{"id":139154,"date":"2020-03-06T13:54:53","date_gmt":"2020-03-06T10:54:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=139154"},"modified":"2020-03-06T13:54:53","modified_gmt":"2020-03-06T10:54:53","slug":"kisil%c9%99r-qadinlardan-daha-qisqanc-olurlar-psixoloq","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=139154","title":{"rendered":"\u201cKi\u015fil\u0259r qad\u0131nlardan daha q\u0131sqanc olurlar\u201d &#8211; Psixoloq"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Q\u0131sqancl\u0131q insan \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn xarakterik olan m\u0259nfi x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259rin ba\u015f\u0131nda g\u0259lir. Bu c\u00fcr hallar b\u0259z\u0259n bo\u015fanmaya, h\u0259tta a\u011f\u0131r cinay\u0259tl\u0259rin t\u00f6r\u0259dilm\u0259sin\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b ola bilir. V\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu n\u0259dir? \u0130nsanlar bu c\u00fcr hallarla qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fanda nec\u0259 davranmal\u0131d\u0131rlar?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Psixoloq Q\u0259nir\u0259 \u018fliyeva Yenisabah.az-a a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda bildirib ki, q\u0131sqancl\u0131q normada olmayanda x\u0259st\u0259liy\u0259 \u00e7evrilir: \u201cQ\u0131sqancl\u0131q b\u00fct\u00fcn canl\u0131lara xas olan x\u00fcsusiy\u0259tdir. Ki\u015fi cinsind\u0259, t\u0259bi\u0259td\u0259 is\u0259 erk\u0259kl\u0259rd\u0259 bu \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc daha qabar\u0131q b\u00fcruz\u0259 verir. Q\u0131sqancl\u0131q b\u00fct\u00fcn hissl\u0259r kimi norma daxilind\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu norman\u0131 ki\u015fi v\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z beyni qar\u015f\u0131 cins\u0259 verdiyi narahatl\u0131qlardan hiss edib t\u0259nziml\u0259m\u0259lidir. Q\u0131sqancl\u0131q hissi sahibl\u0259nm\u0259k v\u0259 sevdiyini itirm\u0259k qorxusundan yaran\u0131r. Bunun sosial statusla, ki\u015fi v\u0259 qad\u0131n olmaqla he\u00e7 bir \u0259laq\u0259si yoxdur. Bu hiss u\u015faqlarda da var. Qarda\u015f\u0131 dogulduqda balaca q\u0131z \u00a0ata-anas\u0131n\u0131 ona q\u0131sqan\u0131r, ba\u011f\u00e7aya gedir, \u0259g\u0259r yan\u0131nda oturan balaca h\u00f6r\u00fckl\u00fc sar\u0131 q\u0131za ba\u015fqa o\u011flan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 oyuncaq verirs\u0259, q\u0131\u015fq\u0131r\u0131r v\u0259 q\u0131z\u0131 qoruma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Y\u0259ni, sev\u0259n h\u0259r k\u0259s sahibl\u0259nir v\u0259 itirm\u0259kd\u0259n qorxur. Kim des\u0259 ki, m\u0259n q\u0131sqanm\u0131ram, ya o s\u0259mimi deyil, ya da sevmir. Q\u0131sqancl\u0131q normal d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259sind\u0259 olduqda x\u0259st\u0259lik say\u0131lm\u0131r, norman\u0131 qar\u015f\u0131 cinsin d\u00f6z\u00fcm d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259si il\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n etm\u0259lis\u0259n ki, x\u0259st\u0259lik v\u0259ziyy\u0259tin\u0259 ke\u00e7ib qar\u015f\u0131 cinsi s\u0259nd\u0259n iyr\u0259ndirm\u0259sin. Norman\u0131 ke\u00e7\u0259n b\u00fct\u00fcn hissl\u0259r x\u0259st\u0259likdir v\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qurdu\u011fu insanlara \u0259ziyy\u0259t verir. H\u0259tta h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 c\u0259h\u0259nn\u0259m\u0259 \u00e7evirir\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Psixoloq deyib ki, \u0259g\u0259r ki\u015fi hiss edirs\u0259 ki, qad\u0131n onu kim\u0259s\u0259 qisqan\u0131r, onunla s\u00f6hb\u0259t etm\u0259li, buna \u0259sas olub-olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ayd\u0131nla\u015fd\u0131rmal\u0131d\u0131r: \u201cQad\u0131n da analoji qaydada davranmal\u0131d\u0131r. Hiss ets\u0259 ki, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 onu hans\u0131sa ki\u015fiy\u0259 q\u0131sqan\u0131r, h\u0259min aadmla arada m\u0259saf\u0259 saxlamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0259bii ki qar\u015fl\u0131ql\u0131 dialoq v\u0259 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin h\u0259lli normal insanlarda al\u0131n\u0131r. Xroniki q\u0131sqancl\u0131qdan \u0259ziyy\u0259t c\u0259k\u0259nl\u0259rd\u0259 is\u0259 problem h\u0259ll etm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmur. B\u0259z\u0259n