Biz bel\u0259l\u0259ri il\u0259 tez-tez qar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r\u0131q. H\u0259tta \u0259n \u00e7ox sevdikl\u0259rimizin aras\u0131nda bel\u0259 var.<\/p>\n
Dayanmadan, fasil\u0259siz olaraq dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc, g\u00f6rd\u00fckl\u0259rini anlad\u0131r, h\u0259r hadis\u0259 haqq\u0131nda m\u00fctl\u0259q bir fikri var, susma\u011f\u0131 sevmir v\u0259 sair. Bunun ad\u0131na x\u0259st\u0259lik d\u0259 dem\u0259k olar, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc ifad\u0259 problemi d\u0259. B\u00fct\u00fcn hallarda insan bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 il\u0259 \u0259traf\u0131ndak\u0131larda ikrah do\u011furur. \u018ftraf\u0131 il\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131, \u00e7ox dan\u0131\u015fma\u011f\u0131 \u00f6z sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131na da m\u00fcxt\u0259lif z\u0259rb\u0259l\u0259r vurur.<\/p>\n
Tibb elmi bununla ba\u011fl\u0131 xeyli ara\u015fd\u0131rma apar\u0131b v\u0259 bu suala cavab tapma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131b. \u00c7ox dan\u0131\u015fmaq x\u0259st\u0259likdirmi? X\u0259st\u0259likdirs\u0259, m\u00fcalic\u0259 \u00fcsullar\u0131 n\u0259l\u0259rdir?\u00a0Musavat.com<\/strong>\u00a0bu haqda material\u0131 t\u0259qdim edir.<\/p>\n Dan\u0131\u015fanda b\u0259d\u0259nimizd\u0259 hans\u0131 prosesl\u0259r ba\u015f verir? \u00d6nc\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fma\u011f\u0131n m\u00f6c\u00fcz\u0259sin\u0259 toxunaq. \u0130nsan\u0131n nitq qabiliyy\u0259tinin formala\u015fmas\u0131 zaman\u0131 ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259. Bir s\u00f6z s\u00f6yl\u0259m\u0259k ist\u0259diyiniz zaman beyninizd\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259n bir \u00e7ox \u0259mr s\u0259s tell\u0259riniz\u0259, diliniz\u0259 v\u0259 \u00e7\u0259n\u0259 \u0259z\u0259l\u0259l\u0259riniz\u0259 gedir. Beyinin dan\u0131\u015f\u0131q m\u0259rk\u0259zi dan\u0131\u015fma \u0259m\u0259liyyat\u0131n\u0131zda rol oynayan b\u00fct\u00fcn \u0259z\u0259l\u0259l\u0259riniz\u0259 laz\u0131mi \u0259mrl\u0259r verir.<\/p>\n \u018fvv\u0259lc\u0259, a\u011fciy\u0259rl\u0259riniz isti hava t\u0259min edir. \u0130sti hava dan\u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n xammal\u0131d\u0131r. Hava burnunuzdan girir, burun bo\u015flu\u011fu, bo\u011faz, n\u0259f\u0259s borusundan sonra bronxlar\u0131n\u0131za, oradan da a\u011fciy\u0259rl\u0259riniz\u0259 ke\u00e7ir. Havadak\u0131 oksigen a\u011fciy\u0259rl\u0259rinizd\u0259 qana qar\u0131\u015f\u0131r. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259, karbondioksid xaric olunur. Ciy\u0259rl\u0259rinizd\u0259n geri qay\u0131dan hava bo\u011faz\u0131n\u0131zdan ke\u00e7\u0259rk\u0259n s\u0259s tell\u0259rinin aras\u0131ndan ke\u00e7ir. Bu tell\u0259r p\u0259rd\u0259y\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259yir v\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 olduqlar\u0131 ki\u00e7ik q\u0131\u011f\u0131rdaqlar\u0131n t\u0259siri il\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t edirl\u0259r. Siz dan\u0131\u015fmazdan \u0259vv\u0259l s\u0259s tell\u0259riniz a\u00e7\u0131q v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 olur. Dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z zaman tell\u0259r bir-birin\u0259 yax\u0131nla\u015f\u0131r v\u0259 n\u0259f\u0259s verdiyiniz zaman \u00e7\u0131xan hava il\u0259 titr\u0259\u015fir.<\/p>\n A\u011f\u0131z v\u0259 burun qurulu\u015funuz s\u0259siniz\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259m\u0259xsus x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259t qazand\u0131r\u0131r. Siz s\u00f6zl\u0259ri ard-arda d\u00fcz\u0259r\u0259k dan\u0131\u015fark\u0259n diliniz dama\u011f\u0131n\u0131za m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n q\u0259d\u0259r yax\u0131nla\u015f\u0131b uzaqla\u015f\u0131r, dodaqlar\u0131n\u0131z da y\u0131\u011f\u0131l\u0131b a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131r. Bu \u0259m\u0259liyyatlarda bir \u00e7ox \u0259z\u0259l\u0259niz b\u00f6y\u00fck s\u00fcr\u0259tl\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t edir. Dan\u0131\u015fma\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu \u0259m\u0259liyyatlar\u0131n h\u0259r biri q\u00fcsursuz olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu kompleks \u0259m\u0259liyyatlar heyr\u0259tamiz s\u00fcr\u0259tl\u0259 v\u0259 q\u00fcsursuz \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 realla\u015fark\u0259n sizin bunlardan x\u0259b\u0259riniz bel\u0259 olmur.