{"id":143765,"date":"2020-03-19T10:22:20","date_gmt":"2020-03-19T07:22:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=143765"},"modified":"2020-03-19T10:22:20","modified_gmt":"2020-03-19T07:22:20","slug":"qadini-nec%c9%99-xosb%c9%99xt-etm%c9%99k-olar-birinci-hiss%c9%99","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=143765","title":{"rendered":"Qad\u0131n\u0131 nec\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt etm\u0259k olar? (Birinci hiss\u0259)"},"content":{"rendered":"

M\u00fcs\u0259lman ki\u015fil\u0259rin bilm\u0259si laz\u0131md\u0131r<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ail\u0259 – insanlar\u0131n h\u00fczur, araml\u0131q, m\u0259n\u0259vi v\u0259 fiziki rahatl\u0131q i\u00e7ind\u0259 ya\u015faya bilm\u0259l\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn universal h\u0259yat modelidir. Bu h\u0259yat\u0131n ba\u015flan\u011f\u0131c\u0131 k\u0259bindir v\u0259 k\u0259bin sanki ail\u0259 quran \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r\u0259 Allah-t\u0259alan\u0131n xeyir-duas\u0131d\u0131r. Ail\u0259nin qorunmas\u0131 v\u0259 m\u00f6hk\u0259mliyi is\u0259 bilavasit\u0259 insanlar\u0131n, y\u0259ni ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259rinin \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. Allah\u0131n ay\u0259l\u0259rini, m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin t\u00f6vsiy\u0259l\u0259rini, sa\u011flam m\u0259ntiqin v\u0259 \u0259xlaq normalar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6st\u0259ri\u015fl\u0259rini izl\u0259y\u0259n \u015f\u0259xs h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n, \u00f6z ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 c\u0259nn\u0259t\u0259 \u00e7evir\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimiz ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t ed\u0259r\u0259k: \u201ch\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z Allah\u0131n siz\u0259 \u0259man\u0259tidir\u201d buyurmu\u015fdur. H\u0259r k\u0259s ona tap\u015f\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f \u0259man\u0259ti qorumaqda cavabdehdir v\u0259 \u0259man\u0259t sahibin\u0259 hesabat ver\u0259c\u0259kdir. Qad\u0131nlarla r\u0259ftar zaman\u0131 ki\u015fil\u0259r bu n\u00fcans\u0131 unutmamal\u0131d\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

Qad\u0131nlara xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik b\u0259x\u015f etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn b\u0259zi sad\u0259 \u0259xlaq v\u0259 davran\u0131\u015f qaydalar\u0131na riay\u0259t etm\u0259k kifay\u0259tdir. Ki\u015fi unutmamal\u0131d\u0131r ki, onun \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn d\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi, m\u0259n\u0259vi rahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131 qad\u0131n\u0131n m\u0259n\u0259vi \u0259hval-ruhiyy\u0259sind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. Qad\u0131n\u0131n naraz\u0131 v\u0259 \u0259s\u0259bi oldu\u011fu, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc b\u0259db\u0259xt hesab etdiyi bir ail\u0259d\u0259 ki\u015finin d\u0259 rahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131 pozulacaq. Eyni m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 d\u0259 ke\u00e7\u0259rlidir.<\/p>\n

A\u015fa\u011f\u0131da \u00f6z h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131na h\u0259qiqi xo\u015fb\u0259xtlk, inam v\u0259 sevgi b\u0259x\u015f etm\u0259k ist\u0259y\u0259n m\u00fcs\u0259lman ki\u015fil\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn b\u0259zi m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259r verilir. \u0130mkan dair\u0259sind\u0259 bunlara \u0259m\u0259l etm\u0259yi t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 edirik. Bu g\u00f6st\u0259ri\u015fl\u0259r\u0259 kimin hans\u0131 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 \u0259m\u0259l etm\u0259si \u0259slind\u0259 ail\u0259nin n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r xo\u015fb\u0259xt olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259ndir\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n

1. Ev\u0259 gir\u0259nd\u0259 m\u00fctl\u0259q salam verin, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u201cSalam \u0259leyk\u00fcm\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc il\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131lay\u0131n. Salamla\u015fmaq \u201csehirli\u201d x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259t\u0259 malikdir, ist\u0259r-ist\u0259m\u0259z insanda m\u00fcsb\u0259t \u0259hval-ruhiyy\u0259 yarad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

