{"id":384655,"date":"2021-10-01T07:50:40","date_gmt":"2021-10-01T04:50:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=384655"},"modified":"2021-10-01T07:50:40","modified_gmt":"2021-10-01T04:50:40","slug":"ata-sevgisi-ata-qaygisi-ata-omru","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=384655","title":{"rendered":"Ata sevgisi, ata qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131, ata \u00f6mr\u00fc…"},"content":{"rendered":"

Atam\u0131n \u201claylalar\u0131\u201d bu g\u00fcn d\u0259 qulaqlar\u0131mda s\u0259sl\u0259nir<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

D\u00fcnya baqi olandan Yer \u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcn \u0259\u015fr\u0259fi insan ruh\u0259n Uca Yaradana, cism\u0259n is\u0259 onu bu h\u0259yata b\u0259x\u015f ed\u0259n anas\u0131na s\u0259cd\u0259 etmi\u015fdir. Analara bir \u00e7ox mahn\u0131lar, \u015feirl\u0259r, bayat\u0131lar h\u0259sr etmi\u015fik. Dinimizd\u0259 – m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s kitab\u0131m\u0131z olan \u201cQurani-K\u0259rim\u201dd\u0259 d\u0259 analara b\u00f6y\u00fck d\u0259y\u0259r verilib, Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimizin \u201cC\u0259nn\u0259t analar\u0131n ayaqlar\u0131 alt\u0131ndad\u0131r\u201d k\u0259lam\u0131, analar\u0131n bizim\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259y\u0259rli v\u0259 m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s varl\u0131qlar oldu\u011funu \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 ehtiva edir.<\/p>\n

B\u0259s atalar \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda n\u0259 kimi rol oynay\u0131rlar? Ax\u0131, analar evin h\u0259rar\u0259ti, u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n qoruyucu m\u0259l\u0259yidirs\u0259, atalar da evin dir\u0259yi, u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n pasiban\u0131, daya\u011f\u0131, f\u0259xr, q\u00fcrur m\u0259nb\u0259yidir. B\u0259z\u0259n atalar analar q\u0259d\u0259r \u00f6vladlar\u0131na sevgil\u0259rini g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259s\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259, u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131z, xo\u015fb\u0259xt b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259l\u0259ri v\u0259 onlara g\u00f6z\u0259l g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k t\u0259min etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn nec\u0259 dey\u0259rl\u0259r, \u00f6zl\u0259rini oda-k\u00f6z\u0259 vururlar.<\/p>\n

Atalarla \u00f6vladlar aras\u0131nda, \u0259l\u0259lx\u00fcsus da atalarla q\u0131zlar\u0131 aras\u0131nda bir ba\u015fqa \u2013 he\u00e7 vaxt qopmayacaq m\u00f6hk\u0259m, sehrli bir ba\u011f olur. Q\u0131zlar atalar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 ideal se\u00e7irl\u0259r, h\u0259tta b\u0259zil\u0259ri g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n da atalar\u0131na b\u0259nz\u0259m\u0259sini ist\u0259yir.<\/p>\n

M\u0259nim atam g\u00f6z\u0259l ail\u0259 ba\u015f\u00e7\u0131s\u0131, ideal ata idi. O, m\u00fch\u0259ndis olsa da, d\u00fcz 45 il k\u0259ndimizd\u0259 (G\u00fcrc\u00fcstan\u0131n Bolnisi rayonunun Faxral\u0131 k\u0259ndi) \u00a0– orta m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 d\u0259rs dey\u0259r\u0259k, pe\u015f\u0259sini \u00e7ox sev\u0259n bir m\u00fc\u0259llim kimi elimizin u\u015faqlar\u0131na bilik, savad vermi\u015fdi. K\u0259ndimizd\u0259 h\u0259r k\u0259s atama b\u00f6y\u00fck h\u00f6rm\u0259t, r\u0259\u011fb\u0259t b\u0259sl\u0259rdi.<\/p>\n

