O\u011flum, dem\u0259k olar ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn sinif yolda\u015flar\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n t\u0259kl\u0259nib. T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edirsiniz, 30 sinif yolda\u015f\u0131 onu la\u011fa qoyub, imkan d\u00fc\u015fs\u0259ydi, t\u0259pikl\u0259y\u0259 d\u0259 bil\u0259rdil\u0259r.\u00a0M\u0259nim \u00f6vlad\u0131m x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259r\u0259 h\u0259ssasd\u0131r, fiziki\u00a0bax\u0131mdan z\u0259ifdir, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 onlar\u0131n cavab\u0131n\u0131 ver\u0259 bil\u0259yib, b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlara d\u00f6zm\u0259li olub. Bel\u0259c\u0259, d\u00fcz iki il d\u00f6z\u00fcb \u2013 alt\u0131 v\u0259 yeddinci sinifl\u0259rd\u0259 oxuyanda, m\u0259ni k\u0259d\u0259rl\u0259ndirm\u0259k ist\u0259mirdi, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 olanlar\u0131 m\u0259nd\u0259n gizli saxlay\u0131b.<\/p>\n
\u00d6vlad\u0131m\u0131 t\u0259kba\u015f\u0131na b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcr\u0259m, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n h\u0259l\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131 olanda atas\u0131 bizi ataraq, ba\u015fqa \u00f6lk\u0259y\u0259 k\u00f6\u00e7\u00fcb. S\u0259h\u0259rd\u0259n ax\u015fama kimi i\u015fd\u0259 oluram, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 nadir hallarda ba\u015f \u00e7\u0259kir\u0259m. Bir g\u00fcn i\u015f o h\u0259dd\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131 ki, ev\u0259 \u00e7antas\u0131z g\u0259ldi, sinif yolda\u015flar\u0131 onun \u00e7antas\u0131n\u0131 gizl\u0259tmi\u015fdi.<\/p>\n
M\u0259cbur olub h\u0259r \u015feyi m\u0259n\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131. O\u011flumu t\u0259kl\u0259yib \u0259l\u0259 salmalar\u0131n\u0131n \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri onun fiziki bax\u0131mdan z\u0259if olmas\u0131, ail\u0259mizin maddi v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti v\u0259 onun he\u00e7 bir m\u00fcasir smartfon v\u0259 ya plan\u015fet\u0259\u00a0sahib olmamas\u0131 idi.<\/p>\n
Dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131qlar\u0131m Bak\u0131n\u0131n m\u0259rk\u0259zi m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259n birind\u0259 ba\u015f verib. O\u011flumu evin yan\u0131nda yerl\u0259\u015f\u0259n m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 k\u00f6\u00e7\u00fcrm\u0259li oldum. \u0130ndiki\u00a0sinifi \u0259vv\u0259lki il\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 sad\u0259dir.\u00a0Bu il m\u0259kt\u0259bi bitirir,\u00a0 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc yax\u015f\u0131 hiss edir v\u0259 art\u0131q onu t\u0259kl\u0259y\u0259n yoxdur, h\u0259min ac\u0131 xatir\u0259l\u0259r ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259 qal\u0131b…<\/p>\n
ARANTV.AZ<\/b> Media.Az-a istinad\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, bu xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z halla ba\u011fl\u0131 z\u0259r\u0259r\u00e7\u0259k\u0259n yeniyetm\u0259nin anas\u0131\u00a0Samir\u0259 Kaz\u0131mova\u00a0<\/strong>dan\u0131\u015f\u0131b.<\/p>\n T\u0259kl\u0259nm\u0259 v\u0259 ya\u00a0 bir \u00e7ox dill\u0259rd\u0259 t\u0259dric\u0259n \u00fcmumi\u015fl\u0259k ifad\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evril\u0259n \u201cbullinq\u201d\u0259 faktiki olaraq h\u0259r bir m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 rast g\u0259lm\u0259k olar.<\/p>\n Valideyn \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n \u201cbullinq\u201d\u0259 m\u0259ruz qald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 nec\u0259 anlas\u0131n v\u0259 sinif yolda\u015flar\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n t\u0259kl\u0259n\u0259n \u00f6vlad\u0131na nec\u0259 yard\u0131m etsin?