2. \u0130\u015fd\u0259n ev\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259rk\u0259n probleml\u0259rinizi d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fczl\u0259 ev\u0259 g\u0259tirm\u0259yin. \u0130\u015f\u0259 aid b\u00fct\u00fcn probleml\u0259ri, nec\u0259 dey\u0259rl\u0259r, evin qap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n a\u011fz\u0131nda qoyub i\u00e7\u0259ri girin.<\/p>\n

3. \u0130\u015fd\u0259n ev\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259rk\u0259n aqressiv olmay\u0131n. Qoy h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc sizin yan\u0131n\u0131zda t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259siz v\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259nlikd\u0259 hiss etsin.<\/p>\n

4. \u018fg\u0259r h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn sizin i\u015finiz maraql\u0131 deyils\u0259, onu zorla \u00f6z i\u015finiz bar\u0259d\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 dinl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur etm\u0259yin.<\/p>\n

5. Bunun \u0259ksin\u0259, onu maraqland\u0131ran m\u00f6vzularda s\u00f6hb\u0259t etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. H\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n maraq dair\u0259sin\u0259 uy\u011fun v\u0259 sizin d\u0259 t\u0259bi\u0259tiniz\u0259 zidd olmayan m\u00f6vzularda s\u00f6hb\u0259t edin. Onun z\u00f6vq\u00fcn\u0259 uy\u011fun olan mahn\u0131lar\u0131 birlikd\u0259 dinl\u0259yin, filml\u0259r\u0259 birlikd\u0259 bax\u0131n (\u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259, dinin icaz\u0259 verdiyi inc\u0259s\u0259n\u0259td\u0259n s\u00f6hb\u0259t gedir).<\/p>\n

6. H\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 dinl\u0259m\u0259yi bacar\u0131n, onun fikirl\u0259rin\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259tl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131n v\u0259 bunu ona hiss etdirin.<\/p>\n

7. Ail\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6z \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fczd\u0259n sui-istifad\u0259 etm\u0259yin. \u00c7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n ki, ail\u0259nin ba\u015f\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 oldu\u011funuzu siz \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz vur\u011fulamadan da duya bil\u0259siniz. He\u00e7 zaman i\u015fl\u0259yib ail\u0259y\u0259 pul g\u0259tirdiyinizi v\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 yedirib-i\u00e7irdiyinizi onun \u00fcz\u00fcn\u0259 vurmay\u0131n. Allah b\u0259z\u0259n bir \u015f\u0259xsin ruzisini ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n vasit\u0259sil\u0259 yetirir.<\/p>\n

8. H\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n da ail\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259m\u0259xsus yeri oldu\u011funu bildirm\u0259kd\u0259n utanmay\u0131n. Sizin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn v\u0259 \u00fcmumilikd\u0259 ail\u0259niz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onun \u0259v\u0259zedilm\u0259z oldu\u011funu diqq\u0259tin\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131r\u0131n.<\/p>\n

9. He\u00e7 kimin, h\u0259tta u\u015faqlar\u0131n da yan\u0131nda onu \u0259skiltm\u0259yin, t\u0259hqir etm\u0259yin, incitm\u0259yin. U\u015faqlar\u0131n \u00f6z analar\u0131na h\u00f6rm\u0259tsizlik etm\u0259sin\u0259 icaz\u0259 verm\u0259yin. T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edin ki, eyni hal sizin d\u0259 ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za g\u0259l\u0259 bil\u0259r. H\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131za h\u00f6rm\u0259t edin ki, o da siz\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t etsin v\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131 da siz\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t etm\u0259k ruhunda t\u0259rbiy\u0259l\u0259ndirsin.<\/p>\n

10. H\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 yara\u015f\u0131ql\u0131 v\u0259 s\u0259liq\u0259li g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n, \u0259tir vurun, sa\u00e7-saqqal\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 daray\u0131n, t\u0259miz geyinin. Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimiz v\u0259 imamlar\u0131m\u0131z, b\u00f6y\u00fck s\u0259hab\u0259l\u0259r, m\u0259\u015fhur aliml\u0259r h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 bu qaydaya \u0259m\u0259l etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131lar. Nec\u0259 ki, qad\u0131n \u00f6z \u0259rinin xo\u015funa g\u0259lm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131r, h\u0259m\u00e7inin, ki\u015fi d\u0259 \u00f6z arvad\u0131n\u0131n sevgisin\u0259 h\u0259d\u0259f olma\u011fa can atmal\u0131d\u0131r. S\u0259liq\u0259sizlik, pintilik h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 sizd\u0259n uzaqla\u015fd\u0131ra bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

