{"id":319091,"date":"2021-03-26T20:31:05","date_gmt":"2021-03-26T17:31:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=319091"},"modified":"2021-03-26T20:31:05","modified_gmt":"2021-03-26T17:31:05","slug":"usaqlarda-davranis-pozuntulari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=319091","title":{"rendered":"U\u015faqlarda davran\u0131\u015f pozuntular\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>H\u0259r bir ana d\u00fcnyaya \u00f6vlad g\u0259tirdiyi m\u0259qam\u0131 \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn \u0259n xo\u015fb\u0259xt an\u0131, \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 is\u0259 tanr\u0131n\u0131n \u0259n d\u0259y\u0259rli h\u0259diyy\u0259si hesab edir.<\/p>\n<p>U\u015faqlar h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n sevincidir. Ancaq c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 s\u00f6z\u00fcn h\u0259r m\u0259nas\u0131nda d\u0259y\u0259rli v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015f t\u0259qdim etm\u0259k m\u0259suliyy\u0259tli v\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tin i\u015fl\u0259rd\u0259n biridir. Bel\u0259 ki, t\u0259rbiy\u0259 diqq\u0259t v\u0259 inadkarl\u0131qs\u0131z m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmayan, uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t yorulmadan gec\u0259-g\u00fcnd\u00fcz z\u0259hm\u0259t t\u0259l\u0259b ed\u0259n, \u00e7ox\u015fax\u0259li bir prosesdir. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alsaq, valideynl\u0259rin tez-tez m\u00fcxt\u0259lif \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259rl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmas\u0131 t\u0259sad\u00fcfi deyil. Bel\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259rd\u0259n biri valideynl\u0259rin dili il\u0259 des\u0259k \u201cu\u015faqlar\u0131n \u00f6zl\u0259rini pis aparmas\u0131d\u0131r\u201d. Elmi dild\u0259 is\u0259 \u201cdavran\u0131\u015f pozuntusu\u201d adland\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z psixoloji termindir.<\/p>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div id=\"AdviadNativeVideo0\" class=\"AdviadNativeVideo\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Davran\u0131\u015f pozuntular\u0131n\u0131n bir \u00e7ox s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri ola bil\u0259r, lakin hal-haz\u0131rda biz bunlardan \u0259n vacibl\u0259ri v\u0259 onlar\u0131 aradan qald\u0131rma yollar\u0131 bar\u0259d\u0259 dan\u0131\u015faca\u011f\u0131q.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Birinci s\u0259b\u0259b\u00a0\u2013\u00a0diqq\u0259t u\u011frunda m\u00fcbariz\u0259.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bu \u0259n \u00e7ox yay\u0131lm\u0131\u015f s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n biridir. \u018fg\u0259r u\u015faqlar valideynl\u0259rind\u0259n, yaxud onlar\u0131 \u0259v\u0259z ed\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rd\u0259n laz\u0131mi q\u0259d\u0259r diqq\u0259t alm\u0131rlarsa, onlar fikir c\u0259lb etm\u0259yin \u0259n asan yolunu tap\u0131rlar \u2013 s\u00f6z\u0259 baxmamaq! \u018fminsiniz ki, ovlad\u0131n\u0131z q\u0131\u015fq\u0131rmad\u0131qda, dala\u015fmad\u0131qda, sizi narahat etm\u0259dikd\u0259 bel\u0259, ona kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r diqq\u0259t yetirirsiniz? Ad\u0259t\u0259n m\u0259hz neqativ hallarda valideynl\u0259r \u00f6z vacib i\u015fl\u0259rini qoyub u\u015faqlar\u0131 il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olma\u011fa can at\u0131rlar. U\u015faqlar ya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n az olmas\u0131na baxmayaraq \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn bu x\u0131rdal\u0131qlar\u0131 m\u00fctl\u0259q hiss edirl\u0259r. Bel\u0259likl\u0259, unutmay\u0131n, normal inki\u015faf \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn sizin diqq\u0259tiniz \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131za su v\u0259 qida q\u0259d\u0259r vacibdir!<\/p>\n<p><strong>N\u0259 etm\u0259k olar?