{"id":21723,"date":"2018-10-27T14:06:17","date_gmt":"2018-10-27T11:06:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=21723"},"modified":"2018-10-27T14:06:17","modified_gmt":"2018-10-27T11:06:17","slug":"yatagimizdaki-qatil-onu-nec%c9%99-taniyaq-psixiatr-yazir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=21723","title":{"rendered":"YATA\u011eIMIZDAKI QAT\u0130L: onu nec\u0259 tan\u0131yaq? \u2013 Psixiatr yaz\u0131r"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cArvad\u0131n\u0131 t\u00fcf\u0259ngl\u0259 q\u0259tl\u0259 yetirdi\u201d, \u201cHamil\u0259 arvad\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6y\u0259r\u0259k \u00f6ld\u00fcrd\u00fc\u201d, \u201cH\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 k\u0259sdi\u201d… tipli x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259r son aylarda saytlarda, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 v\u0259 televiziyalarda tez-tez qar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r.<\/p>\n

H\u0259r ay az\u0131 1 analoji motivli cinay\u0259tin olmas\u0131 10 milyon \u0259halisi olan bir \u00f6lk\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259bil \u00e7al\u0131nacaq r\u0259q\u0259mdir. ARANTV.AZ<\/strong> bildirir ki, b\u0259s bu c\u00fcr cinay\u0259tl\u0259rin artmas\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bi n\u0259dir? Niy\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r aras\u0131nda h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 bu q\u0259d\u0259r aqressiya, \u015fidd\u0259t yaran\u0131b?<\/p>\n

Ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259 aqressiv davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bi…
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Ki\u015fi yarad\u0131l\u0131\u015f\u0131, tarixi t\u0259kam\u00fcl\u00fc etibar\u0131 il\u0259 aqressivliy\u0259, fiziki g\u00fcc\u0259 meylli olub. Bunun ibtidai c\u0259miyy\u0259tl\u0259rin idar\u0259etm\u0259 formalar\u0131ndan tutmu\u015f, bioloji olaraq qan\u0131ndak\u0131 androgenl\u0259rin \u00e7ox olmas\u0131na q\u0259d\u0259r m\u00fcxt\u0259lif s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri var. Ancaq bunlar ki\u015fil\u0259rin xisl\u0259tind\u0259ki\u00a0 aqressivliyin onlar\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olmayan t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259ridir. \u0130\u00e7d\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259n bu aqressiv r\u0259ftar \u0259ks\u0259r hallarda qad\u0131nlara y\u00f6n\u0259ldiyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fcxt\u0259lif m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tl\u0259r m\u00fcxt\u0259lif \u00fcsullarla bunu aradan qald\u0131rma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131blar. Bu, b\u0259zi yerl\u0259rd\u0259 dini \u0259xlaqla, b\u0259zi yerl\u0259rd\u0259 icma, a\u011fsaqqal n\u0259sih\u0259ti il\u0259, b\u0259zi yerl\u0259rd\u0259 y\u00fcks\u0259k t\u0259hsil verm\u0259kl\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6st\u0259rib.<\/p>\n

Haqq\u0131nda dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z aqressiv davran\u0131\u015f son ill\u0259rd\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn bizim c\u0259miyy\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn al\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u201c\u015fill\u0259, t\u0259pik\u201d format\u0131ndan \u201cg\u00fcll\u0259, b\u0131\u00e7aq\u201d kimi daha q\u0259ddar formalar\u0131na ke\u00e7ib. Bunun 2 \u0259sas – sosial v\u0259 psixoloji t\u0259r\u0259fi var.<\/p>\n

