{"id":35147,"date":"2019-01-26T10:06:56","date_gmt":"2019-01-26T07:06:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=35147"},"modified":"2019-01-26T10:06:56","modified_gmt":"2019-01-26T07:06:56","slug":"aparici-yeng%c9%99-g%c9%99linin-vizit-kartidir-foto-video","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=35147","title":{"rendered":"Apar\u0131c\u0131: Yeng\u0259 g\u0259linin vizit kart\u0131d\u0131r – FOTO\/V\u0130DEO"},"content":{"rendered":"

ARANTV.AZ\u00a0<\/b> Qafqazinfo-ya istinad\u0259n \u201c\u018fn\u0259n\u0259 bo\u011f\u00e7as\u0131\u201d verili\u015finin apar\u0131c\u0131s\u0131\u00a0Leyla Mustafayeva<\/strong>n\u0131n\u00a0 m\u00fcsahib\u0259sini t\u0259qdim edir:<\/p>\n

– Sizinl\u0259 m\u00fcsahib\u0259y\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259mi\u015fd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l haqq\u0131n\u0131zda bir az m\u0259lumat toplad\u0131m. \u018fslind\u0259 \u015fahidi oldum ki, sanki sizin iki h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131z var –\u00a0<\/strong>\u201cInstagram<\/strong>\u201d\u00a0v\u0259 efir. Bunlar bir-birind\u0259n \u00e7ox f\u0259rql\u0259nir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

–\u00a0<\/strong>F\u0259rqli olan n\u0259dir?<\/p>\n

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– M\u0259n siz\u0259 deyim.\u00a0<\/strong>\u201cInstagram<\/strong>\u201dda daha c\u0259sar\u0259tli v\u0259 maraql\u0131 fotolar payla\u015f\u0131rs\u0131z, \u015f\u0259rhl\u0259r yaz\u0131rs\u0131z. Efird\u0259 is\u0259 bu r\u0259ngar\u0259ngliyi g\u00f6r\u0259 bilmir\u0259m.<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Efirin format\u0131 var. Milli geyiml\u0259rd\u0259 proqram apar\u0131ram. Orada f\u0259rqli v\u0259 c\u0259sar\u0259tli geyin\u0259 bilmir\u0259m. Toylarda insanlar aras\u0131nda oluram. Nec\u0259 rahat geyin\u0259 bil\u0259r\u0259m? M\u0259ni \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u0259rl\u0259r (g\u00fcl\u00fcr). Amma \u201cInstagram\u201d\u00a0f\u0259rqli, m\u0259nim ya\u015famaq ist\u0259diyim bir d\u00fcnyad\u0131r. \u0130mkan daxilind\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131ram ki, ist\u0259diyim \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 gedim. Payla\u015f\u0131ram ki, siz d\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259siz. Amma b\u0259zi insanlar h\u0259min g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcl\u0259rd\u0259n narahat olurlar, q\u0131c\u0131qlan\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

\u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, insanlar \u00e7ox aqressivl\u0259\u015fibl\u0259r. Kims\u0259 q\u0259\u015f\u0259ng yerl\u0259r\u0259 gedib g\u0259z\u0259nd\u0259 m\u0259n \u00e7ox sevinir\u0259m. Amma o insanlar payla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131n alt\u0131na el\u0259 \u015f\u0259rhl\u0259r yaz\u0131rlar ki… B\u0259db\u0259xt insanlar ancaq bunu ed\u0259 bilir. M\u0259n niy\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n fotolar\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131na bel\u0259 r\u0259yl\u0259r yazm\u0131ram? M\u0259hz \u015f\u0259xsi v\u0259 i\u015f h\u0259yat\u0131nda u\u011fursuz olanlar azac\u0131q u\u011fur qazanan insanlar haqq\u0131nda b\u0259d-b\u0259d \u015f\u0259rh yaz\u0131rlar ki, ruhdan d\u00fc\u015fs\u00fcnl\u0259r. Amma inan\u0131n, m\u0259nim he\u00e7 vecim\u0259 deyil.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0Televiziya adam\u0131s\u0131z v\u0259 azdan-\u00e7oxdan x\u0259b\u0259riniz olur ki, \u015fou-biznes \u00fczvl\u0259ri qalmaqala, s\u00f6z atma\u011fa, m\u00fcbahis\u0259y\u0259 meyillidirl\u0259r. Apar\u0131c\u0131lar da onlardan geri qalm\u0131r. Biri dig\u0259r kanal\u0131n apar\u0131c\u0131s\u0131na canl\u0131 efirl\u0259 atmaca at\u0131r. Sizi efird\u0259 ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fck, b\u0259s sosial h\u0259yatda nec\u0259, qalmaqall\u0131 birisiniz?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– M\u0259n bel\u0259 \u015feyl\u0259rd\u0259n uza\u011fam. El\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcm \u015fahid olmu\u015fam ki, h\u0259mkarlar\u0131m, o c\u00fcml\u0259d\u0259n aktrisalar \u00f6zl\u0259ri jurnalistl\u0259r\u0259 deyirl\u0259r ki, niy\u0259 m\u0259nd\u0259n yazm\u0131rsan? T\u0259dbirl\u0259rd\u0259 fotoqraflara deyirl\u0259r ki, m\u0259ni \u00e7\u0259k! \u00d6z g\u00f6z\u00fcml\u0259 g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f\u0259m. Ancaq m\u0259nd\u0259 bel\u0259 \u015feyl\u0259r yoxdur.<\/p>\n

