{"id":425816,"date":"2022-01-13T19:23:57","date_gmt":"2022-01-13T16:23:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=425816"},"modified":"2022-01-13T19:23:57","modified_gmt":"2022-01-13T16:23:57","slug":"valideyn-ovladinin-dostu-olmalidir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=425816","title":{"rendered":"Valideyn \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n dostu olmal\u0131d\u0131r"},"content":{"rendered":"

Zaman d\u0259yi\u015fib, insanlar \u201cm\u00fcasirl\u0259\u015fdikc\u0259\u201d dig\u0259r milli ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rimiz kimi, valideyn-\u00f6vlad m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259 d\u0259 bo\u015fluqlar \u0259m\u0259l\u0259 g\u0259lir. Ata-o\u011ful, ana-q\u0131z aras\u0131nda \u0259srl\u0259rd\u0259n b\u0259ri qorunub-saxlanan h\u00f6rm\u0259t, ab\u0131r-h\u0259ya p\u0259rd\u0259si, dem\u0259k olar ki, yox d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259sind\u0259dir. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 raz\u0131la\u015f\u0131r\u0131q ki, \u201cm\u00fcasirl\u0259\u015fm\u0259\u201d prosesi gedir v\u0259 h\u0259r \u015fey h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 oldu\u011fu kimi qala bilmir.<\/p>\n

Valideyn-\u00f6vlad aras\u0131nda anla\u015f\u0131lmazl\u0131qlar \u0259vv\u0259lki d\u00f6vrl\u0259rd\u0259 d\u0259 olub, amma o d\u00f6vrl\u0259rd\u0259 h\u0259yat t\u0259rzi bir q\u0259d\u0259r qapal\u0131 oldu\u011fundan, bu q\u0259d\u0259r m\u00fczakir\u0259 m\u00f6vzusuna \u00e7evrilmirdi: \u201cBu g\u00fcn is\u0259 dem\u0259k olar ki, valideyn-\u00f6vlad m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri getdikc\u0259 g\u0259rginl\u0259\u015fir. Bunu ba\u015f ver\u0259n hadis\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 d\u0259 g\u00f6rm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Valideynin \u00f6vad\u0131n\u0131, \u00f6vlad\u0131n valideyni \u00f6ld\u00fcrm\u0259si hallar\u0131 g\u00fcnd\u0259n-g\u00fcn\u0259 art\u0131r. Bel\u0259 hadis\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 g\u00fcnah\u0131 t\u0259kc\u0259 u\u015faqda g\u00f6rm\u0259k d\u00fczg\u00fcn deyil, \u00e7\u00fcnki t\u0259rbiy\u0259 ver\u0259n, h\u00f6rm\u0259ti \u00f6yr\u0259d\u0259n valideyndir. Onun h\u0259yat t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259si u\u015faqdan \u00e7oxdur. V\u0259 valideyn bilm\u0259lidir ki,\u00a0 \u00f6vlad\u0131ndan y\u00fcks\u0259k t\u0259rbiy\u0259, h\u00f6rm\u0259t g\u00f6zl\u0259yirs\u0259, ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fc \u00f6vlad\u0131na bu keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259lidir\u201d.<\/p>\n

B\u00fct\u00fcn valideynl\u0259r el\u0259 hesab edirl\u0259r ki, onlar\u0131n g\u0259nclik v\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259lik d\u00f6vr\u00fc daha f\u0259rqli olub. Amma m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259rin fikrinc\u0259, h\u0259r bir d\u00f6vr\u00fcn\u00a0 yeniyetm\u0259si v\u0259 g\u0259nci \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259yir, ke\u00e7mi\u015f\u0259 deyil. Y\u0259ni\u00a0 valideynl\u0259r bunu q\u0259bul etm\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259s\u0259 d\u0259, yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259r h\u0259r zaman d\u00f6vr\u0259 uy\u011fun olub.<\/p>\n

