{"id":13942,"date":"2018-09-17T16:08:47","date_gmt":"2018-09-17T13:08:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=13942"},"modified":"2018-09-17T16:08:47","modified_gmt":"2018-09-17T13:08:47","slug":"abortun-%c9%99r-v%c9%99-arvadin-h%c9%99yatina-d%c9%99hs%c9%99tli-t%c9%99siri-bu-addimdan-sonra","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=13942","title":{"rendered":"Abortun \u0259r v\u0259 arvad\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131na D\u018fH\u015e\u018fTL\u0130 T\u018fS\u0130R\u0130: bu add\u0131mdan sonra&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Aborta normal baxan v\u0259 onun \u0259leyhin\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xan insanlar \u00e7oxdan iki qrupa b\u00f6l\u00fcn\u00fcb. Bel\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck h\u0259yati m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin yax\u015f\u0131 v\u0259 ya pis olmas\u0131na h\u0259r bir qad\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fc q\u0259rar verir, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirib-g\u0259tirm\u0259m\u0259yi d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fc se\u00e7ir. Lakin abortun qad\u0131n\u0131n fiziki sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131na t\u0259siri dan\u0131lmazd\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><b>ARANTV.AZ <\/b>publika.az-a istinad\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, ekspert, psixoterapevt Tatyana Oqneva-Salvoni abortun qad\u0131n\u0131n psixologiyas\u0131nda da d\u0259rin izl\u0259r qoydu\u011funu bildirib. Onun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, bu c\u00fcr prosedur t\u0259sirsiz ke\u00e7\u0259 bilm\u0259z. Psixoterapevt abortun qad\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131na m\u0259nfi t\u0259sirl\u0259rini bel\u0259 izah edib.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. C\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 t\u0259siri<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>H\u0259tta abortun h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irilm\u0259sin\u0259 c\u00fctl\u00fck qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 q\u0259rar veribs\u0259, bu, he\u00e7 d\u0259 o dem\u0259k deyil ki, \u0259rl\u0259 arvad onun haqq\u0131nda unuda, bundan sonra uzun v\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt \u00f6m\u00fcr s\u00fcr\u0259 bil\u0259r. Qad\u0131nla ki\u015finin bu q\u0259rar\u0131 verm\u0259si art\u0131q onu g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, onlar m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l ail\u0259 sahibi olma\u011fa h\u0259l\u0259 haz\u0131r deyill\u0259r v\u0259 aralar\u0131nda h\u0259ll ed\u0259 bilm\u0259dikl\u0259ri m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n probleml\u0259r var. Bu add\u0131mla c\u00fctl\u00fcy\u00fcn g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259y\u0259 dair inam\u0131, h\u0259m\u00e7inin bir-birin\u0259 olan etimadlar\u0131 sars\u0131l\u0131r. Psixologiyada h\u0259tta bel\u0259 bir termin var ki, qad\u0131n abortdan sonra \u00f6z t\u0259r\u0259f m\u00fcqabilini sanki \u00f6z \u00fcr\u0259yindan \u201cabort\u201d etmi\u015f olur.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Vicdan \u0259zab\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>H\u0259tta siz abort etm\u0259kd\u0259 \u00e7ox q\u0259rarl\u0131 olsan\u0131z da, bu, he\u00e7 d\u0259 o dem\u0259k deyil ki, vicdan\u0131n\u0131z sizi narahat etm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. \u0130st\u0259nil\u0259n halda siz insan h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 m\u0259hv etmisiniz. V\u0259 o insan b\u0259d\u0259ninizin v\u0259 qan\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n bir hiss\u0259si idi. Bunun xatirinizd\u0259n izsiz-soraqs\u0131z silin\u0259c\u0259yini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259yin. Vicdan \u0259zab\u0131 sizi q\u0259fl\u0259t\u0259n yaxalaya bil\u0259r, amma i\u015f i\u015fd\u0259n ke\u00e7\u0259nd\u0259n sonra olunana \u00e7ar\u0259 yoxdur.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. G\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k u\u015fa\u011fa t\u0259siri<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Psixoterapiya praktikas\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, abortdan sonra do\u011fulan u\u015faqlar depressiv olur v\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131n s\u0259rt qanunlar\u0131na uy\u011funla\u015fa bilmirl\u0259r. Onlar sanki g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259n l\u0259zz\u0259t alma\u011f\u0131 bacarm\u0131r, layiq olduqlar\u0131n\u0131 hiss ed\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r. Bu da onlar\u0131n d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259l\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259n, valideynl\u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n imtina edil\u0259n \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015f bac\u0131 v\u0259 qarda\u015flar\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Nevrotik g\u00fcnah hissi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bu amil vicdan \u0259zab\u0131ndan onunla f\u0259rql\u0259nir ki, o, ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259tin m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Qad\u0131n sanki h\u0259kiml\u0259rin v\u0259 \u0259trafdak\u0131 insanlar\u0131n onun h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tini pisl\u0259diyini hiss edir. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 ham\u0131n\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00fcnahkar hiss edir.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f6zs\u00fcz ki, u\u015fa\u011fa h\u0259yat verib verm\u0259m\u0259k sizin q\u0259rar\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r, lakin unutmay\u0131n ki, bu c\u00fcr h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t sizin h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131zda \u0259b\u0259di iz qoyacaq. \u018fg\u0259r aborta c\u0259sar\u0259t edirsinizs\u0259, onda bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131zdak\u0131 parlaq r\u0259ngl\u0259ri itirm\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131r olun. \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, bel\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tin se\u00e7im qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda qalmamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fcxtlif qoryucu vasit\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n istifad\u0259 etm\u0259k h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131zda verdiyiniz \u0259n do\u011fru q\u0259rarlardan biri olard\u0131.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Aborta normal baxan v\u0259 onun \u0259leyhin\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xan insanlar \u00e7oxdan iki qrupa b\u00f6l\u00fcn\u00fcb. Bel\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck h\u0259yati m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin yax\u015f\u0131 v\u0259 ya pis olmas\u0131na h\u0259r bir qad\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fc q\u0259rar verir, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirib-g\u0259tirm\u0259m\u0259yi d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fc se\u00e7ir. Lakin abortun qad\u0131n\u0131n fiziki sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131na t\u0259siri dan\u0131lmazd\u0131r. ARANTV.AZ publika.az-a istinad\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, ekspert, psixoterapevt Tatyana Oqneva-Salvoni abortun qad\u0131n\u0131n psixologiyas\u0131nda da d\u0259rin izl\u0259r qoydu\u011funu bildirib. Onun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, bu c\u00fcr prosedur t\u0259sirsiz ke\u00e7\u0259 bilm\u0259z. Psixoterapevt abortun qad\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131na m\u0259nfi t\u0259sirl\u0259rini bel\u0259 izah edib. 1. C\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 t\u0259siri H\u0259tta abortun h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irilm\u0259sin\u0259 c\u00fctl\u00fck qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 q\u0259rar veribs\u0259, bu,&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":13945,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/19399426_1441017632625315_2521315664305500176_n-2.jpg",800,450,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/19399426_1441017632625315_2521315664305500176_n-2.jpg",800,450,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/19399426_1441017632625315_2521315664305500176_n-2.jpg",800,450,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/19399426_1441017632625315_2521315664305500176_n-2-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/19399426_1441017632625315_2521315664305500176_n-2-300x169.jpg",300,169,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/19399426_1441017632625315_2521315664305500176_n-2.jpg",640,360,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/19399426_1441017632625315_2521315664305500176_n-2.jpg",800,450,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/19399426_1441017632625315_2521315664305500176_n-2.jpg",800,450,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/19399426_1441017632625315_2521315664305500176_n-2-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/19399426_1441017632625315_2521315664305500176_n-2.jpg",800,450,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?cat=1\" rel=\"category\">C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Aborta normal baxan v\u0259 onun \u0259leyhin\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xan insanlar \u00e7oxdan iki qrupa b\u00f6l\u00fcn\u00fcb. 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