{"id":216038,"date":"2020-09-05T09:36:56","date_gmt":"2020-09-05T06:36:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=216038"},"modified":"2020-09-05T09:36:56","modified_gmt":"2020-09-05T06:36:56","slug":"ail%c9%99d%c9%99-%c9%99rl%c9%99-arvad-arasindaki-konfliktl%c9%99r","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=216038","title":{"rendered":"Ail\u0259d\u0259 \u0259rl\u0259-arvad aras\u0131ndak\u0131 konfliktl\u0259r"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ail\u0259 konfliktl\u0259ri subyektl\u0259rin m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olaraq: \u0259rl\u0259-arvad, valideyn v\u0259 u\u015faqlar, \u0259r-arvad v\u0259 onlar\u0131n valideynl\u0259ri, n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259r, babalar v\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259r aras\u0131nda ba\u015f verir.<\/p>\n

Ail\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259 \u0259rl\u0259-arvad aras\u0131nda ba\u015f ver\u0259n konfiliktl\u0259r esas rol oynay\u0131r. Bu da \u0259sas\u0259n \u0259rl\u0259-arvad\u0131n bir-birin\u0259 olan t\u0259l\u0259batlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6d\u0259nilm\u0259m\u0259sind\u0259n ba\u015f verir.\u00a0Bel\u0259 konfliktl\u0259rin \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259n a\u015fa\u011f\u0131dak\u0131lar daha tez-tez \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6st\u0259rir:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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– \u0259rl\u0259-arvad\u0131n seksual-psixi uy\u011funsuzlu\u011fu;<\/p>\n

– \u00f6z \u201dm\u0259ni\u201dnin t\u0259l\u0259bl\u0259rinin \u00f6d\u0259nilm\u0259si, bir-birinin m\u0259nlik hissl\u0259rin\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259tsizlik;
\n– m\u00fcsb\u0259t emosiyalara olan t\u0259l\u0259bat\u0131n \u00f6d\u0259nilm\u0259m\u0259si: diqq\u0259t, ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k, yum\u015faq m\u00fcnasib\u0259t v\u0259 s;
\n– subyektl\u0259rd\u0259n birinin (\u0259r v\u0259 ya arvad\u0131n) \u00f6z t\u0259l\u0259batlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6d\u0259nilm\u0259sin\u0259 daha \u00e7ox t\u0259l\u0259bkar olmas\u0131 (i\u00e7kiy\u0259, narkotikl\u0259r\u0259 meyil, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 daha \u00e7ox v\u0259sait x\u0259rcl\u0259m\u0259si v\u0259 s)
\n– ail\u0259 t\u0259s\u0259rr\u00fcfat\u0131, u\u015faqlar\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259sin\u0259, \u00f6z valideynl\u0259rin\u0259 bir-birinin t\u0259l\u0259batlar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fclm\u0259m\u0259si v\u0259 s.
\n– istirah\u0259t vaxt\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259\u015fkilin\u0259, \u0259rl\u0259-arvad\u0131n t\u0259l\u0259bl\u0259rinin m\u00fcxt\u0259lifliyi.<\/p>\n

Bunlardan ba\u015fqa ail\u0259 konfliktl\u0259rin\u0259 ba\u015fqa faktorlar da t\u0259sir edir. Buna h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l ail\u0259nin inki\u015faf\u0131nda b\u00f6hranl\u0131 d\u00f6vrl\u0259rin olmas\u0131 n\u00fcmun\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259ril\u0259 bil\u0259r. Bunlar hans\u0131lard\u0131r?<\/p>\n

Ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n birinci ili\u00a0\u2013 bu d\u00f6vr \u0259rl\u0259-arvad\u0131n bir-birin\u0259 uy\u011funla\u015fmas\u0131 d\u00f6vr\u00fcd\u00fcr. Bu iki \u201dm\u0259n\u201din birl\u0259\u015fib bir \u201dbiz\u201d olmas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu zaman hissl\u0259r inki\u015faf edir, bir-birin\u0259 sevgi, m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259tin soyumas\u0131, subyektl\u0259rin h\u0259yatda oldu\u011fu kimi qavran\u0131lmas\u0131 ba\u015flay\u0131r. Bu zaman k\u0259binl\u0259rin 30%-i\u00a0da\u011f\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u0130kinci b\u00f6hranl\u0131 d\u00f6vr\u00a0\u2013 u\u015faqlar\u0131n anadan olmas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. H\u0259l\u0259lik tam m\u00f6hk\u0259ml\u0259nm\u0259mi\u015f \u201cbiz\u201d sistemi ciddi imtahanla qar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r. Bu zaman ba\u015f ver\u0259n konfiliktl\u0259rin \u0259sas\u0131n\u0131 n\u0259 t\u0259\u015fkil edir?<\/p>\n