Sosial bax\u0131\u015f buca\u011f\u0131ndan baxd\u0131qda bu cinay\u0259ti t\u00f6r\u0259d\u0259n ki\u015fil\u0259r qad\u0131na \u015f\u0259xsi \u0259mlak g\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 bax\u0131r, onlar\u0131n ba\u015fqa he\u00e7 bir f\u0259aliyy\u0259tin\u0259, h\u0259tta do\u011fma valideynl\u0259ril\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 bel\u0259, imkan vermirl\u0259r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259ni daha da q\u0259lizl\u0259\u015fdir\u0259n q\u0131sqancl\u0131q faktorudur. Cinay\u0259tl\u0259rin \u0259sas motivi namus v\u0259 mental qaydalara olan ifrat s\u0259daq\u0259tdir. Son ill\u0259rd\u0259 artan qad\u0131n x\u0259yan\u0259tl\u0259ri \u00f6z n\u00f6vb\u0259sind\u0259 daha q\u0259ddar \u00fcsullarla t\u00f6r\u0259dilmi\u015f cinay\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xard\u0131r. M\u0259tbuatda oxudu\u011fumuz, x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259rd\u0259 g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fcz q\u0259d\u0259ril\u0259 bu cinay\u0259tl\u0259rin b\u00f6y\u00fck \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti he\u00e7 d\u0259 h\u0259r zaman adi ki\u015fi q\u0131sqancl\u0131\u011f\u0131 deyil, i\u00e7ind\u0259 h\u0259qiq\u0259t pay\u0131 olan gizli yaz\u0131\u015fmalar v\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u0259l\u0259ri ehtiva ed\u0259n real x\u0259yan\u0259t faktlar\u0131d\u0131r. Qad\u0131n x\u0259yan\u0259tl\u0259rinin s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri is\u0259 psixoloji olmaqdan daha \u00e7ox sosial m\u0259craya y\u00f6n\u0259ldiyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bununla ba\u011fl\u0131 \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259ki ail\u0259, qad\u0131n institutlar\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259dqiqat\u0131na ciddi ehtiyac var.<\/p>\n

M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin psixoloji y\u00f6n\u00fc daha \u00e7ox a\u00e7\u0131qlama t\u0259l\u0259b edir. Dar bir \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259d\u0259 apar\u0131lan t\u0259dqiqat zaman m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259nl\u0259\u015fib ki, m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t z\u0259minind\u0259 \u00f6z h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 q\u0259tl\u0259 yetir\u0259n ki\u015fil\u0259rin b\u00f6y\u00fck \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259tinin u\u015faq vaxt\u0131 analar\u0131 il\u0259 probleml\u0259ri olub. Ki\u015fi beyni daim h\u0259llini tapmayan probleml\u0259r, u\u015faql\u0131q travmalar\u0131 il\u0259 doludur. Onlar h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 \u00f6z analar\u0131n\u0131 atalar\u0131na \u201cq\u0131sqan\u0131blar\u201d, analar\u0131n\u0131n yaln\u0131z \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 aid olmas\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259yibl\u0259r v\u0259 bu, m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmay\u0131b. M\u0259\u015fhur psixoterapevt Ziqmund Freyd bunu \u201cEdip kompleksi\u201d adland\u0131r\u0131rd\u0131. Bu bax\u0131mdan, ki\u015fi h\u0259yat\u0131ndak\u0131 qad\u0131n\u0131n ancaq \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 m\u0259xsus olmas\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259yir, payla\u015fa bilmir. Diqq\u0259t ets\u0259niz, g\u00f6r\u0259rsiniz ki, bir qrup cinay\u0259tl\u0259r, h\u0259tta \u0259rl\u0259r arvad bo\u015fand\u0131qdan sonra da ba\u015f verir. \u00c7\u00fcnki ki\u015fi ayr\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olsa bel\u0259, yen\u0259 d\u0259 o qad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 m\u0259xsus oldu\u011funu san\u0131r, onu ba\u015fqa ki\u015fiyl\u0259 payla\u015fmaq ist\u0259mir, h\u0259tta bunun d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259si bel\u0259, onu aqressiv add\u0131mlar atma\u011fa, \u015fidd\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259y\u0259 s\u00f6vq edir.<\/p>\n

Psixoloji s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r i\u00e7\u0259risind\u0259 qad\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 y\u00f6n\u0259lmi\u015f cinay\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 cinay\u0259t t\u00f6r\u0259d\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsin f\u0259rdi xasiyy\u0259t keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259rinin rolu h\u0259dsizdir. \u015e\u0259xsiyy\u0259t tipl\u0259rinin beyn\u0259lxalq t\u0259snifat\u0131nda antisosial \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t tipl\u0259ri cinay\u0259t\u0259 daha \u00e7ox meylli \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r kimi qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirilirl\u0259r. Bu \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r c\u0259miyy\u0259tin b\u00fct\u00fcn yaz\u0131lan v\u0259 yaz\u0131lmayan qanunlar\u0131na \u0259ks gedirl\u0259r, \u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n z\u0259ifi \u0259zirl\u0259r, d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 and i\u00e7s\u0259 d\u0259, s\u00f6z vers\u0259 d\u0259, t\u0259krar eyni h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259ri edir, h\u0259bsi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn z\u0259min haz\u0131rlayan yerl\u0259rd\u0259 olurlar. Bu tipl\u0259r daim s\u0259daq\u0259tsizlik, ona olunan h\u00f6rm\u0259tsizlik bar\u0259sind\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

