{"id":290458,"date":"2021-02-10T13:57:31","date_gmt":"2021-02-10T10:57:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=290458"},"modified":"2021-02-10T13:57:31","modified_gmt":"2021-02-10T10:57:31","slug":"erk%c9%99n-nikahlari-yaradan-%c9%99sas-amil-savadsizliqdan-dogan-c%c9%99hal%c9%99tdir-psixoloq","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=290458","title":{"rendered":"Erk\u0259n nikahlar\u0131 yaradan \u0259sas amil savads\u0131zl\u0131qdan do\u011fan c\u0259hal\u0259tdir PS\u0130XOLOQ"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"content lead font-weight-normal\">\n<p><em>Son g\u00fcnl\u0259rin \u0259sas m\u00fczakir\u0259 m\u00f6vzular\u0131ndan biri d\u0259 erk\u0259n nikahlar v\u0259 onun g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 yaradaca\u011f\u0131\u00a0faci\u0259l\u0259rdir. \u018ffsuslar olsun ki, h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 bu faci\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 ciddi yana\u015fmayan ail\u0259l\u0259r var ki, ill\u0259rdir davam ed\u0259n bu d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli \u201ctendensiyan\u0131\u201d davam etdirm\u0259kd\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kinmirl\u0259r. B\u0259s, erk\u0259n nikahlar v\u0259 onun f\u0259sadlar\u0131 haqq\u0131nda m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r n\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr<\/em>?<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>ARANTV.AZ<\/strong> bu m\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 &#8220;Loqos&#8221; Psixoloji v\u0259 Nitq \u0130nki\u015faf M\u0259rk\u0259zinin r\u0259hb\u0259ri, \u201cPsixoloji Xidm\u0259t v\u0259 T\u0259dqiqatlar M\u0259rk\u0259zi\u201d \u0130ctimai Birliyinin s\u0259dri, Psixologiya \u00fczr\u0259 f\u0259ls\u0259f\u0259 doktoru T\u0259ran\u0259 Pa\u015fayeva il\u0259 m\u00fcsahib\u0259ni t\u0259qdim edir.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>-T\u0259ran\u0259 xan\u0131m, erk\u0259n nikahlar\u0131n hans\u0131 m\u0259nfi t\u0259sirl\u0259ri var?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-M\u00f6vzu g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn aktual olmaqla yana\u015f\u0131 q\u0259zet s\u0259hif\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259, h\u0259tta qal\u0131n-qal\u0131n kitablara s\u0131\u011fmayacaq q\u0259d\u0259r geni\u015f v\u0259 \u0259hat\u0259lidir. Biz\u0259 veril\u0259n imkanlara uy\u011fun olaraq fikrimi konkret suallar \u0259traf\u0131nda c\u0259ml\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m. Erk\u0259n nikah &#8211; ail\u0259 anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 v\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 h\u0259l\u0259 kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259rk etm\u0259mi\u015f, psixoloji c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n ail\u0259 quracaq q\u0259d\u0259r formala\u015fmam\u0131\u015f yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259r il\u0259 ba\u011flanan nikahd\u0131r. Yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259r aras\u0131nda ba\u011flanan erk\u0259n nigahdan t\u0259sad\u00fcfi deyil ki, bir s\u0131ra \u0259d\u0259biyyatlarda \u201cYeniyetm\u0259 nikah\u0131\u201d olaraq da b\u0259hs edilir. Bu tip nigahlar \u0259ks\u0259r hallarda, x\u00fcsus\u0259n d\u0259, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z regionda valideynl\u0259rin t\u0259kidi il\u0259 formala\u015f\u0131r. T\u0259bii ki, burada t\u0259kc\u0259 valideynin deyil, eyni zamanda qohumlar\u0131n, dostlar\u0131n, bir s\u00f6zl\u0259 sosial \u00e7evr\u0259nin d\u0259 rolu b\u00f6y\u00fckd\u00fcr. Erk\u0259n nikah faci\u0259dir, erk\u0259n nikah ac\u0131 sonluqdur. H\u0259l\u0259 bu nikahlardan d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259l\u0259n u\u015faqlar hans\u0131 travmalar\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131r, bu da m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin ciddi sual do\u011furan ba\u015fqa bir t\u0259r\u0259fidir. Y\u0259ni, ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131na h\u0259m maddi, h\u0259m d\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi-psixoloji haz\u0131rl\u0131q olmadan u\u011furlu nikahdan dan\u0131\u015fmaq do\u011fru olmaz.