{"id":35531,"date":"2019-01-29T09:19:06","date_gmt":"2019-01-29T06:19:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=35531"},"modified":"2019-01-29T09:19:06","modified_gmt":"2019-01-29T06:19:06","slug":"nikahda-ideal-yas-f%c9%99rqi-nec%c9%99-il-olmalidir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=35531","title":{"rendered":"Nikahda ideal ya\u015f f\u0259rqi ne\u00e7\u0259 il olmal\u0131d\u0131r?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nikahda ideal ya\u015f f\u0259rqi ne\u00e7\u0259 il olmal\u0131d\u0131r? He\u00e7 bu bar\u0259d d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcz? Bunun h\u0259r hans\u0131 \u00f6n\u0259mi var?<\/p>\n

Ekspertl\u0259r hesab edir ki, bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 h\u0259r \u015fey f\u0259rdi xarakter da\u015f\u0131y\u0131r. Bununla bel\u0259, nikahda qad\u0131nla ki\u015fi aras\u0131nda ya\u015f f\u0259rqinin 15 ild\u0259n \u00e7ox olmas\u0131n\u0131 t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 etmirl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki bioloji ya\u015f onsuz da gec-tez \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc b\u00fcruz\u0259 ver\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n

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Nikahlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7 kateqoriyaya b\u00f6lm\u0259k olar. Bizim \u00f6lk\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn klassik olan kateqoriyaya \u0259sas\u0259n, ki\u015fi qad\u0131ndan b\u00f6y\u00fck olur (10 ild\u0259n \u00e7ox olmamaq \u015f\u0259rtil\u0259). Ancaq \u0259rin arvaddan 20, h\u0259tta 30 ya\u015f b\u00f6y\u00fck oldu\u011fu nikahlara da rast g\u0259lm\u0259k olur.\u00a0 B\u0259li, bu m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259td\u0259n qaynaqlana bil\u0259r, ancaq daha \u00e7ox maddi maraqlardan ir\u0259li g\u0259lir.<\/p>\n

B\u0259z\u0259n d\u0259 el\u0259 olur ki, qad\u0131n ki\u015fid\u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck olur. Be\u015f ya\u015fa q\u0259d\u0259r olan f\u0259rq o q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7arpm\u0131r v\u0259 h\u0259r hans\u0131 problem yaratm\u0131r. Ancaq f\u0259rq be\u015f ili \u00f6t\u0259nd\u0259, c\u00fctl\u00fcy\u00fcn \u0259traf\u0131nda m\u00fcxt\u0259lif \u015fayi\u0259l\u0259r yay\u0131lma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r. \u00dcst\u0259lik, \u0259r d\u0259 ya\u015fl\u0131 qad\u0131nla uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t ya\u015fama\u011fa haz\u0131r olmur; \u0259g\u0259r burda h\u0259r hans\u0131 maddi maraqlardan s\u00f6hb\u0259t getmirs\u0259.<\/p>\n

\u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc nikah kateqoriyas\u0131 is\u0259 h\u0259mya\u015f\u0131dlar aras\u0131nda ba\u015f tutan nikahd\u0131r. Bir t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n bu, \u00e7ox yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r: \u00fcmumi maraqlar, \u00fcmumi dostlar v\u0259 \u00fcmumi ist\u0259kl\u0259r olur. Ancaq dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n, onlar liderin m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259nl\u0259\u015fdirilm\u0259sind\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tinlik \u00e7\u0259kirl\u0259r, bu daimi \u201caxtar\u0131\u015f\u201d b\u0259z\u0259n m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olur.<\/p>\n

ARANTV.AZ<\/strong> x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, psixoloq Azad \u0130sazad\u0259 nikahda ideal ya\u015f f\u0259rqi anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n \u015f\u0259rti oldu\u011funu hesab edir.<\/p>\n

Bu \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259l\u0259ri c\u0259miyy\u0259t \u00f6z\u00fc t\u0259sbit edib v\u0259 onlara sadiq qalma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Bizim c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259, ad\u0259t\u0259n, qad\u0131nlar 3-5 ya\u015f b\u00f6y\u00fck ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 \u0259r\u0259 gedirl\u0259r. Bu, optimal ya\u015f f\u0259rqi say\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Onun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, qad\u0131n\u0131n \u0259rind\u0259n 2-3 ya\u015f b\u00f6y\u00fck oldu\u011fu nikahlara da tez-tez rast g\u0259lm\u0259k olur. Onlar g\u00f6z\u0259l ya\u015fay\u0131rlar v\u0259 bir-birini ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrl\u0259r. Ancaq ya\u015f f\u0259rqi 10 ili \u00f6t\u0259nd\u0259 birg\u0259ya\u015fay\u0131\u015f d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 probleml\u0259r meydana g\u0259lm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u201cYeri g\u0259lmi\u015fk\u0259n, M\u0259h\u0259mm\u0259d pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259r \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n 15 ya\u015f\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fck dul qad\u0131nla evl\u0259nib. H\u0259min d\u00f6n\u0259ml\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu m\u0259qbul idi. Onlar sona kimi birlikd\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131lar\u201d, – dey\u0259 \u0130sazad\u0259 bildirib.<\/p>\n

M\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisin s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, bu, son d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259 f\u0259rdi xarakter da\u015f\u0131y\u0131r. \u018fsas m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r aras\u0131ndak\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin hans\u0131 s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 olmas\u0131d\u0131r. Ancaq t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259r olsun ki, qeyd olunan \u015f\u0259rti \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259timizd\u0259 tez-tez diqq\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rirl\u0259r. A\u015fa\u011f\u0131 h\u0259dd m\u00f6vcuddur (\u00e7\u00fcnki insanlar fiziki bax\u0131mdan formala\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131rlar), ancaq yuxar\u0131 h\u0259dd m\u00f6vcud deyil.<\/p>\n

