Az\u0259rbaycanda qad\u0131nlara qar\u015f\u0131 zorak\u0131l\u0131q hallar\u0131 getdikc\u0259 art\u0131r. Bu sah\u0259d\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259tin art\u0131q kritik m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 oldu\u011funu des\u0259k, yan\u0131lmar\u0131q. T\u0259kc\u0259 \u00f6t\u0259n ilin kriminal hadis\u0259l\u0259rin xronologiyas\u0131na n\u0259z\u0259r salsaq, v\u0259ziyy\u0259tin h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n a\u011f\u0131r oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rm\u0259k olar.<\/b><\/p>\n
B\u0259s v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu n\u0259dir?<\/p>\n
Psixoloq S\u0259bin\u0259 Vahidq\u0131z\u0131 Yenisabah.az-a a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda tarix boyu zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa m\u0259ruz qalanlar\u0131n qad\u0131nlar oldu\u011funu bildirib: “H\u0259r bir mill\u0259tin ki\u015fi v\u0259 ya qad\u0131n\u0131n milli psixologiyas\u0131 var. Bunlar\u0131 zaman, ill\u0259r, n\u0259sill\u0259r d\u0259yi\u015fs\u0259 d\u0259 b\u0259zil\u0259ri beyind\u0259 “oturulur” v\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fmir. Ata v\u0259 babalar\u0131m\u0131z b\u0259zi m\u0259qamlarda qad\u0131nla kobud davransalar da, \u0259sas hiss\u0259 hans\u0131 ki, daha a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 v\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259li olan t\u0259b\u0259q\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131n d\u0259y\u0259rini anlay\u0131r, ona qar\u015f\u0131 kobud davranm\u0131r, kobud ifad\u0259l\u0259r i\u015fl\u0259tmir v\u0259 ona h\u00f6rm\u0259t edirdi. Bu h\u00f6rm\u0259t\u0259 \u00fcmumilikd\u0259 “cinsi t\u0259rbiy\u0259” deyilir. Valideynl\u0259r bu t\u0259rbiy\u0259ni u\u015fa\u011fa \u00f6z h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259ri il\u0259 verir”.<\/p>\n
S.Vahidq\u0131z\u0131 bu tip hallar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ail\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259sinin \u00f6n\u0259mini vur\u011fulay\u0131b: “\u018fg\u0259r ata o\u011flan \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fc qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda qad\u0131na \u015fill\u0259 vurur, ona nalayiq s\u00f6y\u00fc\u015fl\u0259r s\u00f6y\u00fcrs\u0259, bu m\u00fchitd\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n u\u015fa\u011f\u0259n t\u0259rbiy\u0259li v\u0259 s\u0259viy\u0259li ki\u015fi olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zl\u0259y\u0259 bilm\u0259rik. Bel\u0259 bir \u015fey bostanda alma bitm\u0259sini g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259k kimidir. Yaxud da q\u0131z\u0131 olan qad\u0131n \u0259rini u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fc qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda al\u00e7ald\u0131rsa, ona h\u00f6rm\u0259t etmirs\u0259 onun g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yinin nec\u0259 olaca\u011f\u0131 indid\u0259n b\u0259llidir. G\u00fcnd\u0259lik h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z bu tip misallarla doludur. \u018ftraf\u0131m\u0131z marketd\u0259 sat\u0131c\u0131 q\u0131za s\u00f6y\u00fc\u015f s\u00f6y\u0259n cavan o\u011flanlar, qad\u0131n i\u015f yolda\u015f\u0131na h\u00fccum ed\u0259n “ki\u015fi q\u0131r\u0131qlar\u0131” il\u0259 doludur. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131n bir g\u00fcnahkar\u0131 var \u2013 Valideyn! M\u0259ni bir orta m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 d\u0259v\u0259t etmi\u015fdil\u0259r. Dedil\u0259r ki, bir o\u011flan sinifd\u0259 q\u0131zlarla \u00e7ox kobud r\u0259ftar edir. Onlar\u0131 vurur, s\u00f6y\u00fcr, h\u00f6rm\u0259t etmir. Bel\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n ata, anas\u0131 m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259li oldular. K\u0259nardan onlar\u0131 m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 ed\u0259nd\u0259 g\u00f6rd\u00fcm ki, ki\u015fi giri\u015f qap\u0131s\u0131nda \u0259li il\u0259 qap\u0131n\u0131 k\u0259nara it\u0259l\u0259yib birinci \u00f6z\u00fc ke\u00e7di v\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131 he\u00e7 bir qad\u0131na, q\u0131za yol verm\u0259di. H\u0259min ki\u015fi evind\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259ti korlayan \u00fc\u00e7 o\u011flan b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcr. Bu u\u015faqlar n\u0259 analar\u0131na , n\u0259 d\u0259 hans\u0131sa qad\u0131na h\u00f6rm\u0259t etmir. Kobud davran\u0131rlar. Ola bil\u0259r ki, bel\u0259 u\u015faqlar b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcb alim olacaq, amma s\u00f6y\u00fc\u015f s\u00f6y\u0259c\u0259k, dan\u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. H\u0259kim olacaq, tibb bac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6y\u0259c\u0259k, n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r