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H\u0259l\u0259 ill\u0259r \u0259vv\u0259l \u201cFacebook\u201dun daha m\u0259\u015fhur oldu\u011fu d\u00f6vrd\u0259 bir foto payla\u015fm\u0131\u015fd\u0131m. H\u0259min \u015f\u0259kild\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259r haz\u0131rlad\u0131lar, m\u0259n\u0259 yara\u015fmayan bir ba\u015fl\u0131q qoydular. Yazd\u0131lar ki, apar\u0131c\u0131 sin\u0259 dekoltesind\u0259 efir\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131. O dekolte idi? Xahi\u015f etdim, x\u0259b\u0259r silinm\u0259di, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259 is\u0259 xeyli \u015fikay\u0259td\u0259n sonra qald\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131. Bundan sonra elan etdim ki, m\u0259nim haqq\u0131mda x\u0259b\u0259r yazmay\u0131n. \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, bel\u0259 \u015feyl\u0259rd\u0259n uza\u011fam, ist\u0259mir\u0259m.<\/p>\n

– B\u0259lk\u0259 bu c\u00fcr x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259rin \u00e7ox yaz\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bi m\u00fchafiz\u0259kar olma\u011f\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u018fks\u0259riyy\u0259ti seksual problemi olan insanlard\u0131r. Bu tip insanlar normal geyiml\u0259ri d\u0259 o \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259d\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcr. G\u00f6z\u0259lliyi g\u00f6rm\u00fcr, beyni ba\u015fqa \u015feyl\u0259r d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. Bizd\u0259 d\u0259 bu m\u00f6vzuda azadl\u0131q olsa, h\u0259r geyim\u0259 normal baxarlar.<\/p>\n

– Bu yax\u0131nlarda apar\u0131c\u0131l\u0131q etdiyiniz \u201c\u018fn\u0259n\u0259 bo\u011f\u00e7as\u0131\u201d proqram\u0131n\u0131n 5 illiyi tamam oldu. T\u0259brik edir\u0259m, amma siz\u0259 deyim ki, bu tipli layih\u0259l\u0259r bir ne\u00e7\u0259 televiziyada yay\u0131mlan\u0131r. Bu formatda verili\u015f ilk d\u0259f\u0259 hans\u0131 kanalda yay\u0131mlan\u0131b? Aran\u0131zda apar\u0131lan r\u0259qab\u0259td\u0259n dan\u0131\u015faq…<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Bu verili\u015fin b\u00fcn\u00f6vr\u0259si Space Tv-d\u0259 qoyulub. \u201cBanu\u201d adlanan proqram \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259 qad\u0131nlardan b\u0259hs edirdi. Daha sonra apar\u0131c\u0131 rayonlara gedib qad\u0131nlar\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131ndan s\u00fcjetl\u0259r haz\u0131rlay\u0131rd\u0131. Bir d\u0259f\u0259 d\u0259 toydak\u0131 xan\u0131mlar\u0131 \u00e7\u0259kmi\u015fdil\u0259r. El\u0259 bundan sonra davaml\u0131 olaraq toylar \u00e7\u0259kildi, efird\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rildi. S\u0259hv etmir\u0259ms\u0259, h\u0259min apar\u0131c\u0131m\u0131z ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurdu, ba\u015fqa \u00f6lk\u0259y\u0259 k\u00f6\u00e7d\u00fc. Apar\u0131c\u0131l\u0131q is\u0259 G\u00fcnel H\u0259s\u0259nzad\u0259y\u0259 h\u0259val\u0259 olundu.<\/p>\n