Biz ail\u0259d\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7 u\u015faq idik: qarda\u015f\u0131m, m\u0259n v\u0259 bac\u0131m. Atam xarakterc\u0259 \u00e7ox a\u011f\u0131r t\u0259bi\u0259tli, t\u0259mkinli, s\u0259birli insan idi. Az dan\u0131\u015far, nadir hallarda h\u00fcnd\u00fcrd\u0259n g\u00fcl\u0259r, zarafatlara, g\u00fclm\u0259li hadis\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7ox vaxt sad\u0259c\u0259 x\u0259fif g\u00fcl\u00fcms\u0259r, bu zaman \u00fcz\u00fc i\u015f\u0131qlanard\u0131. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 atam bir az qaraqabaq adam t\u0259siri ba\u011f\u0131\u015flasa da, \u00e7ox mehriban, istiqanl\u0131, ail\u0259sin\u0259, \u00f6vladlar\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131 qay\u011f\u0131ke\u015f, sevgi dolu bir ata idi. H\u0259m\u00e7inin b\u0259rk hirsl\u0259nm\u0259yi, \u0259s\u0259bil\u0259\u015fm\u0259yi d\u0259 nadir hallarda olard\u0131.<\/p>\n

Atamla m\u0259nim aramda \u00e7ox m\u00f6hk\u0259m, x\u00fcsusi bir ba\u011f vard\u0131. Biz bir-birimiz\u0259 \u00e7ox d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcn idik. Atam\u0131n \u0259n qiym\u0259tlisi idim, m\u0259ni \u201cNu\u015fan\u0131m\u201d \u2013 dey\u0259 \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rar, ta u\u015faql\u0131\u011f\u0131mdan d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u201cNu\u015fan\u0131m, Nu\u015fan\u0131m qadan al\u0131m, ba\u015f\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fcm, ba\u015f\u0131na dolan\u0131m\u201d \u2013 bu isti, sevgi dolu k\u0259lm\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 \u0259zizl\u0259rdi atam sevimli q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131.<\/p>\n

T\u0259bii ki, anam\u0131 da d\u00fcnyalar q\u0259d\u0259r sevir\u0259m v\u0259 dem\u0259k olar ki, onunla n\u0259f\u0259s al\u0131ram. Ancaq m\u0259n h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 atam\u0131n q\u0131z\u0131 olmu\u015fam v\u0259 bu, h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 bel\u0259 olacaq.<\/p>\n

Bu g\u00fcn be\u015f ildir ki, atam\u0131 itirmi\u015fik. Be\u015f ildir ki, atam\u0131n qay\u011f\u0131l\u0131, mehriban s\u0259sini e\u015fitmir\u0259m, be\u015f ildir ki, o m\u0259ni \u0259zizl\u0259mir. Bu s\u0259tirl\u0259ri yazark\u0259n atam\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox dar\u0131xd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131, \u00fcr\u0259yimin nec\u0259 g\u00f6yn\u0259diyini hiss edib k\u00f6vr\u0259lir\u0259m.<\/p>\n

Deyirl\u0259r ki, atalar soyuqqanl\u0131 olurlar, atalar \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 analar q\u0259d\u0259r sev\u0259 bilm\u0259zl\u0259r. Ancaq m\u0259nim atam bizi anam\u0131z q\u0259d\u0259r sevirdi. Atam\u0131n m\u0259n\u0259 dediyi \u201claylalar\u201d bu g\u00fcn d\u0259 qulaqlar\u0131mda s\u0259sl\u0259nir. Analar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n biz\u0259 s\u00f6yl\u0259diyi \u201claylalar\u201d\u0131 xat\u0131rlam\u0131r\u0131q, \u00e7\u00fcnki analar\u0131m\u0131z biz\u0259 k\u00f6rp\u0259 ik\u0259n deyir o \u201claylalar\u201d\u0131. Atamsa 6-7 ya\u015flar\u0131ma q\u0259d\u0259r m\u0259ni h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 \u0259zizl\u0259yib dizl\u0259rinin \u00fcst\u0259 yat\u0131rar v\u0259 h\u0259zin s\u0259sl\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259 \u201clayla\u201d dey\u0259rdi.<\/p>\n

