{"id":1928,"date":"2018-07-28T09:43:03","date_gmt":"2018-07-28T06:43:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=1928"},"modified":"2018-07-28T09:43:03","modified_gmt":"2018-07-28T06:43:03","slug":"qizlar-m%c9%99n-sizd%c9%99n-qorxuram","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=1928","title":{"rendered":"Q\u0131zlar, m\u0259n sizd\u0259n qorxuram"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Son d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259 m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l olmaq\u00bb &#8211; s\u0259nin h\u0259yat devizindir. El\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u0259n ki, h\u0259yat\u0131nda h\u0259r \u015fey yolunda gedir. M\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259riniz h\u0259r bir insan\u0131n h\u0259s\u0259d aparaca\u011f\u0131 q\u0259d\u0259r g\u00f6z\u0259ldir. S\u0259n he\u00e7 vaxt aza qane olmursan, ham\u0131dan yax\u015f\u0131 ya\u015fama\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rsan: yax\u015f\u0131, a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131, mehriban, varl\u0131, u\u011furlu, m\u0259\u015fhur v\u0259 \u0259n \u0259sas\u0131 g\u00fccl\u00fc. Amma m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rinizin bu q\u0259d\u0259r ideal davam etm\u0259sin\u0259 baxmayaraq, onu qane etm\u0259y\u0259n n\u0259s\u0259 var. Sevgilin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r g\u00fccl\u00fc g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsa da, qorxur. G\u00fclm\u0259lidir? \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, ki\u015fil\u0259rin d\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 qorxdu\u011fu hallar \u00e7oxdur. G\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n, o n\u0259d\u0259n qorxur?<\/p>\n<p><\/strong><\/p>\n<div id=\"AdributorNativeVideo0\" class=\"AdributorNativeVideo\"><\/div>\n<p><strong>ARANTV.AZ<\/strong> ax\u015fam.az-a istinad\u0259n ki\u015fil\u0259rin m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 n\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n qorxdu\u011funu t\u0259qdim edir:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ki\u015fil\u0259rin 40%-i qorxur\u2026<br \/>\n\u2026 sevdikl\u0259ri insan\u0131n aktiv v\u0259 r\u0259ngar\u0259ng r\u0259fiq\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259n, onlar\u0131n nizams\u0131z \u015f\u0259xsi h\u0259yatlar\u0131ndan<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Siz uzun ill\u0259rdir ki, tan\u0131\u015fs\u0131n\u0131z. Art\u0131q bir m\u00fcdd\u0259tdir ki, evl\u0259nmisiniz, eyni evd\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131rs\u0131z. Son vaxtlar r\u0259fiq\u0259l\u0259rin s\u0259ni daha \u00e7ox axtarma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r. H\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 subay olan r\u0259fiq\u0259l\u0259rinin s\u0259rb\u0259st, \u0259yl\u0259nc\u0259li h\u0259yat\u0131 var. H\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 onlar s\u0259n\u0259 z\u0259ng edib, g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k ist\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259, yolda\u015f\u0131n icaz\u0259 vermir. H\u0259tta h\u0259min vaxt ikiniz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ba\u015fqa plan\u0131 oldu\u011funu deyib, s\u0259ni g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u0259n yay\u0131nd\u0131rma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. H\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 soru\u015fanda is\u0259 \u00abBu h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rimin s\u0259b\u0259bi s\u0259n\u0259 inanmama\u011f\u0131m deyil. R\u0259fiq\u0259n subayd\u0131r, k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259d\u0259 ona ba\u015fqa o\u011flan yax\u0131nla\u015fa bil\u0259r. H\u0259min an s\u0259nin d\u0259 orada olma\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259mir\u0259m\u00bb deyib, k\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc alma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<br \/>\n<strong>Q\u0259rar:<\/strong>\u00a0Maraql\u0131 da olsa, d\u00fcnyada ki\u015fil\u0259rin 40 faizi bu qorxu i\u00e7\u0259risind\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131rlar. C\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti bu probleml\u0259 \u00fcz-\u00fcz\u0259dir: he\u00e7 kim bilmir ki, \u00abk\u00fc\u00e7\u0259d\u0259 s\u0259rb\u0259st g\u0259z\u0259n pi\u015fik\u00bb n\u0259y\u0259 qadirdir. O, azadd\u0131r, ist\u0259diyi o\u011flanla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u0259 bil\u0259r, kompleksizdir. