T\u0259\u0259s\u00fcfl\u0259r olsun ki, zopa il\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 metodu h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 h\u00f6km s\u00fcr\u00fcr. \u201cS\u0259ni yand\u0131racam\u201d, \u201c\u00f6ld\u00fcr\u0259c\u0259m\u201d, \u201cbo\u011facam\u201d kimi s\u00f6zl\u0259ri az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 valideynl\u0259rin t\u0259rbiy\u0259 metodlar\u0131nda istifad\u0259 olunan \u0259n m\u0259\u015fhur s\u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n bir ne\u00e7\u0259sidir.<\/p>\n
Valideynl\u0259rimiz el\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, \u00f6vladlar\u0131na aqressiv davranmaq v\u0259 onlara \u015fidd\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 t\u0259rbiyy\u0259 \u00fcsuludur.<\/p>\n
M\u00f6vzunu psixoloq \u0130lkin Kaz\u0131ml\u0131 il\u0259 davam etdirdik.<\/p>\n
O, Bizim.Media-ya a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda dedi ki, b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rd\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t formala\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131zda\u00a0 olan xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z hallar\u0131n \u00f6hd\u0259sind\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259 bilirik:<\/p>\n
\u201cBu, birba\u015fa u\u015faqlara aid oldu\u011fundan v\u0259ziyy\u0259t bir q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7\u0259tinl\u0259\u015fir. U\u015faqlar ail\u0259 daxili \u015fiddd\u0259t\u0259, aqressiyaya m\u0259ruz qalarsa, o zaman onlarda bir s\u0131ra pozuntular yaran\u0131r. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u0259 qapanma, b\u0259dbinlik, depressiya hallar\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131rlar. D\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259n u\u015faqlar \u00f6zl\u0259rinin yaln\u0131z hesab edirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r ki, onlara kims\u0259 arxa durmur, sahibl\u0259nmirl\u0259r. Bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259t u\u015faqlar\u0131 \u00f6zg\u00fcv\u0259nsiz\u00a0 edir. V\u0259 bununla da depressiv \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7evrilirl\u0259r. B\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fckc\u0259 onlar\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tind\u0259 problem olur, anti-sosial h\u0259yat ya\u015fay\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n
“Psixoloji durumlar\u0131na a\u011f\u0131r z\u0259rb\u0259l\u0259r vurulur. Sonra bu, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 q\u0259sd kimi fiziki f\u0259sadlarla s\u0259b\u0259b olur. G\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 onlar \u0259sas\u0259n \u00f6zl\u0259rinin qatill\u0259ri olurlar\u201d.<\/p>\n
Psixoloq V\u0259fa \u018fkb\u0259r is\u0259 qeyd etdi ki, d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259n valideynl\u0259r \u00f6z \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6y\u0259r\u0259k t\u0259rbiyy\u0259 edirl\u0259r:<\/p>\n
\u201cD\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259n u\u015faqlar daxili aqressiyan\u0131 bo\u011fma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Daxild\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131 konfliktl\u0259ri oyuncaqlara, dostlar\u0131na yans\u0131d\u0131rlar. \u018fhat\u0259 dair\u0259l\u0259ri geni\u015fl\u0259ndikc\u0259 r\u0259qab\u0259t apar\u0131rlar. \u00c7ox vaxt bu r\u0259qab\u0259ti aqressiv \u00fcsullarla ifad\u0259 edirl\u0259r. B\u00fct\u00fcn cinay\u0259tkarlar d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259n u\u015faqlard\u0131rlar. Bu, bir aksiomad\u0131r. Valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131 d\u00f6y\u0259r\u0259k yox, ba\u015fa salmaqla t\u0259rbiy\u0259 verm\u0259lidirl\u0259r\u201d.<\/p>\n
Ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 t\u0259tbiq edil\u0259n v\u0259 geni\u015f yay\u0131lan “d\u00f6y\u00fclm\u0259” \u00fcsulunun n\u0259tic\u0259si t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, u\u015faqda vicdan v\u0259 \u0259xlaq\u0131n z\u0259if formala\u015fmas\u0131na g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r.<\/p>\n
M\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 insan s\u0259rb\u0259st d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259 bilm\u0259li, h\u0259r v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu tapma\u011f\u0131 bacarmal\u0131d\u0131r. D\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259n u\u015faqlarda \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259g\u00fcv\u0259n z\u0259if olur. Bel\u0259 u\u015faqlar daha kinli olurlar.<\/p>\n
Psixoloqlar deyirl\u0259r ki, u\u015faql\u0131q \u00e7a\u011flar\u0131nda ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259r insan h\u0259yat\u0131nda \u0259sas rol oynay\u0131r. T\u0259kc\u0259 psixoloqlar bu fikird\u0259 deyill\u0259r.<\/p>\n
Tarixd\u0259 \u00f6z q\u0259ddarl\u0131qlar\u0131 il\u0259 iz qoymu\u015f m\u0259\u015fhur diktatorlar\u0131n travmatik u\u015faql\u0131q ill\u0259ri ke\u00e7irdikl\u0259ri tarix\u00e7il\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n ara\u015fd\u0131r\u0131l\u0131b. Onlar\u0131n s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, diktator S\u0259ddam H\u00fcseyn \u00f6gey atas\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n h\u0259r g\u00fcn d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u00fcb v\u0259 evd\u0259ki z\u00fclm\u0259 d\u00f6z\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259r\u0259k 10 ya\u015f\u0131nda Ba\u011fdada qa\u00e7ma\u011fa m\u0259cbur olub. Adolf Hitler d\u0259 S\u0259ddam H\u00fcseyn kimi ail\u0259d\u0259 \u015fidd\u0259t\u0259 m\u0259ruz qalan u\u015faqlardan olub.<\/p>\n
