{"id":142543,"date":"2020-03-16T12:20:34","date_gmt":"2020-03-16T09:20:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=142543"},"modified":"2020-03-16T12:20:34","modified_gmt":"2020-03-16T09:20:34","slug":"qonaq-ozunu-nec%c9%99-aparmalidir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=142543","title":{"rendered":"Qonaq \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc nec\u0259 aparmal\u0131d\u0131r?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Qonaqla ba\u011fl\u0131 t\u00f6vsiy\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n birincisi bundan ibar\u0259tdir ki, m\u00f6min \u015f\u0259xs \u00f6z din qarda\u015f\u0131n\u0131n qonaql\u0131q d\u0259v\u0259tini q\u0259bul etm\u0259lidir. Onu evin\u0259 qonaq \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ran adam\u0131n d\u0259v\u0259tini r\u0259dd etm\u0259k yax\u015f\u0131 i\u015f say\u0131lm\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimiz buyurmu\u015fdur ki, \u00fcmm\u0259timd\u0259n \u015fahid v\u0259 qaib olanlara (y\u0259ni bu s\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc \u015f\u0259xs\u0259n m\u0259nd\u0259n e\u015fid\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259 v\u0259 e\u015fitm\u0259y\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259) t\u00f6vsiy\u0259m budur ki, m\u00fcs\u0259lman\u0131n d\u0259v\u0259tini q\u0259bul etsinl\u0259r \u2013 h\u0259tta bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn 5 mil m\u0259saf\u0259 getm\u0259k t\u0259l\u0259b edils\u0259 bel\u0259; \u00e7\u00fcnki bu \u0259m\u0259l dind\u0259n say\u0131l\u0131r. (Burada g\u00f6st\u0259ril\u0259n 5 mil m\u0259saf\u0259 haz\u0131rki \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fc il\u0259 8-10 km.-\u0259 uy\u011fundur).<\/p>\n<p>M\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259sl\u0259rimiz h\u0259m \u00f6zl\u0259ri qonaq ged\u0259r, h\u0259m d\u0259 h\u0259v\u0259sl\u0259 ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131 qonaq kimi q\u0259bul ed\u0259rdil\u0259r. \u0130mam H\u0259s\u0259n (\u0259) yolda onu s\u00fcfr\u0259 ba\u015f\u0131na d\u0259v\u0259t ed\u0259n bir ne\u00e7\u0259 adam\u0131n t\u0259klifini q\u0259bul etmi\u015f, onlar\u0131n kas\u0131byana s\u00fcfr\u0259sin\u0259 qat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, yey\u0259nd\u0259n sonra \u00f6z n\u00f6vb\u0259sind\u0259 h\u0259min adamlar\u0131 \u00f6z evin\u0259 qonaq \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rm\u0131\u015fd\u0131. \u0130mam Rzan\u0131n (\u0259) bu h\u0259disi d\u0259 deyil\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259 s\u00fcbutdur: \u201cS\u0259xav\u0259tli adam camaat\u0131n s\u00fcfr\u0259sind\u0259n yey\u0259r ki, onun da s\u00fcfr\u0259sind\u0259n yesinl\u0259r. Simic adam is\u0259 camaat\u0131n s\u00fcr\u0259sind\u0259n yem\u0259z ki, onun s\u00fcfr\u0259sind\u0259n d\u0259 he\u00e7 kim yem\u0259sin\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Qonaq ged\u0259n zaman riay\u0259t edilm\u0259si vacib olan b\u0259zi qaydalar vard\u0131r ki, h\u0259disl\u0259rd\u0259 bunlara i\u015far\u0259 edilmi\u015fdir. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, qona\u011f\u0131n getdiyi evd\u0259 yem\u0259k yem\u0259m\u0259si (\u0259g\u0259r bunu t\u0259l\u0259b ed\u0259n z\u0259rur\u0259t yoxdursa) \u0259d\u0259bsizlikdir. H\u0259zr\u0259t Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259r buyururdu ki, bir adam\u0131n d\u0259v\u0259t edildiyi yer\u0259 getm\u0259m\u0259si v\u0259 ya gets\u0259 d\u0259, orada yem\u0259m\u0259si (ev sahibin\u0259) haqs\u0131zl\u0131qd\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki s\u00fcfr\u0259 a\u00e7\u0131landa yem\u0259m\u0259k ya saymazyanal\u0131q, ya iyr\u0259nm\u0259k, ya da lov\u011fal\u0131q kimi q\u0259bul edil\u0259 bil\u0259r. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, \u0259g\u0259r qonaq toxdursa v\u0259 yem\u0259y\u0259 i\u015ftahas\u0131 yoxdursa, bunu n\u0259zak\u0259tl\u0259 bildirs\u0259 daha yax\u015f\u0131 olar.