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131na v\u0259 evin\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 olan r\u0259fiq\u0259 d\u0259 ba\u015fqa bir qad\u0131n\u0131n bel\u0259 s\u0259rb\u0259st h\u0259yat\u0131na h\u0259s\u0259d aparacaq.<br \/>\n<strong>Psixoloq m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259ti:<\/strong>\u00a0Nec\u0259 olmal\u0131? \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc art\u0131q azad qu\u015f kimi hiss etm\u0259diyin\u0259 onu inand\u0131rma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f. Sevgilinin t\u0259la\u015f\u0131n\u0131 is\u0259 anlay\u0131\u015fla qar\u015f\u0131la. Onun s\u0259ni itirm\u0259kd\u0259n qorxmas\u0131 pis \u0259lam\u0259t deyil. Bu, onun s\u0259ni n\u0259 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 \u00e7ox sevdiyinin s\u00fcbutudur. \u018fg\u0259r r\u0259fiq\u0259l\u0259rinl\u0259 harasa gedirs\u0259ns\u0259, tez-tez sevgilin\u0259 mesaj yaz\u0131b, n\u0259 etdiyini, harada oldu\u011funu soru\u015f. D\u00fczd\u00fcr, dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z h\u0259r s\u00f6z\u00fc oldu\u011fu kimi ona dem\u0259k laz\u0131m deyil. Amma b\u0259zi n\u00fcanslar\u0131 b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f ki, r\u0259fiq\u0259l\u0259rinl\u0259 birlikd\u0259 olanda n\u0259l\u0259r etdiyinizd\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259rdar olsun. Bel\u0259c\u0259, onun s\u0259n\u0259 etibar\u0131 daha da artar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ki\u015fil\u0259rin 80 % &#8211; i qorxur\u2026<br \/>\n\u2026 \u00abBiz bu haqda dan\u0131\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131q\u00bb c\u00fcml\u0259sind\u0259n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>S\u0259n h\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 problem olanda a\u00e7\u0131q-a\u015fkar dan\u0131\u015f\u0131b, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 ayd\u0131nl\u0131q g\u0259tirm\u0259k ist\u0259yirs\u0259n. O is\u0259 susur. \u018fn yax\u015f\u0131 halda siz he\u00e7 n\u0259y\u0259 q\u0259rar vermirsiz, \u0259n pis halda is\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 anla\u015f\u0131lmazl\u0131q v\u0259 inciklik \u00e7oxal\u0131r. H\u0259tta h\u0259rd\u0259n s\u00f6z-s\u00f6hb\u0259t a\u011flama\u011fa bel\u0259 g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. Q\u0259rib\u0259si d\u0259 odur ki, bir ne\u00e7\u0259 g\u00fcn ke\u00e7\u0259nd\u0259n sonra o \u00f6z\u00fc m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 dan\u0131\u015fma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r.<br \/>\n<strong>Q\u0259rar:<\/strong>\u00a0Ki\u015fil\u0259r el\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r ki, qad\u0131nlar h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 onlar\u0131 m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kirl\u0259r. \u018fn pis halda is\u0259 g\u00f6z ya\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 araya qat\u0131r\u0131q. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 s\u00f6hb\u0259tl\u0259 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 ayd\u0131nl\u0131q g\u0259tirm\u0259k t\u0259klifi he\u00e7 d\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu deyil. \u00abBiz dan\u0131\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131q\u00bb ifad\u0259sini ki\u015fil\u0259r d\u00fczg\u00fcn q\u0259bul etmirl\u0259r. Bu zaman onlar \u00f6zl\u0259rini q\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 par\u00e7aya qa\u00e7an \u00f6k\u00fcz kimi t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edirl\u0259r.