\u0130st\u0259r u\u015faq vaxt\u0131, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259nd\u0259n sonra kimd\u0259ns\u0259, n\u0259d\u0259ns\u0259 k\u00fcs\u00fcb inciy\u0259nd\u0259 (ax\u0131, m\u0259n \u00e7ox \u0259rk\u00f6y\u00fcn, h\u0259m d\u0259 h\u0259ssas idim) t\u0259bii ki, m\u0259ni h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 atam \u0259zizl\u0259yib k\u00f6nl\u00fcm\u00fc alard\u0131. M\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 h\u0259r il \u201ct\u0259rifnam\u0259\u201dl\u0259r alaraq, sinifd\u0259n-sinif\u0259 \u201c\u0259la\u201d qiym\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 ke\u00e7ib, m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rimin d\u0259 sevimlisi olduqca, atam \u00e7ox sevinib m\u0259niml\u0259 q\u00fcrur duyur, nec\u0259 dey\u0259rl\u0259r, \u00fcz\u0259rim\u0259 titr\u0259rdi.<\/p>\n

O ill\u0259ri xat\u0131rlayaraq hissl\u0259rimi a\u015fa\u011f\u0131dak\u0131 s\u0259tirl\u0259r\u0259 t\u00f6kd\u00fcm:<\/p>\n

N\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt imi\u015f\u0259m bir zaman, Allah!
\nAtal\u0131, qarda\u015fl\u0131 g\u00fcnl\u0259rim vard\u0131.
\nKimd\u0259ns\u0259 inciyib k\u0259d\u0259rl\u0259n\u0259nd\u0259,
\nAtam sa\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131 s\u0131\u011fallayard\u0131.<\/em><\/p>\n

N\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt imi\u015f\u0259m, bir zaman, Allah!
\nSevinc\u0259k h\u0259r s\u0259h\u0259r d\u0259rs\u0259 ged\u0259rdim.
\n\u201c\u018fla\u201d qiym\u0259tl\u0259rl\u0259 d\u00f6nd\u00fcy\u00fcm zaman,
\n\u201cAf\u0259rin q\u0131z\u0131ma\u201d dey\u0259r\u0259k atam
\nQ\u00fcrurla, f\u0259xrl\u0259 m\u0259ni \u00f6y\u0259rdi.<\/em><\/p>\n

N\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt imi\u015f\u0259m bir zaman, Allah!
\nQay\u011f\u0131s\u0131z, n\u0259\u015f\u0259li g\u00fcnl\u0259r ya\u015fard\u0131m.
\nC\u0131\u011fall\u0131q ed\u0259r\u0259k kitablar \u00fcst\u0259
\nB\u0259z\u0259n qarda\u015f\u0131mla m\u0259n dala\u015fard\u0131m.<\/em><\/p>\n

B\u00fct\u00fcn u\u015faqlart\u0259k m\u0259nim d\u0259 arzum
\n\u00c7ox tez b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259r\u0259k yetkin olmaqd\u0131.
\nHardan bil\u0259ydim ki, yeti\u015fkin olmaq
\nS\u0259n dem\u0259, qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131z g\u00fcnl\u0259rl\u0259 vidala\u015fmaqd\u0131.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00d6mr\u00fcmboyu atam bir d\u0259f\u0259 d\u0259 olsun m\u0259n\u0259 n\u0259 hirsl\u0259ndi, n\u0259 d\u0259 x\u0259trim\u0259 d\u0259ydi. Sevgi dolu bir ail\u0259d\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131z, xo\u015fb\u0259xt b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fck. Ancaq yegan\u0259 qarda\u015f\u0131m\u0131 \u00e7ox g\u0259nc \u2013 t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 ik\u0259n itirm\u0259yimiz ail\u0259mizi d\u0259rind\u0259n sarsd\u0131, xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyimizi d\u0259 qarda\u015f\u0131mla birlikd\u0259 itirdik. \u00d6vlad ac\u0131s\u0131 valideynl\u0259rimi zamans\u0131z qocald\u0131b bell\u0259rini b\u00fckd\u00fc.<\/p>\n

