{"id":374828,"date":"2021-09-06T19:20:50","date_gmt":"2021-09-06T16:20:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=374828"},"modified":"2021-09-06T19:20:50","modified_gmt":"2021-09-06T16:20:50","slug":"m%c9%99is%c9%99t-zorakiligi-hallari-niy%c9%99-coxalib-b%c9%99zi-qadinlar-ur%c9%99kl%c9%99ri-n%c9%99-ist%c9%99s%c9%99-etm%c9%99yi-azadliq-kimi-q%c9%99bul-edirl%c9%99r","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=374828","title":{"rendered":"M\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 hallar\u0131 niy\u0259 \u00e7oxal\u0131b? “B\u0259zi qad\u0131nlar \u00fcr\u0259kl\u0259ri n\u0259 ist\u0259s\u0259 etm\u0259yi azadl\u0131q kimi q\u0259bul edirl\u0259r”"},"content":{"rendered":"

C\u0259miyy\u0259t bu sosial probleml\u0259 nec\u0259 m\u00fcbariz\u0259 aparmal\u0131d\u0131r?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259 qeyd etm\u0259liyik ki,\u00a0 son zamanlar qad\u0131nlar\u0131n m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na m\u0259ruz qalmas\u0131 adi hala \u00e7evrilib. M\u0259tbuatda, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 tez-tez qad\u0131nlarla ba\u011fl\u0131 \u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n \u201cd\u00f6y\u00fcld\u00fc\u201d, \u201cbaltaland\u0131\u201d, \u201cbo\u011fuldu\u201d, \u201d\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcq\u0259sd h\u0259ddin\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u201d ba\u015fl\u0131ql\u0131 x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259ri oxuyuruq. Bu c\u00fcr d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli anlar\u0131 ya\u015famaq v\u0259 ya\u015fatmaqd\u0131r faci\u0259dir. Bel\u0259 faci\u0259nin f\u0259sad\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259kc\u0259 h\u0259min ail\u0259 ya\u015fam\u0131r. M\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 yanl\u0131z bir ail\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn deyil, b\u00fct\u00f6vl\u00fckd\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t x\u00fcsus\u0259n d\u0259 yeti\u015fm\u0259kd\u0259 olan g\u0259ncl\u0259rimiz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ciddi t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259dir. G\u0259ncl\u0259rimizd\u0259 ail\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr\u00fcn bel\u0259 faci\u0259l\u0259r fonunda formala\u015fmas\u0131 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yax\u015f\u0131 he\u00e7\u00a0n\u0259 v\u0259d etmir . \u201cAil\u0259 nec\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r\u201d sual\u0131n\u0131n cavab\u0131 \u201cA\u011f\u0131r\u00a0psixoloji\u00a0durum,\u00a0d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259n\u00a0ana\u00a0v\u0259 m\u0259hv olan\u00a0u\u015faql\u0131q\u201d olmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

B\u0259s problemin k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259ki \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r n\u0259dir? C\u0259miyy\u0259t olaraq bu kimi neqativ hallarla nec\u0259 m\u00fcbariz\u0259 aparmal\u0131y\u0131q?<\/p>\n