<\/strong><\/p>\n H\u0259kim-psixiatr\u00a0\u018fziz Mustafayev<\/strong>in s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, son zamanlar Az\u0259rbaycan m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259 \u201cbullinq\u201d hallar\u0131n\u0131n say\u0131 \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tli d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 art\u0131b.<\/p>\n \u201cT\u0259kc\u0259 \u00f6t\u0259n ay \u0259rzind\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131 sinif yolda\u015flar\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n t\u0259kl\u0259n\u0259n s\u0259kkiz valideyn m\u00fcraci\u0259t edib. Apard\u0131\u011f\u0131m m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, bel\u0259 hallar\u0131n say\u0131 art\u0131r, bu is\u0259 onunla \u0259laq\u0259dard\u0131r ki, \u0259ks\u0259r m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259 \u00e7ox z\u0259if psixoloqlar i\u015fl\u0259yir, onlar bel\u0259 hallar\u0131n meydana g\u0259ldiyi \u0259r\u0259f\u0259d\u0259 problemi h\u0259ll ed\u0259 bilmir. \u00dcst\u0259lik, m\u00fcasir d\u00fcnyada valideynl\u0259r h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olur, u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n d\u0259rdini dinl\u0259m\u0259k, probleml\u0259rini \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onlara laz\u0131m\u0131nca vaxt ay\u0131ra bilmir.<\/p>\n Dig\u0259r yandan \u201cbullinq\u201d problemi \u201ccavanla\u015f\u0131r\u201d. Bu yax\u0131nlara q\u0259d\u0259r \u201cbullinq\u201d hallar\u0131 yeniyetm\u0259lik d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259\u00a0m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 olunurdusa, bu g\u00fcn bel\u0259 hallarla ibtidai m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259 d\u0259 rastla\u015fmaq olar. Valideynl\u0259r g\u0259r\u0259k u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n davran\u0131\u015f\u0131ndak\u0131 \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259li d\u0259yi\u015fiklill\u0259r\u0259 fikir versin.<\/p>\n \u0130\u015ftah\u0131n pozulmas\u0131, yuxu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 pozuntular, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259qapanma, b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 sinif yolda\u015flar\u0131 il\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259 probleml\u0259rinin oldu\u011funa i\u015far\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. \u201cBullinq\u201d fakt\u0131 t\u0259sdiqini taparsa, problemi m\u00fctl\u0259q h\u0259ll etm\u0259k laz\u0131m g\u0259lir. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131\u00a0m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssis\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k vacibdir, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n m\u0259sx\u0259r\u0259y\u0259 qoyularaq t\u0259kl\u0259nm\u0259si\u00a0d\u0259rin m\u0259n\u0259vi yaralar qoya bil\u0259r v\u0259 h\u0259tta intihara\u00a0yol a\u00e7a bil\u0259r\u201d, – dey\u0259 A.Mustafayev bildirib.<\/p>\n \u201cEtibarl\u0131 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k\u201d t\u0259\u015fkilat\u0131n\u0131n icra\u00e7\u0131 direktoru\u00a0K\u0259mal\u0259 Ha\u015f\u0131mova<\/strong>n\u0131n\u00a0dediyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, ad\u0259t\u0259n, sinifd\u0259 \u201cbullinq\u201d bir yeniyetm\u0259nin t\u0259\u015f\u0259bb\u00fcs\u00fc il\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r. O, daha \u00e7ox sinif yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131n ona qo\u015fularaq bir u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 t\u0259kl\u0259m\u0259sini ist\u0259yir.