Bundan sonra is\u0259 m\u0259nim bir layih\u0259m var idi, 5 il \u0259vv\u0259l \u201c\u018fn\u0259n\u0259 (n\u0259n\u0259) bo\u011f\u00e7as\u0131\u201d adlan\u0131rd\u0131. B\u00fct\u00fcn ad\u0259tl\u0259rimizi n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259r n\u0259v\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r, onlar da bunu qoruyurlar. M\u0259qs\u0259d o idi ki, xaricd\u0259 ya\u015fayan az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131larla ba\u011fl\u0131 verili\u015fl\u0259r haz\u0131rlayaq. Biz miks etdik, h\u0259m Az\u0259rbaycan daxilind\u0259, h\u0259m d\u0259 xaricd\u0259 bel\u0259 bir layih\u0259 etdik.<\/p>\n

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Aram\u0131zda sa\u011flam r\u0259qab\u0259t apar\u0131r\u0131q, G\u00fcnel xan\u0131m\u0131n da x\u0259trini \u00e7ox ist\u0259yir\u0259m. O verili\u015f birinci yarand\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bizi \u201cInstagram\u201dda t\u0259nqid edirl\u0259r. M\u0259ni ham\u0131 sev\u0259 bilm\u0259z, m\u0259n d\u0259 ham\u0131n\u0131 sev\u0259 bilm\u0259r\u0259m. \u0130ll\u0259rdir o da, m\u0259n d\u0259 reytinqimizi qoruyub saxlam\u0131\u015f\u0131q. \u0130n\u015fallah G\u00fcnel ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurar, m\u0259n d\u0259 onun toyunu \u00e7\u0259k\u0259r\u0259m.<\/p>\n

– \u0130nsanlara ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n toyunu izl\u0259m\u0259k niy\u0259 bu q\u0259d\u0259r maraql\u0131 olsun?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Onlar f\u0259rqli insanlar g\u00f6rm\u0259k ist\u0259yir. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r ki, m\u0259n bu h\u0259yat\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131ramsa, g\u00f6r\u00fcm k\u0259nardak\u0131lar\u0131n ya\u015fay\u0131\u015f\u0131 nec\u0259dir? B\u0259z\u0259n m\u0259n\u0259 z\u0259ngl\u0259r g\u0259lir, t\u0259\u015f\u0259kk\u00fcr edirl\u0259r ki, rayon toylar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0259kdiniz, bizi u\u015faql\u0131q ill\u0259rimiz\u0259 qaytard\u0131n\u0131z. El\u0259 i\u015f yolda\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n 80 faizi rayonlardan Bak\u0131ya g\u0259lib t\u0259hsil alanlar, burada karyera quranlard\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u018fks\u0259riyy\u0259ti nostalji hissl\u0259r ya\u015fay\u0131r. Cavanlar is\u0259 toyda oynayanlarla maraqlan\u0131r, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r ki, maraql\u0131 r\u0259qs ed\u0259nl\u0259ri \u00e7\u0259kib sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259 payla\u015fs\u0131nlar. Toylarda qad\u0131nlar aras\u0131nda b\u00f6y\u00fck r\u0259qab\u0259t olur. R\u0259sm\u0259n toylarda q\u0131z\u0131l taxmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yar\u0131\u015f gedir. Bir d\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcz ki, qad\u0131n\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn barmaqlar\u0131na q\u0131z\u0131l \u00fcz\u00fck tax\u0131l\u0131r. M\u0259n d\u0259 bel\u0259 bir ist\u0259k yoxdur. Sad\u0259c\u0259 olaraq toya gedir\u0259m, \u00f6z\u00fcm d\u0259 \u0259yl\u0259nir\u0259m, onlar da \u0259yl\u0259nir.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0Efird\u0259 h\u0259r zaman milli geyim geyinirsiniz. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fcz d\u0259 \u015fahid olmusunuz ki, bizim toylarda milli geyim \u0259n\u0259n\u0259si yoxdur, son zamanlar bunu x\u0131na m\u0259rasiml\u0259rind\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 bil\u0259rik. Sizc\u0259, h\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 eyni model geyiml\u0259 efir\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xmaq tama\u015fa\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131 yormur?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Yox, yormur. Rayon toylar\u0131n\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti \u00e7ad\u0131rlarda olur. M\u0259n onlar\u0131n yan\u0131na ba\u015fqa geyimd\u0259 ged\u0259 bilm\u0259r\u0259m. K\u0259nd \u0259halisi q\u0131c\u0131qlana bil\u0259r. \u015e\u0259h\u0259r toylar\u0131nda geyindiyim paltar\u0131 orda geyins\u0259m dava d\u00fc\u015f\u0259r. Q\u0259bul ed\u0259n v\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259n insanlar var. Bunlar\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alaraq milli geyimd\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kili\u015fl\u0259r apar\u0131r\u0131q.<\/p>\n