\u015e\u00fcurda k\u00f6k salm\u0131\u015f m\u0259nfi stereotipl\u0259r<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Ail\u0259 Qad\u0131n v\u0259 U\u015faq Probleml\u0259ri \u00fczr\u0259 D\u00f6vl\u0259t Komit\u0259sinin m\u0259tbuat katibi\u00a0Teymur M\u0259rdano\u011flu<\/strong>\u00a0m\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131\u00a0\u201c\u0130ki sahil\u201d<\/strong>\u0259 a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda bildirdi ki, b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnya \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 pandemiya il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259dar ail\u0259daxili zorak\u0131l\u0131q, m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259 hallar\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131 m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 edilir. Bununla yana\u015f\u0131, m\u00fcharib\u0259nin d\u0259 insanlarda yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 psixoloji f\u0259sadlar\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u0259zd\u0259n g\u0259lm\u0259m\u0259liyik. Bu s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259ndir ki, q\u0259ddarl\u0131q, \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t\u0259 q\u0259sd\u0259n z\u0259r\u0259rvurma, cinay\u0259t hallar\u0131 daha qabar\u0131q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 meydana \u00e7\u0131xmaqdad\u0131r: \u201cD\u00f6vl\u0259t Komit\u0259si olaraq apard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u00e7oxsayl\u0131 ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar\u0131n n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ri g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259n biri b\u0259zi ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 v\u0259 ya f\u0259rdl\u0259rin \u015f\u00fcurunda k\u00f6k salm\u0131\u015f m\u0259nfi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 v\u0259 davran\u0131\u015f stereotipl\u0259ridir. Onlar\u0131n aradan qald\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 istiqam\u0259tind\u0259 apar\u0131lan i\u015fl\u0259r \u0259ks\u0259r hallarda bu stereotipl\u0259rin da\u015f\u0131y\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fccl\u00fc m\u00fcqavim\u0259ti il\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r.\u201d<\/p>\n

B\u0259zi ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 zorak\u0131l\u0131q hallar\u0131 gizli qal\u0131r<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

M\u00fcsahibimiz qeyd etdi ki, g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u0259n t\u0259dbirl\u0259r n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na m\u0259ruz qalan daha \u00e7ox sayda qad\u0131nlar\u0131n d\u00f6vl\u0259t orqanlar\u0131na v\u0259 qeyri-h\u00f6kum\u0259t t\u0259\u015fkilatlar\u0131na m\u00fcraci\u0259t etm\u0259sin\u0259 imkan yaratm\u0131\u015fd\u0131r. D\u00f6vl\u0259t Komit\u0259si v\u0259 tabe\u00e7iliyind\u0259 olan 11\u00a0 U\u015faq v\u0259 Ail\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 D\u0259st\u0259k M\u0259rk\u0259zl\u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n h\u0259r il 100-\u0259 yax\u0131n m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 hallar\u0131 ba\u015f ver\u0259n risk qrupundan olan ail\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 profilaktik i\u015fl\u0259r h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irilir. G\u00f6r\u00fcl\u0259n t\u0259dbirl\u0259r n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 zorak\u0131l\u0131q hallar\u0131n\u0131n daha a\u011f\u0131r m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 ke\u00e7m\u0259sinin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131 al\u0131n\u0131r. Lakin bu f\u0259aliyy\u0259tl\u0259r risk qrupu olan ail\u0259l\u0259rin m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edilm\u0259si prosesini m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n q\u0259d\u0259r asanla\u015fd\u0131rsa da, h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 b\u0259zi ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 ba\u015f ver\u0259n zorak\u0131l\u0131q hallar\u0131 gizli qal\u0131r.<\/p>\n

T\u0259kc\u0259 avqust ay\u0131nda ail\u0259daxili zorak\u0131l\u0131qla ba\u011fl\u0131\u00a046 m\u0259lumat daxil olub<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Komit\u0259 s\u00f6z\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fc vur\u011fulad\u0131 ki, cari ilin\u00a0 avqust ay\u0131 da daxil olmaqla bu il komit\u0259y\u0259 212 ail\u0259daxili zorak\u0131l\u0131q faktlar\u0131 haqq\u0131nda m\u0259lumat daxil olub. H\u0259r ay 12-15 m\u0259lumat daxil oldu\u011fu halda, avqustda bu r\u0259q\u0259m 46-ya y\u00fcks\u0259lib: “Bu, \u00e7ox narahatedici hald\u0131r. M\u00fcraci\u0259t ed\u0259nl\u0259rin b\u00f6y\u00fck qismi psixoloji t\u0259zyiqd\u0259n \u015fikay\u0259t ed\u0259n qad\u0131nlard\u0131r. Bu hallar\u0131n aradan qald\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn beyn\u0259lxalq \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259rimizd\u0259n istifad\u0259 ed\u0259r\u0259k m\u00fcxt\u0259lif layih\u0259l\u0259rin realla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131na, m\u00fcvafiq qanunvericiliyin t\u0259kmill\u0259\u015fdirilm\u0259sin\u0259, \u0259n \u0259sas\u0131 is\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259ti m\u0259lumatland\u0131rma\u011fa \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck veririk”.<\/p>\n