<\/p>\n Dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zaman bir-birimizi nec\u0259 anlay\u0131r\u0131q? D\u00fcnyada 6000-d\u0259n \u00e7ox dil var. M\u00fcxt\u0259lif insan c\u0259miyy\u0259tl\u0259ri 6000 dil vasit\u0259sil\u0259 bir-birl\u0259ri il\u0259 \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t qururlar. Bu dill\u0259ri meydana g\u0259tir\u0259n minl\u0259rl\u0259 s\u00f6z v\u0259 bu s\u00f6zl\u0259ri c\u00fcml\u0259l\u0259r hal\u0131na g\u0259tir\u0259n qrammatik qaydalar bir-birind\u0259n tamamil\u0259 f\u0259rql\u0259nir.<\/p>\n \u0130ki psixoloqun – Uilyam Naqi v\u0259 Ri\u00e7ard Andersonun ingilis dilind\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fan \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 apard\u0131qlar\u0131 ara\u015fd\u0131rmaya g\u00f6r\u0259, 1-ci sinf\u0259 ged\u0259n u\u015faq 13 min, 11-ci sinfi bitirdikd\u0259 60 min s\u00f6z bilir. Yetkin insan is\u0259 t\u0259xmin\u0259n 120 min s\u00f6z bilir. Zehnimizd\u0259ki bu n\u0259h\u0259ng l\u00fc\u011f\u0259ti meydana g\u0259tirm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn 1 ya\u015f\u0131ndan 17 ya\u015f\u0131na q\u0259d\u0259r g\u00fcnd\u0259 10 s\u00f6z, ya da oyan\u0131q oldu\u011fumuz zaman h\u0259r 90 d\u0259qiq\u0259d\u0259 yeni bir s\u00f6z \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259li, \u00fcst\u0259lik \u00f6yr\u0259ndiyimiz h\u0259r s\u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 he\u00e7 vaxt unutmamal\u0131y\u0131q. Halbuki, \u015f\u00fcurlu olaraq bel\u0259 bir s\u0259y g\u00f6st\u0259rmirik. S\u00f6zl\u0259r biz f\u0259rqind\u0259 bel\u0259 olmadan zehnimizd\u0259 \u00f6z yerl\u0259rini m\u0259nalar\u0131 il\u0259 birlikd\u0259 tuturlar. Stiven Pinker bu m\u00f6c\u00fcz\u0259ni bel\u0259 vur\u011fulam\u0131\u015fd\u0131r:<\/p>\n “Dil istifad\u0259sind\u0259ki m\u00f6c\u00fcz\u0259l\u0259r \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259 s\u00fcr\u0259ti il\u0259 m\u0259hdudla\u015fm\u0131r. Ba\u015fqa insan\u0131n s\u00f6yl\u0259diyi bir s\u00f6z\u00fc saniy\u0259nin yaln\u0131z be\u015fd\u0259 biri q\u0259d\u0259r m\u00fcdd\u0259td\u0259 anlay\u0131r\u0131q. Bu m\u00fcdd\u0259t o q\u0259d\u0259r q\u0131sad\u0131r ki, qar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zda dan\u0131\u015fan adam h\u0259l\u0259 s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc bitirm\u0259d\u0259n m\u0259nas\u0131n\u0131 qavray\u0131r\u0131q. Yaz\u0131l\u0131 s\u00f6zd\u0259 is\u0259 bu m\u00fcdd\u0259t daha q\u0131sad\u0131r: Bir saniy\u0259nin s\u0259kkizd\u0259 biri. Beynimizin bir s\u00f6z \u00e7\u0131xarmas\u0131 da dem\u0259k olar ki, eyni s\u00fcr\u0259td\u0259dir v\u0259 saniy\u0259nin d\u00f6rdd\u0259 biri q\u0259d\u0259r olan zamanda bir obyekti adland\u0131ran s\u00f6z\u00fc tap\u0131r\u0131q. Yen\u0259 saniy\u0259nin d\u00f6rdd\u0259 biri m\u00fcdd\u0259tind\u0259 bu s\u00f6z\u00fc s\u00f6yl\u0259m\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn a\u011fz\u0131m\u0131z v\u0259 dilimiz proqramla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r” (Steven Pinker, Language Instinct: How the Mind Creates Language, Harper Perennial, 1994).