\u018frl\u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n aqressiv r\u0259ftara m\u0259ruz qalan qad\u0131nlar bunu m\u00fctl\u0259q ail\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259ri il\u0259 m\u00fczakir\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xars\u0131nlar. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 daha b\u00f6y\u00fck f\u0259sadlar verm\u0259d\u0259n m\u00fctl\u0259q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 m\u00fcdaxil\u0259 laz\u0131md\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki ik m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 s\u00f6y\u00fc\u015f, t\u0259hqirl\u0259 ba\u015flayan aqressiv r\u0259ftar sonradan fiziki aqressiyaya ke\u00e7ir. Bu is\u0259 \u00f6z n\u00f6vb\u0259sind\u0259 ill\u0259r v\u0259 ya aylar sonra cinay\u0259t v\u0259 dig\u0259r qanl\u0131 hadis\u0259l\u0259ri qa\u00e7\u0131lmaz edir.<\/p>\n

Aqressiv olan ki\u015fil\u0259r is\u0259 m\u00fctl\u0259q bir m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisd\u0259n yard\u0131m almal\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130lk d\u00f6n\u0259ml\u0259rd\u0259 bu, adi xasiyy\u0259t problemi olsa da, sonradan depressiya v\u0259 nevrotik pozuntular ortaya \u00e7\u0131xacaq. Ortada sizi \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fczd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xaracaq bir s\u0259b\u0259b olsa bel\u0259, n\u0259s\u0259 etm\u0259zd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 bunu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn, ki\u015fil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Sonda is\u0259 h\u0259m qad\u0131nlarda, h\u0259m d\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259 ilkin t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcrat yarada bil\u0259c\u0259k bir testi siz\u0259 t\u0259qdim edirik.
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\u018fg\u0259r bu suallardan \u0259n az\u0131 ikisin\u0259 “h\u0259\u201d cavab\u0131 verirsinizs\u0259, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n konfliktli (aqressiv) olma ehtimal\u0131 \u00e7ox y\u00fcks\u0259kdir.
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1. Sizinl\u0259 ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259ri, dostlar\u0131n\u0131z, u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnd\u0259 al\u00e7ald\u0131c\u0131 zarafatlar edirmi?<\/p>\n

2. Spirtli i\u00e7ki q\u0259bulundan sonra siz\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 aqressiv olurmu?<\/p>\n

3. Siz\u0259 v\u0259 ya \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131za n\u0259 vaxtsa s\u0259b\u0259bsiz vurdumu?<\/p>\n

4. Onu \u0259s\u0259bil\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259r \u015fey\u0259 raz\u0131s\u0131n\u0131zm\u0131?<\/p>\n

5. O, evd\u0259 olmayanda \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc daha rahat, xo\u015fb\u0259xt hiss edirsinizmi?<\/p>\n

6. Qolunuzdak\u0131, sif\u0259tinizd\u0259ki g\u00f6y\u0259rm\u0259 izl\u0259rini qohumlar\u0131n\u0131zdan gizl\u0259tm\u0259k ehtiyac\u0131 olubmu?<\/p>\n

7. Tez-tez \u201cM\u0259ni \u0259s\u0259bl\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259\u201d dey\u0259 q\u0131\u015fq\u0131r\u0131rm\u0131?<\/p>\n

8. He\u00e7 bir s\u0259b\u0259b olmadan tez-tez evd\u0259 problem yarad\u0131rm\u0131?<\/p>\n

9. \u018fs\u0259bil\u0259\u015f\u0259nd\u0259 qap\u0131lar\u0131 \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131b, \u015f\u00fc\u015f\u0259 s\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131b v\u0259 ya \u0259\u015fya tullad\u0131\u011f\u0131 oldumu?<\/p>\n

10. Maddi olaraq sizi \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 saxlama\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rm\u0131?<\/p>\n

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