Qarda\u015f\u0131mdan sonra atam m\u0259n\u0259 daha \u00e7ox ba\u011flan\u0131b, b\u0259z\u0259n \u201co\u011ful balam\u201d – dey\u0259 \u0259zizl\u0259y\u0259r\u0259k, m\u0259ni h\u0259m d\u0259 qarda\u015f\u0131m\u0131n yerin\u0259 qoydu. Atam m\u0259ni \u00e7ox sevm\u0259kl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131, h\u0259m d\u0259 \u00e7ox g\u00fcv\u0259nirdi. N\u0259slimiz\u0259 a\u011fsaqqall\u0131q edib, h\u0259r k\u0259s\u0259 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t ver\u0259n atam m\u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcb yetkinlik ya\u015f\u0131na \u00e7atd\u0131qdan sonra ondan h\u0259r hans\u0131 i\u015fl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t ist\u0259y\u0259rk\u0259n sona q\u0259d\u0259r dinl\u0259y\u0259r, sonra \u201cs\u0259n m\u0259nim a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 q\u0131z\u0131msan, \u0259n do\u011fru yolu \u00f6z\u00fcn se\u00e7\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259n, s\u0259n\u0259 inan\u0131ram\u201d deyib, g\u0259nc ya\u015flar\u0131mdan m\u0259ni s\u0259rb\u0259st q\u0259rar verm\u0259y\u0259 al\u0131\u015fd\u0131rd\u0131. H\u0259tta ya\u015fa dolandan sonra atam \u00f6z\u00fc \u00e7ox \u015feyi m\u0259niml\u0259 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259\u015f\u0259r, fikrimi \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259rdi. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar \u2013 atam\u0131n m\u0259n\u0259 sonsuz sevgisi v\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259ni h\u0259yatda m\u0259nim\u00e7\u00fcn bir stimul, g\u00fcc m\u0259nb\u0259yi olmaqla, eyni zamanda, m\u0259ni daha m\u0259suliyy\u0259tli davranma\u011fa, atd\u0131\u011f\u0131m h\u0259r add\u0131m\u0131 y\u00fcz \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcb bir bi\u00e7m\u0259y\u0259 s\u00f6vq edirdi. He\u00e7 vaxt atam\u0131n sevgisind\u0259n sui-istifad\u0259 etm\u0259dim, \u0259ksin\u0259 valideynl\u0259rimin\u00a0 m\u0259n\u0259 olan sevgi v\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259ni onlara qar\u015f\u0131 m\u0259suliyy\u0259timi daha da art\u0131r\u0131r, yanl\u0131\u015f bir add\u0131m at\u0131b atam\u0131 \u00fcz\u00fcb, sevgisin\u0259 k\u00f6lg\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrm\u0259kd\u0259n \u00e7ox qorxard\u0131m.<\/p>\n

Universitetd\u0259 oxudu\u011fum zaman h\u0259ft\u0259sonlar\u0131 evimiz\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259rk\u0259n atam h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 dayanacaqda \u2013 bulaq ba\u015f\u0131nda (\u201cDuzdaxl\u0131\u201d bula\u011f\u0131 bizim dayanaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z idi) dayan\u0131b m\u0259ni g\u00f6zl\u0259y\u0259r, b\u0259z\u0259n avtobus gecikdiyi zaman s\u0259birsizlikl\u0259 var-g\u0259l edib m\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r getm\u0259zdi. \u0130kinci kursdan ba\u015flayaraq bir ne\u00e7\u0259 il ax\u015fam saatlar\u0131nda d\u0259rs g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcb atamla \u00e7iyin-\u00e7iyin\u0259 do\u011fma m\u0259kt\u0259bimd\u0259 m\u0259n d\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259llim i\u015fl\u0259dim.<\/p>\n