naqis i\u015f v\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t varsa ham\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ed\u0259c\u0259k, yen\u0259 d\u0259 s\u0259hvini anlamayacaq. S\u0259hv ba\u015flan\u011f\u0131cdad\u0131r, y\u0259ni ail\u0259d\u0259”. N\u0259n\u0259 babalar buna misald\u0131r. B\u0259z\u0259n onlar n\u0259v\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 kobud s\u00f6y\u00fc\u015f s\u00f6ym\u0259yi \u00f6yr\u0259dirl\u0259r. N\u0259v\u0259 d\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcb h\u0259min s\u00f6y\u00fc\u015fl\u0259rl\u0259 onun \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc s\u00f6y\u00fcr, 5 b\u0131\u00e7aq z\u0259rb\u0259si vurub, pulunu da apar\u0131b gedir.Y\u0259ni t\u0259rbiy\u0259 torpaq kimidir, n\u0259 vers\u0259n onu da al\u0131rsan. N\u0259 \u0259kdin o da bitir. Genetik amill\u0259r \u0259sas olsa da, t\u0259rbiy\u0259 m\u00fch\u00fcmd\u00fcr. T\u0259rbiy\u0259 t\u0259m\u0259l v\u0259 k\u00f6kd\u00fcr”.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Az\u0259rbaycanda qad\u0131nlara qar\u015f\u0131 zorak\u0131l\u0131q hallar\u0131 getdikc\u0259 art\u0131r. Bu sah\u0259d\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259tin art\u0131q kritik m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 oldu\u011funu des\u0259k, yan\u0131lmar\u0131q. T\u0259kc\u0259 \u00f6t\u0259n ilin kriminal hadis\u0259l\u0259rin xronologiyas\u0131na n\u0259z\u0259r salsaq, v\u0259ziyy\u0259tin h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n a\u011f\u0131r oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rm\u0259k olar. B\u0259s v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu n\u0259dir? Psixoloq S\u0259bin\u0259 Vahidq\u0131z\u0131 Yenisabah.az-a a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda tarix boyu zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa m\u0259ruz qalanlar\u0131n qad\u0131nlar oldu\u011funu bildirib: “H\u0259r bir mill\u0259tin ki\u015fi v\u0259 ya qad\u0131n\u0131n milli psixologiyas\u0131 var. Bunlar\u0131 zaman, ill\u0259r, n\u0259sill\u0259r d\u0259yi\u015fs\u0259 d\u0259 b\u0259zil\u0259ri beyind\u0259 “oturulur” v\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fmir. Ata v\u0259 babalar\u0131m\u0131z b\u0259zi m\u0259qamlarda qad\u0131nla kobud davransalar da, \u0259sas hiss\u0259 hans\u0131 ki, daha a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 v\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259li olan t\u0259b\u0259q\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131n d\u0259y\u0259rini…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":136515,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/cxxxnnx.jpg",730,420,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/cxxxnnx.jpg",730,420,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/cxxxnnx.jpg",730,420,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/cxxxnnx-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/cxxxnnx-300x173.jpg",300,173,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/cxxxnnx.jpg",640,368,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/cxxxnnx.jpg",730,420,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/cxxxnnx.jpg",730,420,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/cxxxnnx-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/cxxxnnx.jpg",730,420,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Az\u0259rbaycanda qad\u0131nlara qar\u015f\u0131 zorak\u0131l\u0131q hallar\u0131 getdikc\u0259 art\u0131r. Bu sah\u0259d\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259tin art\u0131q kritik m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 oldu\u011funu des\u0259k, yan\u0131lmar\u0131q. T\u0259kc\u0259 \u00f6t\u0259n ilin kriminal hadis\u0259l\u0259rin xronologiyas\u0131na n\u0259z\u0259r salsaq, v\u0259ziyy\u0259tin h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n a\u011f\u0131r oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rm\u0259k olar. B\u0259s v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu n\u0259dir? Psixoloq S\u0259bin\u0259 Vahidq\u0131z\u0131 Yenisabah.az-a a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda tarix boyu zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa m\u0259ruz qalanlar\u0131n qad\u0131nlar oldu\u011funu bildirib: “H\u0259r bir mill\u0259tin ki\u015fi v\u0259 ya qad\u0131n\u0131n…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/136514"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=136514"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/136514\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/136515"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=136514"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=136514"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=136514"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}