“Yeniyetm\u0259lik d\u00f6vr\u00fc 11-12 ya\u015fdan ba\u015flay\u0131r v\u0259 14-15 ya\u015fa q\u0259d\u0259r – orta m\u0259kt\u0259bin be\u015finci-s\u0259kkizinci sinif \u015fagirdl\u0259rini \u0259hat\u0259 edir. 11-13 ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131 ad\u0259t\u0259n ki\u00e7ik yeniyetm\u0259, 13-15 ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131 is\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck yeniyetm\u0259 adland\u0131r\u0131rlar. Lakin yeniyetm\u0259lik d\u00f6vr\u00fcn\u00fcn ba\u015flanmas\u0131na v\u0259 qurtarmas\u0131na d\u0259qiq s\u0259rh\u0259d qoymaq olmaz\u201d.<\/p>\n

Yeniyetm\u0259lik d\u00f6vr\u00fcn\u00fcn \u0259sas x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri eqonun qabarmas\u0131, he\u00e7 k\u0259si q\u0259bul etm\u0259m\u0259, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc ham\u0131dan a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 hesab etm\u0259kdir.\u00a0 Valideyn \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259 \u0259sas problem m\u0259hz \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n aqressiv davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131d\u0131r. Valideyn d\u00fcn\u0259n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r u\u015faq sayd\u0131\u011f\u0131 bug\u00fcnk\u00fc\u00a0 yeniyetm\u0259 il\u0259 \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t qura bilm\u0259m\u0259kd\u0259 v\u0259 \u00a0onu idar\u0259 ed\u0259 bilm\u0259m\u0259kd\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tinlik \u00e7\u0259kir. Halbuki, 2-3 il \u00f6nc\u0259 \u00f6z arzu v\u0259 ist\u0259kl\u0259rini asanl\u0131qla h\u0259yata ke\u00e7ir\u0259 bilirdi. Bu zaman valideyn v\u0259 \u00f6vlad aras\u0131nda m\u00fcbahis\u0259l\u0259r yaran\u0131r. Valideyn-\u00f6vlad m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri\u00a0problem\u0259 \u00a0\u00e7evrilir.<\/p>\n

Valideynl\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259 aras\u0131nda \u0259n k\u0259skin konfliktl\u0259r daha \u00e7ox erk\u0259n yeniyetm\u0259lik d\u00f6vr\u00fcn\u0259 t\u0259sad\u00fcf edir. \u00c7\u00fcnki valideyn \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259sind\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259rsiz olur. Valideyn h\u0259r zamank\u0131 t\u0259l\u0259bkarl\u0131qla \u00f6vlad\u0131na yana\u015f\u0131r, amma \u0259v\u0259zind\u0259 etiraz g\u00f6r\u00fcr, \u00e7a\u015fq\u0131nl\u0131\u011fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr v\u0259 n\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259yini bilmir. Bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 o, aqressiv davran\u0131\u015f n\u00fcmayi\u015f etdirm\u0259k \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fc q\u0259bul el\u0259s\u0259, v\u0259ziyy\u0259t onun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn\u00a0 daha asan olar.<\/p>\n

U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n s\u0259si qal\u0131nla\u015f\u0131b, d\u0259yi\u015fibs\u0259, t\u0259r v\u0259zil\u0259ri aktivl\u0259\u015fibs\u0259, b\u0259d\u0259nd\u0259 m\u00fcxt\u0259lif fizioloji d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259r hiss edirsinizs\u0259, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u0259n adi s\u0259s q\u0131c\u0131qland\u0131rmas\u0131na bel\u0259 reaksiya verirs\u0259, xarici g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f\u00fc il\u0259 maraqlanma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131bsa, geyimind\u0259, dan\u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131nda d\u0259yi\u015fiklik hiss edirsinizs\u0259, t\u0259nqid\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 k\u0259skin reaksiya verirs\u0259, \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131z yeniyetm\u0259dir.<\/p>\n

Yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259r t\u0259nqid\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7ox d\u00f6z\u00fcms\u00fcz olurlar. Valideyn is\u0259 t\u0259nqidin yararl\u0131, faydal\u0131 oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