Universiteti bitirib Bak\u0131ya g\u0259ldiyim zaman atam \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn sevimli q\u0131z\u0131ndan ayr\u0131lmaq \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tin olsa da arzuma qar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131xmad\u0131. Ondan sonra k\u0259ndd\u0259n Bak\u0131ya sovqat dolu qutularla b\u0259rab\u0259r atam\u0131n m\u0259ktublar\u0131 da qanad a\u00e7d\u0131. H\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 atam\u0131n s\u0259liq\u0259 il\u0259 sar\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fck sovqat qutular\u0131n\u0131n k\u0259ndirini s\u0259birsizlikl\u0259 qay\u00e7\u0131lay\u0131b, qutuda n\u0259 oldu\u011funa baxmadan qo\u015fa d\u0259ft\u0259r v\u0259r\u0259qin\u0259 yaz\u0131lm\u0131\u015f m\u0259ktubu \u00e7\u0131xararaq ilk \u00f6nc\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259s\u0259-t\u0259l\u0259s\u0259 oxuyar, sanki su kimi i\u00e7\u0259rdim. Daha sonra bir ne\u00e7\u0259 d\u0259f\u0259 yava\u015f-yava\u015f, sindir\u0259-sindir\u0259 oxuyard\u0131m h\u0259r s\u0259trind\u0259n, h\u0259r c\u00fcml\u0259sind\u0259n ata n\u0259vazi\u015fi, ata qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131 s\u00fcz\u00fcl\u0259n m\u0259ktublar\u0131. M\u0259ktubdan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m istilik, hiss etdiyim ata sevgisi \u00fcr\u0259yimi riqq\u0259t\u0259 g\u0259tir\u0259r, g\u00f6zl\u0259rimi ya\u015fardard\u0131. Atam\u0131n \u0259linin istisi, q\u0259lbinin h\u0259rar\u0259ti hopmu\u015f o m\u0259ktublar\u0131 bu g\u00fcn d\u0259 saxlay\u0131ram, ancaq tez-tez oxuya bilmir\u0259m, \u00e7\u00fcnki q\u0259lbim \u00e7ox ac\u0131y\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Uzun ill\u0259r \u2013 ta atam d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r Bak\u0131dan k\u0259nd\u0259 getdiyim zaman o, yen\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259ki yerind\u0259 – bulaq ba\u015f\u0131nda dayan\u0131b m\u0259ni qar\u015f\u0131lard\u0131. \u201cBak\u0131-Faxral\u0131\u201d mar\u015frutu il\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t ed\u0259n avtobus k\u0259nd\u0259 s\u0259h\u0259r erk\u0259nd\u0259n gir\u0259n zaman uzun bir siqnal verirdi, siqnal\u0131n s\u0259si ta evimiz\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r gedirdi. G\u0259li\u015fimd\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259rdar olan valideynl\u0259rim gec\u0259ni \u00e7ox s\u0259ks\u0259k\u0259li yatar, s\u0259h\u0259rin g\u00f6z\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131lar-a\u00e7\u0131lmaz ayaq\u00fcst\u0259 olard\u0131lar v\u0259 avtobusun siqnal\u0131n\u0131 e\u015fid\u0259n kimi atam tez \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc dayanaca\u011fa yetir\u0259rdi. Atamdan sonra k\u0259nd\u0259 getdiyim zaman avtobusdan d\u00fc\u015f\u0259rk\u0259n g\u00f6zl\u0259rim qeyri-ixtiyari h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 durdu\u011fu yerd\u0259 atam\u0131 axtar\u0131r v\u0259 onu g\u00f6rm\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 \u00fcr\u0259yim q\u00fcss\u0259d\u0259n s\u0131x\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Ad g\u00fcnl\u0259rimd\u0259 d\u0259 m\u0259ni h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 ilk atam t\u0259brik ed\u0259rdi, atamdan sonra art\u0131q ad g\u00fcnl\u0259rimi he\u00e7 sevmir\u0259m, \u00e7\u00fcnki o g\u00fcn ax\u015fama q\u0259d\u0259r ixtiyars\u0131z olaraq, \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131 atam\u0131n z\u0259ngini g\u00f6zl\u0259yir\u0259m. Z\u0259ng g\u0259lir, ancaq atam\u0131n s\u0259si e\u015fidilmir, m\u0259ni anam t\u0259brik edir. Ancaq h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 \u00f6nc\u0259 atam, sonra anam t\u0259brik ed\u0259rdi. Atam\u0131n s\u0259sini e\u015fitm\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 \u00e7ox \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcr\u0259m.<\/p>\n