– \u018frl\u0259-arvad\u0131n pe\u015f\u0259-ixtisasart\u0131rma imkanlar\u0131 pisl\u0259\u015fir.
\n– U\u015fa\u011fa xidm\u0259tl\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259dar qad\u0131n yor\u011funlu\u011fu – bu zaman onun seksual f\u0259all\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n azalmas\u0131.
\n– U\u015faqlar\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259sin\u0259 \u0259rl\u0259-arvad\u0131n m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rinin \u00fcst-\u00fcst\u0259 d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259m\u0259si.<\/p>\n

\u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc b\u00f6hranl\u0131 d\u00f6vr\u00a0\u2013 \u0259rl\u0259-arvad\u0131n birlikd\u0259 ya\u015famas\u0131n\u0131n orta ill\u0259rin\u0259 t\u0259sad\u00fcf edir. Bu zaman konfliktl\u0259rin ox\u015farl\u0131\u011f\u0131, cans\u0131x\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na t\u0259sad\u00fcf olunur. Subyektl\u0259rin bir-birind\u0259n doymas\u0131 ba\u015f verir. Hissl\u0259rd\u0259 yenilik olmur. Bu d\u00f6vr\u00fc h\u0259tta duy\u011fu v\u0259 hissl\u0259rin acl\u0131q d\u00f6vr\u00fc d\u0259 adland\u0131r\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

Sevda X\u0259lilova<\/strong><\/p>\n

Psixologiya v\u0259 Konsultasiya M\u0259rk\u0259zinin psixoloqu<\/p>\n

Pcc.az<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ail\u0259 konfliktl\u0259ri subyektl\u0259rin m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olaraq: \u0259rl\u0259-arvad, valideyn v\u0259 u\u015faqlar, \u0259r-arvad v\u0259 onlar\u0131n valideynl\u0259ri, n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259r, babalar v\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259r aras\u0131nda ba\u015f verir. Ail\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259 \u0259rl\u0259-arvad aras\u0131nda ba\u015f ver\u0259n konfiliktl\u0259r esas rol oynay\u0131r. Bu da \u0259sas\u0259n \u0259rl\u0259-arvad\u0131n bir-birin\u0259 olan t\u0259l\u0259batlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6d\u0259nilm\u0259m\u0259sind\u0259n ba\u015f verir.\u00a0Bel\u0259 konfliktl\u0259rin \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259n a\u015fa\u011f\u0131dak\u0131lar daha tez-tez \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6st\u0259rir: – \u0259rl\u0259-arvad\u0131n seksual-psixi uy\u011funsuzlu\u011fu; – \u00f6z \u201dm\u0259ni\u201dnin t\u0259l\u0259bl\u0259rinin \u00f6d\u0259nilm\u0259si, bir-birinin m\u0259nlik hissl\u0259rin\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259tsizlik; – m\u00fcsb\u0259t emosiyalara olan t\u0259l\u0259bat\u0131n \u00f6d\u0259nilm\u0259m\u0259si: diqq\u0259t, ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k, yum\u015faq m\u00fcnasib\u0259t v\u0259 s; – subyektl\u0259rd\u0259n birinin (\u0259r v\u0259 ya arvad\u0131n) \u00f6z t\u0259l\u0259batlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6d\u0259nilm\u0259sin\u0259 daha \u00e7ox t\u0259l\u0259bkar olmas\u0131 (i\u00e7kiy\u0259,…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":216039,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/erle-arvad.jpg",400,280,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/erle-arvad.jpg",400,280,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/erle-arvad.jpg",400,280,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/erle-arvad-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/erle-arvad-300x210.jpg",300,210,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/erle-arvad.jpg",400,280,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/erle-arvad.jpg",400,280,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/erle-arvad.jpg",400,280,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/erle-arvad-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/erle-arvad.jpg",400,280,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"Sosial<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Ail\u0259 konfliktl\u0259ri subyektl\u0259rin m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olaraq: \u0259rl\u0259-arvad, valideyn v\u0259 u\u015faqlar, \u0259r-arvad v\u0259 onlar\u0131n valideynl\u0259ri, n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259r, babalar v\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259r aras\u0131nda ba\u015f verir. 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