X\u00fcsus\u0259n q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131 bu d\u00f6vrd\u0259 daha t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259li olur. O\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131 is\u0259 ail\u0259sind\u0259n qoparaq k\u0259nar\u00a0 qruplara meyl g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, bu da onun neqativ v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259r\u0259 yiy\u0259l\u0259nm\u0259si il\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259nir.<\/p>\n

Psixoloqlar bu d\u00f6vr\u00fc “d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f d\u00f6vr\u00fc\u201d v\u0259 ya “b\u00f6hran d\u00f6vr\u00fc\u201d adland\u0131r\u0131rlar. Valideyn \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131r ki, bu d\u00f6vrd\u0259\u00a0 u\u015faqlar\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 inam, h\u00f6rm\u0259t a\u015f\u0131las\u0131nlar. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259r olsun ki, bir \u00e7ox ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 valideynl\u0259r \u00f6vlada qar\u015f\u0131 \u015fidd\u0259t v\u0259 zorak\u0131l\u0131q t\u0259tbiq edir. Bel\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 u\u015faqda m\u0259n\u0259vi \u00a0v\u0259 psixoloji probleml\u0259rin yaranma riski daha b\u00f6y\u00fck olur. B\u0259zi ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131 ana v\u0259 ya ata il\u0259 qorxudurlar. Bu da “yeniyetm\u0259 faci\u0259si\u201d il\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259nir. “\u00c7\u00fcnki bel\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 u\u015faqda ana-ata sevgisini qorxu \u0259v\u0259z edir. Valideyn \u00f6vlad\u0131na\u00a0 sevgi, g\u00fcv\u0259n, inam vermirs\u0259, \u00f6vlad t\u0259dric\u0259n ail\u0259d\u0259n v\u0259\u00a0 evd\u0259n uzaqla\u015f\u0131r. Bu da onun sonradan k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 olmayan qruplara qo\u015fulmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b ola bil\u0259r\u201d.<\/p>\n

B\u0259zi valideynl\u0259r is\u0259 \u00a0\u00f6vlad\u0131na oyuncaq kimi yana\u015f\u0131r. “\u018flind\u0259n he\u00e7 n\u0259 g\u0259lmir\u201d, “s\u0259n adamsan ki?\u201d v\u0259 s. bu kimi davran\u0131\u015flarla \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 r\u0259qib kimi yeti\u015fdirirl\u0259r. Bu da valideyn-\u00f6vlad aras\u0131nda m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin bitm\u0259si dem\u0259kdir. Zaman ke\u00e7dikc\u0259, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r daha da inc\u0259lir, q\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r, qopur v\u0259 b\u0259z\u0259n \u00f6vlad\u0131n ataya, anaya, valideynin \u00f6vlada \u0259l qald\u0131r\u0131b q\u0259tl\u0259 yetirm\u0259si il\u0259 d\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259n\u0259 bilir.<\/p>\n

Hesab edir\u0259m ki, \u00f6vlad\u0131 il\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rinin yax\u015f\u0131 olmas\u0131n\u0131 arzulayan valideynl\u0259r arada olan h\u00f6rm\u0259ti, g\u00fcv\u0259ni qorumaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 he\u00e7 bir zaman t\u0259nqid etm\u0259m\u0259lidir. Valideyn \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n dostu olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Onun maraqlar\u0131 il\u0259 yax\u0131ndan tan\u0131\u015f olma\u011fa, sirl\u0259rini, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rini b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131r. Valideyn \u00f6z probleml\u0259rini \u00f6vlad\u0131na anlatma\u011fa ba\u015flasa, u\u015faq ondan \u00e7\u0259kinm\u0259z v\u0259 \u00f6z sirrini b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Ail\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 idar\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259, y\u00f6nl\u0259ndirm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan valideynl\u0259r daha \u00e7ox \u00f6vladlar\u0131 il\u0259 probleml\u0259r ya\u015fay\u0131r:<\/p>\n