He\u00e7 vaxt – \u00f6mr\u00fcmboyu bir d\u0259f\u0259 d\u0259 olsun atam\u0131n n\u0259d\u0259ns\u0259 \u015fikay\u0259tl\u0259ndiyini e\u015fitm\u0259dim. B\u00fct\u00fcn a\u011fr\u0131-ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131, d\u0259rdini-k\u0259d\u0259rini i\u00e7ind\u0259 ya\u015far, bizl\u0259r\u0259 \u0259sla yans\u0131tmazd\u0131. Atam\u0131n q\u0259fil d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259si v\u0259 o zaman yan\u0131nda olmama\u011f\u0131m m\u0259ni \u00e7ox sars\u0131td\u0131, bu g\u00fcn\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 i\u00e7in-i\u00e7in g\u00f6yn\u0259dir. Yegan\u0259 t\u0259s\u0259llim odur ki, atam\u0131 he\u00e7 \u00fczm\u0259dim, o, \u00f6vlad\u0131 olaraq m\u0259nd\u0259n raz\u0131 idi.<\/p>\n

Be\u015f ildir ki, atas\u0131z atal\u0131 g\u00fcnl\u0259rimi ya\u015fay\u0131ram. Atam d\u00fcnyadan k\u00f6\u00e7s\u0259 d\u0259, m\u0259ni h\u0259r \u00e7\u0259tinlikd\u0259n yen\u0259 atam\u0131n sevgisi \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r. Ata-anam\u0131n m\u0259n\u0259 olan sonsuz sevgi v\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259ni h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 ayaqlar\u0131m \u00fcst\u0259 dayanma\u011f\u0131mda, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m a\u011fr\u0131-ac\u0131lara sin\u0259 g\u0259rm\u0259yimd\u0259 \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck g\u00fcc\u00fcm olub. Art\u0131q atam m\u0259nim q\u0259lbimd\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r. \u00d6vlad\u0131n d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259lm\u0259si il\u0259 \u201cata\u201d statusu\u00a0 qazanan atalar\u0131n \u00f6mr\u00fc \u00f6vladlar d\u00fcnyalar\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259nd\u0259n sonra bitir. \u00c7\u00fcnki atalar d\u00fcnyalar\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259rk\u0259n \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n, \u0259l\u0259lx\u00fcsus da q\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131n q\u0259lbin\u0259 k\u00f6\u00e7\u00fcb orda ya\u015fama\u011fa davam edirl\u0259r \u2013 atam\u0131n m\u0259nim q\u0259lbimd\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 kimi.<\/p>\n

K\u0259ndimizd\u0259 m\u0259ni tan\u0131mayanlar (k\u0259ndimizin 8 mind\u0259n \u00e7ox \u0259halisi var, m\u0259n d\u0259 k\u0259ndd\u0259n g\u0259nc ik\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xm\u0131\u015fam) kim oldu\u011fumu soru\u015fan zaman \u201cVeyis m\u00fc\u0259llimin q\u0131z\u0131yam\u201d dem\u0259kd\u0259n h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 q\u00fcrur duymu\u015fam, \u00f6mr\u00fcmboyu da atam\u0131n q\u0131z\u0131 olmaqdan q\u00fcrur duyaca\u011fam. Zat\u0259n atam\u0131n o sevimli, \u015f\u0131ltaq, \u0259rk\u00f6y\u00fcn q\u0131z\u0131 daxilimd\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r, m\u0259n ya\u015fa dolsam da, o he\u00e7 b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u00fcr, o, ill\u0259rin arxas\u0131nda qalan o uzaq qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131z, n\u0259\u015f\u0259li, xo\u015fb\u0259xt g\u00fcnl\u0259rd\u0259 qal\u0131b.<\/p>\n