“860” qaynar x\u0259ttin\u0259 z\u0259ng ed\u0259r\u0259k \u2026<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

H\u0259ms\u00f6hb\u0259timiz \u0259lav\u0259 etdi ki, m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015f\u0259nl\u0259r komit\u0259nin “860” qaynar x\u0259tti il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259 saxlas\u0131nlar ki, b\u0259db\u0259xt hadis\u0259 ba\u015f verm\u0259mi\u015f qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 alaq.<\/p>\n

Xat\u0131rladaq ki, Bak\u0131dan birba\u015fa 860, mobil n\u00f6mr\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n v\u0259 \u00f6lk\u0259nin regionlar\u0131ndan is\u0259 012- 860 y\u0131\u011fmaqla qaynar x\u0259ttl\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259 saxlamaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.\u00a0Qaynar x\u0259tt\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t etmi\u015f \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r gender-\u0259sasl\u0131 zorak\u0131l\u0131q v\u0259 m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131, el\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 m\u00fcvafiq d\u0259st\u0259k xidm\u0259tl\u0259ri il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 m\u0259lumatlar ala, z\u0259ruri hallarda is\u0259 t\u0259m\u0259nnas\u0131z psixoloji konsultasiya il\u0259 t\u0259min oluna bil\u0259rl\u0259r.\u00a0 “860” qaynar x\u0259tti Ail\u0259, Qad\u0131n v\u0259 U\u015faq Probleml\u0259ri \u00fczr\u0259 D\u00f6vl\u0259t Komit\u0259sinin v\u0259 UNFPA (BMT-nin \u018fhali Fondunun)\u00a0 birg\u0259 \u0259m\u0259kda\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 yarad\u0131l\u0131b.<\/p>\n

SOS\u0130OLOQ: Az\u0259rbaycan ail\u0259sind\u0259 he\u00e7 vaxt indiki q\u0259d\u0259r b\u00f6y\u00fck g\u0259rginlik olmay\u0131b<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Az\u0259rbaycan Milli Elml\u0259r Akademiyas\u0131n\u0131n (AMEA) F\u0259ls\u0259f\u0259 v\u0259 Sosiologiya \u0130nstitunun \u0259m\u0259kda\u015f\u0131\u00a0 professor, sosioloq\u00a0\u018fhm\u0259d Q\u0259\u015f\u0259mo\u011flu “\u0130ki sahil<\/strong>“\u0259 a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda qeyd etdi ki, m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 hallar\u0131n\u0131n daha da artmas\u0131 g\u00f6zl\u0259nilir: \u201c\u00c7\u00fcnki indiki zamanda c\u0259miyy\u0259t g\u00fcnd\u0259n-g\u00fcn\u0259 m\u00fcr\u0259kk\u0259bl\u0259\u015fir v\u0259 h\u0259ssasla\u015f\u0131r. Bu c\u00fcr m\u00fchit ail\u0259d\u0259ki g\u0259rginliyin d\u0259 artmas\u0131na z\u0259min yarad\u0131r. C\u0259miyy\u0259tin m\u00fcr\u0259kk\u0259bl\u0259\u015fdiyi bel\u0259 bir d\u00f6n\u0259md\u0259 biz bu prosesl\u0259ri \u00f6zba\u015f\u0131na buraxa bilm\u0259zdik. Uzun\u00a0 ill\u0259r bundan \u00f6nc\u0259 s\u00f6z\u00fcged\u0259n problemin h\u0259lli istiqam\u0259tind\u0259 z\u0259ruri t\u0259dbirl\u0259rin h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irilm\u0259sin\u0259 ba\u015flan\u0131lmal\u0131 v\u0259 ciddi i\u015fl\u0259r g\u00f6r\u00fclm\u0259li\u00a0<\/strong>idi. H\u0259min i\u015fl\u0259rin g\u00f6r\u00fclm\u0259si zaman\u0131 is\u0259 elmin imkanlar\u0131ndan da geni\u015f istifad\u0259 olunmal\u0131 idi.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ki\u015fil\u0259r qad\u0131nlar\u0131n bird\u0259n-bir\u0259 bu q\u0259d\u0259r s\u0259rb\u0259stl\u0259\u015fm\u0259sin\u0259\u00a0anormal hal kimi\u00a0 bax\u0131rlar<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

