Art\u0131q c\u0259miyy\u0259timizd\u0259 xeyli ir\u0259l\u0259yi\u015fl\u0259r var. 10 il bundan \u0259vv\u0259l insanlar\u0131n nigahdan \u00f6nc\u0259 h\u0259kim m\u00fcayin\u0259sin\u0259 getm\u0259si axmaql\u0131q say\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131sa, indi bu kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r m\u00fcsb\u0259t bax\u0131lan, h\u0259tta alq\u0131\u015flanan h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t kimi q\u0259bul edilir.<\/p>\n
Nec\u0259 ki c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r evl\u0259nm\u0259mi\u015fd\u0259n qabaq h\u0259kim m\u00fcayin\u0259si il\u0259 bir-birl\u0259rinin b\u0259d\u0259nl\u0259rini tan\u0131y\u0131b, yaranm\u0131\u015f probleml\u0259ri birlikd\u0259 h\u0259ll edirl\u0259r, psixoloji g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u0259 d\u0259 bir-birl\u0259rinin psixoloji v\u0259ziyy\u0259tini, sad\u0259\u00a0s\u00f6zl\u0259 des\u0259k beyinl\u0259rini tan\u0131y\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n
Bel\u0259 bir fikir formala\u015fa bil\u0259r \u201cel\u0259 beynini tan\u0131m\u0131\u015fam ki, evl\u0259nir\u0259m\u201d. Xasiyy\u0259tin\u0259 b\u0259l\u0259d\u0259m, psixoloji konsultasiya n\u0259yim\u0259 laz\u0131m? Yax\u015f\u0131, psixoloq m\u0259n\u0259 des\u0259 ki, sizin xasiyy\u0259tiniz tutmur ayrlacam b\u0259y\u0259m?\u201d. Bu kimi fikirl\u0259rl\u0259 \u00e7ox rastla\u015f\u0131r\u0131q. C\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin \u00e7oxu ilk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u0259 bunu deyirl\u0259r. N\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 ki, bu kimi fikirl\u0259r el\u0259 ilk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u0259 qal\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\u0130nsanlar bir-birl\u0259rini tan\u0131y\u0131b m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259rini b\u0259y\u0259nib evl\u0259nirl\u0259r. \u00c7ox vaxt e\u015fid\u0259rsiz \u201cO, \u00e7ox qay\u011f\u0131ke\u015fdir\u201d , \u201cO, \u00e7ox s\u0259mimidir\u201d, \u201cO, \u00e7ox diqq\u0259tcildir\u201d v\u0259 s. Amma bunlar onun xasiyy\u0259tinin ham\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n olmas\u0131 dem\u0259k deyil. Evl\u0259nm\u0259mi\u015fd\u0259n \u00f6nc\u0259 psixoloqla s\u00f6hb\u0259t \u00e7ox vacib x\u00fcsuslardand\u0131.<\/p>\n
Amerikada 200 min psixoloq f\u0259aliyy\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rir v\u0259 h\u0259r 4 ail\u0259y\u0259 1 psixoloq d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. H\u0259min psixoloqlar evl\u0259nm\u0259mi\u015fd\u0259n \u00f6nc\u0259 bu ail\u0259l\u0259ri m\u00fc\u015faiy\u0259t edirl\u0259r. Psixoloq c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin h\u0259r birinin xasiyy\u0259tini t\u0259yin edir v\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 yarana bil\u0259c\u0259k hadis\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259ri haz\u0131rlay\u0131r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, \u0259g\u0259r ki\u015fid\u0259 anas\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 g\u00fccl\u00fc ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131q varsa, psixoloq qad\u0131n\u0131 bunun yarada bil\u0259c\u0259yi probleml\u0259r\u0259 haz\u0131rlay\u0131r. Tibbi dild\u0259 des\u0259k immunitet yarad\u0131r. Peyv\u0259nd (x\u0259st\u0259liyin mikroblar\u0131n\u0131n z\u0259ifl\u0259dilmi\u015f \u015f\u0259kli) qana vurulur, art\u0131q b\u0259d\u0259n mikrobu tan\u0131y\u0131r v\u0259 x\u0259st\u0259liy\u0259 yoluxmur. Bel\u0259 dey\u0259k psixoloq c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 ba\u015f verm\u0259 ehtimal\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fck olan hadis\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 peyv\u0259nd vurur.<\/p>\n
