{"id":175980,"date":"2020-06-05T11:17:11","date_gmt":"2020-06-05T08:17:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=175980"},"modified":"2020-06-05T11:17:11","modified_gmt":"2020-06-05T08:17:11","slug":"usagin-ustun%c9%99-qisqirmayin-yoxsa-f%c9%99sadlari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=175980","title":{"rendered":"U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 q\u0131\u015fq\u0131rmay\u0131n, yoxsa… – F\u018fSADLARI"},"content":{"rendered":"

H\u0259r bir ail\u0259nin u\u015faq b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259 v\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259l\u0259ndirm\u0259 \u00fcsulu f\u0259rqlidir.<\/p>\n

\u018fg\u0259r valideyn h\u0259dd\u0259n \u00e7ox m\u00fclayimdirs\u0259, o zaman u\u015faq \u0259rk\u00f6y\u00fcn b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcr. \u00c7ox s\u0259rt valideyn olmaq da xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z sonlarla n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

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ARANTV.AZ\u00a0<\/b>u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 q\u0131\u015fq\u0131rma\u011f\u0131n n\u0259 kimi f\u0259sadlar yarada bil\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259 dair m\u0259lumatlar\u0131 t\u0259qdim edir.<\/p>\n

Q\u0131\u015fq\u0131ran valideyn u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 qorxudur<\/strong><\/p>\n

H\u0259r bir valideyn u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259ri ilk \u00f6z\u00fc bilm\u0259k ist\u0259yir. Bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onunla daha yax\u0131n dostluq etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Amma \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz d\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn – qorxdu\u011funuz biri il\u0259 dostluq ed\u0259rsinizmi? Bel\u0259 olan halda u\u015faq b\u00fct\u00fcn b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rd\u0259n qorxma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bunu nec\u0259 h\u0259ll ed\u0259k?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Unutmay\u0131n ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n da h\u00fcquqlar\u0131 var.<\/p>\n

H\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 fikrini bildirm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ona imkan yarad\u0131n.<\/p>\n

Onunla \u00fcnsiyy\u0259td\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 h\u0259ms\u00f6hb\u0259t obraz\u0131 yarad\u0131n, h\u00fccum ed\u0259n biri yox.<\/p>\n

Q\u0131\u015fq\u0131rmaq m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259ki g\u00fcv\u0259nin sars\u0131lmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r deyir ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 q\u0131\u015fq\u0131rmaq ona qar\u015f\u0131 edil\u0259n fiziki zorak\u0131l\u0131qla eyni say\u0131l\u0131r. Onun \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 q\u0131\u015fq\u0131randa u\u015faq \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 qapanacaq v\u0259 valideynl\u0259ri il\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tind\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259n yox olacaq.<\/p>\n

B\u0259s nec\u0259 ed\u0259k?<\/strong><\/p>\n

U\u015fa\u011fa da sizinl\u0259 b\u0259rab\u0259rh\u00fcquqlu biri kimi yana\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n

Ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259 ki\u00e7ik yumorla reaksiya verin.<\/p>\n

H\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 n\u0259yi sevdiyi v\u0259 n\u0259 il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful oldu\u011fu il\u0259 maraqlan\u0131n.<\/p>\n

U\u015faq art\u0131q \u00e7\u0259kid\u0259n \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259k\u0259c\u0259k<\/strong><\/p>\n

Stress m\u00fcnasib\u0259tin m\u0259nfisidir v\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa t\u0259sirsiz \u00f6t\u00fc\u015fm\u00fcr. M\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r deyir ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 incid\u0259nd\u0259, ya ona stress ya\u015fadanda onda hormonal d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259r ba\u015f verir, b\u0259d\u0259nd\u0259 iltihab prosesl\u0259ri ba\u015flay\u0131r.<\/p>\n

B\u0259s n\u0259 etm\u0259li?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Davran\u0131\u015f v\u0259 emosiyalar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 idar\u0259 etm\u0259yi bacar\u0131n.<\/p>\n

\u015e\u0259xsi probleml\u0259rinizi u\u015faqla m\u00fcnasib\u0259t\u0259 da\u015f\u0131may\u0131n.<\/p>\n

Onu h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 \u0259zizl\u0259yin v\u0259 sevdiyinizi deyin.<\/p>\n

U\u015faqda pis xarakter formala\u015f\u0131r<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u018fg\u0259r u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 q\u0131\u015fq\u0131r\u0131b, s\u0259sinizi qald\u0131r\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131zsa, m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n zaman sonra da o, el\u0259 cavab qaytaracaq. \u0130sterika \u00e7\u0131xara bil\u0259r. U\u015faqlar\u0131n i\u00e7ind\u0259ki bu alov onlara qar\u015f\u0131 y\u00f6n\u0259lmi\u015f qada\u011falar v\u0259 pis davran\u0131\u015fla \u0259laq\u0259lidir. H\u0259m d\u0259 bu u\u015faqlar depressiyaya meylli olurlar.<\/p>\n