H\u0259ms\u00f6hb\u0259timiz \u0259lav\u0259 etdi ki, qad\u0131nlara azadl\u0131q, demokratiya haqq\u0131nda d\u0259qiq\u00a0 olmayan \u00e7oxlu m\u0259lumatlar verilir, bu m\u00f6vzuda maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259 d\u00fczg\u00fcn istiqam\u0259td\u0259 apar\u0131lm\u0131r: \u201cB\u0259z\u0259n qad\u0131nlar bir \u00e7ox hallarda \u00fcr\u0259kl\u0259ri n\u0259 ist\u0259s\u0259 etm\u0259yi \u00a0azadl\u0131q\u00a0 kimi q\u0259bul edirl\u0259r. Dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n d\u0259, k\u00f6hn\u0259 ad\u0259t-\u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 meyilli olan ki\u015fil\u0259r qad\u0131nlar\u0131n bird\u0259n-bir\u0259 bu q\u0259d\u0259r s\u0259rb\u0259stl\u0259\u015fm\u0259sin\u0259 t\u0259\u0259cc\u00fcb\u00a0 edirl\u0259r v\u0259 buna anormal hal kimi\u00a0 bax\u0131rlar. Y\u0259ni n\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rimizin m\u00fcasir d\u00f6vr\u00fcn t\u0259l\u0259bl\u0259ri il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 m\u0259lumatlar\u0131, n\u0259 d\u0259 qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n azadl\u0131q\u00a0v\u0259 demokratiya haqq\u0131nda t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcrl\u0259ri d\u00fczg\u00fcn v\u0259 arzuolunan s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 deyil. Bunun \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bi is\u0259\u00a0 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 maarifl\u0259ndirici t\u0259dbirl\u0259rin laz\u0131mi \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 t\u0259\u015fkil olunmamas\u0131d\u0131r. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 bu c\u00fcr g\u0259rginlikl\u0259r ya\u015fan\u0131r.\u201d<\/p>\n

T\u0259klif: H\u0259r m\u0259h\u0259ll\u0259d\u0259 sosial i\u015f xidm\u0259ti t\u0259\u015fkil edilsin<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u018f.Q\u0259\u015f\u0259mo\u011flunun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, \u00a0\u00a0bu problemin h\u0259lli \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bir \u00e7ox i\u015fl\u0259r g\u00f6rm\u0259liyik: \u201cYax\u015f\u0131 olard\u0131 ki, sah\u0259 m\u00fcv\u0259kill\u0259ri oldu\u011fu kimi b\u00fct\u00fcn m\u0259h\u0259ll\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259\u00a0 sosial i\u015f xidm\u0259ti d\u0259 t\u0259\u015fkil edilsin. Bel\u0259likl\u0259 d\u0259 sosial i\u015f xidm\u0259ti aid oldu\u011fu m\u0259h\u0259ll\u0259 \u00fczr\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 n\u0259 ba\u015f\u00a0 verdiyini bil\u0259c\u0259k, z\u0259rur\u0259t olduqda bununla ba\u011fl\u0131 laz\u0131mi orqanlarla \u0259laq\u0259 saxlayacaq. \u00a0Bu istiqam\u0259td\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259r getm\u0259diyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 bel\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259t al\u0131n\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Sosioloq xat\u0131rlatd\u0131 ki, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r, televiziyalar \u00a0da c\u0259miyy\u0259ti m\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 yet\u0259rli s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 maarifl\u0259ndirmir. Dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n d\u0259, m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 laz\u0131mi q\u0259d\u0259r \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verilmir. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259\u00a0bel\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259t yaran\u0131r. V\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu var v\u0259 bu, he\u00e7 d\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tin deyil. Bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 elmi \u0259saslarla ciddi bir f\u0259aliyy\u0259t proqram\u0131 haz\u0131rlanmal\u0131, bu proqram\u0131 da konkret mexanizml\u0259rl\u0259 h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irilm\u0259lidir.<\/p>\n