Q\u0259brin nurla dolsun, m\u0259kan\u0131n c\u0259nn\u0259t olsun, \u0259ziz atam! S\u0259ni \u00e7ox sevir\u0259m, ruh\u0259n h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 m\u0259niml\u0259s\u0259n!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Atam\u0131n \u201claylalar\u0131\u201d bu g\u00fcn d\u0259 qulaqlar\u0131mda s\u0259sl\u0259nir D\u00fcnya baqi olandan Yer \u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcn \u0259\u015fr\u0259fi insan ruh\u0259n Uca Yaradana, cism\u0259n is\u0259 onu bu h\u0259yata b\u0259x\u015f ed\u0259n anas\u0131na s\u0259cd\u0259 etmi\u015fdir. Analara bir \u00e7ox mahn\u0131lar, \u015feirl\u0259r, bayat\u0131lar h\u0259sr etmi\u015fik. Dinimizd\u0259 – m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s kitab\u0131m\u0131z olan \u201cQurani-K\u0259rim\u201dd\u0259 d\u0259 analara b\u00f6y\u00fck d\u0259y\u0259r verilib, Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimizin \u201cC\u0259nn\u0259t analar\u0131n ayaqlar\u0131 alt\u0131ndad\u0131r\u201d k\u0259lam\u0131, analar\u0131n bizim\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259y\u0259rli v\u0259 m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s varl\u0131qlar oldu\u011funu \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 ehtiva edir. B\u0259s atalar \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda n\u0259 kimi rol oynay\u0131rlar? Ax\u0131, analar evin h\u0259rar\u0259ti, u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n qoruyucu m\u0259l\u0259yidirs\u0259, atalar da evin dir\u0259yi, u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n pasiban\u0131, daya\u011f\u0131, f\u0259xr, q\u00fcrur m\u0259nb\u0259yidir. B\u0259z\u0259n…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":384656,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/92cf3f7e16330214877616394661039960.jpg",975,540,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/92cf3f7e16330214877616394661039960.jpg",975,540,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/92cf3f7e16330214877616394661039960.jpg",975,540,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/92cf3f7e16330214877616394661039960-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/92cf3f7e16330214877616394661039960-660x365.jpg",660,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/92cf3f7e16330214877616394661039960-840x465.jpg",640,354,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/92cf3f7e16330214877616394661039960.jpg",975,540,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/92cf3f7e16330214877616394661039960.jpg",975,540,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/92cf3f7e16330214877616394661039960-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/92cf3f7e16330214877616394661039960.jpg",975,540,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"Sosial<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Atam\u0131n \u201claylalar\u0131\u201d bu g\u00fcn d\u0259 qulaqlar\u0131mda s\u0259sl\u0259nir D\u00fcnya baqi olandan Yer \u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcn \u0259\u015fr\u0259fi insan ruh\u0259n Uca Yaradana, cism\u0259n is\u0259 onu bu h\u0259yata b\u0259x\u015f ed\u0259n anas\u0131na s\u0259cd\u0259 etmi\u015fdir. Analara bir \u00e7ox mahn\u0131lar, \u015feirl\u0259r, bayat\u0131lar h\u0259sr etmi\u015fik. Dinimizd\u0259 – m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s kitab\u0131m\u0131z olan \u201cQurani-K\u0259rim\u201dd\u0259 d\u0259 analara b\u00f6y\u00fck d\u0259y\u0259r verilib, Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimizin \u201cC\u0259nn\u0259t analar\u0131n ayaqlar\u0131 alt\u0131ndad\u0131r\u201d k\u0259lam\u0131, analar\u0131n bizim\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/384655"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=384655"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/384655\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/384656"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=384655"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=384655"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=384655"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}