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u0130lk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fczl\u0259 s\u0259mimi olun, h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131za az diqq\u0259t ay\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fczs\u0259, onunla \u00fcnsiyy\u0259tinizi art\u0131r\u0131n, imkan olduqca ona olan m\u00fcsb\u0259t m\u00fcnasib\u0259tinizi n\u00fcmayi\u015f etdirin. \u00c7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n bunu neytral v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259, aran\u0131zda he\u00e7 bir naraz\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n ba\u015f verm\u0259diyi m\u0259qamlarda h\u0259yata ke\u00e7ir\u0259siniz ki, h\u0259r biriniz situasiyani ayd\u0131n \u015f\u00fcurla qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndir\u0259siniz. Ail\u0259nizin g\u00fcnd\u0259lik h\u0259yat\u0131na bacard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z q\u0259d\u0259r (h\u0259ddini a\u015fmamaq \u015f\u0259rtil\u0259) \u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259r qat\u0131n: birlikd\u0259 g\u0259zin, oyunlar oynay\u0131n, maraqlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn, birlikd\u0259 s\u00fcfr\u0259 ba\u015f\u0131na topla\u015f\u0131n, ancaq unutmay\u0131n h\u0259r iki valideyinin diqq\u0259ti eyni d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6n\u0259mlidir v\u0259 biri dig\u0259rini \u0259v\u0259z etmir. \u0130st\u0259nil\u0259n u\u015faq ona olan qay\u011f\u0131n\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259m\u0259xsus qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirir. Bel\u0259 hallarda siz d\u0259 onu ki\u00e7ik d\u0259c\u0259llikl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 danlamay\u0131n, daha sakit, d\u00f6z\u00fcml\u00fc, mehriban olun. \u00d6vlad\u0131n\u0131z\u0131a onun davran\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 olmadan \u00e7ox sevdiyinizi gost\u0259rin. Onun \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tini davran\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan ay\u0131rma\u011f\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259nin. Y\u0259ni, o xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259r edirs\u0259 bu onun \u201cpis u\u015faq\u201d olmas\u0131 dem\u0259k deyil, pis h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t etm\u0259si dem\u0259kdir. T\u0259rbiy\u0259 prosesind\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alsan\u0131z,\u00a0 bir ne\u00e7\u0259 m\u00fcdd\u0259td\u0259n sonra \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n yax\u015f\u0131ya do\u011fru d\u0259yi\u015fdiyini g\u00f6rd\u00fckd\u0259 \u00f6z u\u011furlar\u0131n\u0131za m\u00fctl\u0259q sevin\u0259c\u0259ksiniz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0130kinci s\u0259b\u0259b\u00a0\u2013\u00a0m\u00fcst\u0259qillik u\u011frunda m\u00fcbariz\u0259.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>H\u0259dsiz diqq\u0259t, valideynl\u0259rin \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259d\u0259n qorumaq m\u0259qs\u0259dil\u0259 h\u0259r saniy\u0259 yan\u0131nda olmas\u0131 u\u015faqlar\u0131 bezdirir v\u0259 onlar azadl\u0131q, m\u00fcst\u0259qillik u\u011frunda m\u00fcbariz\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r. Art\u0131q iki ya\u015f\u0131nda u\u015faq inadkarcas\u0131na v\u0259 m\u00f6hk\u0259m s\u0259sl\u0259 \u201cm\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcm\u201d dey\u0259 h\u0259r biri i\u015fi \u00f6z\u00fc k\u00f6m\u0259ksiz etm\u0259y\u0259 s\u0259y g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Ad\u0259t\u0259n valideynl\u0259r buna \u0259s\u0259bl\u0259\u015fir, ax\u0131 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259tm\u0259y\u0259 c\u0259hd etm\u0259d\u0259n daha az vaxt v\u0259 g\u00fcc s\u0259rf etm\u0259kl\u0259 h\u0259min i\u015fi u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 \u00a0g\u00f6rm\u0259k daha asand\u0131r. \u018fslind\u0259 onlar\u0131 hiperhimay\u0259 etm\u0259kl\u0259 azadl\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259y\u0259 al\u0131r, m\u0259suliyy\u0259tsiz b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 t\u0259kan veririk.