Nec\u0259 etm\u0259li?<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 al\u0131n ki, siz h\u0259r i\u015fd\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131za bir n\u00fcmun\u0259siniz.<\/p>\n

Ciddi olun, ancaq \u0259dal\u0259tli davranma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n

Ona \u00e7ox diqq\u0259t ay\u0131r\u0131n.<\/p>\n

U\u015faq g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 miqrend\u0259n \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259k\u0259c\u0259k<\/strong><\/p>\n

U\u015faq vaxt\u0131 \u00e7ox d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u00fcb, t\u0259hqir edil\u0259n, incidil\u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259r xroniki miqrend\u0259n \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kirl\u0259r. Bu c\u00fcr u\u015faq kompleksl\u0259ri, h\u0259tta intihara da g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xara bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Nec\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259rsiniz?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Arqument v\u0259 narahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 sakit \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131r\u0131n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

D\u00fczg\u00fcn izah etm\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 s\u0259hvl\u0259rinizi etiraf etm\u0259yi \u00f6yr\u0259nin.<\/p>\n

Dinl\u0259m\u0259yi v\u0259 e\u015fitm\u0259yi bacar\u0131n.<\/p>\n

U\u015fa\u011f\u0131 xo\u015fb\u0259xt v\u0259 sa\u011flam b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 q\u0131\u015fq\u0131rmaq olmaz.\u00a0H\u0259r \u015fey\u0259\u00a0sevgi v\u0259 s\u0259br g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259kl\u0259 nail olmaq olar.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

H\u0259r bir ail\u0259nin u\u015faq b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259 v\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259l\u0259ndirm\u0259 \u00fcsulu f\u0259rqlidir. \u018fg\u0259r valideyn h\u0259dd\u0259n \u00e7ox m\u00fclayimdirs\u0259, o zaman u\u015faq \u0259rk\u00f6y\u00fcn b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcr. \u00c7ox s\u0259rt valideyn olmaq da xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z sonlarla n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259r. ARANTV.AZ\u00a0u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 q\u0131\u015fq\u0131rma\u011f\u0131n n\u0259 kimi f\u0259sadlar yarada bil\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259 dair m\u0259lumatlar\u0131 t\u0259qdim edir. Q\u0131\u015fq\u0131ran valideyn u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 qorxudur H\u0259r bir valideyn u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259ri ilk \u00f6z\u00fc bilm\u0259k ist\u0259yir. Bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onunla daha yax\u0131n dostluq etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Amma \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz d\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn – qorxdu\u011funuz biri il\u0259 dostluq ed\u0259rsinizmi? Bel\u0259 olan halda u\u015faq b\u00fct\u00fcn b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rd\u0259n qorxma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r. Bunu nec\u0259 h\u0259ll ed\u0259k? Unutmay\u0131n ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n da h\u00fcquqlar\u0131…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":175981,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/usaga_qisqirmaq.jpg",530,360,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/usaga_qisqirmaq.jpg",530,360,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/usaga_qisqirmaq.jpg",530,360,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/usaga_qisqirmaq-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/usaga_qisqirmaq-300x204.jpg",300,204,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/usaga_qisqirmaq.jpg",530,360,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/usaga_qisqirmaq.jpg",530,360,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/usaga_qisqirmaq.jpg",530,360,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/usaga_qisqirmaq-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/usaga_qisqirmaq.jpg",530,360,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"Sosial<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"H\u0259r bir ail\u0259nin u\u015faq b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259 v\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259l\u0259ndirm\u0259 \u00fcsulu f\u0259rqlidir. \u018fg\u0259r valideyn h\u0259dd\u0259n \u00e7ox m\u00fclayimdirs\u0259, o zaman u\u015faq \u0259rk\u00f6y\u00fcn b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcr. \u00c7ox s\u0259rt valideyn olmaq da xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z sonlarla n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259r. ARANTV.AZ\u00a0u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 q\u0131\u015fq\u0131rma\u011f\u0131n n\u0259 kimi f\u0259sadlar yarada bil\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259 dair m\u0259lumatlar\u0131 t\u0259qdim edir. Q\u0131\u015fq\u0131ran valideyn u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 qorxudur H\u0259r bir valideyn u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259ri ilk \u00f6z\u00fc bilm\u0259k ist\u0259yir.…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/175980"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=175980"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/175980\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/175981"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=175980"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=175980"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=175980"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}