\u0130st\u0259nil\u0259n m\u00fcnasib\u0259t m\u0259suliyy\u0259t dem\u0259kdir. H\u0259r k\u0259s d\u0259 bu m\u0259suliyy\u0259ti da\u015f\u0131maq iqtidar\u0131nda olmur.<\/p>\n
T\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r evliliyin ilk 3 ilini daha \u00e7ox yeni m\u00fchit\u0259 \u2013 ail\u0259 m\u00fchitin\u0259 uy\u011funla\u015fma kimi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirm\u0259li, qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259rini tan\u0131ma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131, g\u00f6zl\u0259dikl\u0259rinin n\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n ibar\u0259t oldu\u011funa diqq\u0259t etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
Adaptasiyan\u0131 do\u011fru formada ke\u00e7\u0259n ail\u0259l\u0259r zaman ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 daha dayan\u0131ql\u0131 ail\u0259 modelin\u0259 \u00e7evrilirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
\u00d6nc\u0259 onu diqq\u0259tiniz\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131raq ki, h\u0259r bir f\u0259rd ail\u0259 qurmam\u0131\u015fdan \u0259vv\u0259l \u2013 ail\u0259 psixologiyas\u0131nda buna Monada \u201cmono \u2013 t\u0259k dem\u0259kdi\u201d \u2013 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn f\u0259rdi ya\u015fam t\u0259rzin\u0259 malik olur. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc qism\u0259n d\u0259 olsa, bu sistemin i\u00e7ind\u0259 rahat hiss edir. Diqq\u0259t ets\u0259niz, b\u0259z\u0259n ail\u0259 quran c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r bunu valideynl\u0259rin yaxud da \u0259traf\u0131n diqt\u0259si il\u0259 h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irdikl\u0259rini iddia edirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
Dedikl\u0259rind\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 h\u0259qiq\u0259tin pay\u0131 var. \u00c7\u00fcnki, ist\u0259nil\u0259n m\u00fcnasib\u0259t m\u0259suliyy\u0259t dem\u0259kdir. H\u0259r k\u0259s d\u0259 bu m\u0259suliyy\u0259ti da\u015f\u0131maq iqtidar\u0131nda olmur. S\u0131\u011fortalanmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131 olaraq bu kimi m\u0259qamlar\u0131 da ortaya at\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n
Statistika g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r aras\u0131nda m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin ilkin m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 probem\u0259 o d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 d\u0259 rast g\u0259linmir. S\u0259b\u0259b bir-birini tan\u0131maq, qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn daha \u00e7ox m\u00fcsb\u0259t keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259rini g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k ist\u0259yidir. Ancaq h\u0259r bir insan bu v\u0259 ya dig\u0259r d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmayan hans\u0131sa x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 malikdir. Zaman ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 art\u0131q bu \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmayan x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259r m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 \u00f6z m\u0259nfi t\u0259sirini g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r. Bu hal x\u00fcsus\u0259n ilkin evlilik m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259sind\u0259 ba\u015f verir. S\u0259b\u0259b d\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rin vaxt\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ox hiss\u0259sini bir yerd\u0259 ke\u00e7irm\u0259l\u0259ri, m\u0259nfi x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri \u015f\u0259xsil\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259l\u0259ri olur. T\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r bunu \u015f\u0259xsin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 y\u00f6n\u0259ldiyi q\u0259na\u0259tin\u0259 g\u0259lir.<\/p>\n
N\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 almaq laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, bu xarakterd\u0259n qaynaqlanan bir m\u0259qamd\u0131r v\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlara qar\u015f\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc b\u00fcruz\u0259 verir. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r buna anlay\u0131\u015f g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259li, d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259kd\u0259n daha \u00e7ox uy\u011funla\u015fma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Misal \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, o\u011flan v\u0259 ya q\u0131z\u0131n ata evin\u0259 h\u0259ddind\u0259n \u00e7ox ba\u011fl\u0131 olmalar\u0131. Bu hala anlay\u0131\u015f g\u00f6st\u0259rilm\u0259li, t\u0259dric\u0259n bunun h\u0259lli ist\u0259qam\u0259tind\u0259 add\u0131mlar at\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ad\u0259t\u0259n t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r bunu tez bir zamanda h\u0259ll etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. N\u0259tic\u0259 ala bilm\u0259dikd\u0259 is\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r soyuma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r, sonda is\u0259 ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011fa da g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r evliliyin ilk 3 ilini daha \u00e7ox yeni m\u00fchit\u0259 \u2013 ail\u0259 m\u00fchitin\u0259 uy\u011funla\u015fma