faqlar\u0131 il\u0259 daha yax\u0131n m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 olsunlar.<\/p>\n

H\u0259y\u0259can\u0131n\u0131, t\u0259\u015fvi\u015fini nec\u0259 d\u0259f ed\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259rini, yeni tan\u0131\u015fl\u0131qda d\u00fczg\u00fcn \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t qurmaq bacar\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 inki\u015faf etdirm\u0259k \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 biz m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 f\u0259rdi baxmal\u0131y\u0131q\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Onlar\u0131n \u00fcmumi v\u0259zif\u0259si var; d\u00f6vl\u0259t sevgisi il\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u0259\u015fm\u0259k. B\u0259z\u0259n bu b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u00fck yax\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131n yar\u0131m qalmas\u0131 il\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ns\u0259 d\u0259, onlar\u0131n yaln\u0131z \u201cA\u201d se\u00e7imi olur: \u0259mr\u0259 tabe olmaq! H\u0259rbi qulluq\u00e7ular\u0131 deyirik… Onlar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti valideyndirl\u0259r. T\u0259yinatlar\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 olaraq m\u00fcxt\u0259lif \u0259razi d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259li olurlar. Bu da birba\u015fa \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259sin\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olur. Bu yerd\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259 u\u015faqlara nec\u0259 t\u0259sir edir? Klinik psixoloq Afaq \u018fmirli \u201cMediaPost\u201da a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 ayd\u0131nl\u0131q g\u0259tirib: \u201cYerd\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n xarakterind\u0259n, temperamentind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olan m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir. El\u0259 u\u015faqlar var ki, onlar \u00f6yr\u0259\u015fdikl\u0259ri m\u00fchiti d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259yi psixoloji olaraq pis ke\u00e7irill\u0259r. Bu, ad\u0259t\u0259n, daha h\u0259ssas, h\u0259y\u0259cana v\u0259 t\u0259\u015fvi\u015f\u0259 meyilli…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":132876,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/21_81582271384.jpg",649,407,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/21_81582271384.jpg",649,407,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/21_81582271384.jpg",649,407,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/21_81582271384-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/21_81582271384-300x188.jpg",300,188,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/21_81582271384.jpg",640,401,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/21_81582271384.jpg",649,407,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/21_81582271384.jpg",649,407,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/21_81582271384-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/21_81582271384.jpg",649,407,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Onlar\u0131n \u00fcmumi v\u0259zif\u0259si var; d\u00f6vl\u0259t sevgisi il\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u0259\u015fm\u0259k. B\u0259z\u0259n bu b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u00fck yax\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131n yar\u0131m qalmas\u0131 il\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ns\u0259 d\u0259, onlar\u0131n yaln\u0131z \u201cA\u201d se\u00e7imi olur: \u0259mr\u0259 tabe olmaq! H\u0259rbi qulluq\u00e7ular\u0131 deyirik… Onlar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti valideyndirl\u0259r. T\u0259yinatlar\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 olaraq m\u00fcxt\u0259lif \u0259razi d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259li olurlar. Bu da birba\u015fa \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259sin\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olur. Bu yerd\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259 u\u015faqlara nec\u0259 t\u0259sir edir? Klinik psixoloq…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/132875"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=132875"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/132875\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/132876"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=132875"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=132875"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=132875"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}