Ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 yaln\u0131z sevgi v\u0259 sevinc hissl\u0259rind\u0259n ibar\u0259t deyil. D\u00fczd\u00fcr, insanlar t\u0259k qalmamaq, birlikd\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmaq, s\u0259ad\u0259t\u0259, sevgilisin\u0259 qovu\u015fmaq, o\u011fullu-q\u0131zl\u0131 olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ail\u0259 qururlar.<\/p>\n
Lakin m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l insan olmur. S\u0259hv etm\u0259ks\u0259 ham\u0131ya m\u0259xsusdur. S\u0259n onu oldu\u011fu kimi sevirdins\u0259, indi n\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fdirm\u0259k ist\u0259yirs\u0259n?<\/strong> Qad\u0131nlar sevdiyi insan\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fdirm\u0259y\u0259 c\u0259hd etm\u0259m\u0259lidirl\u0259r.<\/strong>\u00a0Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 ki, h\u0259r bir \u015f\u0259xsin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259m\u0259xsus xarakteri v\u0259 v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259ri var. Bir u\u011fursuzluq ba\u015f ver\u0259n zaman b\u0259zi qad\u0131nlar narahat olur, \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 b\u0259db\u0259xt, u\u011fursuz insan deyirl\u0259r. \u018fslind\u0259 is\u0259 b\u0259zi qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259si olsa, zamanla bu probleml\u0259ri aradan qald\u0131rmaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olacaq.<\/p>\n Qad\u0131nlara m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259r:<\/strong> G\u0259lin, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n ki\u015fil\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259 buraxd\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u0259sas s\u0259hvl\u0259rin\u0259 n\u0259z\u0259r salaq. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r aras\u0131ndak\u0131 m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olan ba\u015fqa amill\u0259r d\u0259 var. Bu m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259ri d\u00fczg\u00fcn h\u0259ll etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcns\u0259 qad\u0131nlara s\u0259birli olma\u011f\u0131 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u0259m. \u018fn \u0259sas\u0131 is\u0259 maraql\u0131 h\u0259ms\u00f6hb\u0259t olma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. H\u0259m dan\u0131\u015fmaq, h\u0259m d\u0259 dinl\u0259m\u0259k \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tlidir.<\/p>\n Bununla yana\u015f\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u0259 diqq\u0259t ay\u0131rma\u011f\u0131 unutmay\u0131n. Qad\u0131n h\u0259r zaman, h\u0259r bir \u015f\u0259raitd\u0259 qad\u0131n oldu\u011funu unutmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n Ayg\u00fcn A\u011fabalayeva<\/p>\n Psixologiya v\u0259 Konsultasiya M\u0259rk\u0259zinin psixoloqu<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 yaln\u0131z sevgi v\u0259 sevinc hissl\u0259rind\u0259n ibar\u0259t deyil. D\u00fczd\u00fcr, insanlar t\u0259k qalmamaq, birlikd\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmaq, s\u0259ad\u0259t\u0259, sevgilisin\u0259 qovu\u015fmaq, o\u011fullu-q\u0131zl\u0131 olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ail\u0259 qururlar. Lakin m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l insan olmur. S\u0259hv etm\u0259ks\u0259 ham\u0131ya m\u0259xsusdur. \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n psixologiyas\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rin psixologiyas\u0131ndan f\u0259rql\u0259nir v\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 fikir ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. H\u0259m qad\u0131n, h\u0259m d\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r s\u0259hv edirl\u0259r. Lakin bu yaz\u0131da qad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r zaman\u0131 yol verdikl\u0259ri s\u0259hvl\u0259rd\u0259n s\u00f6hb\u0259t ged\u0259c\u0259k. Qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 il\u0259 sevdiyi ki\u015fil\u0259rin \u0259n pis x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259rini bel\u0259 aradan qald\u0131ra bil\u0259rl\u0259r. Amma, bu o dem\u0259k deyil ki, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259ki b\u00fct\u00fcn probleml\u0259r qad\u0131nlar\u0131n t\u0259qsiri \u00fcz\u00fcnd\u0259n yaran\u0131r v\u0259…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":28530,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/evli-olmaq.jpg",440,308,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/evli-olmaq.jpg",440,308,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/evli-olmaq.jpg",440,308,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/evli-olmaq-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/evli-olmaq-300x210.jpg",300,210,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/evli-olmaq.jpg",440,308,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/evli-olmaq.jpg",440,308,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/evli-olmaq.jpg",440,308,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/evli-olmaq-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/evli-olmaq.jpg",440,308,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"Manset<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 