cinay\u0259t qa\u00e7\u0131lmaz olur. Bel\u0259 insanlar psixoloqa v\u0259 psixiatra muraci\u0259t etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Bunu \u00f6zl\u0259ri etm\u0259s\u0259 d\u0259, ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259ri, qohumlar\u0131 etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Q\u0131sqancl\u0131q insan \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn xarakterik olan m\u0259nfi x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259rin ba\u015f\u0131nda g\u0259lir. Bu c\u00fcr hallar b\u0259z\u0259n bo\u015fanmaya, h\u0259tta a\u011f\u0131r cinay\u0259tl\u0259rin t\u00f6r\u0259dilm\u0259sin\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b ola bilir. V\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu n\u0259dir? \u0130nsanlar bu c\u00fcr hallarla qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fanda nec\u0259 davranmal\u0131d\u0131rlar? Psixoloq Q\u0259nir\u0259 \u018fliyeva Yenisabah.az-a a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda bildirib ki, q\u0131sqancl\u0131q normada olmayanda x\u0259st\u0259liy\u0259 \u00e7evrilir: \u201cQ\u0131sqancl\u0131q b\u00fct\u00fcn canl\u0131lara xas olan x\u00fcsusiy\u0259tdir. Ki\u015fi cinsind\u0259, t\u0259bi\u0259td\u0259 is\u0259 erk\u0259kl\u0259rd\u0259 bu \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc daha qabar\u0131q b\u00fcruz\u0259 verir. Q\u0131sqancl\u0131q b\u00fct\u00fcn hissl\u0259r kimi norma daxilind\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu norman\u0131 ki\u015fi v\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z beyni qar\u015f\u0131 cins\u0259 verdiyi narahatl\u0131qlardan hiss edib t\u0259nziml\u0259m\u0259lidir. Q\u0131sqancl\u0131q hissi sahibl\u0259nm\u0259k v\u0259 sevdiyini itirm\u0259k qorxusundan yaran\u0131r.&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":139155,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/image_750x422_5e62270b44a14.jpg",750,422,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/image_750x422_5e62270b44a14.jpg",750,422,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/image_750x422_5e62270b44a14.jpg",750,422,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/image_750x422_5e62270b44a14-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/image_750x422_5e62270b44a14-300x169.jpg",300,169,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/image_750x422_5e62270b44a14.jpg",640,360,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/image_750x422_5e62270b44a14.jpg",750,422,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/image_750x422_5e62270b44a14.jpg",750,422,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/image_750x422_5e62270b44a14-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/image_750x422_5e62270b44a14.jpg",750,422,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?cat=1\" rel=\"category\">C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Q\u0131sqancl\u0131q insan \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn xarakterik olan m\u0259nfi x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259rin ba\u015f\u0131nda g\u0259lir. Bu c\u00fcr hallar b\u0259z\u0259n bo\u015fanmaya, h\u0259tta a\u011f\u0131r cinay\u0259tl\u0259rin t\u00f6r\u0259dilm\u0259sin\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b ola bilir. V\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu n\u0259dir? \u0130nsanlar bu c\u00fcr hallarla qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fanda nec\u0259 davranmal\u0131d\u0131rlar? Psixoloq Q\u0259nir\u0259 \u018fliyeva Yenisabah.az-a a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda bildirib ki, q\u0131sqancl\u0131q normada olmayanda x\u0259st\u0259liy\u0259 \u00e7evrilir: \u201cQ\u0131sqancl\u0131q b\u00fct\u00fcn canl\u0131lara xas olan x\u00fcsusiy\u0259tdir. Ki\u015fi cinsind\u0259, t\u0259bi\u0259td\u0259 is\u0259 erk\u0259kl\u0259rd\u0259&hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/139154"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=139154"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/139154\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/139155"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=139154"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=139154"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=139154"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}