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– Be\u015f ildir ki, b\u00f6lg\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 ba\u015f tutan toylar\u0131 i\u015f\u0131qland\u0131r\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za g\u0259l\u0259n \u0259n maraql\u0131 hadis\u0259ni biziml\u0259 b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u0259 bil\u0259rsiniz?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Davalar olub. \u0130nsanlar m\u0259niml\u0259 \u015f\u0259kil \u00e7\u0259kdirm\u0259k ist\u0259yirdil\u0259r. Bu, m\u0259nim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn xo\u015f olur, insanlar m\u0259ni sevir, d\u0259y\u0259r verirl\u0259r. M\u0259niml\u0259 foto \u00e7\u0259kdirm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u00f6vb\u0259 idi. Daha sonra bunun \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 dava etmi\u015fdil\u0259r. Tez aradan \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131m. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm ki, ortada qal\u0131b d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259n m\u0259n olaram. Dey\u0259rl\u0259r ki, s\u0259b\u0259bkar s\u0259ns\u0259n (G\u00fcl\u00fcr).<\/p>\n

Verili\u015fd\u0259 dig\u0259r maraql\u0131 m\u0259qam toyda b\u0259yin g\u0259linin ad\u0131n\u0131 yad\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131xarmas\u0131 olub. B\u0259y\u0259 yax\u0131nla\u015f\u0131b soru\u015fdum ki, g\u0259linimizin ad\u0131 n\u0259dir? D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc, dey\u0259 bilm\u0259di. Adi sad\u0259 v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015fd\u0131r, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, h\u0259y\u0259canlana bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0Ola bilsin, h\u0259y\u0259canl\u0131 olub. Amma bir m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 var ki, b\u00f6lg\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 q\u0131zla o\u011flan bir-birini \u00e7ox tan\u0131m\u0131r, b\u0259z\u0259n ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259rinin ist\u0259yi il\u0259 \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcb b\u0259y\u0259nib ail\u0259 qururlar. Ad unutma\u011fa bu da s\u0259b\u0259b ola bil\u0259r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Amma faiz etibar\u0131 il\u0259 \u00e7oxluq \u00f6zl\u0259rini sev\u0259nl\u0259rdir. Siz\u0259 bir \u015fey dan\u0131\u015f\u0131m. Bir toyda b\u0259y v\u0259 g\u0259lind\u0259n tan\u0131\u015fl\u0131q m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259sini soru\u015fdum. Dedil\u0259r ki, \u201cInstagram\u201dda tan\u0131\u015f olmu\u015fuq. Biri Tovuzda, dig\u0259ri \u0130mi\u015flid\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131rd\u0131. \u201cInstagram\u201dda tan\u0131\u015f olublar, yaz\u0131\u015f\u0131blar v\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fc G\u0259nc\u0259d\u0259 t\u0259yin edibl\u0259r. G\u0259nc\u0259d\u0259 bir-birini b\u0259y\u0259nibl\u0259r, o\u011flan q\u0131z\u0131 qa\u00e7\u0131r\u0131b. Y\u0259ni bel\u0259 \u015feyl\u0259r \u00e7ox olur.<\/p>\n