yaln\u0131z sevgi v\u0259 sevinc hissl\u0259rind\u0259n ibar\u0259t deyil. D\u00fczd\u00fcr, insanlar t\u0259k qalmamaq, birlikd\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmaq, s\u0259ad\u0259t\u0259, sevgilisin\u0259 qovu\u015fmaq, o\u011fullu-q\u0131zl\u0131 olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ail\u0259 qururlar. Lakin m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l insan olmur. S\u0259hv etm\u0259ks\u0259 ham\u0131ya m\u0259xsusdur. \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n psixologiyas\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rin psixologiyas\u0131ndan f\u0259rql\u0259nir v\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 fikir ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. H\u0259m qad\u0131n, h\u0259m d\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r s\u0259hv edirl\u0259r. Lakin bu yaz\u0131da…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28529"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=28529"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28529\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/28530"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=28529"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=28529"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=28529"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\n\u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n psixologiyas\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rin psixologiyas\u0131ndan f\u0259rql\u0259nir v\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 fikir ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. H\u0259m qad\u0131n, h\u0259m d\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r s\u0259hv edirl\u0259r. Lakin bu yaz\u0131da qad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r zaman\u0131 yol verdikl\u0259ri s\u0259hvl\u0259rd\u0259n s\u00f6hb\u0259t ged\u0259c\u0259k.
\nQad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 il\u0259 sevdiyi ki\u015fil\u0259rin \u0259n pis x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259rini bel\u0259 aradan qald\u0131ra bil\u0259rl\u0259r. Amma, bu o dem\u0259k deyil ki, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259ki b\u00fct\u00fcn probleml\u0259r qad\u0131nlar\u0131n t\u0259qsiri \u00fcz\u00fcnd\u0259n yaran\u0131r v\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rin \u00f6z m\u0259nfi c\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259rini aradan qald\u0131rma\u011fa ehtiyac\u0131 yoxdur.
\nQeyd ed\u0259k ki, u\u011furlu m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin 50 faizi qad\u0131nlar\u0131n davran\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r.\u00a0Qad\u0131nlar\u0131n b\u0259zi h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259ri h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131 il\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 da\u011f\u0131d\u0131c\u0131 rol oynay\u0131r.\u00a0<\/strong>\u018flb\u0259td\u0259 qad\u0131nlar bu s\u0259hvl\u0259ri bilm\u0259d\u0259n, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259d\u0259n d\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r. Bu s\u0259hv h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rin \u00e7oxu qad\u0131nlar\u0131n analar\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n a\u015f\u0131lana bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n
\nQad\u0131nlar \u00e7ox vaxt sevdiyi insan\u0131 idealla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131rlar. Onun pis v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259rini aradan qald\u0131rma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Probleml\u0259r d\u0259 m\u0259hz pis v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259r aradan qalxmayanda ba\u015flay\u0131r. Lakin bel\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 xan\u0131mlar q\u0259rar verm\u0259y\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259sm\u0259m\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259ni zamanla h\u0259ll etm\u0259k olar.<\/p>\n
\nSevdiyiniz insan n\u0259d\u0259n z\u00f6vq al\u0131rsa, ona s\u0259mimi maraq g\u00f6st\u0259rin. Bu onun i\u015fi, sevdiyi m\u0259\u015f\u011fuliyy\u0259ti, etdiyi idman n\u00f6v\u00fc d\u0259 ola bil\u0259r. Sizin onun sevdiyi, z\u00f6vq ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u0259\u015f\u011fuliyy\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 maraq g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259yiniz s\u00fcni g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259m\u0259lidir.