<br \/>\n<strong>Psixoloq m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259ti:<\/strong>\u00a0\u015earlota Uilyams deyib: \u00abQad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u0259lind\u0259 \u00aba\u011f\u0131l\u00bb deyil\u0259n \u00e7ox \u00f6n\u0259mli bir silah var. Qad\u0131nlar n\u0259yi, nec\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259rini \u00e7ox yax\u015f\u0131 bilirl\u0259r\u00bb. Bu g\u00fcn \u0259ks\u0259r qad\u0131nlar ki\u015fi il\u0259 b\u0259rab\u0259r h\u00fcquqlar\u0131 olduqlar\u0131n\u0131 iddia edirl\u0259r. Amma he\u00e7 biri h\u0259l\u0259 ki, bunu s\u00fcbut etm\u0259yib. Qad\u0131n beyni ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 nisb\u0259t\u0259n \u00e7ox inki\u015faf edir. Qad\u0131n m\u00fcbahis\u0259ni ist\u0259diyi an dayand\u0131ra bil\u0259r, ki\u015fi is\u0259 yox. \u018fg\u0259r sevgilind\u0259n hans\u0131sa bir problemi dan\u0131\u015faraq h\u0259ll etm\u0259yi ist\u0259yirs\u0259ns\u0259, onda beyninin yarad\u0131c\u0131 yar\u0131mk\u00fcr\u0259sini i\u015f\u0259 sal. Bunu \u0259s\u0259bi \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 yox, daha mehriban, m\u00fclayim formada de. Birincisi, onunla m\u00fczakir\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259yin s\u00f6hb\u0259tin n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r ciddi oldu\u011funu \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259d\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259r verm\u0259. \u0130kincisi \u00abke\u00e7mi\u015f sevgilin buna sevin\u0259 bil\u0259r, amma m\u0259n\u2026\u00bb kimi c\u00fcml\u0259l\u0259r i\u015fl\u0259tm\u0259kd\u0259n uzaq ol. \u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fcs\u00fc, q\u0259tiyy\u0259n a\u011flama! G\u00f6z ya\u015f\u0131 he\u00e7 n\u0259yi h\u0259ll etmir, \u0259ksin\u0259 daha da \u00e7\u0259tinl\u0259\u015fdirir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ki\u015fil\u0259rin 70 %-i qorxur\u2026<br \/>\n\u2026 sevgilisin\u0259 toxunun qorxulu \u00aby\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131dan\u00bb<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>H\u0259rd\u0259n s\u0259hh\u0259tind\u0259 probleml\u0259r olur. \u018fsas\u0259n d\u0259 kritik g\u00fcnl\u0259rd\u0259 \u00e7ox kefsiz olur, depressiyaya d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrs\u0259n. H\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259n\u0259 yax\u0131nla\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131, bir s\u00f6z soru\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259mirs\u0259n. H\u0259tta h\u0259rd\u0259n ona ac\u0131 s\u00f6z deyib, x\u0259trin\u0259 bel\u0259 d\u0259yirs\u0259n. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259, aran\u0131zda anla\u015f\u0131lmazl\u0131q, inciklik yaran\u0131r. Bu halda \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc t\u0259nha hiss edir, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 is\u0259 s\u0259n\u0259 laz\u0131m\u0131 q\u0259d\u0259r diqq\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259m\u0259kd\u0259 q\u0131nay\u0131rsan. Bel\u0259c\u0259, bo\u015f yer\u0259 s\u00f6z-s\u00f6hb\u0259t, dava-dala\u015f yaran\u0131r. Sonra is\u0259 s\u0259hvini anlay\u0131b, ondan \u00fczr ist\u0259yirs\u0259n. Amma t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, o, bunu q\u0259bul etmir.<br \/>\n<strong>Q\u0259rar:<\/strong>\u00a0Bu yerd\u0259 qad\u0131nlara haqq qazand\u0131rmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Ki\u015fil\u0259r qad\u0131nlar\u0131 he\u00e7 anlam\u0131rlar. Amma d\u00fcz edirl\u0259r. Ki\u015fil\u0259r m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 ciddi s\u00f6hb\u0259ti sevmirl\u0259r v\u0259 ondan qa\u00e7\u0131rlar. Qad\u0131nlar\u0131n emosional v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259 is\u0259 onlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda olma\u011f\u0131 xo\u015flam\u0131rlar. H\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n kritik g\u00fcnl\u0259rind\u0259 s\u0259nin \u0259hval\u0131n\u0131n nec\u0259 oldu\u011funu art\u0131q anlay\u0131r. El\u0259 buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259min \u0259r\u0259f\u0259l\u0259r s\u0259nd\u0259n uzaq durma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki s\u0259n art\u0131q d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 onu incitmis\u0259n.