<\/p>\n<p>Qonaq, getdiyi evd\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc m\u0259d\u0259ni aparmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ev sahibinin icaz\u0259si olmadan h\u0259r yer\u0259 ba\u015f soxmaq, otaqlar\u0131 g\u0259zm\u0259k, ev \u0259\u015fyalar\u0131n\u0131 icaz\u0259siz g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcb baxmaq, ev m\u00fck\u0259ll\u0259fiyyat\u0131n\u0131n yerini d\u0259yi\u015fdirm\u0259k \u0259d\u0259bsizlikdir. \u0130mam M\u00fch\u0259mm\u0259d Baqir (\u0259) buyurub ki, qonaq g\u0259r\u0259k ev sahibinin g\u00f6st\u0259rdiyi yerd\u0259 otursun; \u00e7\u00fcnki ev sahibi \u00f6z evinin m\u0259hr\u0259m c\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259rini daha yax\u015f\u0131 bilir. Y\u0259ni ev sahibinin icaz\u0259si olmadan evin h\u0259r hans\u0131 gu\u015f\u0259sin\u0259 ba\u015f \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n adam qad\u0131nlar\u0131n oldu\u011fu ota\u011fa v\u0259 ya evin m\u0259hr\u0259m gu\u015f\u0259si say\u0131lan bir yer\u0259 soxulmu\u015f olar, bununla da ev \u0259hlinin rahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 pozar. H\u0259m\u00e7inin, ev sahibi qona\u011f\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n gu\u015f\u0259d\u0259 otuzdurark\u0259n, ola bil\u0259r ki, h\u0259min yerd\u0259n qap\u0131n\u0131n, h\u0259y\u0259tin v\u0259 ya o biri otaqlar\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259diyini n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 al\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Qonaq t\u0259qdim edil\u0259n yem\u0259y\u0259 a\u011f\u0131z b\u00fczm\u0259m\u0259li, h\u0259tta yem\u0259yi b\u0259y\u0259nm\u0259s\u0259 bel\u0259, bunu \u00fcz\u0259 vurmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Unutmayaq ki, ev sahibi qona\u011fa n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r ehtiram g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259y\u0259 borcludursa, qonaq da bir o q\u0259d\u0259r bu m\u00fcnasib\u0259t\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 ehtiramla cavab verm\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259zif\u0259lidir. Ev sahibind\u0259n x\u00fcsusi bir yem\u0259k t\u0259l\u0259b etm\u0259k, onu art\u0131q x\u0259rc\u0259 salmaq yolverilm\u0259zdir. R\u0259vay\u0259t edirl\u0259r ki, bir n\u0259f\u0259r \u0130mam \u018flini (\u0259) \u00f6z evin\u0259 qonaq \u00e7a\u011f\u0131randa o h\u0259zr\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7 \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259 buna raz\u0131 oldu\u011funu bildirmi\u015fdi: \u201cBirinci \u015f\u0259rtim budur ki, m\u0259nd\u0259n \u00f6tr\u00fc k\u0259nardan yem\u0259k almayasan. \u0130kincisi, evind\u0259 olan yem\u0259yi m\u0259nd\u0259n \u0259sirg\u0259m\u0259y\u0259s\u0259n. \u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc \u015f\u0259rtim d\u0259 budur ki, m\u0259nd\u0259n \u00f6tr\u00fc ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259rinin rahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 pozmayasan\u201d. H\u0259min adam bu \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259ri q\u0259bul ed\u0259nd\u0259n sonra \u0130mam onun qona\u011f\u0131 oldu.<\/p>\n<p>Qonaq getm\u0259zd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l ev sahibini bundan x\u0259b\u0259rdar etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r yaln\u0131z sizin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc qonaq \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131blarsa, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fczl\u0259 ba\u015fqa adam aparma\u011f\u0131n\u0131z d\u00fczg\u00fcn deyil; h\u0259tta apard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z adam sizin ail\u0259 \u00fczv\u00fcn\u00fcz olsa bel\u0259. \u0130slam Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259ri qonaq ged\u0259rk\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259rdarl\u0131q