\nBundan ba\u015fqa, m\u00f6hk\u0259m v\u0259 mehriban ail\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qad\u0131n\u0131n yax\u015f\u0131 \u0259hvalda olmas\u0131 vacibdir. Bel\u0259 ki, ki\u015fil\u0259r sevdikl\u0259ri qad\u0131n\u0131n yax\u015f\u0131 \u0259hval-ruhiyy\u0259d\u0259 olma\u011f\u0131n\u0131 xo\u015flay\u0131rlar. Ki\u015fi g\u00fclm\u0259li bir \u015fey dan\u0131\u015fanda, zarafat etm\u0259k ist\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 qad\u0131n t\u0259b\u0259ss\u00fcml\u0259 cavab verm\u0259y\u0259, geri g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 g\u00fclm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131r. Amma ki\u015finin h\u0259r s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259bsiz reaksiya verib h\u0259ddini a\u015fmaq da m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t deyil.
\nKi\u015fil\u0259r \u00f6zl\u0259rini \u0259v\u0259zolunmaz, f\u0259rqli hiss etm\u0259kd\u0259n z\u00f6vq al\u0131rlar. Bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n d\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131za b\u0259y\u0259ndiyiniz x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259rini deyin. H\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131za siz\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 olan h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir diqq\u0259tin\u0259, evd\u0259 g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fc hans\u0131sa i\u015fin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 t\u0259\u015f\u0259kk\u00fcr edin. Davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirdiyinizi ona hiss etdirin.
\n\u00c7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n ki, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131zla fikirl\u0259rinizl\u0259 b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u0259siniz. Ona m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259rinin sizin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tli oldu\u011funu bildirin. Bu onun xo\u015funa g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k v\u0259 siz\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259t hiss ed\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n
\n1<\/strong>.<\/strong>\u00a0Qad\u0131nlar sevdiyi ki\u015fil\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6zl\u0259rini qurban verirl\u0259r. Onlar \u00fcmid edirl\u0259r ki, f\u0259dakarl\u0131qlar\u0131 ki\u015fil\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n y\u00fcks\u0259k qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndiril\u0259c\u0259k v\u0259 ki\u015finin ona sevgisi d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 artacaq. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, bu \u00e7ox nadir hallarda ba\u015f verir. \u00c7ox vaxt \u0259ksin\u0259 olur. Ki\u015finin qad\u0131na olan mara\u011f\u0131 azal\u0131r.
\n2<\/strong>.<\/strong>\u00a0Qad\u0131nlar ki\u015fil\u0259rin potensial imkanlar\u0131na a\u015fiq olurlar.
\n3<\/strong>.<\/strong>\u00a0Qad\u0131nlar \u00f6zl\u0259rini ana kimi apar\u0131r v\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rl\u0259 u\u015faq kimi r\u0259ftar edirl\u0259r.
\n4<\/strong>.<\/strong>\u00a0B\u0259z\u0259n qad\u0131nlar \u00f6zl\u0259rini h\u0259dsiz y\u00fcks\u0259kd\u0259 tutur, b\u0259z\u0259n is\u0259 \u00e7ox z\u0259if olduqlar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r.
\n5<\/strong>.<\/strong>\u00a0El\u0259 c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r var ki, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259r \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 qurulur. B\u0259zil\u0259ri bu hissl\u0259r\u0259 al\u0131\u015f\u0131r v\u0259 \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131 m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259li v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259r axtar\u0131rlar (q\u00fcvv\u0259 toplamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn).
\n6<\/strong>.<\/strong>\u00a0El\u0259 qad\u0131nlar var ki, ist\u0259dikl\u0259rin\u0259 nail olmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6zl\u0259rini balaca \u015f\u0131ltaq q\u0131z kimi apar\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n