– Sizin b\u0259y v\u0259 g\u0259lin\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t forman\u0131z da sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 t\u0259nqid olunur. Misal \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, b\u0259y\u0259 sual verirsiniz ki, bu q\u0131z\u0131 haradan alm\u0131san? Bu sual insanlarda q\u0131c\u0131q yarad\u0131r ki, sanki g\u0259lin hans\u0131sa bir \u0259\u015fyad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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– Biz ax\u0131 bel\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131q. S\u00f6hb\u0259t ed\u0259n zaman b\u0259dii c\u00fcml\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n istifad\u0259 etmirik. M\u0259n yen\u0259 deyir\u0259m, ola bil\u0259r ki, insanlar\u0131n ham\u0131s\u0131 m\u0259ni b\u0259y\u0259nm\u0259sin. B\u0259y\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259m ki? Z\u00f6vql\u0259r m\u00fcxt\u0259lifdir, m\u00fczakir\u0259 olunmur.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0M\u0259nc\u0259, bu sual\u0131n cavab\u0131 \u0259ks\u0259r insanlara maraql\u0131d\u0131r. Toylar\u0131 \u00f6d\u0259ni\u015fli \u0259saslarda \u00e7\u0259kirsiniz?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Verili\u015f \u0259rzind\u0259 n\u00f6mr\u0259l\u0259r qeyd olunur. Toylar\u0131n\u0131n i\u015f\u0131qland\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n arzusunda olanlar z\u0259ng vururlar. Onlar aras\u0131nda se\u00e7im edirik v\u0259 t\u0259m\u0259nnas\u0131z olaraq \u00e7\u0259kirik.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0Be\u015f\u00a0il \u0259rzind\u0259 \u00e7ox toylarda olmusunuz. B\u0259s \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz nec\u0259? Siz ist\u0259rdiniz ki, toyunuzu bel\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kib efir\u0259 versinl\u0259r? Bayaq da G\u00fcnel H\u0259s\u0259nzad\u0259y\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259td\u0259 dediz ki, toyun olsun, g\u0259lib \u00e7\u0259k\u0259k.<\/strong><\/p>\n

– G\u00fcnel xan\u0131m g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnd\u0259dir. \u0130ll\u0259rdir o toylar\u0131 \u00e7\u0259kir, insanlar da indi onun toyunu g\u00f6rm\u0259k ist\u0259yir. M\u0259n toylara tam f\u0259rqli bax\u0131ram. Toylar vaxt itkisidir. Geyim se\u00e7m\u0259k, qonaqlar\u0131 raz\u0131 salmaq \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tindir. \u00c7\u00fcnki qonaqlar\u0131\u00a0 he\u00e7 bir halda raz\u0131 salmaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil. H\u0259r \u015fey qaydas\u0131nda olan m\u0259clisl\u0259rd\u0259n bir problem \u00e7\u0131xaracaqlar, dan\u0131\u015f\u0131b m\u00fczakir\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r. Onsuz da toya g\u0259l\u0259n naraz\u0131 \u00e7\u0131xacaq. M\u0259n\u0259 el\u0259 g\u0259lir ki, iki insan bir-birini h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n sevirs\u0259, ail\u0259daxili y\u0131\u011f\u0131ncaq ets\u0259l\u0259r daha yax\u015f\u0131 olar. Toylara ay\u0131rd\u0131qlar\u0131 pulla is\u0259 hans\u0131sa bir arzulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6lk\u0259ni s\u0259yah\u0259t etsinl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

– M\u0259n\u0259 maraql\u0131d\u0131r, hans\u0131 b\u00f6lg\u0259nin toy ad\u0259t-\u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259ri siz\u0259 maraql\u0131 g\u0259lib?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Az\u0259rbaycanda ham\u0131s\u0131 dem\u0259k olar ki, eynidir, qar\u0131\u015f\u0131b. Ad\u0259tl\u0259r konkret olaraq l\u0259zgil\u0259rd\u0259, udinl\u0259rd\u0259, saxurlarda, avarlarda, tal\u0131\u015flarda, tatlarda v\u0259 ax\u0131sqa t\u00fcrkl\u0259rind\u0259 qal\u0131b. Ola bilsin ki, ba\u015fqalar\u0131 yad\u0131mdan \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b. Tam f\u0259rqli ad\u0259t-\u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259ri var.<\/p>\n

