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Psixoloq Nar\u0131nc R\u00fcst\u0259mova: “Pula q\u0259na\u0259t etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 n\u0259n\u0259-baba himay\u0259sin\u0259 verirl\u0259rs\u0259, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 bu pulun \u00fc\u00e7 qat\u0131n\u0131 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n m\u00fcalic\u0259sin\u0259 x\u0259rcl\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r”.<\/p>\n

Bir \u00e7ox xan\u0131mlara i\u015f, karyera \u00f6vlad d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tir\u0259nd\u0259n sonra onun bax\u0131m\u0131, t\u0259rbiy\u0259si il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olma\u011fa mane\u00e7ilik t\u00f6r\u0259dir. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 day\u0259 v\u0259 ya ba\u011f\u00e7aya \u0259man\u0259t etm\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259y\u0259n, yaxud buna maddi imkan\u0131 \u00e7atmayan xan\u0131mlar onlar\u0131 n\u0259n\u0259-babalar\u0131n\u0131n himay\u0259sin\u0259 verm\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur olurlar.<\/p>\n

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B\u0259s n\u0259n\u0259-baba himay\u0259sind\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131n valideyn n\u0259zar\u0259tind\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259nl\u0259rd\u0259n \u0259sas f\u0259rqi n\u0259 olur, onlar c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 nec\u0259 f\u0259rd olurlar? Onlar\u0131 n\u0259n\u0259-babadan hans\u0131 ya\u015fda, nec\u0259 ay\u0131rmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r? \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, n\u0259n\u0259-baba u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n psixoloji durumu nec\u0259 olur?<\/p>\n

“U\u015faqlar ziddiyy\u0259t qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda qal\u0131r”
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Professional Psixologiya M\u0259rk\u0259zinin r\u0259hb\u0259ri Nuriyy\u0259 Quliyeva bu tipli u\u015faqlar\u0131n probleml\u0259rind\u0259n dan\u0131\u015fark\u0259n deyir: “N\u0259n\u0259-baba t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n t\u0259rbiy\u0259 edil\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259tind\u0259 \u0259rk\u00f6y\u00fcnl\u00fck, eqoistlik, davran\u0131\u015f pozuntular\u0131 m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 edilir. Bu c\u00fcr u\u015faqlara ana-ata \u00f6z qayda-qanunlar\u0131n\u0131 qoya bilmirl\u0259r. Bu vaxta q\u0259d\u0259r n\u0259n\u0259-baba t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n h\u0259r ist\u0259dikl\u0259rin\u0259 nail olan, “yox”, “olmaz” s\u00f6zl\u0259ri il\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmayan u\u015faq ana-atan\u0131n qada\u011falar\u0131na tabe olmaq ist\u0259mir. C\u0259za almamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn is\u0259 yalanlar dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r.
\nU\u015faq h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir \u015fey ist\u0259dikd\u0259 2 f\u0259rqli v\u0259 ziddiyy\u0259tli m\u00f6vqe il\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r: bir t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259 “qada\u011falar qoyan” ana-ata, dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259 “g\u00fcz\u0259\u015ft\u0259 ged\u0259n” n\u0259n\u0259-baba. T\u0259hlil qabiliyy\u0259ti m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l olmayan u\u015faq, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, do\u011fru v\u0259 yanl\u0131\u015f, faydal\u0131 v\u0259 z\u0259r\u0259rli olan\u0131n n\u0259 oldu\u011funu d\u0259rk etm\u0259diyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ona xo\u015f t\u0259sir ed\u0259n se\u00e7imi ed\u0259c\u0259k. \u00c7\u00fcnki ata-anas\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n bunun q\u0259bul edilm\u0259diyini bildiyi kimi ona d\u0259st\u0259k olan n\u0259n\u0259-baban\u0131n oldu\u011funu da bilir. B\u0259z\u0259n h\u0259tta bu c\u00fcr situasiyalarla rastla\u015fd\u0131qda u\u015faq ana-atan\u0131 onu sevm\u0259m\u0259kd\u0259 g\u00fcnahland\u0131r\u0131r”.<\/p>\n