<\/p>\n<p><strong>N\u0259 etm\u0259k olar?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Burada birinci v\u0259ziyy\u0259tin \u0259ksin\u0259 olaraq \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131za qar\u015f\u0131 diqq\u0259ti azald\u0131n, onun h\u0259r h\u0259r\u0259kitini idar\u0259 etm\u0259kd\u0259n \u0259l \u00e7\u0259kin. \u018fg\u0259r \u00f6z\u00fc \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259 d\u0259 olsa n\u0259yi is\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259rs\u0259 onun \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 bu i\u015fi g\u00f6rm\u0259yin. \u00d6vlad\u0131n\u0131za h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q \u00e7\u0259tin v\u0259 ya \u0259ksin\u0259 h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q asant tap\u015f\u0131r\u0131qlar verm\u0259yin. H\u0259r bir halda u\u015faqlara \u00f6z s\u0259hvl\u0259ri \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259k imkan\u0131 yaradaraq onlara dayaq olun. Art\u0131q \u00fc\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131ndan \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131za se\u00e7im h\u00fcququ verin v\u0259 se\u00e7iml\u0259rinin ist\u0259r m\u0259nfi, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 m\u00fcsb\u0259t n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259rini ona g\u00f6st\u0259rin.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc s\u0259b\u0259b \u2013\u00a0intiqam.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>U\u015faqlarda intiqam arzusu m\u00fcxt\u0259lif s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n yarana bil\u0259r: inciklik, q\u0131sqancl\u0131q, yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259diyiniz v\u0259d v\u0259 ya g\u00fcnahs\u0131z oldu\u011fu halda c\u0259za v\u0259 s., bu siyah\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ox uzatmaq olar. B\u0259z\u0259n u\u015faqlar b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rin t\u0259nqidl\u0259rin\u0259 \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131 bel\u0259 cavab verirl\u0259r: \u201cs\u0259nin fikrinc\u0259 m\u0259n pis\u0259m? \u018fslind\u0259 s\u0259n h\u0259l\u0259 m\u0259nim pisliyimi g\u00f6rm\u0259mis\u0259n, m\u0259n s\u0259n\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259r\u0259m!\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>N\u0259 etm\u0259k olar?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u0130lk \u00f6nc\u0259 hans\u0131 s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n sizi g\u00fcnahland\u0131ra bil\u0259ciyini \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ayd\u0131nla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131n. Bunu u\u015faqdan soru\u015fmay\u0131n, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. B\u0259lk\u0259 dig\u0259r \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131za daha \u00e7ox diqq\u0259t ay\u0131r\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z, b\u0259lk\u0259 s\u00f6z verdiyiniz oyunca\u011f\u0131 almaq yad\u0131n\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b, b\u0259lk\u0259 ona qoydu\u011funuz qada\u011fa \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u00fcr\u0259yinc\u0259 deyil?! Ancaq unutmay\u0131n onun \u00fcr\u0259yinc\u0259 olmayan h\u0259r \u015feyi d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tind\u0259 deyilsiniz! \u018fg\u0259r qada\u011falar onun xeyri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qoyulubsa, sizin kapriziniz deyils\u0259 bunu sad\u0259c\u0259 ona ba\u015fa salma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Dig\u0259r hallarda is\u0259 g\u00fcnah\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 boynunuza alma\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 s\u0259finizi d\u00fcz\u0259ltm\u0259yi \u00f6yr\u0259nin.<\/p>\n<p><strong>D\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fc s\u0259b\u0259b \u2013\u00a0\u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 inam\u0131n itirilm\u0259si.