Bir u\u015faq ail\u0259daxili zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n oldu\u011fu ail\u0259d\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcrs\u0259…<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Psixoloq\u00a0Zeyn\u0259b Eyyubova \u201c\u0130ki sahil\u201d<\/strong>\u0259 a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda vur\u011fulad\u0131 ki, zorak\u0131l\u0131q ed\u0259n \u015f\u0259xs ya \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 zorak\u0131l\u0131q g\u00f6r\u00fcb, ya da ail\u0259sind\u0259 v\u0259 ya \u0259traf\u0131nda zorak\u0131l\u0131q hadis\u0259sinin \u015fahid olub: \u201cZorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa m\u0259ruz qal\u0131b susan \u00a0\u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r d\u0259 ya yaral\u0131, ya da travmal\u0131 olurlar. Problemin k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259 duran \u0259sas faktor is\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259y\u0259n u\u015faqlard\u0131r. Atas\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n sevilm\u0259y\u0259n, zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa m\u0259ruz qalan analar\u0131n \u00f6vladlar\u0131, daim qad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015fi aras\u0131ndak\u0131 h\u00f6rm\u0259tsizlik, ail\u0259daxili m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 probleml\u0259rin, m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259rin olmas\u0131 \u00a0m\u00fctl\u0259q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 probleml\u0259rin yaranmas\u0131na z\u0259min yarad\u0131r. Bir u\u015faq ail\u0259daxili zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n oldu\u011fu ail\u0259d\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcrs\u0259, o zaman\u00a0 \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259nd\u0259 zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 meyilli olacaq.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u018ftraf\u0131 qad\u0131n\u0131 \u201c\u00f6tur getsin, \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr el\u0259\u201d, \u201cs\u0259nd\u0259n d\u0259 pisl\u0259ri var\u201d kimi \u00a0c\u00fcml\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 t\u0259s\u0259lli edirl\u0259r<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

H\u0259ms\u00f6hb\u0259timiz xat\u0131rlatd\u0131 ki, b\u0259z\u0259n ail\u0259daxili m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 xan\u0131mlar deyir ki, \u201c\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u0259c\u0259y\u0259m, art\u0131q\u00a0bezmi\u015f\u0259m\u201d, \u0259traf\u0131\u00a0is\u0259 onu\u00a0\u201c\u00f6tur getsin, \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr el\u0259\u201d, \u201cs\u0259nd\u0259n d\u0259 pisl\u0259ri var\u201d kimi \u00a0c\u00fcml\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 t\u0259s\u0259lli edirl\u0259r. H\u0259min \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r\u00a0empati quraraq \u00f6zl\u0259rini\u00a0zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa m\u0259ruz qalan xan\u0131m\u0131n yerin\u0259 qoymaq \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 onun v\u0259ziyy\u0259tini \u00f6rt-basd\u0131r edirl\u0259r.\u00a0Bu da qad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 qapanmas\u0131na, probleml\u0259ri \u00f6z i\u00e7ind\u0259 ya\u015famas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur. Son vaxtlar\u00a0m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259 etdiyimiz\u00a0bu kimi faktlar\u00a0onu\u00a0g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, \u0259slind\u0259 he\u00e7 bir ail\u0259d\u0259 bird\u0259n-bir\u0259\u00a0 bel\u0259 probleml\u0259r ya\u015fanm\u0131r.\u00a0Ail\u0259\u00a0d\u0259, \u0259traf da g\u00f6r\u00fcr ki, bu ail\u0259d\u0259 problem var. Amma, he\u00e7 k\u0259s qar\u0131\u015fm\u0131r. Qad\u0131n o vaxt m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n qurban\u0131 olur ki, o, h\u0259min \u015f\u0259raitd\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcb, h\u0259min duruma art\u0131q al\u0131\u015f\u0131b v\u0259 bildiyi “dil” budur.<\/p>\n

