Bu m\u00f6vzunu sizinl\u0259 b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fm\u0259yimin s\u0259b\u0259bkarlar\u0131 m\u0259nim xan\u0131m pasientl\u0259rimdir.<\/p>\n
Bu son ay \u0259rzind\u0259 onlar\u0131n \u0259n \u00e7ox narahat ed\u0259n suallardan biri bu olub: \u201cM\u0259n yan\u0131lm\u0131\u015fam. M\u0259nc\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n m\u0259ni art\u0131q sevmir. B\u0259lk\u0259 m\u0259n onu tan\u0131mam\u0131\u015fam? O, evl\u0259n\u0259nd\u0259 d\u0259 m\u0259ni he\u00e7 sevm\u0259yib?\u201d<\/p>\n
Qeyd ed\u0259k ki, h\u0259r bir insan\u0131n sevgi haqq\u0131nda \u015f\u0259xsi fikirl\u0259ri var. Ancaq psixologiyada \u201csevgi\u201d adlanan bu hiss fundamental hiss kimi q\u0259bul olunub. \u00c7\u00fcnki insan\u0131n emosiyalar\u0131 m\u0259hz bu hissl\u0259 s\u0131x \u0259laq\u0259d\u0259dir. Sevgi hissi insanlar\u0131n q\u0259lbind\u0259 x\u00fcsusi yer tutan unikal bir hissdir. Sevgi m\u00fcxt\u0259lif emosiyayalar\u0131n yaranmas\u0131na da s\u0259b\u0259b olur. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, insan sevgilisind\u0259n ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman k\u0259d\u0259r hiss ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. M\u0259yus olduqda is\u0259 q\u0259z\u0259bl\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n
Psixologiyan\u0131n inki\u015faf tarixin\u0259 n\u0259z\u0259r salsaq g\u00f6r\u0259rik ki, insan bu sual il\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fanda aciz qal\u0131r: \u201cSevgi n\u0259dir?\u201d Lakin bu suala cavab tapmaq \u00e7\u0259tindir. S\u0259b\u0259b is\u0259 \u00e7ox sad\u0259dir. H\u0259r bir \u015f\u0259xs sevgini \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259m\u0259xsus izah edir. Sevgi insan\u0131n \u00fcr\u0259yind\u0259, ruhunda sanki bir titr\u0259m\u0259 yarad\u0131r, z\u0259rif hissl\u0259r oyad\u0131r, xeyirxahl\u0131\u011fa, s\u00fclh\u0259, sakitliy\u0259 \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131r. Bunlarla yana\u015f\u0131 neqativ hissl\u0259r d\u0259 ya\u015fama\u011fa m\u0259cbur edir.<\/p>\n
Sevgi bir an\u0131n i\u00e7ind\u0259 insan\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fdir\u0259n \u00a0bir hissdir. \u018fg\u0259r romantik sevgi ya\u015fay\u0131r\u0131qsa, h\u0259yat biz\u0259 \u00e7ox g\u00f6z\u0259l g\u00f6rs\u0259nir.<\/p>\n
Psixoloji n\u00f6qteyi-n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259n \u201cSevgi n\u0259dir?\u201dsual\u0131n\u0131n cavab\u0131 olsa bel\u0259 m\u00fcx\u0259tlif v\u0259 sonsuz olacaq. Sevgini anlama\u011f\u0131n \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 \u00fcsulu onu hiss etm\u0259k, daxili s\u0259s\u0259 qulaq asmaqd\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259t g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259diyimiz bir anda bizi yaxalaya bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n
Sevgi h\u0259m d\u0259 beyind\u0259 ged\u0259n m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n biokimy\u0259vi prosesdir. Buna \u0259saslanaraq sevgi genetik amill\u0259rin, psixoloji t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259nin v\u0259 hormonal g\u00f6st\u0259ricil\u0259rin qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 t\u0259siri kimi izah edilir.<\/p>\n
Elmi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n, \u0259ks cins\u0259 olan romantik m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri m\u00fcxt\u0259lif biokimy\u0259vi prosesl\u0259r v\u0259 stimullar formala\u015fd\u0131ra bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n
Qad\u0131n sev\u0259n zaman da\u011flar\u0131 a\u015fma\u011fa bel\u0259 haz\u0131rd\u0131r. O, bunu b\u00fcruz\u0259 verir. Ki\u015fil\u0259rs\u0259, \u0259ksin\u0259 \u00e7ox vaxt \u00f6z hissl\u0259rini gizl\u0259tm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Qad\u0131nlar ki\u015finin bu c\u00fcr m\u00fcnasib\u0259tini g\u00f6r\u0259nd\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259dd\u00fcd edirl\u0259r: \u201cKi\u015fi sevir yoxsa yox?\u201d.<\/p>\n
Bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n d\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin t\u0259nziml\u0259nm\u0259sind\u0259 qad\u0131n apar\u0131c\u0131 rol oynay\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Ki\u015fil\u0259r qad\u0131nlar\u0131n h\u0259r bir m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 emosional yana\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u0259nd\u0259 bu c\u00fcr d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r: \u201cOnunla m\u0259n\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. Amma n\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 o, hadis\u0259l\u0259ri bu c\u00fcr qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirir? Niy\u0259 h\u0259r \u015feyi m\u00fcr\u0259kk\u0259bl\u0259\u015fdirir? N\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, m\u0259ni bu q\u0259d\u0259r s\u0131x\u0131r? Niy\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259sir?\u201d<\/p>\n
Ki\u015fil\u0259r bir qayda olaraq \u00f6z hissl\u0259rini t\u0259hlil etm\u0259y\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259smirl\u0259r. Onlar \u00e7ox vaxt bir prinsipl\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131rlar: \u201cH\u0259r \u015fey yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131rsa, problem yoxdur\u201d. Ki\u015fil\u0259r tez-tez qad\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u0259y\u0259, onunla \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t saxlama\u011fa, ona diqq\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259y\u0259, yax\u0131nl\u0131q etm\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131rd\u0131lar. Amma he\u00e7 vaxt d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259zl\u0259r ki, bu h\u0259qiqi sevgidir yoxsa deyil? Onlar sad\u0259c\u0259 hiss ed\u0259r v\u0259 hissl\u0259rini ya\u015fayarlar. Bu v\u0259ziyyt\u0259d\u0259 ki\u015fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259r: \u201cBiz\u0259 birlikd\u0259 \u00e7ox yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. Bunun sevgi olub-olmamas\u0131 is\u0259 sonran\u0131n i\u015fidir\u201d.\u00a0 Ba\u015fqa s\u00f6zl\u0259, ki\u015fi daha \u00e7ox bug\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00fcnl\u0259 ya\u015fama\u011fa \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verir. O, bug\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00fcn\u00fcn h\u0259zzini ya\u015famaq ist\u0259yir.<\/p>\n
Ki\u015fil\u0259r h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n sev\u0259nd\u0259 \u00f6z m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259tini iki halda bildirirl\u0259r:<\/strong><\/p>\n – Birincisi \u2013 se\u00e7diyi xan\u0131m\u0131 itirm\u0259k qorxusu \u0259m\u0259l\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259.<\/p>\n – \u0130kincisi \u2013 sevdiyi qad\u0131n\u0131 \u0259ld\u0259 ed\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259.<\/p>\n Ki\u015fi qad\u0131n\u0131 itir\u0259c\u0259yini hiss etdikd\u0259 sevgisini bildir\u0259 bil\u0259r. Lakin ki\u015finin sevgisini s\u0131na\u011fa \u00e7\u0259k\u0259rk\u0259n ehtiyyatl\u0131 olmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bel\u0259 ki, b\u0259zi ki\u015fil\u0259rin t\u0259nhal\u0131qdan qorxmaq kimi kompleksi ola bil\u0259r. El\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259, ki\u015finin \u00f6zg\u00fcv\u0259n hissinin a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 olmas\u0131 da n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 al\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n Ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259 instinktiv olaraq z\u0259if cinsi qorumaq, qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131na qalmaq kimi bir t\u0259l\u0259bat \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc b\u00fcruz\u0259 verir. Ki\u015fi bu t\u0259l\u0259bat\u0131n\u0131 yerin\u0259 yetir\u0259nd\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc t\u0259sdiq etmi\u015f hesab edir. Y\u0259ni sevdiyi qad\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259mannas\u0131z y\u00fcng\u00fcll\u0259\u015fdirdikd\u0259, ona d\u0259st\u0259k olduqda, diqq\u0259t v\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rdikd\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc rahat hiss edir. Ki\u015fi qad\u0131ndan minn\u0259tdarl\u0131q s\u00f6zl\u0259rini q\u0259bul etmirs\u0259, o, h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259 sevir.