<\/p>\n Qad\u0131nlar daha \u00e7ox dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r, ya ki\u015fil\u0259r? “\u00c7ox dan\u0131\u015fmaq a\u011fl\u0131n azl\u0131\u011f\u0131na, yalan dan\u0131\u015fmaq irad\u0259nin s\u00fcstl\u00fcy\u00fcn\u0259, s\u0259sin yor\u011funlu\u011fu is\u0259 g\u00fcc\u00fcn z\u0259ifliyin\u0259 d\u0259lal\u0259t edir”. Bu, m\u0259\u015fhur k\u0259lamlardan biridir. Bu g\u00fcn\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r apar\u0131lan ara\u015fd\u0131rmalara inansaq, \u0259slind\u0259 qad\u0131nlar ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259n \u00e7ox dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Bu, t\u0259bi\u0259tin qanunudur. Bel\u0259 ki, bir qad\u0131n g\u00fcn \u0259rzind\u0259 \u00e7ox rahatl\u0131qla 700 min s\u00f6z v\u0259 300 s\u0259s tonundan istifad\u0259 edir. Bununla yana\u015f\u0131 dan\u0131\u015fan zaman b\u0259d\u0259n dilind\u0259n d\u0259 istifad\u0259 edirl\u0259r. \u018fl-qol h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259ri daxil h\u0259r bir qad\u0131n g\u00fcn \u0259rzind\u0259 21 min \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t vasit\u0259sind\u0259n istifad\u0259 edir. Elm adamlar\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259, qad\u0131nlarda beynin sol t\u0259r\u0259fi m\u00fcxt\u0259lif d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 v\u0259 m\u00fcdd\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn siqnal \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr.<\/p>\n Qad\u0131nlar\u0131n beyinl\u0259rinin sol-\u00f6n t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n bir b\u00f6lg\u0259 var ki, bunun say\u0259sind\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fma funskiyas\u0131 h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irilir. Sa\u011f t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259 d\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fma funksiyas\u0131n\u0131 yerin\u0259 yetir\u0259n m\u0259rk\u0259z var. Bu iki t\u0259r\u0259fin funksiyas\u0131 il\u0259 qad\u0131nlar daha \u00e7ox dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Beyinl\u0259rinin yarad\u0131lma formas\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 qad\u0131nlar dan\u0131\u015fark\u0259n ba\u015fqa i\u015fl\u0259ri d\u0259 rahatl\u0131qla h\u0259yata ke\u00e7ir\u0259 bilirl\u0259r. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 qad\u0131nlar h\u0259r yerd\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fma\u011f\u0131 sevirl\u0259r. Beyinl\u0259rinin h\u0259r iki t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fma funksiyas\u0131 oldu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qad\u0131nlar xarici dili daha tez m\u0259nims\u0259yirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n Ara\u015fd\u0131rmalara g\u00f6r\u0259, qad\u0131nlar ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259n 3 d\u0259f\u0259 daha \u00e7ox dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n Onlarda yadda\u015f pozuntusu yaran\u0131r Dediyimiz kimi, bunun f\u0259sadlar\u0131 da var. M\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edilib ki, uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t telefonla dan\u0131\u015fmaq boyun y\u0131rt\u0131\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 beyind\u0259 x\u0259r\u00e7\u0259ng yaranmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur. B\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn\u00fc ba\u015f a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131ndan \u015fikay\u0259tl\u0259n\u0259n insanlar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131n a\u011fr\u0131mas\u0131n\u0131n da s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259n biri uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t telefonla dan\u0131\u015fmaqd\u0131r.<\/p>\n Telefon dal\u011falar\u0131 boyun y\u0131rt\u0131\u011f\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olub, beyin h\u00fcceyr\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 m\u0259nfi t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259r\u0259k, x\u0259r\u00e7\u0259ngin yaranmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur.<\/p>\n 6 d\u0259qiq\u0259d\u0259n \u00e7ox telefonla dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131qda, qulaq \u0259traf\u0131nda istilik art\u0131r, bu da insanda ba\u015f a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131, yuxusuzluq, yadda\u015f pozuntusu, h\u00fcceyr\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 pozuntulara g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r.