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– B\u0259s hans\u0131n\u0131 b\u0259y\u0259nm\u0259misiz?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Bir ad\u0259t var, onu he\u00e7 vaxt b\u0259y\u0259nmir\u0259m.<\/p>\n

– Yeng\u0259?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Yox, yeng\u0259 \u00e7ox yax\u015f\u0131 ad\u0259tdir. Bizim rayon v\u0259 k\u0259ndl\u0259rimizd\u0259 yeng\u0259 m\u00fctl\u0259qdir. Yeng\u0259 g\u0259linin vizit kart\u0131d\u0131r. B\u0259zil\u0259ri deyir ki, yeng\u0259ni q\u0259bul etmir\u0259m. Niy\u0259?! El\u0259 olur ki, b\u00f6lg\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 b\u0259yl\u0259 g\u0259lin aras\u0131nda m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259 yaran\u0131r. G\u0259lin haqs\u0131z olaraq ortada qal\u0131r. O m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 qan d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259nin\u0259 \u00e7evrilirl\u0259r. Amma yeng\u0259 g\u0259lin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn s\u00fcbutdur. Sabah he\u00e7 k\u0259s onun ucundan tutub g\u0259lin\u0259 qara yaxa bilm\u0259z. Yaxmaq ist\u0259s\u0259 is\u0259 o\u011flan pis v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 qalacaq ki, \u0259vv\u0259ld\u0259n niy\u0259 q\u0259bul edirdin. Yeng\u0259 m\u00fctl\u0259q laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0O zaman sual\u0131 t\u0259krar verim, hans\u0131 \u0259n\u0259n\u0259ni b\u0259y\u0259nmirsiniz?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Tal\u0131\u015flar\u0131 \u00e7ox sevir\u0259m, amma c\u0259nub b\u00f6lg\u0259sinin bir \u0259n\u0259n\u0259si var. G\u0259lini ev\u0259 g\u0259tir\u0259nd\u0259 qay\u0131nana barma\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bala bat\u0131r\u0131r, sonra g\u0259lin\u0259 uzad\u0131r. Sonra \u00f6z\u00fc, b\u0259y h\u0259min barmaqla bal yeyir. Bu prosesi ham\u0131s\u0131 t\u0259krarlay\u0131r. Yax\u015f\u0131 olar ki, qa\u015f\u0131qla yesinl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0M\u0259n\u0259 el\u0259 g\u0259lir ki, yeng\u0259 \u0259vv\u0259ll\u0259r daha n\u00fcfuzlu biri hesab edilirdi. \u0130ndi el\u0259 bil ki, statusunu itirib.<\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u015e\u0259h\u0259rd\u0259 el\u0259dir. Ax\u0131sqa toylar\u0131nda yeng\u0259nin bir h\u00f6rm\u0259ti var ki… G\u0259linin v\u0259 b\u0259yin ayr\u0131 yeng\u0259l\u0259ri olur. \u018flav\u0259 \u00e7al-\u00e7a\u011f\u0131rla b\u0259y yeng\u0259sini g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259y\u0259 gedir. Daha sonra h\u0259min yeng\u0259yl\u0259 g\u0259lini g\u0259tirm\u0259y\u0259 gedir. Orada bir b\u00f6y\u00fck h\u00f6rm\u0259t g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f\u0259m. Onlara qar\u015f\u0131 f\u0259rqli r\u0259ftar edirl\u0259r. Ad\u0259t\u0259n \u0259mi yolda\u015f\u0131 o\u011flan t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n, day\u0131 yolda\u015f\u0131 is\u0259 q\u0131z t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n olur. \u0130nsanlar d\u0259yi\u015fdikc\u0259, m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259t, ad\u0259t-\u0259n\u0259n\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fir.<\/p>\n