<\/p>\n El\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259, ki\u015fi se\u00e7diyi xan\u0131ma heyran olur. B\u0259zi hallarda heyranl\u0131q hissi olmur. Lakin bu sevginin yoxlu\u011funu g\u00f6st\u0259rmir. Sad\u0259c\u0259 bu \u0259hval\u0131n pis olmas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 ola bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n \u018fziz xan\u0131mlar, psixoloq kimi m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u0259m ki, ki\u015fiy\u0259 sizi tamamil\u0259 f\u0259thetdiyini g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259yin. Qoy o, sizi zamanla, pill\u0259-pill\u0259 qazans\u0131n.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u018fg\u0259r siz \u00e7ox g\u00fccl\u00fc v\u0259 s\u0259rb\u0259stsinizs\u0259, sevdiyiniz ki\u015fiy\u0259 qorunma\u011fa ehtiyac\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n oldu\u011funun m\u00fctl\u0259q g\u00f6st\u0259rin. \u00c7\u00fcnki h\u0259r bir ki\u015fid\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131 qorumaq instinkti var. Siz bu instinkti h\u0259r zaman realiz\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259 imkan verin.<\/p>\n H\u0259r k\u0259s\u0259 sevgi dolu bir h\u0259yat arzu edir\u0259m. Sevgi dolu h\u0259yat \u00e7ox g\u00f6z\u0259ldir!<\/strong><\/p>\n Z\u00fclfiyy\u0259 Yaqubova<\/p>\n Psixologiya v\u0259 Konsultasiya M\u0259rk\u0259zinin Psixoloqu<\/p>\n Dushunce.az<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Bu m\u00f6vzunu sizinl\u0259 b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fm\u0259yimin s\u0259b\u0259bkarlar\u0131 m\u0259nim xan\u0131m pasientl\u0259rimdir. Bu son ay \u0259rzind\u0259 onlar\u0131n \u0259n \u00e7ox narahat ed\u0259n suallardan biri bu olub: \u201cM\u0259n yan\u0131lm\u0131\u015fam. M\u0259nc\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n m\u0259ni art\u0131q sevmir. B\u0259lk\u0259 m\u0259n onu tan\u0131mam\u0131\u015fam? O, evl\u0259n\u0259nd\u0259 d\u0259 m\u0259ni he\u00e7 sevm\u0259yib?\u201d Qeyd ed\u0259k ki, h\u0259r bir insan\u0131n sevgi haqq\u0131nda \u015f\u0259xsi fikirl\u0259ri var. Ancaq psixologiyada \u201csevgi\u201d adlanan bu hiss fundamental hiss kimi q\u0259bul olunub. \u00c7\u00fcnki insan\u0131n emosiyalar\u0131 m\u0259hz bu hissl\u0259 s\u0131x \u0259laq\u0259d\u0259dir. Sevgi hissi insanlar\u0131n q\u0259lbind\u0259 x\u00fcsusi yer tutan unikal bir hissdir. Sevgi m\u00fcxt\u0259lif emosiyayalar\u0131n yaranmas\u0131na da s\u0259b\u0259b olur. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, insan sevgilisind\u0259n ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":340314,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[24],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/sevir-sevmir.jpg",460,322,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/sevir-sevmir.jpg",460,322,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/sevir-sevmir.jpg",460,322,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/sevir-sevmir-460x280.jpg",460,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/sevir-sevmir.jpg",460,322,false],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/sevir-sevmir.jpg",460,322,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/sevir-sevmir.jpg",460,322,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/sevir-sevmir.jpg",460,322,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/sevir-sevmir-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/sevir-sevmir.jpg",460,322,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"Maraql\u0131<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Bu m\u00f6vzunu sizinl\u0259 b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fm\u0259yimin s\u0259b\u0259bkarlar\u0131 m\u0259nim xan\u0131m pasientl\u0259rimdir. Bu son ay \u0259rzind\u0259 onlar\u0131n \u0259n \u00e7ox narahat ed\u0259n suallardan biri bu olub: \u201cM\u0259n yan\u0131lm\u0131\u015fam. M\u0259nc\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n m\u0259ni art\u0131q sevmir. B\u0259lk\u0259 m\u0259n onu tan\u0131mam\u0131\u015fam? O, evl\u0259n\u0259nd\u0259 d\u0259 m\u0259ni he\u00e7 sevm\u0259yib?\u201d Qeyd ed\u0259k ki, h\u0259r bir insan\u0131n sevgi haqq\u0131nda \u015f\u0259xsi fikirl\u0259ri var. Ancaq psixologiyada \u201csevgi\u201d adlanan bu…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/340313"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=340313"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/340313\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/340314"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=340313"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=340313"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=340313"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}