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>-Erk\u0259n nikahlar\u0131n yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 psixoloji \u00a0probleml\u0259ri nec\u0259 t\u0259hlil ed\u0259rdiniz?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Erk\u0259n nikah\u0131n yol a\u00e7d\u0131\u011f\u0131 f\u0259sadlar\u0131 psixoloji aspektd\u0259n d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndir\u0259rk\u0259n, bir \u00e7ox hallar\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 almaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bu hallardan \u0259n \u00e7ox t\u0259sad\u00fcf edil\u0259nl\u0259r Obsessiv-Kompulsiv pozuntu \u0259lam\u0259tl\u0259ri, depressiya, t\u0259\u015fvi\u015f pozuntular\u0131 v\u0259 buna paralel ba\u015f ver\u0259n panik ataklard\u0131r. Erk\u0259n nikah\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259b oldu\u011fu Obsessiv-Kompulsiv pozuntunun meydana \u00e7\u0131xmas\u0131na z\u0259min yaradan \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259b t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259n birinin cinsi akta h\u0259l\u0259 haz\u0131r olmamas\u0131 v\u0259 ya \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc bu akt\u0131n ba\u015f verm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn haz\u0131r hiss etm\u0259m\u0259sidir. H\u0259m\u00e7inin, nikahdan \u00f6nc\u0259 e\u015fitdiyi v\u0259 inand\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir s\u0131ra cinsi mifl\u0259r d\u0259 bu pozuntunun yaranmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b ola bil\u0259r. Onu da qeyd etm\u0259k olar ki, OKP iyr\u0259nm\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 d\u0259 t\u0259zah\u00fcr edir. S\u00f6z\u00fc ged\u0259n hallar ad\u0259t\u0259n qad\u0131nlarda daha s\u0131x m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunur. B\u0259z\u0259n erk\u0259n nikah zaman\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rin bir-birl\u0259rini tan\u0131ma\u011fa kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r vaxt\u0131 olmur. Ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r\u0259 bir-birl\u0259rini kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r tan\u0131ma\u011fa \u015f\u0259rait yaratm\u0131rlar. Bu da \u00f6z n\u00f6vb\u0259sind\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r aras\u0131nda \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t azl\u0131\u011f\u0131, ail\u0259 daxili rollar\u0131n d\u00fczg\u00fcn m\u0259nims\u0259nilm\u0259m\u0259si, yeni m\u00fchit\u0259 adaptasiya ola bilm\u0259m\u0259k, konfliktli situasiyalar\u0131n yaranmas\u0131, \u015fidd\u0259t, dolay\u0131 v\u0259 ya birba\u015fa y\u00f6n\u0259lmi\u015f verbal aqressiya v\u0259 s. kimi neqativ hallara yol a\u00e7\u0131r. N\u0259tic\u0259 etibar\u0131 il\u0259\u00a0t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259n biri, b\u0259z\u0259n is\u0259 h\u0259r ikisind\u0259 depressiv \u0259lam\u0259tl\u0259r t\u0259zah\u00fcr edir.<br \/>\nErk\u0259n nikah zaman\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n probleml\u0259rin vaxta\u015f\u0131r\u0131 m\u00fczakir\u0259 olunmamas\u0131 v\u0259 aqressiyan\u0131n daxild\u0259 toplanmas\u0131, t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259 \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131 olaraq neqativ d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rin toplanmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur. Uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t b\u0259hsi ged\u0259n neqativ d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259r \u015f\u00fcur alt\u0131nda toplan\u0131r v\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 panik ataklar formas\u0131nda\u00a0\u00a0\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc biruz\u0259 verir.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>&#8211; Erk\u0259n nikahlar\u00a0g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 hans\u0131 f\u0259sadlara yol a\u00e7\u0131r?