Psixoloqun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, s\u00f6z\u00fcged\u0259n problemd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131x\u0131\u015f yolu maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259, ictimai q\u0131na\u011f\u0131n olmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Qad\u0131n o vaxt m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n qurban\u0131 olur ki\u2026<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cD\u0259rya\u201d t\u0259dris v\u0259 psixologiya m\u0259rk\u0259zinin r\u0259hb\u0259ri,\u00a0psixoloq G\u00fclnar Orucova<\/strong>\u00a0is\u0259\u00a0“\u0130ki sahil”<\/strong>\u0259 a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda bildirdi ki, o qad\u0131nlar m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na m\u0259ruz qal\u0131rlar ki, onlarda \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259inam a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 olur, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fct\u0259sdiq bacar\u0131\u011f\u0131 z\u0259ifdir, \u00f6z ayaqlar\u0131 \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 dayana bilmir, daha \u00e7ox valideynd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olur, \u00f6z haqq\u0131n\u0131\u00a0 t\u0259l\u0259b etmir, \u00fczl\u0259\u015fdiyi haqs\u0131zl\u0131qlara cavab ver\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r: \u201cSosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 yay\u0131lan bir videoda qaynana g\u0259lini d\u00f6y\u00fcr. G\u0259lin is\u0259 a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda dedi ki, biz \u00e7ox mehriban\u0131q, qaynanam m\u0259niml\u0259 sad\u0259c\u0259 olaraq zarafat edib. \u00c7\u00fcnki o qorxur ki, h\u0259qiq\u0259tl\u0259ri des\u0259, sonra\u00a0nec\u0259 olacaq, onu n\u0259l\u0259r g\u00f6zl\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ail\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259inaml\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259lidir<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

M\u00fcsahibimiz qeyd etdi ki, demokratik, avtoritar, h\u0259dsizqoruyucu, liberal ail\u0259 modeli var ki, onlarda m\u00fcxt\u0259lif tipli u\u015faqlar yeti\u015fdirilir. \u018fn \u00e7ox avtoritar ail\u0259 modelind\u0259 yeti\u015f\u0259n u\u015faqlar \u00f6zg\u00fcv\u0259nsiz olur. \u00c7\u00fcnki bu ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 u\u015faqlara s\u00f6z haqq\u0131 verilmir. Bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n d\u0259 u\u015faq c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc dey\u0259 bilmir, ona olan haqs\u0131zl\u0131qlara\u00a0 g\u00f6z yumur. H\u0259dsiz qoruyucu ail\u0259 tipi \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 o q\u0259d\u0259r qoruyurlar ki b\u0259z\u0259n u\u015faq qorxaq olur v\u0259 haqs\u0131zl\u0131qlara qorxdu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn u\u015faq ya\u015f\u0131ndan etibar\u0259n g\u00f6z yumur v\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259nd\u0259 d\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck ehtimal m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na m\u0259ruz qalanlar\u0131n bir tipaj\u0131 formala\u015f\u0131r. U\u015faq aqressiya g\u00f6r\u0259rs\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 aqressiya, \u00a0sevgi , dostluq m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259t g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u0259 onu da\u015f\u0131yacaq: \u201cAil\u0259-m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u0259n u\u015faqlar evd\u0259 qorxduqlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ba\u015fqa yerd\u0259 d\u0259 qorxaq, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259inam hissi olmayan, c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 yerini tapa bilm\u0259y\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259r \u00a0olaraq yeti\u015firl\u0259r. Bel\u0259 olanda onlar da ail\u0259d\u0259 olan zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 dig\u0259r insanlar \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 t\u0259tbiq etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131rlar. Bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n dolay\u0131 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259 olacaq insanlar yeti\u015fir. Bu g\u00fcn\u00a0 m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 olan ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yin m\u0259hbuslar\u0131 yeti\u015fir. \u00c7\u00fcnki m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u0259n u\u015faq c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 ancaq zorak\u0131l\u0131q, \u015fidd\u0259t bu kimi \u015feyl\u0259r \u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259c\u0259k.\u201d<\/p>\n

