D\u00fcnyadaki insanlar\u0131 xo\u015fb\u0259xt v\u0259 b\u0259db\u0259xt dey\u0259 iki kateqoriyaya ay\u0131rsaq, \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kdir.<\/p>\n
ARANTV.AZ<\/strong> bildirir ki, \u0259g\u0259r xo\u015fb\u0259xt deyiliks\u0259, ilk \u00f6nc\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmama\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rini bilm\u0259liyik. Daha sonra is\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259l\u0259ri etm\u0259miz laz\u0131m oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259liyik.<\/p>\n Xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmama\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rini bel\u0259 s\u0131ralaya bil\u0259rik:<\/strong><\/p>\n 1<\/strong>.<\/strong>\u00a0\u00d6z\u00fcn\u0259qapanmaqd\u0131r. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00fcnahkar sayanlar, bir n\u00f6qt\u0259y\u0259 ili\u015fib qalanlar, megalomanyaklar (\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc h\u0259r k\u0259sd\u0259n \u00fcst\u00fcn g\u00f6r\u0259n v\u0259 h\u0259r zaman \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6n plana \u00e7\u0131xartmaq ist\u0259y\u0259n insand\u0131r). Bunlar\u0131n xo\u015fb\u0259xtliy\u0259 qovu\u015fmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259k yolu var. O da \u0259traf al\u0259m il\u0259 maraqlanmaqd\u0131r.<\/p>\n 2<\/strong>.\u00a0<\/strong>H\u0259r \u015feyi \u00f6yr\u0259nib bitirmi\u015f v\u0259 art\u0131q d\u00fcnyada ya\u015fama\u011fa d\u0259y\u0259r, he\u00e7 bir \u015feyi qalmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259l\u0259ridir. Bunlar\u0131nda \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu i\u00e7in\u0259 qapananlar kimi xarici d\u00fcnyaya a\u00e7\u0131lmaqd\u0131r. Bel\u0259 insanlar\u0131n bu c\u00fcr d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b ist\u0259dikl\u0259rini \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259km\u0259d\u0259n asan yolla \u0259ld\u0259 ed\u0259 bilm\u0259l\u0259ridir.<\/p>\n 3<\/strong>.<\/strong>\u00a0\u0130nsanlararas\u0131 r\u0259qab\u0259tdir. Kiml\u0259rs\u0259 buna ya\u015famaq m\u00fcbariz\u0259si ad\u0131n\u0131 verir. \u018fslind\u0259 is\u0259, ya\u015famaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn deyil, qon\u015fular\u0131ndan daha \u00fcst\u00fcn bir h\u0259yata \u00e7atmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fcbariz\u0259dir. R\u0259qab\u0259t x\u0259st\u0259liyinin aradan qald\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 sakit h\u0259yat t\u0259rzini q\u0259bul etm\u0259kl\u0259 m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. \u0130nsan qon\u015fusuna ac\u0131q verm\u0259kl\u0259 deyil, sabahki yem\u0259yini tapa bilm\u0259kl\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n 4<\/strong>.<\/strong>\u00a0H\u0259y\u0259can ist\u0259yi v\u0259 cans\u0131x\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 da xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmama\u011f\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259ndir. Lakin insanlar anlamal\u0131rd\u0131rlar ki, bir s\u0131ra yax\u015f\u0131 \u015feyl\u0259r var ki, m\u00f6vcud d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 monotonluq olmadan m\u00fcmk\u00fcm deyildir.<\/p>\n 5<\/strong>.<\/strong>\u00a0G\u00fcnah hissi. G\u00fcnah qorxusunda insan\u0131n \u00f6z-\u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t n\u00f6qsanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 var. Bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bir insan m\u0259ntiq\u0259 uy\u011fun olaraq n\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 inanaca\u011f\u0131na yax\u015f\u0131ca q\u0259rarla\u015fd\u0131rmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n Xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmama s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259n sonra, nec\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt olar\u0131q sual\u0131na g\u0259linc\u0259 a\u015fa\u011fdak\u0131lara n\u0259z\u0259r yetirm\u0259liyik:<\/strong><\/p>\n – Xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyin \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259n biri h\u0259v\u0259s v\u0259 xo\u015flama duy\u011fusudur. D\u00fcnyada h\u0259r biriyl\u0259, ayr\u0131-ayr\u0131 maraqlanma\u011fa \u00f6mr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn yet\u0259c\u0259yi q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox \u015fey vard\u0131r. Bu q\u0259d\u0259r bol v\u0259 \u00e7e\u015fidli m\u00f6vz\u00fclar qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda i\u00e7iniz\u0259 qapan\u0131b, s\u0131x\u0131nt\u0131dan partlamaq insanlar\u0131n acizliyind\u0259n ir\u0259li g\u0259lir.