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– Niy\u0259 Bak\u0131 toylar\u0131n\u0131 az \u00e7\u0259kirsiniz? Maraql\u0131 deyil? B\u00f6lg\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n \u00e7ox f\u0259rql\u0259nir?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– T\u00fcrkanda, Zir\u0259d\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kili\u015fl\u0259rim olub. Analiz etmi\u015f\u0259m. \u018flind\u0259 \u00e7ubuq olan s\u0259rpay\u0131 xan\u0131m toyun ortas\u0131nda uzun siyah\u0131 \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. O, b\u00fct\u00fcn toylar\u0131n tarixini a\u00e7\u0131qlay\u0131r, qonaqlar is\u0259 qeyd edirl\u0259r. Orada d\u0259v\u0259tnam\u0259 paylam\u0131rlar, m\u0259clis\u0259 el\u0259 d\u0259v\u0259t edirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

– Diqq\u0259t etmi\u015f\u0259m, sizin proqramlarda qay\u0131nanalar ad\u0259t\u0259n \u00f6zl\u0259rini hegemon kimi g\u00f6st\u0259rirl\u0259r. H\u0259r \u015fey\u0259 m\u00fcdaxil\u0259 edirl\u0259r. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259, g\u0259lin-qay\u0131nana problemi el\u0259 bu hegemonluqdan ba\u015flay<\/strong>\u0131r?<\/p>\n

– Kim n\u0259yi ya\u015fay\u0131rsa, onu g\u0259linin\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131r. Zamanla ona da qay\u0131nanas\u0131 el\u0259 olub. O da deyir ki, m\u0259nd\u0259n art\u0131q deyil ki, g\u0259linl\u0259 mehriban dan\u0131\u015f\u0131m. Amma el\u0259l\u0259ri d\u0259 olub ki, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 z\u00fclm\u00fc g\u0259linin\u0259 ya\u015fatmaq ist\u0259mir. Amma bundan istifad\u0259 ed\u0259n g\u0259lin qay\u0131nanan\u0131 idar\u0259 etm\u0259k ist\u0259yir.<\/p>\n

M\u0259n demi\u015f\u0259m, m\u00fcbahis\u0259, dedi-qodular\u0131 qad\u0131nlar yarad\u0131r. Allah\u0131n yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 ideal insanlar ki\u015fil\u0259rdir. Ki\u015fini qad\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259 edir. O u\u015faq b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcl\u0259n zaman qad\u0131nlar\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131na y\u0131\u011f\u0131r, qeyb\u0259t edir. O\u011flan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 da b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259-b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259 bunu e\u015fidir, olanlar\u0131 normal q\u0259bul edir. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, d\u00f6ym\u0259liy\u0259m, s\u00f6ym\u0259liy\u0259m. Bu c\u00fcr o\u011flanlar\u0131 c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 h\u0259min qad\u0131nlar burax\u0131r.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0Amma tez-tez ekspertl\u0259rimiz deyir ki, Az\u0259rbaycan televiziyalar\u0131 g\u0259lin-qay\u0131nana m\u00f6vzusundan o t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 ke\u00e7\u0259 bilmir. H\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259 bel\u0259dir?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Bundan art\u0131q he\u00e7 k\u0259s he\u00e7 n\u0259 ya\u015fam\u0131r. Ail\u0259d\u0259 olan probleml\u0259ri efird\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rirl\u0259r, maarifl\u0259ndirirl\u0259r ki, bel\u0259 olmaz. Amma \u00e7oxu bundan n\u00fcmun\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u00fcr. He\u00e7 k\u0259s bunlar\u0131 t\u0259rbiy\u0259vi m\u0259nada g\u00f6rm\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0Siz dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131n\u0131z, yad\u0131ma bir m\u00f6vzu d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fc. Niy\u0259 bizim televiziya simalar\u0131m\u0131z, \u015fou n\u00fcmay\u0259nd\u0259l\u0259rimiz \u015f\u0259xsi h\u0259yatdan sual ver\u0259n zaman bunu s\u00f6y\u00fc\u015f, t\u0259hqir kimi ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrl\u0259r? \u015e\u0259xsi h\u0259yat niy\u0259 bu q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259y\u0259 sal\u0131n\u0131r?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Bu bar\u0259d\u0259 onlar\u0131n kompleksl\u0259ri var. M\u0259nd\u0259 is\u0259 bel\u0259 deyil. Amma inan\u0131n ki, m\u0259nim \u015f\u0259xsi h\u0259yat\u0131mda maraql\u0131 hadis\u0259l\u0259r ba\u015f vermir.<\/p>\n