H\u0259ms\u00f6hb\u0259timiz \u0259lav\u0259 etdi ki, bu g\u00fcn qad\u0131n ali t\u0259hsil almal\u0131, \u00f6z karyeras\u0131n\u0131 qurmal\u0131d\u0131r. Qad\u0131n ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259lidir ki, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131ndan ayr\u0131lsa bel\u0259, \u00f6z ayaqlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 dayanacaq, \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259k.\u201d<\/p>\n

Bo\u015fansan ata evin\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259, \u0259r evin\u0259 g\u0259linlikl\u0259 girmis\u0259n, k\u0259f\u0259nl\u0259 d\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xacaqsan\u2026<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

G.Orucova \u0259lav\u0259 etdi ki, bu g\u00fcn bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131 g\u00fcnb\u0259g\u00fcn art\u0131r. B\u0259z\u0259n bo\u015fanan qad\u0131na ya pis bax\u0131rlar, ya da q\u0131nay\u0131rlar. Valideynl\u0259r q\u0131zlar\u0131na deyir ki, “bo\u015fansan ata evin\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259, \u0259r evin\u0259 g\u0259linlikl\u0259 girmis\u0259n, k\u0259f\u0259nl\u0259 d\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xacaqsan” . Bunu he\u00e7 bir valideyn \u00f6vlad\u0131na dem\u0259m\u0259lidir. \u018fg\u0259r s\u0259nin\u00a0 \u00f6vlad\u0131n \u015fidd\u0259t g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u0259, onun arxas\u0131nda valideyn olaraq dayanmal\u0131san: \u201cBo\u015fanman\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 bir m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tdir. Ail\u0259-m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u0259n qad\u0131n h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131ndan bo\u015fan\u0131rsa, \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 \u015fidd\u0259tsiz t\u0259k t\u0259rbiy\u0259 edirs\u0259, bu, \u00e7ox yax\u015f\u0131 add\u0131md\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki o g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yin atas\u0131n\u0131, ya da anas\u0131n\u0131 \u015fidd\u0259tin a\u011fu\u015fundan \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r, c\u0259miyy\u0259t \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, sa\u011flam, yararl\u0131 \u00a0\u00f6vlad yeti\u015fdirir. M\u0259n demir\u0259m ki, ail\u0259l\u0259ri da\u011f\u0131daq. Raz\u0131 deyil\u0259m ki, atas\u0131z u\u015faqlar b\u00f6y\u00fcs\u00fcn.\u00a0 \u00c7\u00fcnki ata\u00a0 u\u015faq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6zg\u00fcv\u0259ndir. Ancaq ata \u00a0\u00f6vlad\u0131na \u015fidd\u0259t, dava, t\u0259hqir, s\u00f6y\u00fc\u015f, fiziki zorak\u0131l\u0131q, psixoloji sars\u0131nt\u0131dan ba\u015fqa he\u00e7 n\u0259 \u201cb\u0259x\u015f” ed\u0259 bilmirs\u0259,\u00a0 h\u0259min insan\u0131 atal\u0131qdan silm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bu kimi hallar i\u015f\u0131qland\u0131r\u0131lmal\u0131, m\u00fcq\u0259ssirl\u0259r d\u0259 c\u0259zas\u0131n\u0131 almal\u0131d\u0131rlar.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