<\/p>\n – Xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyin \u0259sas qaynaqlar\u0131ndan biri d\u0259 sevgidir. G\u00fcv\u0259n hissini yaradan qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 olaraq sevm\u0259k v\u0259 sevilm\u0259kdir. H\u0259yat\u0131 g\u00fcv\u0259nl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131layanlar, g\u00fcv\u0259nsizlikl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131layanlardan daha \u00e7ox xo\u015fb\u0259xtdirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n – Xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyin b\u00f6y\u00fck m\u0259nb\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259n ba\u015fqas\u0131 da ail\u0259dir. Ana atalar\u0131n\u0131n bir-biril\u0259rini, u\u015faqlar\u0131nda ana atalar\u0131n\u0131, ana-atalar\u0131n\u0131n u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 sevm\u0259si g\u00fccl\u00fc bir xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik yaradar.<\/p>\n – Xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259n biri d\u0259 i\u015fdir. \u0130\u015f kimil\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bezdirici olsa bel\u0259, bekarl\u0131q \u0259n s\u0131x\u0131c\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaqdan bet\u0259rdir. Nec\u0259 olursa olsun, bir \u015fey etm\u0259k v\u0259 qabiliyy\u0259tini g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k insan\u0131 xo\u015fb\u0259xt ed\u0259r.<\/p>\n \u018fn \u0259sas da insan o zaman xo\u015fb\u0259xt olar ki, onun ist\u0259diyi v\u0259 \u0259ld\u0259 etdiyi aras\u0131nda daim bir tarazl\u0131q olsun.<\/p>\n Reyhan Mirza\u011fayeva<\/p>\n Psixologiya v\u0259 Konsultasiya M\u0259rk\u0259zinin psixoloqu<\/p>\n pcc.az<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" D\u00fcnyadaki insanlar\u0131 xo\u015fb\u0259xt v\u0259 b\u0259db\u0259xt dey\u0259 iki kateqoriyaya ay\u0131rsaq, \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kdir. ARANTV.AZ bildirir ki, \u0259g\u0259r xo\u015fb\u0259xt deyiliks\u0259, ilk \u00f6nc\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmama\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rini bilm\u0259liyik. Daha sonra is\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259l\u0259ri etm\u0259miz laz\u0131m oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259liyik. Xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmama\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rini bel\u0259 s\u0131ralaya bil\u0259rik: 1.\u00a0\u00d6z\u00fcn\u0259qapanmaqd\u0131r. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00fcnahkar sayanlar, bir n\u00f6qt\u0259y\u0259 ili\u015fib qalanlar, megalomanyaklar (\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc h\u0259r k\u0259sd\u0259n \u00fcst\u00fcn g\u00f6r\u0259n v\u0259 h\u0259r zaman \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6n plana \u00e7\u0131xartmaq ist\u0259y\u0259n insand\u0131r). Bunlar\u0131n xo\u015fb\u0259xtliy\u0259 qovu\u015fmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259k yolu var. O da \u0259traf al\u0259m il\u0259 maraqlanmaqd\u0131r. 2.\u00a0H\u0259r \u015feyi \u00f6yr\u0259nib bitirmi\u015f v\u0259 art\u0131q d\u00fcnyada ya\u015fama\u011fa d\u0259y\u0259r, he\u00e7 bir \u015feyi…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":17487,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/xosbaxtinsan.jpg",500,350,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/xosbaxtinsan.jpg",500,350,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/xosbaxtinsan.jpg",500,350,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/xosbaxtinsan-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/xosbaxtinsan-300x210.jpg",300,210,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/xosbaxtinsan.jpg",500,350,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/xosbaxtinsan.jpg",500,350,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/xosbaxtinsan.jpg",500,350,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/xosbaxtinsan-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/xosbaxtinsan.jpg",500,350,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"Manset<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"D\u00fcnyadaki insanlar\u0131 xo\u015fb\u0259xt v\u0259 b\u0259db\u0259xt dey\u0259 iki kateqoriyaya ay\u0131rsaq, \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kdir. 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