Psixoloq he\u00e7 bir sevginin ata-ana sevgisini \u0259v\u0259z ed\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr: “Ya\u015f artd\u0131qca bu sevgisizlik onlarda m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n bo\u015fluqlar yaradacaq, izl\u0259r qoyacaq. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, u\u015faq n\u0259n\u0259-baba \u0259hat\u0259sind\u0259 d\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu c\u00fcr u\u015faqlar daha \u00fcnsiyy\u0259tcil olur. Amma t\u0259lim-t\u0259rbiy\u0259 i\u015fini valideynl\u0259r \u00f6z \u00f6hd\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259lidir”.<\/p>\n

“N\u0259n\u0259-babalar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u0259n budur: u\u015faq m\u0259ni sevsin, v\u0259ssalam”
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U\u015faq Psixologiya M\u0259rk\u0259zinin r\u0259hb\u0259ri Nar\u0131nc R\u00fcst\u0259mova onlara bu tipli probleml\u0259ri ya\u015fayan ail\u0259l\u0259rin tez-tez m\u00fcraci\u0259t etdiyini deyir: “Biz\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259 ya\u015fayan \u00e7ox u\u015faq m\u00fcraci\u0259t edir. H\u0259tta \u00e7ox vaxt n\u0259n\u0259 v\u0259 babalar terapiya m\u00fcayin\u0259d\u0259 olurlar. N\u0259n\u0259-baba 9 ya\u015f\u0131ndan sonra u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 g\u0259tirir. \u00c7\u00fcnki bu ya\u015fa q\u0259d\u0259r “u\u015faqd\u0131, yaz\u0131qd\u0131”, “u\u015faqda he\u00e7 n\u0259 yoxdur, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fczd\u0259n problem yaratmay\u0131n” dey\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r. Ancaq art\u0131q 9 ya\u015fdan sonra cinsi yeti\u015fk\u0259nlik d\u00f6vr\u00fc ba\u015flayanda u\u015faq n\u0259n\u0259 v\u0259 babayla da toqqu\u015fma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r. Onlar \u00f6z \u0259ll\u0259riyl\u0259 nec\u0259 bir “canavar” b\u00f6y\u00fctd\u00fckl\u0259rinin f\u0259rqind\u0259 olurlar. Bu zaman art\u0131q psixoloqa m\u00fcraci\u0259t etm\u0259li olurlar. Ancaq erk\u0259n ya\u015fda m\u00fcraci\u0259t ed\u0259n analar da olur.
\n\u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, n\u0259n\u0259-baban\u0131n, yaxud gec ail\u0259 qurub 35 ya\u015fdan sonra u\u015faq sahibi olan, sonsuzluq problemi ya\u015fay\u0131b m\u00fcalic\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 u\u015faq sahibi olan valideynl\u0259rd\u0259 \u0259rk\u00f6y\u00fcnl\u00fck m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 etm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. U\u015faq sahibi olmaq v\u0259 u\u015faq t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etm\u0259k 25-26 ya\u015fdan sonra ba\u015flay\u0131r. Burada insan\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn psixoloji durumu v\u0259 n\u0259 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 yetkin insan olmas\u0131 da \u00f6n\u0259mlidir. Ana-ata h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 planla\u015fd\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qaydalar\u0131 rahat formala\u015fd\u0131ra bilir, qaydalar\u0131 pozanda onlar\u0131n d\u00fcz etm\u0259diyini izah ed\u0259 bilir. Bir s\u00f6zl\u0259, ana-ata daha q\u0259ddar olur v\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259siyl\u0259 daha ciddi m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olurlar. Ancaq n\u0259n\u0259-babalar ad\u0259t\u0259n 50-60 ya\u015flar\u0131nda olur v\u0259 bu zaman onlar u\u015faq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k planla\u015fd\u0131rm\u0131rlar. Y\u0259ni fikirl\u0259\u015fmirl\u0259r ki, n\u0259v\u0259l\u0259ri 19 ya\u015f\u0131nda nec\u0259 olacaq, n\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259k? Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 onlar\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259si f\u0259rqli olur. Vaxtil\u0259 \u00f6z \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259si, gigiyenas\u0131, d\u0259rsl\u0259ri il\u0259 daha ciddi m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olan n\u0259n\u0259-baba bunu n\u0259v\u0259l\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ed\u0259 bilmir. Bu da ya\u015fdan as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. Ancaq bu g\u00fcn\u0259 k\u00f6kl\u0259nirl\u0259r: u\u015faq m\u0259ni sevsin, desin “n\u0259n\u0259-baba yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r, m\u0259n onlar\u0131 \u00e7ox sevir\u0259m”, bu, m\u0259n\u0259 b\u0259s edir. Bunu b\u00fct\u00fcn n\u0259n\u0259-babalara \u015famil etm\u0259k olmaz, ancaq \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti bel\u0259dir”.<\/p>\n