<br \/>\n<strong>Psixoloq m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259ti:\u00a0<\/strong>Bu \u0259r\u0259f\u0259l\u0259r h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131ndan uzaq olma\u011fa, v\u0259ziyy\u0259tin\u0259 haqq qazand\u0131rmama\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f. Bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259t ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 t\u0259kc\u0259 pis t\u0259sir etmir, h\u0259m d\u0259 onlar\u0131 d\u0259h\u015f\u0259t\u0259 g\u0259tirir. Ki\u015fil\u0259r qad\u0131n\u0131n emosionall\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u0259zdirm\u0259yini he\u00e7 vaxt q\u0259bul etmirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ki\u015fil\u0259rin 80 %-i qorxur\u2026<br \/>\n\u2026 \u00e7ox a\u011f\u0131r ayr\u0131l\u0131q hekay\u0259si ya\u015fayan q\u0131zlardan<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sevgilinl\u0259 tan\u0131\u015f olanda s\u0259n yenic\u0259 ayr\u0131l\u0131q ya\u015fam\u0131\u015fd\u0131n. Ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7iynin\u0259 qoyub, a\u011flayaca\u011f\u0131n birin\u0259 ehtiyac\u0131n var idi. S\u0259n d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 ona ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131n v\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kdiyin \u0259zablar haqq\u0131nda dan\u0131\u015fm\u0131san. Onunla s\u00f6hb\u0259t s\u0259n\u0259 g\u00fcc verirdi. Amma o \u0259s\u0259bil\u0259\u015fib, k\u00f6hn\u0259 sevgilinl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 bir c\u00fcml\u0259 bel\u0259 e\u015fitm\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259diyini deyir. Onun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn dar\u0131xd\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u0259n.<br \/>\n<strong>Q\u0259rar:<\/strong>\u00a0Bu zaman qad\u0131nda qorxu hissl\u0259ri yaranma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r: bu da m\u0259nd\u0259n ayr\u0131lacaq. Ax\u0131 h\u0259r bir ki\u015fi sevdiyi qad\u0131nlar\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda \u0259n r\u0259ngar\u0259ng m\u00fcnasib\u0259t olma\u011f\u0131 arzulay\u0131r. Onu ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259ki il\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259 etm\u0259yin, s\u0259nin h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 onu unuda bilm\u0259m\u0259yin qar\u015f\u0131ndak\u0131 insana pis t\u0259sir edir. O, yax\u015f\u0131 ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr: \u0259g\u0259r s\u0259n h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 onun etdikl\u0259rini unutmam\u0131sansa, dem\u0259k, i\u00e7ind\u0259 ke\u00e7mi\u015f sevgilin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 q\u0131\u011f\u0131lc\u0131m var. Ani bir k\u00f6z\u0259rm\u0259d\u0259n h\u0259min nifr\u0259t yenid\u0259n sevgiy\u0259 \u00e7evril\u0259 bil\u0259r.<br \/>\n<strong>Psixoloq m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259ti:<\/strong>\u00a0Ki\u015fil\u0259r n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r gizl\u0259tm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsalar da, sevdikl\u0259ri \u015f\u0259xsin h\u0259yat\u0131nda ba\u015fqa bir ki\u015fi olmas\u0131ndan qorxurlar. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 sevgilin\u0259 onun haqq\u0131nda he\u00e7 n\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fma. H\u0259tta o \u00f6z\u00fc s\u0259nd\u0259n bu bar\u0259d\u0259 soru\u015fsa bel\u0259, \u00abOnunla ba\u011fl\u0131 he\u00e7 n\u0259 xat\u0131rlam\u0131ram\u00bb dey\u0259r\u0259k, s\u00f6hb\u0259td\u0259n yay\u0131n. Z\u0259ngin ke\u00e7mi\u015finl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 hekay\u0259ni ona t\u0259qa\u00fcd\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xanda dan\u0131\u015farsan. O vaxta kimi is\u0259 y\u00fcz \u00f6l\u00e7, bir bi\u00e7\u2026<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ki\u015fil\u0259rin 90 %-i qorxur\u2026<br \/>\n\u2026 qad\u0131nla eyni evd\u0259 ya\u015fama\u011fa ba\u015flamaqdan<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Siz tan\u0131\u015f oldunuz, bir-birinizi \u00e7ox sevirsiz. N\u0259hay\u0259t, evl\u0259nib, bir yerd\u0259 ya\u015famaq q\u0259rar\u0131 verdiniz. \u018fvv\u0259ll\u0259r o, ail\u0259si il\u0259 birlikd\u0259, ya da t\u0259k ya\u015fay\u0131rd\u0131. H\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 s\u00f6hb\u0259t ed\u0259nd\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k ail\u0259nizd\u0259n, evinizd\u0259n s\u00f6z a\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131z. Amma bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t sonra o evl\u0259nm\u0259k s\u00f6hb\u0259tind\u0259n qa\u00e7ma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r. S\u0259n\u0259 \u00abh\u0259r \u015feyi m\u0259hv etm\u0259kd\u0259n qorxdu\u011funu\u00bb deyir.