<\/p>\n \u201cBel\u0259 u\u015faqlar, ad\u0259t\u0259n, problemi ail\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r; m\u00fcnt\u0259z\u0259m olaraq m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t z\u0259minind\u0259 m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259rin, u\u015faqlara qar\u015f\u0131 zorak\u0131l\u0131q hallar\u0131n\u0131n ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259, bu neqativi \u00e7\u0131xarmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn\u00a0u\u015faq \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 sinifd\u0259 \u015fikar axtar\u0131r.<\/p>\n \u201cBullinq\u201d qurbanlar\u0131, ad\u0259t\u0259n, x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259r\u0259 h\u0259ssas olan, fiziki bax\u0131mdan daha z\u0259if u\u015faqlar olur. H\u0259m\u00e7inin, azt\u0259minatl\u0131 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xan u\u015faqlar tez-tez sinif yolda\u015flar\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n la\u011f obyektin\u0259 \u00e7evrilir; m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, daha kas\u0131byana geyin\u0259nl\u0259r, bahal\u0131 smartfonlar\u0131 v\u0259 s. olmayan \u015fagirdl\u0259r. Bizim t\u0259\u015fkilatda bel\u0259 hallarla ba\u011fl\u0131 i\u015fl\u0259r olsa da, \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 \u201cbullinq\u201d \u00fczr\u0259 r\u0259smi statistika yoxdur\u201d, – dey\u0259 K.Ha\u015f\u0131mova bildirib.<\/p>\n Onun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, \u201cbullinq\u201d\u0259 m\u0259ruz qalan u\u015faqlar\u00a0v\u0259 onlar\u0131n valideynl\u0259ri ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 bununla ba\u011fl\u0131 sinif r\u0259hb\u0259rini v\u0259 ya m\u0259kt\u0259b r\u0259hb\u0259rliyini m\u0259lumatland\u0131rmal\u0131d\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n \u201cSonra m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259\u00a0h\u0259m t\u0259kl\u0259n\u0259n u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n valideynl\u0259rini, h\u0259m d\u0259 \u201cbullinq\u201di t\u0259\u015fkil ed\u0259n u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n valideynl\u0259rini \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Onlarla apar\u0131lan s\u00f6hb\u0259td\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b psixoloqu da i\u015ftirak etm\u0259lidir v\u0259 bu toplant\u0131 sinif ota\u011f\u0131nda yox, ba\u015fqa bir m\u0259kanda, ba\u011fl\u0131 qap\u0131lar arxas\u0131nda ke\u00e7irilm\u0259lidir.<\/p>\n M\u0259n d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 demi\u015f\u0259m\u00a0v\u0259 bir daha t\u0259krarlay\u0131ram ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn probleml\u0259r ail\u0259d\u0259n qaynaqlan\u0131r. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259\u00a0bel\u0259 situasiyaya\u00a0ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 valideynl\u0259r t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259lidir. Onlar tez-tez \u00f6zl\u0259rini qeyri-adekvat apar\u0131rlar. Ad\u0259t\u0259n, valideynl\u0259r, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 atalar sinifd\u0259 probleml\u0259ri olan o\u011fullar\u0131n\u0131 dinl\u0259m\u0259k ist\u0259mirl\u0259r. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131na deyir, \u201cki\u015fi ol, x\u0259trin\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259nin cavab\u0131n\u0131 ver\u201d.\u00a0Ancaq problem\u0259 bu c\u00fcr yana\u015fma a\u011f\u0131r n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 g\u0259tirib \u00e7\u0131xa bil\u0259r\u201d, – dey\u0259K.Ha\u015f\u0131mova bildirib.