\u00d6z krall\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u011f\u00e7ada v\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 g\u00f6rm\u0259y\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131n fobiyas\u0131
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Psixoloq xan\u0131m\u0131n s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, n\u0259n\u0259-babalar n\u0259v\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 qayda-qanunsuz h\u0259yat formala\u015fd\u0131r\u0131rlar: “Onlara \u00f6z s\u00f6zl\u0259rini ke\u00e7ir\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r, “yox” s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259d\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r. Ana-ata u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 c\u0259zaland\u0131rark\u0259n n\u0259n\u0259-baban\u0131n \u00fcr\u0259yi d\u00f6zm\u00fcr, m\u00fcdaxil\u0259 edir, h\u0259tta qar\u011f\u0131\u015f t\u00f6k\u00fcr. \u00d6z yan\u0131na \u00e7\u0259kir, qucaqlay\u0131r. Ana-ata da n\u0259n\u0259-babayla problem ya\u015famas\u0131n dey\u0259 m\u0259cbur\u0259n onlarla raz\u0131la\u015fmal\u0131 olur. Zaman ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 n\u0259n\u0259-baba himay\u0259sind\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n u\u015faqda x\u00fcsus\u0259n kavro-kaprizl\u0259r, davran\u0131\u015f pozuntular\u0131, isteriyalar m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunur. Bu u\u015faqlar yanl\u0131\u015f v\u0259 do\u011frunu insana g\u00f6r\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131rlar. Y\u0259ni u\u015faq art\u0131q g\u00f6r\u0259 bilir ki, yox cavab\u0131 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir \u015fey\u0259 n\u0259n\u0259mi raz\u0131la\u015fd\u0131ra bil\u0259r\u0259m. N\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox a\u011flasam, s\u0259s tonumu qald\u0131rsam, ist\u0259diyimi \u0259ld\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259m. Bu oturu\u015fmu\u015f model ba\u011f\u00e7a, m\u0259kt\u0259b h\u0259yat\u0131nda \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fck probleml\u0259r ortaya \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. Bu u\u015faqlar\u0131n sosial adaptasiyas\u0131nda h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 s\u0131x\u0131nt\u0131lar ya\u015fan\u0131r. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259nsiz olduqlar\u0131ndan i\u00e7\u0259 qapan\u0131rlar, kollektiv\u0259 uy\u011funla\u015fa bilmirl\u0259r, evd\u0259ki “krall\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131” burada g\u00f6r\u0259 bilm\u0259dikl\u0259rind\u0259n ba\u011f\u00e7a, m\u0259kt\u0259b fobiyas\u0131na meyilli olurlar. B\u0259zi u\u015faqlarda is\u0259 bu hal \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc aqressiyayla g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Ana-ataya, m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rin\u0259, ya\u015f\u0131dlar\u0131na tabe olmayan, c\u0131\u011fal u\u015fa\u011fa, m\u0259\u011flubiyy\u0259ti q\u0259bul etm\u0259y\u0259n bir \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t\u0259 \u00e7evrilirl\u0259r”.<\/p>\n

“3 ya\u015f\u0131na kimi u\u015fa\u011fa ana \u00f6z\u00fc baxmal\u0131d\u0131r”
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Psixoloq analar\u0131n n\u0259n\u0259-babayla sa\u011flam m\u00fcnasib\u0259t formala\u015fd\u0131rmal\u0131 oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr: “Onlarla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fl\u0259ri t\u0259nziml\u0259m\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Bu g\u00fcn h\u0259r ya\u015fa v\u0259 cib\u0259 uy\u011fun ba\u011f\u00e7alar var. Dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n, day\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259yind\u0259n istifad\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki \u0259n az\u0131 \u0259min olsunlar ki, pula q\u0259na\u0259t etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 n\u0259n\u0259-baba himay\u0259sin\u0259 verirl\u0259rs\u0259, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 bu pulun \u00fc\u00e7 qat\u0131n\u0131 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n m\u00fcalic\u0259sin\u0259 x\u0259rcl\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r. Valideyn \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131r ki, bir q\u0259d\u0259r soyuqqanl\u0131 olsun. Yax\u015f\u0131 olard\u0131 ki, analar 3 ya\u015f\u0131na kimi u\u015fa\u011fa \u00f6zl\u0259ri baxs\u0131nlar. Anal\u0131q m\u0259zuniyy\u0259ti