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>-B\u0259zi hallarda azya\u015fl\u0131 q\u0131zlar k\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 ail\u0259 qurma\u011fa can at\u0131rlar. Y\u0259ni, bunu k\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fcl\u00fck kimi ifad\u0259 etm\u0259k d\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n q\u0259d\u0259r do\u011fru olmazd\u0131. X\u00fcsus\u0259n b\u00f6lg\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 avtoritar ail\u0259l\u0259rin q\u0131zlar\u0131 ata-ana, b\u00f6y\u00fck qarda\u015f basq\u0131s\u0131 alt\u0131nda ya\u015famaqdan bezir. Yorucu v\u0259 cans\u0131x\u0131c\u0131 h\u0259yatdan can qurtarmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259tic\u0259nin n\u0259 olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259d\u0259n \u201cs\u0259ni sevir\u0259m\u201d dey\u0259n biri il\u0259 izdivaca girir. Burada art\u0131q &#8220;ya\u011f\u0131\u015fdan \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b ya\u011fmura d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k&#8221; faci\u0259si ba\u015flan\u0131r. O\u011flan\u0131n ail\u0259si q\u0131z\u0131 evl\u0259rin\u0259 q\u0259bul etmir, q\u0131z\u0131n valideynl\u0259ri onlar\u0131 ayaqlay\u0131b ke\u00e7\u0259n q\u0131zlar\u0131ndan \u00fcz d\u00f6nd\u0259rirl\u0259r. He<strong>\u00e7 bir i\u015fi-g\u00fcc\u00fc olmayan, h\u0259l\u0259 maddi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n \u00a0valideynind\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olan, t\u00fcfeyli h\u0259yat s\u00fcr\u0259n \u201c\u0259r\u201d v\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015fdiyi v\u0259ziyy\u0259t qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda qalan \u201cqad\u0131n\u201d. Sonuc d\u0259h\u015f\u0259t sa\u00e7\u0131r. \u018fli h\u0259r yerd\u0259n \u00fcz\u00fcl\u0259n yeniyetm\u0259 q\u0131z\u0131n bir yolu qal\u0131r, h\u0259yat\u0131na q\u0259sd etm\u0259k. Erk\u0259n nikahlar\u0131n yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 faic\u0259l\u0259r bar\u0259d\u0259 says\u0131z misallar \u00e7\u0259k\u0259 b<\/strong>il\u0259rik.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>-B\u0259z\u0259n valideynl\u0259r q\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131\u00a0erk\u0259n nikaha, \u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fck \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rl\u0259 nikaha m\u0259cbur edirl\u0259r. Bu bar\u0259d\u0259 fikirl\u0259riniz nec\u0259dir?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Problemin m\u0259n\u0259vi-psixoloji t\u0259r\u0259fi il\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131 tibbi-bioloji t\u0259r\u0259fli\u00a0d\u0259 var. 13-15 ya\u015f aras\u0131 yeniyetm\u0259 q\u0131z\u0131n orqanizmi d\u00fcnyaya u\u015faq g\u0259tirm\u0259y\u0259, beyin anal\u0131q duy\u011fusuna haz\u0131rd\u0131rm\u0131? \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, cavab m\u00fcsb\u0259t ola bilm\u0259z. Ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131na fizioloji, bioloji, m\u0259n\u0259vi-psixoloji haz\u0131rl\u0131q olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 halda m\u00fctl\u0259q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 stress v\u0259 travmalar ya\u015fanacaq. H\u0259r birimiz h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131zda hans\u0131 ya\u015fda olma\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq stressl\u0259\u00a0\u00fczl\u0259\u015firik, psixoloji- m\u0259n\u0259vi z\u0259d\u0259l\u0259r al\u0131r\u0131q. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z m\u00fcasir d\u00fcnyada bunlar qa\u00e7\u0131lmazd\u0131r. Bel\u0259 hallarda \u0259sas m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 h\u0259y\u0259can v\u0259 emosiyalar\u0131, duy\u011fular\u0131 t\u0259nziml\u0259y\u0259 bilm\u0259k, y\u0259ni, psixoloji dayan\u0131ql\u0131l\u0131qd\u0131r.\u00a0<strong>H\u0259l\u0259 yetkinlik ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atmayan, ail\u0259, \u00f6vlad qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7\u0259km\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur olan yeniyetm\u0259 h\u0259yata tutunmaq, ya\u015fama g\u00fcc\u00fc tapmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn buna haz\u0131rd\u0131rm\u0131?<\/strong>\u00a0T\u0259bii ki, yox. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 n\u0259 ba\u015f verir?