<\/p>\n Bununla yana\u015f\u0131, mobil telefonla g\u00fcnd\u0259 30 d\u0259qiq\u0259d\u0259n art\u0131q dan\u0131\u015fmaq beyin x\u0259r\u00e7\u0259ngi riskini bir ne\u00e7\u0259 d\u0259f\u0259 art\u0131r\u0131r. Ara\u015fd\u0131rmada 13 \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259n 30 ya\u015fdan yuxar\u0131 olan 5 mind\u0259n art\u0131q insan i\u015ftirak edib. M\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r mobil telefonu qulaqc\u0131qla istifad\u0259 etm\u0259yi m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6r\u00fcrl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259 \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259sind\u0259 telefondan g\u00fcnd\u0259 30 d\u0259qiq\u0259d\u0259n az v\u0259 qulaqc\u0131qla istifad\u0259 zaman\u0131 x\u0259r\u00e7\u0259ng\u0259 yoluxma hal\u0131 qeyd\u0259 al\u0131nmay\u0131b.<\/p>\n Aliml\u0259r x\u00fcsusil\u0259 30 ya\u015fdan a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 olan insanlar aras\u0131nda cib telefonundan istifad\u0259nin k\u00fctl\u0259vi hal ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildirirl\u0259r. “A\u011f\u0131r istifad\u0259\u00e7il\u0259r” adland\u0131r\u0131lan bu qrup g\u00fcnd\u0259 30 d\u0259qiq\u0259d\u0259n \u00e7ox telefondan istifad\u0259 edir. T\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259 apar\u0131lan qrupa aid olan insanlar is\u0259 ayda iki saatdan art\u0131q telefona vaxt s\u0259rf etmirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n T\u00fcrkiy\u0259nin a\u011f\u0131z, di\u015f v\u0259 \u00e7\u0259n\u0259 c\u0259rrah\u0131 Cem \u00dcng\u00f6r is\u0259 bildirib ki, x\u00fcsus\u0259n qad\u0131nlarda \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259n \u00e7\u0259n\u0259 oyna\u011f\u0131 x\u0259st\u0259liyinin ba\u015f qald\u0131rmas\u0131 onlar\u0131n \u00e7ox dan\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 v\u0259 ke\u00e7irdikl\u0259ri stressl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7\u0259n\u0259 x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259ri modern c\u0259miyy\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7ox g\u00f6st\u0259rir.<\/p>\n \u0130nsanlar niy\u0259 bir-birini dinl\u0259mir? Mi\u00e7iqan Universiteti t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r aras\u0131nda ke\u00e7irdiyi sor\u011funun n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259rini a\u00e7\u0131qlay\u0131b. M\u0259lum olub ki, m\u00fcasir t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259l\u0259r 10 il \u0259vv\u0259lkil\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 40 faiz daha az \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t\u0259 meyllidirl\u0259r. Daha d\u0259qiq des\u0259k, onlar qar\u015f\u0131lar\u0131ndak\u0131 insana daha az qulaq as\u0131b, daha \u00e7ox dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Bu m\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 kitab yazan Darlene Mininni adl\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259llif yaranm\u0131\u015f bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti bel\u0259 izah edr: “\u018fg\u0259r bir insan daim dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r, dig\u0259ri is\u0259 sad\u0259c\u0259, onu dinl\u0259yirs\u0259, bu, he\u00e7 d\u0259 sa\u011flam \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t say\u0131lm\u0131r. Dinl\u0259y\u0259n t\u0259r\u0259f \u0259vv\u0259l-ax\u0131r partlama\u011fa haz\u0131r v\u0259ziyy\u0259t\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k. T\u0259bii ki, b\u0259z\u0259n sizin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox vacib olan bir x\u0259b\u0259ri n\u0259f\u0259sinizi d\u0259rm\u0259d\u0259n dostlar\u0131n\u0131zla payla\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z anlar ola bil\u0259r. Bu, normald\u0131r. Amma dediyimiz hal ad\u0259t hal\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131rsa, o zaman ciddi problemd\u0259n dan\u0131\u015fmaq olar”.