etm\u0259d\u0259n \u00f6z o\u011flunu da aparma\u011f\u0131 haram i\u015f adland\u0131r\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Q\u0259fil qonaq ged\u0259n adam h\u0259min yerd\u0259 isti qar\u015f\u0131lanmayaca\u011f\u0131na v\u0259 z\u0259ngin s\u00fcfr\u0259 il\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015fm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259 qabaqcada haz\u0131r olmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki o, ev sahibini q\u0259fil haqlam\u0131\u015f olur. Atalar s\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 deyildiyi kimi, \u201cq\u0259fil qonaq \u00f6z kis\u0259sind\u0259n yey\u0259r\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Qonaq ev sahibinin h\u00f6rm\u0259tind\u0259n sui-istifad\u0259 etm\u0259m\u0259li, getdiyi yerd\u0259 narahatl\u0131q yaradacaq q\u0259d\u0259r qalmamal\u0131d\u0131r. H\u0259disl\u0259rd\u0259 qonaq qalma\u011f\u0131n m\u00fcdd\u0259ti 2 v\u0259 ya 3 g\u00fcn g\u00f6st\u0259rilir. Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimizin bir h\u0259disind\u0259 buyurulur ki, qona\u011fa 2 gec\u0259-g\u00fcnd\u00fcz x\u00fcsusi ehtiram olunar. Bu g\u00fcnl\u0259r \u0259rzind\u0259 qona\u011f\u0131n xatirin\u0259 ail\u0259nin m\u0259tb\u0259xind\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259r edil\u0259r, x\u0259rc \u00e7\u0259kil\u0259r, ail\u0259nin rahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131na da x\u0259l\u0259l g\u0259l\u0259 bil\u0259r. \u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc g\u00fcn is\u0259 qonaq art\u0131q ev \u0259hlind\u0259n say\u0131lar v\u0259 ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259rinin yediyi yem\u0259kd\u0259n yey\u0259r. Ba\u015fqa bir h\u0259dis\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, ziyaf\u0259tin son h\u0259ddi \u00fc\u00e7 g\u00fcnd\u00fcr, bundan sonra veril\u0259n qonaql\u0131q ev sahibi t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n s\u0259d\u0259q\u0259 say\u0131lar; y\u0259ni bundan sonrak\u0131 m\u00fcdd\u0259td\u0259 qona\u011f\u0131 x\u00fcsusi olaraq \u0259zizl\u0259m\u0259k, ona \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l yem\u0259kl\u0259ri t\u0259qdim etm\u0259k vacib deyil. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, burada z\u0259ruri hallar istisna edilir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan a\u00e7\u0131q-a\u015fkarda g\u00fcnah ed\u0259n, fasiq (davaml\u0131 g\u00fcnahkar) adam\u0131n evin\u0259 qonaq getm\u0259kd\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kins\u0259 daha yax\u015f\u0131 olar. \u00c7\u00fcnki \u0259vv\u0259la, kiminl\u0259 durub-otursan, onun xasiyy\u0259tini g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259rs\u0259n. G\u00fcnahkarla \u00e7ox \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t quran adam\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn d\u0259 g\u00fcnaha s\u00fcr\u00fckl\u0259nm\u0259k ehtimal\u0131 artar. \u0130kincisi, fasiqin qazanc\u0131 ad\u0259t\u0259n haramdan olar, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 onun evind\u0259 yeyib-i\u00e7m\u0259k haram qida q\u0259bul etm\u0259k say\u0131lar. Haram m\u0259clisl\u0259r\u0259 qat\u0131lmaq, \u015f\u0259rab i\u00e7il\u0259n s\u00fcfr\u0259nin arxas\u0131nda \u0259yl\u0259\u015fm\u0259k m\u00f6min\u0259 yara\u015fan h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t deyil v\u0259 g\u00fcnahd\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>(M\u0259qal\u0259d\u0259 \u0259sas\u0259n \u201cMizan\u00fcl-hikm\u0259\u201d kitab\u0131ndak\u0131 h\u0259disl\u0259rd\u0259n istifad\u0259 edilmi\u015fdir).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Qonaqla ba\u011fl\u0131 t\u00f6vsiy\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n birincisi bundan ibar\u0259tdir ki, m\u00f6min \u015f\u0259xs \u00f6z din qarda\u015f\u0131n\u0131n qonaql\u0131q d\u0259v\u0259tini q\u0259bul etm\u0259lidir. Onu evin\u0259 qonaq \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ran adam\u0131n d\u0259v\u0259tini r\u0259dd etm\u0259k yax\u015f\u0131 i\u015f say\u0131lm\u0131r. Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimiz buyurmu\u015fdur ki, \u00fcmm\u0259timd\u0259n \u015fahid v\u0259 qaib olanlara (y\u0259ni bu s\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc \u015f\u0259xs\u0259n m\u0259nd\u0259n e\u015fid\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259 v\u0259 e\u015fitm\u0259y\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259) t\u00f6vsiy\u0259m budur ki, m\u00fcs\u0259lman\u0131n d\u0259v\u0259tini q\u0259bul etsinl\u0259r \u2013 h\u0259tta bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn 5 mil m\u0259saf\u0259 getm\u0259k t\u0259l\u0259b edils\u0259 bel\u0259; \u00e7\u00fcnki bu \u0259m\u0259l dind\u0259n say\u0131l\u0131r. (Burada g\u00f6st\u0259ril\u0259n 5 mil m\u0259saf\u0259 haz\u0131rki \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fc il\u0259 8-10 km.-\u0259 uy\u011fundur). M\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259sl\u0259rimiz h\u0259m \u00f6zl\u0259ri qonaq ged\u0259r, h\u0259m d\u0259 h\u0259v\u0259sl\u0259 ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131 qonaq kimi q\u0259bul ed\u0259rdil\u0259r.&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":142544,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/aa4b4d0e857780b3bff4a00e6e75e12c_M.jpg",300,199,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/aa4b4d0e857780b3bff4a00e6e75e12c_M.jpg",300,199,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/aa4b4d0e857780b3bff4a00e6e75e12c_M.jpg",300,199,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/aa4b4d0e857780b3bff4a00e6e75e12c_M-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/aa4b4d0e857780b3bff4a00e6e75e12c_M-300x199.jpg",300,199,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/aa4b4d0e857780b3bff4a00e6e75e12c_M.jpg",300,199,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/aa4b4d0e857780b3bff4a00e6e75e12c_M.jpg",300,199,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/aa4b4d0e857780b3bff4a00e6e75e12c_M.jpg",300,199,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/aa4b4d0e857780b3bff4a00e6e75e12c_M-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/aa4b4d0e857780b3bff4a00e6e75e12c_M.jpg",300,199,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?cat=1\" rel=\"category\">C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Qonaqla ba\u011fl\u0131 t\u00f6vsiy\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n birincisi bundan ibar\u0259tdir ki, m\u00f6min \u015f\u0259xs \u00f6z din qarda\u015f\u0131n\u0131n qonaql\u0131q d\u0259v\u0259tini q\u0259bul etm\u0259lidir. Onu evin\u0259 qonaq \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ran adam\u0131n d\u0259v\u0259tini r\u0259dd etm\u0259k yax\u015f\u0131 i\u015f say\u0131lm\u0131r. Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimiz buyurmu\u015fdur ki, \u00fcmm\u0259timd\u0259n \u015fahid v\u0259 qaib olanlara (y\u0259ni bu s\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc \u015f\u0259xs\u0259n m\u0259nd\u0259n e\u015fid\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259 v\u0259 e\u015fitm\u0259y\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259) t\u00f6vsiy\u0259m budur ki, m\u00fcs\u0259lman\u0131n d\u0259v\u0259tini q\u0259bul etsinl\u0259r \u2013 h\u0259tta bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn 5&hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/142543"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=142543"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/142543\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/142544"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=142543"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=142543"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=142543"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}