<\/p>\n O bildirib ki, indiki \u015f\u0259raitd\u0259 \u00f6lk\u0259nin m\u0259kt\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259 inkl\u00fcziv t\u0259hsil m\u00fcmk\u00fcn g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u00fcr, \u00e7\u00fcnki fiziki v\u0259 ya s\u0259hh\u0259ti il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 probleml\u0259ri olan u\u015faqlar\u0131 potensial \u201cbullinq\u201d qurbanlar\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n \u201cBu g\u00fcn h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l pedaqoq v\u0259 valideynl\u0259rl\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Onlar u\u015faqlara bu d\u00fcnyada h\u0259r \u015feyin pulla \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclm\u0259diyini v\u0259 z\u0259ifl\u0259rin x\u0259trin\u0259 d\u0259ym\u0259yin yolverilm\u0259z oldu\u011funu\u00a0a\u015f\u0131lamal\u0131d\u0131rlar\u201d, – dey\u0259 K.Ha\u015f\u0131mova qeyd edib.<\/p>\n Az\u0259rbaycan\u0131n T\u0259hsil Nazirliyind\u0259n bildiribl\u0259r ki, m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n t\u0259kl\u0259nib m\u0259sx\u0259r\u0259y\u0259 qoyulmas\u0131 kimi hal ba\u015f verdikd\u0259, m\u0259kt\u0259b psixoloqu buna d\u0259rhal reaksiya verm\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 problemi h\u0259ll etm\u0259y\u0259 borcludur. Nazirliyinin n\u00fcmay\u0259nd\u0259sinin s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, bununla bel\u0259, he\u00e7 d\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn \u201cbullinq\u201d hallar\u0131n\u0131 vaxt\u0131nda a\u015fkarlamaq olmur. U\u015faqlar\u0131n say\u0131 \u00e7ox oldu\u011fundan\u00a0onlar\u0131n ham\u0131s\u0131na n\u0259zar\u0259t etm\u0259k asan m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 deyil.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" O\u011flum, dem\u0259k olar ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn sinif yolda\u015flar\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n t\u0259kl\u0259nib. T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edirsiniz, 30 sinif yolda\u015f\u0131 onu la\u011fa qoyub, imkan d\u00fc\u015fs\u0259ydi, t\u0259pikl\u0259y\u0259 d\u0259 bil\u0259rdil\u0259r.\u00a0M\u0259nim \u00f6vlad\u0131m x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259r\u0259 h\u0259ssasd\u0131r, fiziki\u00a0bax\u0131mdan z\u0259ifdir, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 onlar\u0131n cavab\u0131n\u0131 ver\u0259 bil\u0259yib, b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlara d\u00f6zm\u0259li olub. Bel\u0259c\u0259, d\u00fcz iki il d\u00f6z\u00fcb \u2013 alt\u0131 v\u0259 yeddinci sinifl\u0259rd\u0259 oxuyanda, m\u0259ni k\u0259d\u0259rl\u0259ndirm\u0259k ist\u0259mirdi, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 olanlar\u0131 m\u0259nd\u0259n gizli saxlay\u0131b. \u00d6vlad\u0131m\u0131 t\u0259kba\u015f\u0131na b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcr\u0259m, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n h\u0259l\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131 olanda atas\u0131 bizi ataraq, ba\u015fqa \u00f6lk\u0259y\u0259 k\u00f6\u00e7\u00fcb. S\u0259h\u0259rd\u0259n ax\u015fama kimi i\u015fd\u0259 oluram, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 nadir hallarda ba\u015f \u00e7\u0259kir\u0259m. 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T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edirsiniz, 30 sinif yolda\u015f\u0131 onu la\u011fa qoyub, imkan d\u00fc\u015fs\u0259ydi, t\u0259pikl\u0259y\u0259 d\u0259 bil\u0259rdil\u0259r.\u00a0M\u0259nim \u00f6vlad\u0131m x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259r\u0259 h\u0259ssasd\u0131r, fiziki\u00a0bax\u0131mdan z\u0259ifdir, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 onlar\u0131n cavab\u0131n\u0131 ver\u0259 bil\u0259yib, b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlara d\u00f6zm\u0259li olub. 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