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Daimi t\u0259nqidl\u0259r, u\u011fursuzluq, ya\u015f\u0131dlar\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n q\u0259bul olunmamaq v\u0259 ya al\u00e7ald\u0131lma h\u0259tta, ya\u015fl\u0131 insanlar\u0131 bel\u0259 s\u0131nd\u0131ra bil\u0259r. Bel\u0259 hallarla daima qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fan u\u015faq \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 inam\u0131 itirir v\u0259 bu n\u0259tic\u0259y\u0259 g\u0259lir: \u201cM\u0259n n\u0259 ets\u0259m d\u0259 he\u00e7 vaxt m\u0259nd\u0259n raz\u0131 qalm\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Siz b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259r n\u0259yi nec\u0259 etm\u0259yi daha yax\u015f\u0131 bilirsiniz. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fmaq n\u0259y\u0259 g\u0259r\u0259kdir ki?! Onsuz da he\u00e7 n\u0259 al\u0131nmayacaq. M\u0259n pis\u0259m, amma he\u00e7 vecim\u0259 d\u0259 deyil!<\/p>\n<p><strong>N\u0259 etm\u0259k olar?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bu situasiya \u0259n \u00e7\u0259tin v\u0259ziyy\u0259tdir v\u0259 z\u0259rg\u0259r daqiqliyini t\u0259l\u0259b edir. U\u015faqdan daima yax\u015f\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f t\u0259l\u0259b etm\u0259yi dayand\u0131r\u0131n. Ona dinc\u0259lm\u0259k, u\u015faql\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan h\u0259zz almaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn imkan yarad\u0131n. Ax\u0131 siz \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz d\u0259 m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l deyilsiniz. H\u0259r bir insan\u0131n bu v\u0259 ya dig\u0259r sah\u0259d\u0259 bacar\u0131qlar\u0131 var, \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131za \u00f6z istedad\u0131n\u0131 tapmaqda yard\u0131m\u00e7\u0131 olun. Onu dig\u0259r u\u015faqlarla he\u00e7 zaman m\u00fcqayis\u0259 etm\u0259yin. M\u00fcqayis\u0259 ancaq onun \u00f6z\u00fc il\u0259 g\u0259r\u0259klidir ki, n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259rini qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndir\u0259 bilsin: bu g\u00fcn daha yax\u015f\u0131 idi v\u0259 s. T\u0259rif \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u0259qamlar axtar\u0131n, \u0259n x\u0131rda m\u00fcsb\u0259t d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259ri bel\u0259 qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirin, ki\u00e7ik n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ri bel\u0259 canf\u0259\u015fanl\u0131qla vur\u011fulay\u0131n. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u0259 hiss etdirm\u0259d\u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck u\u011fursuzluqlardan onu qoruyun.<\/p>\n<p>Tezlikl\u0259 i\u015finizin n\u0259tic\u0259sini g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259yin, o m\u00fctl\u0259q olacaq ancaq bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259tin dig\u0259rl\u0259rind\u0259n daha a\u011f\u0131r oldu\u011funa g\u00f6r\u0259 sizd\u0259n uzun vaxt v\u0259 s\u0259br t\u0259l\u0259b edir.<\/p>\n<p>Unutmay\u0131n h\u0259r bir u\u015faq individual yana\u015fma t\u0259l\u0259b edir. Davran\u0131\u015f pozuntusunun s\u0259b\u0259bini ara\u015fd\u0131rmaq vacibdir ki, ona uy\u011fun korreksiya h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irilsin.<\/p>\n<p>Bu i\u015fi valideynlik t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259niz\u0259 arxalanaraq t\u0259klikd\u0259 d\u0259 yerin\u0259 yetir\u0259 bil\u0259rsiniz, \u0259g\u0259r bacarmasan\u0131z,psixoloqa m\u00fcraci\u0259t etm\u0259yiniz vacibdir.<\/p>\n<p>NARINC U\u015eAQ PS\u0130XOLOG\u0130YA M\u018fRK\u018fZ\u0130-nin U\u015faq Psixoloqu Leyla Heyd\u0259rova<\/p>\n<p>Narinc.az<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>H\u0259r bir ana d\u00fcnyaya \u00f6vlad g\u0259tirdiyi m\u0259qam\u0131 \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn \u0259n xo\u015fb\u0259xt an\u0131, \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 is\u0259 tanr\u0131n\u0131n \u0259n d\u0259y\u0259rli h\u0259diyy\u0259si hesab edir. U\u015faqlar h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n sevincidir. 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