kimi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirm\u0259li, qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259rini tan\u0131ma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131, g\u00f6zl\u0259dikl\u0259rinin n\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n ibar\u0259t oldu\u011funa diqq\u0259t etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Statistika g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, bu d\u00f6n\u0259md\u0259 adaptasiyan\u0131 do\u011fru formada ke\u00e7\u0259n ail\u0259l\u0259r zaman ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 daha dayan\u0131ql\u0131 ail\u0259 modelin\u0259 \u00e7evrilirl\u0259r. Yeni ail\u0259 qurub bo\u015fanan c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r is\u0259 zaman ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 hans\u0131 m\u0259qamlar\u0131 do\u011fru ke\u00e7m\u0259dikl\u0259rini anlay\u0131r, ancaq bu, he\u00e7 d\u0259 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 ail\u0259nin yenid\u0259n birl\u0259\u015fm\u0259si il\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259nmir. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 bel\u0259 hallarda t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r problemi subyektiv d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirm\u0259kd\u0259n daha \u00e7ox m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssis d\u0259st\u0259yi il\u0259 h\u0259ll etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verm\u0259lidirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
Diqq\u0259t t\u0259l\u0259b ed\u0259n ba\u015fqa bir m\u0259qam, ail\u0259 quran t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rin f\u0259rdi psixoloji x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259rinin n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 al\u0131nmas\u0131d\u0131r. B\u0259z\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259lki sevgi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tind\u0259 hans\u0131sa travmatik olay ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f g\u0259nc zaman ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 onu yeni m\u00fcnasib\u0259tin\u0259 d\u0259 k\u00f6\u00e7\u00fcrm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r. \u015e\u00fcbh\u0259siz, proses onun ist\u0259yind\u0259n k\u0259nar, \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131 olaraq ba\u015f verir. Bu da sonda m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin pozulmas\u0131na, ail\u0259nin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131na, ail\u0259daxili m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. Bel\u0259 halda yax\u015f\u0131 olard\u0131 ki, f\u0259rd psixoloji travman\u0131n h\u0259llind\u0259n sonra m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qurma\u011f\u0131 q\u0259rara als\u0131n. \u00c7\u00fcnki, bundan sonra qurulan m\u00fcnasib\u0259t daha dayan\u0131ql\u0131 olur v\u0259 sa\u011flam t\u0259m\u0259l \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 formala\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Ail\u0259 qurub xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmaq h\u0259r birimizin arzusudur. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck arzumuzdur. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 burada t\u0259kc\u0259 sevgi deyil, m\u0259ntiqi yana\u015fma da t\u0259l\u0259b olunur.<\/p>\n
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Adaptasiyan\u0131 do\u011fru formada ke\u00e7\u0259n ail\u0259l\u0259r zaman ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 daha dayan\u0131ql\u0131 ail\u0259 modelin\u0259 \u00e7evrilirl\u0259r. \u00d6nc\u0259 onu diqq\u0259tiniz\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131raq ki, h\u0259r bir f\u0259rd ail\u0259 qurmam\u0131\u015fdan \u0259vv\u0259l \u2013 ail\u0259 psixologiyas\u0131nda buna Monada \u201cmono \u2013 t\u0259k dem\u0259kdi\u201d \u2013 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn f\u0259rdi ya\u015fam t\u0259rzin\u0259 malik olur. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc qism\u0259n d\u0259 olsa, bu sistemin i\u00e7ind\u0259 rahat hiss edir. 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H\u0259r k\u0259s d\u0259 bu m\u0259suliyy\u0259ti da\u015f\u0131maq iqtidar\u0131nda olmur. T\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r evliliyin ilk 3 ilini daha \u00e7ox yeni m\u00fchit\u0259 \u2013 ail\u0259 m\u00fchitin\u0259 uy\u011funla\u015fma kimi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirm\u0259li, qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259rini tan\u0131ma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131, g\u00f6zl\u0259dikl\u0259rinin n\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n ibar\u0259t oldu\u011funa diqq\u0259t etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Adaptasiyan\u0131 do\u011fru formada ke\u00e7\u0259n ail\u0259l\u0259r zaman ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 daha dayan\u0131ql\u0131 ail\u0259 modelin\u0259 \u00e7evrilirl\u0259r. \u00d6nc\u0259 onu diqq\u0259tiniz\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131raq…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/180714"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=180714"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/180714\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/180715"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=180714"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=180714"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=180714"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}