<\/p>\n \u00c7ox dan\u0131\u015fan insan \u00f6z \u0259traf\u0131n\u0131 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 n\u0259zar\u0259t alt\u0131na almaq ist\u0259yir. O, dan\u0131\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 vaxt n\u0259zar\u0259tin, idar\u0259nin \u0259lind\u0259n al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr v\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259 alt\u0131nda, qorumas\u0131z hiss edir. \u018fslind\u0259 bu, bir \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259n problemidir. B\u0259zil\u0259ri d\u0259 \u00e7ox dan\u0131\u015faraq \u00f6zl\u0259rini s\u00fcbut etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n Nec\u0259 m\u00fcbariz\u0259 aparaq – susdurma\u011f\u0131n \u00fcsullar\u0131 D\u00fcnyan\u0131n \u0259n s\u00fcr\u0259tl\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fan qad\u0131n\u0131 Amerikada ya\u015fay\u0131r. Nyu-York \u015ftat\u0131nda ya\u015fayan 54 ya\u015fl\u0131 Fran Kapo u\u015faq ya\u015f\u0131ndan etibar\u0259n s\u00fcr\u0259tl\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r. O, 1986-c\u0131 ild\u0259 radiolar\u0131n birin\u0259 i\u015f\u0259 q\u0259bul olunub. Qad\u0131n s\u00fcr\u0259tl\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131q bacar\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan b\u0259hr\u0259l\u0259n\u0259r\u0259k \u0259n tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f DJ-l\u0259rd\u0259n birin\u0259 \u00e7evrilib. Fran Kapo deyir ki, u\u015faql\u0131qdan bu bacar\u0131\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 h\u0259r k\u0259si heyr\u0259tl\u0259ndirirmi\u015f. Qad\u0131n bu bacar\u0131\u011f\u0131 say\u0259sind\u0259 ad\u0131n\u0131 Ginnesin Rekordlar kitab\u0131na yazd\u0131r\u0131b. Qeyd ed\u0259k ki, Fran Kapo bir d\u0259qiq\u0259y\u0259 585 k\u0259lm\u0259 dey\u0259 bilir.<\/p>\n Amma \u00e7ox dan\u0131\u015fan insanlarla m\u00fcbariz\u0259nin d\u0259 yollar\u0131 var. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, hesab ed\u0259k ki, dostunuz dayanmadan dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r v\u0259 sizin dar\u0131xd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n f\u0259rqind\u0259 d\u0259 deyil. O zaman bunu ifad\u0259 etm\u0259yin vaxt\u0131 \u00e7at\u0131b.<\/p>\n Birincisi, ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ba\u015fqa t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 \u00e7evirin. B\u00f6y\u00fck ehtimalla, dostunuz sizd\u0259n bunun s\u0259b\u0259bini soru\u015facaq. Siz d\u0259 fikrinizin ba\u015fqa yerd\u0259 oldu\u011funu dey\u0259r\u0259k ist\u0259diyiniz m\u00f6vzuya girin: “M\u0259nim d\u0259 s\u0259n\u0259 dan\u0131\u015facaqlar\u0131m var. S\u0259n\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox g\u00f6zl\u0259y\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259m. D\u00fcn\u0259n bir i\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259 getdim v\u0259 m\u0259ni dinl\u0259m\u0259yini ist\u0259yir\u0259m. \u00c7\u00fcnki s\u0259nin fikirl\u0259rin m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox vacibdir”.<\/p>\n Psixoloqlar hesab edir ki, bu c\u00fcr giri\u015fd\u0259n sonra, h\u0259tta \u0259n dan\u0131\u015fqan adam bel\u0259 \u00f6z s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc k\u0259sib sizi dinl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur olacaq. Bundan ba\u015fqa, \u00e7ox dan\u0131\u015fan insanlara yax\u0131n \u0259traf\u0131 bunun q\u00fcsur, h\u0259tta x\u0259st\u0259lik h\u0259ddin\u0259 \u00e7atan bir q\u00fcsur oldu\u011funu bildirm\u0259lidir. \u018fks halda, \u00e7ox dan\u0131\u015fan insan bunu normal hal kimi q\u0259bul edib, m\u00fchazir\u0259l\u0259rinin faydal\u0131 olmas\u0131 fikrin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Biz bel\u0259l\u0259ri il\u0259 tez-tez qar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r\u0131q. H\u0259tta \u0259n \u00e7ox sevdikl\u0259rimizin aras\u0131nda bel\u0259 var. Dayanmadan, fasil\u0259siz olaraq dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc, g\u00f6rd\u00fckl\u0259rini anlad\u0131r, h\u0259r hadis\u0259 haqq\u0131nda m\u00fctl\u0259q bir fikri var, susma\u011f\u0131 sevmir v\u0259 sair. Bunun ad\u0131na x\u0259st\u0259lik d\u0259 dem\u0259k olar, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc ifad\u0259 problemi d\u0259. 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