t\u0259kc\u0259 h\u0259kim t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n deyil, h\u0259m d\u0259 psixoloqlar, pedaqoqlar t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f q\u0259rard\u0131r. U\u015faq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn 3 ya\u015f\u0131na kimi anayla t\u0259mas, \u0259traf m\u00fchiti \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k \u00e7ox vacibdir. Ana-atan\u0131 he\u00e7 kim \u0259v\u0259zl\u0259y\u0259 bilm\u0259z. Ancaq bu, m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmad\u0131qda ba\u011f\u00e7aya qoymaq v\u0259 ya day\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259yi almaq m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tdir. N\u0259n\u0259-babayla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fl\u0259r \u015f\u0259nb\u0259-bazar g\u00fcnl\u0259rin\u0259 saxlanmal\u0131 v\u0259 bu g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fl\u0259r\u0259 bir qonaq kimi getm\u0259lidir. N\u0259n\u0259-baba u\u015faqla davaml\u0131 t\u0259mas qurub, onun t\u0259rbiy\u0259sind\u0259 i\u015ftirak ed\u0259rs\u0259, onlarla \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259d\u0259n ciddi \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bu m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tinlik yaranarsa, ail\u0259 psixoloqundan d\u0259st\u0259k almaq olar. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131 ram etm\u0259yi \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Psixoloq t\u0259kc\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n yox, ail\u0259d\u0259 ya\u015fayanlar\u0131n m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rini, psixologiyas\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259nir. \u00c7\u00fcnki \u0259traf m\u00fchitin u\u015fa\u011fa \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fck t\u0259siri var. Maksimum d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa qar\u015f\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 olmaq, ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259 ortaq m\u0259xr\u0259ci tapmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bu zaman u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259-t\u0259limi, t\u0259hsili kompleks \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 problemsiz olacaq”.<\/p>\n

“N\u0259n\u0259-babayla b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n u\u015faqlar depressiya ya\u015fam\u0131rlar”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sosioloq Cavid \u0130mamo\u011flu is\u0259 ya\u015fl\u0131 n\u0259n\u0259-babalar\u0131n u\u015faqlar\u0131n inki\u015faf\u0131nda v\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259sind\u0259, psixoloji v\u0259 sosial ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131qlar\u0131n formala\u015fmas\u0131nda \u0259v\u0259zsiz rol oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 iddia edir: “Ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, validenyl\u0259rd\u0259n f\u0259rqli olaraq, n\u0259n\u0259 v\u0259 babalar u\u015faqlar\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259si il\u0259 daha pozitiv m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olurlar. Onlar u\u015faqlar\u0131n ana-atalar\u0131ndan f\u0259rqli olaraq depressiya ya\u015fam\u0131rlar v\u0259 m\u0259nfi auran\u0131 u\u015fa\u011fa \u00f6t\u00fcrm\u00fcrl\u0259r. Analar\u0131n u\u015faq d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirdikd\u0259n sonra d\u00fc\u015f\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259ri depressiyan\u0131n \u0259ksin\u0259 olaraq, n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259v\u0259nin d\u00fcnyan\u0131n g\u0259lm\u0259si motivasiya xarakterli olur. Odur ki, n\u0259n\u0259 v\u0259 babalar u\u015faqlar\u0131n inki\u015faf\u0131nda, onlar\u0131n sosialla\u015fmas\u0131nda daha t\u0259sirli olurlar. N\u0259n\u0259-baba t\u0259rbiy\u0259sind\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n u\u015faqlarda q\u0259rar q\u0259bul etm\u0259 v\u0259 \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t\u0259 girm\u0259 v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259ri daha tez formala\u015f\u0131r. Bu da sosial h\u0259yat\u0131n daha sa\u011flam se\u00e7im \u0259sas\u0131nda formala\u015fmas\u0131na t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir. T\u0259bii ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 t\u0259mamil\u0259 valideyn ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan ay\u0131rmaq olmaz. Bu, o zaman effekt verir ki, u\u015faq \u00f6z do\u011fma valideynl\u0259rini g\u00f6r\u0259-g\u00f6r\u0259, n\u0259n\u0259-baba t\u0259rbiy\u0259si alt\u0131nda b\u00f6y\u00fcs\u00fcn”.