{"id":14879,"date":"2018-09-22T09:37:37","date_gmt":"2018-09-22T06:37:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=14879"},"modified":"2018-09-22T09:37:37","modified_gmt":"2018-09-22T06:37:37","slug":"az%c9%99rbaycanda-g%c9%99ncl%c9%99r-niy%c9%99-gec-evl%c9%99nir-aciqlama-video","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=14879","title":{"rendered":"Az\u0259rbaycanda g\u0259ncl\u0259r niy\u0259 gec evl\u0259nir? – A\u00c7IQLAMA \u2013 V\u0130DEO"},"content":{"rendered":"
Gec evlilik: Kimisi bunu sosial problem kimi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirir, kimisi d\u0259 psixoloji bax\u0131mdan d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirir.<\/p>\n

ARANTV.AZ\u00a0<\/b>bildirir ki, ARB TV-nin “G\u00fcn\u0259 Do\u011fru” verili\u015find\u0259 son zamanlar Az\u0259rbaycanda gec ail\u0259 quranlar\u0131n say\u0131n\u0131n durmadan artmas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 maraql\u0131 reportaj yay\u0131mlan\u0131b.<\/p>\n

“Bu ya\u015f h\u0259ddi bizim c\u0259miyy\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn gec hesab olunur, amma, inki\u015faf etmi\u015f \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 bu normal ya\u015f h\u0259ddidir. \u0130nsanlar xo\u015fb\u0259xt olma\u011fa can at\u0131rlar. Bundan da ir\u0259li g\u0259lir ki, bir az gec evl\u0259nirl\u0259r”, – dey\u0259 psixoloq V\u0259fa \u018fkb\u0259r fikrini izah edib.<\/p>\n

Ail\u0259 quran g\u0259ncl\u0259rin ya\u015f h\u0259ddi 27-30-a q\u0259d\u0259r y\u00fcks\u0259lib. Ekspertl\u0259r evlilik ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131n\u0131 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 demoqrafik bax\u0131mdan \u00f6lk\u0259 \u0259halisinin say\u0131nda da t\u0259sir ed\u0259c\u0259yini deyirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

“\u0130\u015f elanlar\u0131nda bakalavr, b\u0259z\u0259n magistr t\u0259hsili ist\u0259yirl\u0259r. 26-27 ya\u015f\u0131na q\u0259d\u0259r g\u0259lib \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r, h\u0259l\u0259 o\u011flanlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn 1 il d\u0259 \u0259sg\u0259rlik. O\u011flanlar pe\u015f\u0259 sah\u0259sind\u0259 m\u00fcv\u0259ff\u0259q olsayd\u0131lar onlar tez evl\u0259n\u0259rdil\u0259r. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259r olsun ki, bizd\u0259 bu sah\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 probleml\u0259r var. H\u0259r qad\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 2 u\u015faq n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutulur, amma evlilik ya\u015f\u0131 yuxar\u0131 qalxd\u0131qca bu r\u0259q\u0259m d\u0259 art\u0131q sual alt\u0131na d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr”, – sosioloq Cavid \u0130mamo\u011flu bildirib.<\/p>\n

\u015e\u0259h\u0259r sakinl\u0259ri is\u0259 gec ail\u0259 qurma\u011f\u0131 sosial probleml\u0259rd\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcrl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Paytaxt sakini: “U\u015faqlar ist\u0259yir ki, h\u0259r bir \u015f\u0259raiti olsun, ondan sonra evl\u0259nsinl\u0259r ki, s\u00f6z-s\u00f6hb\u0259t olmas\u0131n”.<\/p>\n

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Paytaxt sakini: “M\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcm 31 ya\u015f\u0131nda ail\u0259 qurmu\u015fam. \u00d6z\u00fcm d\u0259 bundan raz\u0131yam”.
\nPaytaxt sakini: “Ev olmur, i\u015f olmur. G\u0259r\u0259k normal i\u015f olsun ki, ail\u0259ni doland\u0131ra bil\u0259s\u0259n”.<\/p>\n

Ekspertl\u0259r bel\u0259 hesab edirl\u0259r ki, gec evliliyin k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259 daha \u00e7ox maddi probleml\u0259r durur. \u018fg\u0259r sosial probleml\u0259r olmazsa, evlilikd\u0259 ya\u015f h\u0259ddi minimuma en\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

“Evlilik ya\u015f\u0131 29-a qalxmamal\u0131d\u0131r, iqtisadi v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n, i\u015fsizlikd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olmamal\u0131d\u0131r. H\u0259r bir k\u0259s sevdiyi \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259, ist\u0259nil\u0259n ya\u015fda ail\u0259 qura bil\u0259c\u0259k t\u0259f\u0259kk\u00fcr\u0259 sahibdir. Ail\u0259 planla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r”, – sosioloq Cavid \u0130mamo\u011flu qeyd edib.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ox zaman valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 evl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur edirl\u0259r. Bu is\u0259 n\u0259slin davam etm\u0259si ist\u0259yidir.<\/p>\n

“Sa\u011flam ail\u0259 olduqda, x\u0259yan\u0259t olmayanda, sa\u011flam t\u0259f\u0259kk\u00fcrl\u00fc \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t yeti\u015fdirdikd\u0259, o ail\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn vacib deyil ki 4-5 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 olsun. Onlar bunu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Bunu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259n insan varsa gec evl\u0259nir. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259y\u0259nl\u0259r is\u0259 tez-t\u0259l\u0259sik, h\u0259tta c\u0259miyy\u0259tin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259sini \u00f6n plana \u00e7\u0259kib evl\u0259nirl\u0259r”, – psixoloq V\u0259fa \u018fkb\u0259r fikrini yekunla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131b.<\/p>\n

\u018fg\u0259r h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131zda yax\u015f\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 oldu\u011funuz bir insan varsa v\u0259 maddi bax\u0131mdan \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc yax\u015f\u0131 hiss edirsizs\u0259, gecikm\u0259yin. \u018fks halda g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 probleml\u0259r ya\u015fana bil\u0259r. Unutmay\u0131n ki, evlilik sa\u011flam se\u00e7imdir. H\u0259r zaman sa\u011flam se\u00e7iml\u0259r dil\u0259yi il\u0259.<\/p>\n