\u00a0<strong>\u00dcst-\u00fcst\u0259 y\u0131\u011f\u0131lan g\u0259rginlikl\u0259r, ail\u0259 m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259ri, anla\u015f\u0131lmazl\u0131qlar psixoloji probleml\u0259r\u0259 yol a\u00e7\u0131r. Zaman\u0131nda qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131 al\u0131nmayan, d\u0259rinl\u0259\u015f\u0259n psixoloji travmalar is\u0259 bir \u00e7ox halda qorxulu x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259rin yaranmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur.<\/strong>\u00a0Yeniyetm\u0259 q\u0131zlar\u0131n h\u0259tta \u00f6z atalar\u0131 ya\u015fda olan ya\u015fl\u0131 ki\u015fil\u0259rl\u0259 ail\u0259 qurmas\u0131 yax\u0131n \u00e7evr\u0259, c\u0259miyy\u0259t t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n birm\u0259nal\u0131 qar\u015f\u0131lanmasa da bel\u0259 evlilikl\u0259r\u0259 can atanlar var. Azya\u015fl\u0131 q\u0131z t\u0259bii olaraq ata-anan\u0131n basq\u0131s\u0131 il\u0259 bu h\u0259yat\u0131 q\u0259bul edir. B\u0259s, 25 ya\u015fl\u0131 q\u0131z niy\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n 20-25 ya\u015f b\u00f6y\u00fck insanla ail\u0259 qurur? D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m ki, h\u0259r iki halda maddiyyat \u00f6nd\u0259 g\u0259lir. Birinci halda valideyn \u00f6z q\u0131z\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn rahat hesab etdiyi h\u0259yat\u0131 se\u00e7ir. Bu rahatl\u0131q is\u0259 t\u0259bii ki, maddi t\u0259minatla ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Burada bir ne\u00e7\u0259 m\u0259qam var. \u00d6vlad\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131nda q\u0131zla evl\u0259n\u0259n ki\u015finin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259si v\u0259 k\u00fcr\u0259yini \u201cya\u011fl\u0131 qap\u0131\u201dya s\u00f6yk\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k q\u0131z anas\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259si. Maddi \u00e7\u0259tinlik ya\u015fayan valideyn el aras\u0131nda \u201cq\u0131z y\u00fck\u00fc, duz y\u00fck\u00fc\u201d deyil\u0259n a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131qdan xilas olur.\u00a0 H\u0259m d\u0259 q\u0131zlar\u0131 yem\u0259k-i\u00e7m\u0259k qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7\u0259km\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. Valideyn bir n\u00f6v \u00f6vlad\u0131 \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 olan borcunu yerin\u0259 yetirmi\u015f hesab edir, bundan sonra m\u0259suliyy\u0259t daha \u0259rin \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259dir. Varl\u0131 ki\u015fini \u201cg\u0259lincik\u201dl\u0259 evl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 vadar ed\u0259n n\u0259dir? Burada onlar\u0131n \u00f6zl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn haql\u0131 bildikl\u0259ri bir \u00e7ox s\u0259b\u0259b olur. Lakin g\u0259nc q\u0131z n\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr, onun h\u0259yat\u0131 nec\u0259 olacaq, atas\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131nda olan bir adamla nec\u0259 bir yast\u0131\u011fa ba\u015f qoyacaq, bunu fikirl\u0259\u015f\u0259n yoxdur.\u00a0<strong>N\u0259tic\u0259 etibaril\u0259 s\u00f6z\u00fcged\u0259n \u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcy\u00fcn he\u00e7 biri ist\u0259diyi m\u0259n\u0259vi-psixoloji rahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131 tapmayacaq. Valideyn d\u0259, \u00f6vlad da, &#8220;ya\u015fl\u0131 a\u015fiq&#8221; d\u0259 h\u0259r biri ayr\u0131-ayr\u0131l\u0131qda f\u0259rqli psixoloji travmalar alacaq<\/strong>. \u018fn \u00e7ox z\u0259r\u0259r \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n is\u0259 t\u0259bii ki, yeniyetm\u0259 olacaq.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>&#8211; Ail\u0259l\u0259rin \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat\u0131nda rolu n\u0259dir?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>-Evlilik, birg\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131\u015f, ail\u0259 anlay\u0131\u015flar\u0131 ciddi m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir v\u0259 buna son d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259tl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. H\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u00f6nc\u0259 ata-analar b\u0259lli bir ya\u015fdan sonra \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131na haz\u0131rlamal\u0131d\u0131rlar. 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