Yeni evlilikl\u0259rd\u0259 \u0259sas\u0259n qad\u0131nlar ilk vaxtlarda ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131na \u00f6yr\u0259\u015fm\u0259kd\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tinlik \u00e7\u0259kirl\u0259r. Bu anadan q\u0131z\u0131na ke\u00e7\u0259n bir problemdir. Analar q\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131 evliliy\u0259 haz\u0131rlay\u0131rlar. T\u0259bii bu olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Amma b\u0259z\u0259n analar \u00e7ox himay\u0259karl\u0131q g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Bu halda q\u0131zlar evliliyi \u00e7ox idealla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r, evl\u0259ndiyi andan etibar\u0259n g\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259ri \u00e7ox olur. Art\u0131q qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259 m\u00fcbahis\u0259l\u0259r ba\u015flay\u0131r. Ki\u015fil\u0259r n\u0259 ba\u015f verdiyini anlam\u0131r. Qad\u0131n evl\u0259n\u0259nd\u0259 ist\u0259r seksual, ist\u0259r maddi, ist\u0259r sosial h\u0259yat\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fir. Bu d\u00f6vrd\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rimiz daha anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 olmal\u0131 v\u0259 bunun q\u0131sa m\u00fcdd\u0259t davam ed\u0259c\u0259yini bilm\u0259lidil\u0259r.<\/p>\n
Bel\u0259 vaxtda onlara ancaq xan\u0131m\u0131na daha \u00e7ox diqq\u0259t yetirm\u0259k g\u0259r\u0259kdir. \u018fg\u0259r bu hal xroniki hala ke\u00e7irs\u0259 c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin psixoloqa m\u00fcraci\u0259t etm\u0259l\u0259ri t\u00f6vsiyy\u0259 olunur. Qad\u0131nlar \u0259sas\u0259n problemi intim h\u0259yat\u0131nda axtarma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r v\u0259 sekspatoloqa m\u00fcraci\u0259t edirl\u0259r. Onlardan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 yaln\u0131\u015f psixoloji m\u0259lumatlara \u201csizd\u0259 fiziki uy\u011funsuzluq var v\u0259 ya b\u0259d\u0259nl\u0259riniz bir birin\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259\u015f\u0259 bilmir\u201d kimi fikirl\u0259r\u0259 zaman ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 inanma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131rlar. M\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 soyuqluq ba\u015flay\u0131r. B\u0259z\u0259n t\u0259dbir g\u00f6r\u00fclm\u0259zs\u0259, bu hallar evlilikl\u0259rin bitm\u0259sin\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olur.<\/p>\n
Bir \u015feyi x\u00fcsusil\u0259 vur\u011fulamaq ist\u0259yir\u0259m ki,\u00a0m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n ginekoloji v\u0259 ya uroloji uy\u011funsuzluqlar ola bil\u0259r, amma onlar\u0131n h\u0259r biri h\u0259ll olunan problemdir. \u018fsas d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 olaraq aran\u0131zda uy\u011funsuzluq yaratmay\u0131n.<\/strong>\u00a0\u00c7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131za yataqda k\u00f6m\u0259klik ed\u0259siniz. Onu anlama\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n h\u0259l\u0259 sizin h\u0259ssas n\u00f6qt\u0259l\u0259rinizi bilm\u0259mi\u015f ola bil\u0259r. Siz ona yol g\u00f6st\u0259rin. Fikir v\u0259 narahatl\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 onunla b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn. \u018fmin olun, ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259n insan yoxdu, ba\u015fa sala bilm\u0259y\u0259n var. H\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 dedikl\u0259rinizi anlam\u0131rsa, dem\u0259k bu dil i\u015finiz\u0259 yaram\u0131r, ba\u015fqa \u00fcsulla ona fikrinizi izah edin. Unutmayaq ki, evlilik n\u0259 ni\u015fanl\u0131l\u0131q, n\u0259 sevgilik d\u00f6vr\u00fcn\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259yir. Evlilik bir yast\u0131\u011fa ba\u015f qoymaqd\u0131r. Bu s\u00f6z\u00fcn m\u0259nas\u0131 \u00e7ox d\u0259rindir. Evlilik