11. H\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131zla dan\u0131\u015fark\u0259n s\u00f6zl\u0259rinizi v\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rinizi el\u0259 se\u00e7ib nizamlay\u0131n ki, onun q\u0259lbini incitm\u0259y\u0259siniz. B\u0259zi h\u0259disl\u0259r\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, qad\u0131n\u0131n q\u0259lbi b\u00fcllur qab kimidir; onu s\u0131nma\u011fa qoymay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

12. H\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131za m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t ver\u0259nd\u0259 d\u0259 bunu yum\u015faq formada v\u0259 m\u00fctl\u0259q t\u0259klikd\u0259 edin; problemi ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fczakir\u0259sin\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xarmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

13. Onunla m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259\u015fm\u0259kd\u0259n utanmay\u0131n. M\u00fczakir\u0259 zaman\u0131 \u00f6z fikrinizi onun fikrind\u0259n \u00fcst\u00fcn tutma\u011fa v\u0259 \u00f6z s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc dikt\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n. X\u00fcsusil\u0259, qad\u0131n\u0131 al\u00e7aldan, onunla m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259\u015fm\u0259yi qada\u011fan ed\u0259n \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259li h\u0259disl\u0259ri misal g\u0259tirm\u0259yin.<\/p>\n

14. H\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131za qar\u015f\u0131 s\u0259xav\u0259tli olun, simiclik etm\u0259yin. Bu, sizin ona d\u0259y\u0259r verdiyiniz\u0259 bir s\u00fcbutdur.<\/p>\n

15. \u018fs\u0259bil\u0259\u015f\u0259rk\u0259n q\u0259z\u0259binizi b\u00fcruza verm\u0259kd\u0259n bacard\u0131qca \u00e7\u0259kinin, hirsinizi qad\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 t\u00f6km\u0259yin. \u0130mkan verm\u0259yin ki, \u015feytan q\u0259z\u0259b vasit\u0259sil\u0259 siz\u0259 h\u00f6km etsin. Unutmay\u0131n ki, q\u0259z\u0259bli halda dediyiniz s\u00f6z\u0259 v\u0259 etdiyiniz h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 sonra pe\u015fman olacaqs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n

16. He\u00e7 zaman h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131za qar\u015f\u0131 q\u0259ddarl\u0131q v\u0259 amans\u0131zl\u0131q etm\u0259yin. H\u0259ddi a\u015fmay\u0131n, h\u0259ddi a\u015fanlar\u0131 Allah sevm\u0259z.<\/p>\n

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M\u00fcs\u0259lman ki\u015fil\u0259rin bilm\u0259si laz\u0131md\u0131r Ail\u0259 – insanlar\u0131n h\u00fczur, araml\u0131q, m\u0259n\u0259vi v\u0259 fiziki rahatl\u0131q i\u00e7ind\u0259 ya\u015faya bilm\u0259l\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn universal h\u0259yat modelidir. Bu h\u0259yat\u0131n ba\u015flan\u011f\u0131c\u0131 k\u0259bindir v\u0259 k\u0259bin sanki ail\u0259 quran \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r\u0259 Allah-t\u0259alan\u0131n xeyir-duas\u0131d\u0131r. Ail\u0259nin qorunmas\u0131 v\u0259 m\u00f6hk\u0259mliyi is\u0259 bilavasit\u0259 insanlar\u0131n, y\u0259ni ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259rinin \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. Allah\u0131n ay\u0259l\u0259rini, m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin t\u00f6vsiy\u0259l\u0259rini, sa\u011flam m\u0259ntiqin v\u0259 \u0259xlaq normalar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6st\u0259ri\u015fl\u0259rini izl\u0259y\u0259n \u015f\u0259xs h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n, \u00f6z ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 c\u0259nn\u0259t\u0259 \u00e7evir\u0259 bil\u0259r. Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimiz ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t ed\u0259r\u0259k: \u201ch\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z Allah\u0131n siz\u0259 \u0259man\u0259tidir\u201d buyurmu\u015fdur. H\u0259r k\u0259s ona tap\u015f\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f \u0259man\u0259ti qorumaqda cavabdehdir v\u0259 \u0259man\u0259t sahibin\u0259 hesabat ver\u0259c\u0259kdir. 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