C\u0259miyy\u0259t bu sosial probleml\u0259 nec\u0259 m\u00fcbariz\u0259 aparmal\u0131d\u0131r? T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259 qeyd etm\u0259liyik ki,\u00a0 son zamanlar qad\u0131nlar\u0131n m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na m\u0259ruz qalmas\u0131 adi hala \u00e7evrilib. M\u0259tbuatda, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 tez-tez qad\u0131nlarla ba\u011fl\u0131 \u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n \u201cd\u00f6y\u00fcld\u00fc\u201d, \u201cbaltaland\u0131\u201d, \u201cbo\u011fuldu\u201d, \u201d\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcq\u0259sd h\u0259ddin\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u201d ba\u015fl\u0131ql\u0131 x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259ri oxuyuruq. Bu c\u00fcr d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli anlar\u0131 ya\u015famaq v\u0259 ya\u015fatmaqd\u0131r faci\u0259dir. Bel\u0259 faci\u0259nin f\u0259sad\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259kc\u0259 h\u0259min ail\u0259 ya\u015fam\u0131r. M\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 yanl\u0131z bir ail\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn deyil, b\u00fct\u00f6vl\u00fckd\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t x\u00fcsus\u0259n d\u0259 yeti\u015fm\u0259kd\u0259 olan g\u0259ncl\u0259rimiz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ciddi t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259dir. G\u0259ncl\u0259rimizd\u0259 ail\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr\u00fcn bel\u0259 faci\u0259l\u0259r fonunda formala\u015fmas\u0131 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yax\u015f\u0131 he\u00e7\u00a0n\u0259 v\u0259d etmir . \u201cAil\u0259 nec\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r\u201d sual\u0131n\u0131n…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":374829,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/664c7298163093823489022335110224934.jpg",975,540,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/664c7298163093823489022335110224934.jpg",975,540,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/664c7298163093823489022335110224934.jpg",975,540,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/664c7298163093823489022335110224934-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/664c7298163093823489022335110224934-660x365.jpg",660,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/664c7298163093823489022335110224934-840x465.jpg",640,354,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/664c7298163093823489022335110224934.jpg",975,540,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/664c7298163093823489022335110224934.jpg",975,540,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/664c7298163093823489022335110224934-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/664c7298163093823489022335110224934.jpg",975,540,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"Sosial<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t bu sosial probleml\u0259 nec\u0259 m\u00fcbariz\u0259 aparmal\u0131d\u0131r? T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259 qeyd etm\u0259liyik ki,\u00a0 son zamanlar qad\u0131nlar\u0131n m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na m\u0259ruz qalmas\u0131 adi hala \u00e7evrilib. M\u0259tbuatda, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 tez-tez qad\u0131nlarla ba\u011fl\u0131 \u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n \u201cd\u00f6y\u00fcld\u00fc\u201d, \u201cbaltaland\u0131\u201d, \u201cbo\u011fuldu\u201d, \u201d\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcq\u0259sd h\u0259ddin\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u201d ba\u015fl\u0131ql\u0131 x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259ri oxuyuruq. Bu c\u00fcr d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli anlar\u0131 ya\u015famaq v\u0259 ya\u015fatmaqd\u0131r faci\u0259dir. Bel\u0259 faci\u0259nin f\u0259sad\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259kc\u0259 h\u0259min ail\u0259 ya\u015fam\u0131r. M\u0259i\u015f\u0259t zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/374828"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=374828"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/374828\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/374829"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=374828"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=374828"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=374828"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}