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Psixoloq Nar\u0131nc R\u00fcst\u0259mova: “Pula q\u0259na\u0259t etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 n\u0259n\u0259-baba himay\u0259sin\u0259 verirl\u0259rs\u0259, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 bu pulun \u00fc\u00e7 qat\u0131n\u0131 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n m\u00fcalic\u0259sin\u0259 x\u0259rcl\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r”. Bir \u00e7ox xan\u0131mlara i\u015f, karyera \u00f6vlad d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tir\u0259nd\u0259n sonra onun bax\u0131m\u0131, t\u0259rbiy\u0259si il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olma\u011fa mane\u00e7ilik t\u00f6r\u0259dir. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 day\u0259 v\u0259 ya ba\u011f\u00e7aya \u0259man\u0259t etm\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259y\u0259n, yaxud buna maddi imkan\u0131 \u00e7atmayan xan\u0131mlar onlar\u0131 n\u0259n\u0259-babalar\u0131n\u0131n himay\u0259sin\u0259 verm\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur olurlar. B\u0259s n\u0259n\u0259-baba himay\u0259sind\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131n valideyn n\u0259zar\u0259tind\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259nl\u0259rd\u0259n \u0259sas f\u0259rqi n\u0259 olur, onlar c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 nec\u0259 f\u0259rd olurlar? Onlar\u0131 n\u0259n\u0259-babadan hans\u0131 ya\u015fda, nec\u0259 ay\u0131rmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r? \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, n\u0259n\u0259-baba u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n psixoloji durumu nec\u0259 olur? “U\u015faqlar ziddiyy\u0259t…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":209944,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/nene-baba-1.jpg",500,350,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/nene-baba-1.jpg",500,350,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/nene-baba-1.jpg",500,350,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/nene-baba-1-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/nene-baba-1-300x210.jpg",300,210,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/nene-baba-1.jpg",500,350,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/nene-baba-1.jpg",500,350,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/nene-baba-1.jpg",500,350,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/nene-baba-1-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/nene-baba-1.jpg",500,350,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"Sosial<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Psixoloq Nar\u0131nc R\u00fcst\u0259mova: “Pula q\u0259na\u0259t etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 n\u0259n\u0259-baba himay\u0259sin\u0259 verirl\u0259rs\u0259, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 bu pulun \u00fc\u00e7 qat\u0131n\u0131 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n m\u00fcalic\u0259sin\u0259 x\u0259rcl\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r”. Bir \u00e7ox xan\u0131mlara i\u015f, karyera \u00f6vlad d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tir\u0259nd\u0259n sonra onun bax\u0131m\u0131, t\u0259rbiy\u0259si il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olma\u011fa mane\u00e7ilik t\u00f6r\u0259dir. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 day\u0259 v\u0259 ya ba\u011f\u00e7aya \u0259man\u0259t etm\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259y\u0259n, yaxud buna maddi imkan\u0131 \u00e7atmayan xan\u0131mlar onlar\u0131 n\u0259n\u0259-babalar\u0131n\u0131n himay\u0259sin\u0259 verm\u0259y\u0259…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/209943"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=209943"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/209943\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/209944"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=209943"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=209943"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=209943"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}