<br \/>\n<strong>Q\u0259rar:<\/strong>\u00a0\u018fn ideal, d\u0259li kimi a\u015fiq olan sevgili bel\u0259 evl\u0259nib, azadl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 itirm\u0259y\u0259, h\u0259yat t\u0259rzini d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259dd\u00fcd edir. N\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bel\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fckl\u0259ri is\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 he\u00e7 kim\u0259 m\u0259lum deyil. Amma fakt faktl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda qal\u0131r. Psixoloqlar iddia edirl\u0259r ki, ki\u015fil\u0259rin bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259si \u00e7ox t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259li v\u0259 \u00e7ar\u0259sizdir.<br \/>\n<strong>Psixoloq m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259ti:<\/strong>\u00a0D\u0259rind\u0259n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcns\u0259k, h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rin bu qorxusunun \u00e7ox \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tli oldu\u011funu g\u00f6r\u0259rik. Bir t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n s\u0259n onun h\u0259r g\u00fcn g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcy\u00fc adamsan, bundan sonra is\u0259 eyni dam\u0131n alt\u0131nda ya\u015fayacaqs\u0131n\u0131z. \u018fn \u0259sas\u0131 is\u0259 o, h\u0259l\u0259 t\u0259m\u0259li yenic\u0259 qoyulan ki\u00e7ik ail\u0259 kimi m\u0259suliyy\u0259tli bir i\u015fi \u00f6z \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259c\u0259k. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 evlilikd\u0259n s\u00f6z a\u00e7anda onun cavabdeh olaca\u011f\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n \u00e7ox dan\u0131\u015fma. \u00dcst\u0259lik \u0259g\u0259r siz yenic\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qurmusunuzsa, q\u0259tiyy\u0259n bel\u0259 s\u00f6hb\u0259tl\u0259ri a\u011fl\u0131ndan bel\u0259 ke\u00e7irtm\u0259. Bu onu qorxutmaqdan ba\u015fqa bir i\u015f\u0259 yaramayacaq. Onunla ail\u0259 qurduqdan sonra rahat h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131z olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dan\u0131\u015fa bil\u0259rs\u0259n. Evl\u0259ndikd\u0259n sonra is\u0259 ilk aylarda onun h\u0259yat\u0131nda d\u0259yi\u015fiklik etm\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f. Zamanla o \u00f6z\u00fc s\u0259ninl\u0259 birlikd\u0259 ya\u015fama\u011fa, ail\u0259 qanunlar\u0131na \u0259m\u0259l etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259\u015f\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ki\u015fil\u0259rin 60 %-i qorxur\u2026<br \/>\n\u2026 m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ox aktiv olmas\u0131ndan<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>S\u0259n \u00e7ox \u015f\u0259ns\u0259n, aktivs\u0259n, h\u0259yat\u0131 sevirs\u0259n v\u0259 h\u0259r g\u00fcn g\u0259zm\u0259yi xo\u015flay\u0131rsan. Bir s\u00f6zl\u0259, s\u0259nin \u00e7ox r\u0259ngar\u0259ng h\u0259yat t\u0259rzin var. El\u0259 buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 s\u0259ninl\u0259 tan\u0131\u015f olan o\u011flan m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t davam etdirm\u0259k ist\u0259mir. S\u0259nin sevgi hekay\u0259l\u0259rin h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 yar\u0131m\u00e7\u0131q qal\u0131r.<br \/>\n<strong>Q\u0259rar:<\/strong>\u00a0\u018fslind\u0259, q\u0131z\u0131n ilk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u0259n \u00e7ox dan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131, o\u011flandan davaml\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t ist\u0259m\u0259si g\u00fccl\u00fc cinsin n\u00fcmay\u0259nd\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 m\u0259nfi t\u0259sir edir. Unutma ki, d\u00fcnyada genl\u0259r n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flasa da \u0259sl ki\u015fi xasiyy\u0259tli o\u011flanlar da az deyil. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259g\u0259r s\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcn onun qollar\u0131na at\u0131lsan, m\u00fcnasib\u0259t n\u0259inki ciddil\u0259\u015fm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k, h\u0259tta \u00e7ox q\u0131sa s\u00fcr\u0259c\u0259k. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 diqq\u0259tli olma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f.<br \/>\n<strong>Psixoloq m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259ti:<\/strong>\u00a0H\u0259tta \u0259n aktiv qad\u0131n bel\u0259 ki\u015fi qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda rola girm\u0259lidir. Onun \u00abM\u0259n aktiv qad\u0131nlar\u0131 \u00e7ox sevir\u0259m. Q\u0131z g\u0259r\u0259k \u015f\u0259n olsun ki, qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131 ondan z\u00f6vq als\u0131n\u00bb kimi c\u00fcml\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259t verm\u0259. Onun q\u0259lbind\u0259 \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259 qalmamas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc sakit v\u0259 utancaq g\u00f6st\u0259r. \u00abAvropa feministikas\u0131\u00bb ad\u0131na namiz\u0259d olan Qirheqora bel\u0259 demi\u015fdi: \u00abKi\u015finin xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyini &#8211; m\u0259n ist\u0259yir\u0259m. Qad\u0131n\u0131n xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyini is\u0259 &#8211; o ist\u0259sin\u00bb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Son d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259 m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l olmaq\u00bb &#8211; s\u0259nin h\u0259yat devizindir. El\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u0259n ki, h\u0259yat\u0131nda h\u0259r \u015fey yolunda gedir. M\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259riniz h\u0259r bir insan\u0131n h\u0259s\u0259d aparaca\u011f\u0131 q\u0259d\u0259r g\u00f6z\u0259ldir. S\u0259n he\u00e7 vaxt aza qane olmursan, ham\u0131dan yax\u015f\u0131 ya\u015fama\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rsan: yax\u015f\u0131, a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131, mehriban, varl\u0131, u\u011furlu, m\u0259\u015fhur v\u0259 \u0259n \u0259sas\u0131 g\u00fccl\u00fc. Amma m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rinizin bu q\u0259d\u0259r ideal davam etm\u0259sin\u0259 baxmayaraq, onu qane etm\u0259y\u0259n n\u0259s\u0259 var. Sevgilin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r g\u00fccl\u00fc g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fsa da, qorxur. G\u00fclm\u0259lidir? \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, ki\u015fil\u0259rin d\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 qorxdu\u011fu hallar \u00e7oxdur. G\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n, o n\u0259d\u0259n qorxur? 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El\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u0259n ki, h\u0259yat\u0131nda h\u0259r \u015fey yolunda gedir. M\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259riniz h\u0259r bir insan\u0131n h\u0259s\u0259d aparaca\u011f\u0131 q\u0259d\u0259r g\u00f6z\u0259ldir. S\u0259n he\u00e7 vaxt aza qane olmursan, ham\u0131dan yax\u015f\u0131 ya\u015fama\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rsan: yax\u015f\u0131, a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131, mehriban, varl\u0131, u\u011furlu, m\u0259\u015fhur v\u0259 \u0259n \u0259sas\u0131 g\u00fccl\u00fc. Amma m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rinizin bu q\u0259d\u0259r ideal davam etm\u0259sin\u0259 baxmayaraq, onu qane etm\u0259y\u0259n&hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1928"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1928"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1928\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1929"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1928"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1928"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1928"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}