Psixoloq G\u00fcl\u015f\u0259n R\u00fcst\u0259mova is\u0259 hesab edir ki, nikah \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ya\u015f f\u0259rqi he\u00e7 bir \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259t k\u0259sb etmir. \u0130nsan\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc nec\u0259 hiss etm\u0259si daha vacibdir. Toya m\u0259n\u0259vi bax\u0131mdan haz\u0131r olan insanlar var. \u018fg\u0259r onlar bunun ciddiyy\u0259tini v\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259tini d\u0259rk edirl\u0259rs\u0259, ya\u015f f\u0259rqi, sad\u0259c\u0259, r\u0259q\u0259m olaraq qal\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u201c18 ya\u015f\u0131na q\u0259d\u0259r olan insanlar\u0131n ail\u0259 qurmas\u0131 fizioloji n\u00f6qteyi-n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259n arzuolunan deyil. H\u0259m\u00e7inin, onu da qeyd etm\u0259liy\u0259m ki, q\u0131zlar o\u011flanlardan 3-4 il daha daha tez inki\u015faf edir, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 qad\u0131nlar \u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n ya\u015fca b\u00f6y\u00fck ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verirl\u0259r\u201d, – dey\u0259 psixoloq bildirib.<\/p>\n

R\u00fcst\u0259movan\u0131n s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, \u0259sas m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015f f\u0259rqin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 yox, daxili keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 se\u00e7m\u0259kdir. \u00c7\u00fcnki ya\u015f\u0131 40-dan \u00e7ox olub \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc 20 ya\u015fl\u0131 yeniyetm\u0259 kimi aparan \u00e7ox ki\u015fil\u0259r var.<\/p>\n

Onu da \u0259lav\u0259 ed\u0259k ki, bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t \u0259vv\u0259l Finlandiyada m\u00fcvafiq ara\u015fd\u0131rma apar\u0131l\u0131b. Ara\u015fd\u0131rman\u0131n n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 \u0259sas\u0259n, t\u0259dqiqat\u00e7\u0131lar ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n 15 ya\u015f ki\u00e7ik olan qad\u0131nlarla evl\u0259nm\u0259yi t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 edir. Onlar bu t\u00f6vsiy\u0259ni g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n sa\u011flam do\u011fulmas\u0131 il\u0259 \u0259sasland\u0131r\u0131r. \u0130sve\u00e7r\u0259d\u0259 yerli m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 alt\u0131 ya\u015f ki\u00e7ik xan\u0131mla evl\u0259nm\u0259yi m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcr. Rusiya is\u0259\u00a0 aliml\u0259r h\u0259mya\u015f\u0131dlar aras\u0131nda ba\u011flanan izdivaclara \u201cxeyr\u201d deyir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nikahda ideal ya\u015f f\u0259rqi ne\u00e7\u0259 il olmal\u0131d\u0131r? He\u00e7 bu bar\u0259d d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcz? Bunun h\u0259r hans\u0131 \u00f6n\u0259mi var? Ekspertl\u0259r hesab edir ki, bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 h\u0259r \u015fey f\u0259rdi xarakter da\u015f\u0131y\u0131r. Bununla bel\u0259, nikahda qad\u0131nla ki\u015fi aras\u0131nda ya\u015f f\u0259rqinin 15 ild\u0259n \u00e7ox olmas\u0131n\u0131 t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 etmirl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki bioloji ya\u015f onsuz da gec-tez \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc b\u00fcruz\u0259 ver\u0259c\u0259k. Nikahlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7 kateqoriyaya b\u00f6lm\u0259k olar. Bizim \u00f6lk\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn klassik olan kateqoriyaya \u0259sas\u0259n, ki\u015fi qad\u0131ndan b\u00f6y\u00fck olur (10 ild\u0259n \u00e7ox olmamaq \u015f\u0259rtil\u0259). Ancaq \u0259rin arvaddan 20, h\u0259tta 30 ya\u015f b\u00f6y\u00fck oldu\u011fu nikahlara da rast g\u0259lm\u0259k olur.\u00a0 B\u0259li, bu m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259td\u0259n qaynaqlana bil\u0259r,…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":35532,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/nikah_2.jpg",663,425,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/nikah_2.jpg",663,425,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/nikah_2.jpg",663,425,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/nikah_2-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/nikah_2-300x192.jpg",300,192,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/nikah_2.jpg",640,410,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/nikah_2.jpg",663,425,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/nikah_2.jpg",663,425,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/nikah_2-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/nikah_2.jpg",663,425,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Nikahda ideal ya\u015f f\u0259rqi ne\u00e7\u0259 il olmal\u0131d\u0131r? He\u00e7 bu bar\u0259d d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcz? Bunun h\u0259r hans\u0131 \u00f6n\u0259mi var? Ekspertl\u0259r hesab edir ki, bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 h\u0259r \u015fey f\u0259rdi xarakter da\u015f\u0131y\u0131r. Bununla bel\u0259, nikahda qad\u0131nla ki\u015fi aras\u0131nda ya\u015f f\u0259rqinin 15 ild\u0259n \u00e7ox olmas\u0131n\u0131 t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 etmirl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki bioloji ya\u015f onsuz da gec-tez \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc b\u00fcruz\u0259 ver\u0259c\u0259k. Nikahlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7 kateqoriyaya b\u00f6lm\u0259k olar.…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35531"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=35531"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35531\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/35532"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=35531"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=35531"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=35531"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}