zaman\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn gizl\u0259dil\u0259nl\u0259r \u00fcz\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. \u0130st\u0259r-ist\u0259m\u0259z insanlar evlilik \u00f6nc\u0259si b\u0259zi \u015feyl\u0259ri gizl\u0259dir. Bu \u00e7ox normal hald\u0131r. Siz gizl\u0259tdiyiniz kimi qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f d\u0259 gizl\u0259d\u0259 bil\u0259r. \u00c7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn hallarda \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin yerin\u0259 qoyub onun hissl\u0259rini ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u0259siniz.<\/p>\n “NARINC” U\u015faq Psixologiya M\u0259rk\u0259zinin r\u0259hb\u0259ri, psixoloq Nar\u0131nc R\u00fcst\u0259mova<\/p>\n Narinc.az<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Art\u0131q c\u0259miyy\u0259timizd\u0259 xeyli ir\u0259l\u0259yi\u015fl\u0259r var. 10 il bundan \u0259vv\u0259l insanlar\u0131n nigahdan \u00f6nc\u0259 h\u0259kim m\u00fcayin\u0259sin\u0259 getm\u0259si axmaql\u0131q say\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131sa, indi bu kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r m\u00fcsb\u0259t bax\u0131lan, h\u0259tta alq\u0131\u015flanan h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t kimi q\u0259bul edilir. Nec\u0259 ki c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r evl\u0259nm\u0259mi\u015fd\u0259n qabaq h\u0259kim m\u00fcayin\u0259si il\u0259 bir-birl\u0259rinin b\u0259d\u0259nl\u0259rini tan\u0131y\u0131b, yaranm\u0131\u015f probleml\u0259ri birlikd\u0259 h\u0259ll edirl\u0259r, psixoloji g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u0259 d\u0259 bir-birl\u0259rinin psixoloji v\u0259ziyy\u0259tini, sad\u0259\u00a0s\u00f6zl\u0259 des\u0259k beyinl\u0259rini tan\u0131y\u0131rlar. Bel\u0259 bir fikir formala\u015fa bil\u0259r \u201cel\u0259 beynini tan\u0131m\u0131\u015fam ki, evl\u0259nir\u0259m\u201d. Xasiyy\u0259tin\u0259 b\u0259l\u0259d\u0259m, psixoloji konsultasiya n\u0259yim\u0259 laz\u0131m? Yax\u015f\u0131, psixoloq m\u0259n\u0259 des\u0259 ki, sizin xasiyy\u0259tiniz tutmur ayrlacam b\u0259y\u0259m?\u201d. Bu kimi fikirl\u0259rl\u0259 \u00e7ox rastla\u015f\u0131r\u0131q. C\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin \u00e7oxu ilk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u0259…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":195029,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[24],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/nikah-oncesi.jpg",400,280,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/nikah-oncesi.jpg",400,280,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/nikah-oncesi.jpg",400,280,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/nikah-oncesi-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/nikah-oncesi-300x210.jpg",300,210,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/nikah-oncesi.jpg",400,280,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/nikah-oncesi.jpg",400,280,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/nikah-oncesi.jpg",400,280,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/nikah-oncesi-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/nikah-oncesi.jpg",400,280,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"Maraql\u0131<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Art\u0131q c\u0259miyy\u0259timizd\u0259 xeyli ir\u0259l\u0259yi\u015fl\u0259r var. 10 il bundan \u0259vv\u0259l insanlar\u0131n nigahdan \u00f6nc\u0259 h\u0259kim m\u00fcayin\u0259sin\u0259 getm\u0259si axmaql\u0131q say\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131sa, indi bu kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r m\u00fcsb\u0259t bax\u0131lan, h\u0259tta alq\u0131\u015flanan h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t kimi q\u0259bul edilir. 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