Ara\u015fd\u0131rmalara g\u00f6r\u0259, sovet diktatoru \u0130osif Stalin d\u0259 evd\u0259 tez-tez d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259rmi\u015f. Onu is\u0259 \u00f6gey yox, do\u011fma anas\u0131 Ketevan Geladze d\u00f6y\u0259rdi. Sonradan Stalin anas\u0131ndan soru\u015fanda ki, “Ana, m\u0259ni niy\u0259 bel\u0259 s\u0259rt d\u00f6y\u00fcrd\u00fcn?”. Anan\u0131n cavab\u0131 bel\u0259 olub: “Bax, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 s\u0259n bel\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131n”.<\/p>\n
Eyni zamanda Andrey \u00c7ikatlio 12 ya\u015f\u0131na q\u0259d\u0259r gec\u0259l\u0259r sidik saxlamamaqdan \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kirdi, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 anas\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u00fcrd\u00fc. U\u015faql\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan h\u0259r zaman \u015fidd\u0259t g\u00f6r\u0259n \u00c7ikatlio sovetl\u0259r d\u00f6n\u0259mind\u0259 seriyal\u0131 qatil kimi tan\u0131n\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n
Bu n\u00fcmun\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n bel\u0259 q\u0259na\u0259t\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259k olur ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6y\u0259r\u0259k t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil. D\u00f6y\u00fclm\u0259k u\u015faqda ana-ataya, \u0259traf\u0131ndak\u0131 insanlara v\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 nifr\u0259t yarad\u0131r. Y\u0259ni o, d\u00f6y\u00fcld\u00fcy\u00fc \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00fcnahkar saym\u0131r, \u0259ksin\u0259, onu d\u00f6y\u0259n\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 i\u00e7ind\u0259 kin b\u0259sl\u0259yir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
T\u0259\u0259s\u00fcfl\u0259r olsun ki, zopa il\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 metodu h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 h\u00f6km s\u00fcr\u00fcr. \u201cS\u0259ni yand\u0131racam\u201d, \u201c\u00f6ld\u00fcr\u0259c\u0259m\u201d, \u201cbo\u011facam\u201d kimi s\u00f6zl\u0259ri az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 valideynl\u0259rin t\u0259rbiy\u0259 metodlar\u0131nda istifad\u0259 olunan \u0259n m\u0259\u015fhur s\u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n bir ne\u00e7\u0259sidir. Valideynl\u0259rimiz el\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, \u00f6vladlar\u0131na aqressiv davranmaq v\u0259 onlara \u015fidd\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 t\u0259rbiyy\u0259 \u00fcsuludur. M\u00f6vzunu psixoloq \u0130lkin Kaz\u0131ml\u0131 il\u0259 davam etdirdik. O, Bizim.Media-ya a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda dedi ki, b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rd\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t formala\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131zda\u00a0 olan xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z hallar\u0131n \u00f6hd\u0259sind\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259 bilirik: \u201cBu, birba\u015fa u\u015faqlara aid oldu\u011fundan v\u0259ziyy\u0259t bir q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7\u0259tinl\u0259\u015fir. U\u015faqlar ail\u0259 daxili \u015fiddd\u0259t\u0259, aqressiyaya m\u0259ruz qalarsa, o zaman onlarda bir s\u0131ra pozuntular…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":308103,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/1614956560_child_1.jpg",640,400,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/1614956560_child_1.jpg",640,400,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/1614956560_child_1.jpg",640,400,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/1614956560_child_1-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/1614956560_child_1-300x188.jpg",300,188,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/1614956560_child_1.jpg",640,400,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/1614956560_child_1.jpg",640,400,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/1614956560_child_1.jpg",640,400,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/1614956560_child_1-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/1614956560_child_1.jpg",640,400,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"Sosial<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"T\u0259\u0259s\u00fcfl\u0259r olsun ki, zopa il\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 metodu h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 h\u00f6km s\u00fcr\u00fcr. \u201cS\u0259ni yand\u0131racam\u201d, \u201c\u00f6ld\u00fcr\u0259c\u0259m\u201d, \u201cbo\u011facam\u201d kimi s\u00f6zl\u0259ri az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 valideynl\u0259rin t\u0259rbiy\u0259 metodlar\u0131nda istifad\u0259 olunan \u0259n m\u0259\u015fhur s\u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n bir ne\u00e7\u0259sidir. Valideynl\u0259rimiz el\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, \u00f6vladlar\u0131na aqressiv davranmaq v\u0259 onlara \u015fidd\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 t\u0259rbiyy\u0259 \u00fcsuludur. M\u00f6vzunu psixoloq \u0130lkin Kaz\u0131ml\u0131 il\u0259 davam etdirdik. O, Bizim.Media-ya a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/308102"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=308102"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/308102\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/308103"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=308102"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=308102"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=308102"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}