– Cavan v\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l xan\u0131ms\u0131z. Bizim xan\u0131mlar niy\u0259 ikinci bahara bigan\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131rlar? Siz d\u0259 onlardans\u0131n\u0131z?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Yax\u015f\u0131 bir insan qar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131xsa, niy\u0259 d\u0259 yox? Y\u0259ni kim ist\u0259m\u0259z ki, yeni bir h\u0259yat qursun, yan\u0131nda arxalanacaq biri olsun?! Bunu b\u00fct\u00fcn qad\u0131nlar ist\u0259yir. Bir \u2013iki k\u0259lim\u0259 k\u0259sdikd\u0259n sonra g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u0259n ki, zayd\u0131r. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u0259n ki, n\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 h\u0259min \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259 evl\u0259nm\u0259mi\u015f\u0259m.<\/p>\n

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– Y\u0259ni yax\u015f\u0131 b\u0259y q\u0131tl\u0131\u011f\u0131 var.<\/strong><\/p>\n

– G\u00f6z qorxur. Mentalitet var, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u0259n ki, ikinci d\u0259f\u0259 \u0259r\u0259 ged\u0259r\u0259m, yen\u0259 problem \u00e7\u0131xar, ayr\u0131laram. Bu vaxt insanlar dey\u0259c\u0259k ki, xan\u0131m\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fc zayd\u0131r ki, onda ail\u0259 al\u0131nm\u0131r. C\u0259miyy\u0259t o zaman insanlar\u0131 kompleks\u0259 sal\u0131r, ist\u0259diyi h\u0259yat\u0131 ya\u015fama\u011fa qoymur. \u00c7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259d\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131rlar. M\u0259n is\u0259 \u00f6z h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131ram. \u0130st\u0259diyim yem\u0259kl\u0259ri yeyir\u0259m, g\u0259zir\u0259m, h\u0259yatdan z\u00f6vq al\u0131ram. M\u0259n sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 olan insanlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ya\u015fam\u0131ram.<\/p>\n

D\u00fcnyaya bir d\u0259f\u0259 g\u0259lmi\u015f\u0259m. \u201cKa\u015f ki…\u201d dem\u0259kd\u0259n qorxuram. Bir il i\u015fsiz qald\u0131m, bir n\u0259f\u0259r bel\u0259 qap\u0131m\u0131 d\u00f6ym\u0259di. H\u0259r bir insan\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda qara x\u0259tt deyil\u0259n d\u00f6vr\u00fc olur. Bir il evd\u0259n bay\u0131ra \u00e7\u0131xmad\u0131m. \u018ftraf\u0131mda olan, bir yem\u0259k yediyim insanlar yoxa \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131. \u0130\u015fd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xandan sonra telefonlar\u0131m susdu, z\u0259ng etm\u0259dil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Bu g\u00fcn is\u0259 \u0259traf\u0131mda insanlar azd\u0131r. O h\u0259yat\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131m, q\u0259lbim\u0259 yatan iki-\u00fc\u00e7 n\u0259f\u0259rl\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt\u0259m. Yax\u0131nla\u015fmay\u0131n, yand\u0131raram, uzaqla\u015fmay\u0131n, donduraram, ortada qal\u0131n! Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259 he\u00e7 kimin fikri maraql\u0131 deyil.<\/p>\n

Yet\u0259r ki, \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tim\u0259, m\u0259nliyim\u0259, q\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n q\u00fcruruna toxunmas\u0131nlar. Yoxsa onlar\u0131 yox ed\u0259r\u0259m. M\u0259n\u0259 toxunmas\u0131nlar. M\u0259n he\u00e7 kimin \u015f\u0259xsi i\u015fin\u0259 qar\u0131\u015fmam\u0131\u015fam. M\u0259nd\u0259n dan\u0131\u015fmas\u0131nlar, m\u0259nim h\u0259yat\u0131m onlar\u0131n n\u0259yin\u0259 laz\u0131md\u0131r? Onlar\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131 bu q\u0259d\u0259r maraqs\u0131zd\u0131r ki, m\u0259nim h\u0259yat\u0131mda oturublar? Gedib \u00f6z h\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131 \u015f\u0259nl\u0259ndirsinl\u0259r.<\/p>\n