U\u015faqlar\u0131n fikrin\u0259 \u00f6n\u0259m verilm\u0259lidir. \u00d6vlad valideynin olsa da, o da m\u00fcst\u0259qil insand\u0131r. M\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t ver\u0259rk\u0259n,\u00a0 sakit-sakit ba\u015fa sal\u0131nmal\u0131, onu q\u0131c\u0131qland\u0131ran m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 toxunulmamal\u0131d\u0131. Valideyn \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n geyim v\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259 fikrini bildir\u0259 bil\u0259r, amma m\u00fcdaxil\u0259 etm\u0259m\u0259lidir. \u00d6vladlar\u0131n d\u00fczg\u00fcn t\u0259rbiy\u0259si\u00a0 \u00a0valideynl\u0259rin \u00f6zl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6n\u0259mlidir.<\/p>\n

Bel\u0259 deyim var ki, 7 ya\u015fad\u0259k u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n qulu, 15 ya\u015fad\u0259k onun dostu olursan. 15 ya\u015fdan sonra is\u0259 siz \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131zla m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259\u015fib, onunla fikir m\u00fcbadil\u0259si aparmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. H\u0259r bir insana, o c\u00fcml\u0259d\u0259n d\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t kimi yana\u015f\u0131lmal\u0131, onlar\u0131n fikirl\u0259ri \u00f6yr\u0259nilm\u0259lidi. Probleml\u0259rin yaranmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn valideyn kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r \u00f6vlad\u0131 il\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 yax\u0131n olmal\u0131d\u0131. Bel\u0259 olarsa, \u00f6vlad valideyni il\u0259 daha a\u00e7\u0131q olar, sirl\u0259rini b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u00fcb onlardan m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t alar.<\/p>\n

T\u00f6vsiy\u0259 olaraq s\u00f6yl\u0259m\u0259k ist\u0259rdim ki, \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n fikirl\u0259rini d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259yin. \u00d6vlad\u0131n\u0131z bir fikir s\u00f6yl\u0259dikd\u0259, onunla s\u00f6hb\u0259t ed\u0259r\u0259k, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259ri v\u0259 hissl\u0259ri haqq\u0131nda daha \u00e7ox m\u0259lumat \u0259ld\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259rsiniz.\u00a0 \u00d6vladlar\u0131n\u0131zla s\u0259m\u0259r\u0259li vaxt ke\u00e7irin. Birlikd\u0259 ke\u00e7iril\u0259n vaxt say\u0259sind\u0259 bir-birinizin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rini, hissl\u0259rini v\u0259 maraqlar\u0131n\u0131 tan\u0131y\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Bu, \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131za verdiyiniz d\u0259y\u0259rin g\u00f6st\u0259rircisidir v\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tiniz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

S\u0259m\u0259r\u0259li vaxt, adi g\u00fcnl\u0259r h\u0259r an v\u0259 h\u0259r yerd\u0259 ola bil\u0259r. K\u00f6rp\u0259nizi \u00e7imdir\u0259rk\u0259n onunla g\u00fclm\u0259k v\u0259 ya \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131zla avtomobild\u0259 maraql\u0131 bir s\u00f6hb\u0259t ola bil\u0259r. Bu anlar siz\u0259 t\u0259b\u0259ss\u00fcm, g\u00fcl\u00fc\u015f v\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131za pozitiv\u00a0 enerji verm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u015fansd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Diqq\u0259t yay\u0131nd\u0131ran vasit\u0259l\u0259ri minimuma endirm\u0259kl\u0259 birlikd\u0259 vaxt\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 istifad\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259rsiniz. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, telefonu k\u0259nara qoymaq. Bu, \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131za onunla fasil\u0259siz vaxt ke\u00e7irm\u0259y\u0259 h\u0259v\u0259sli oldu\u011funuzu bilm\u0259sin\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k edir.<\/p>\n

Etibar v\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t, pozitiv valideyn-\u00f6vlad m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn vacibdir.\u00a0\u00a0 K\u00f6rp\u0259nizl\u0259 ilk ill\u0259rd\u0259 etibar\u0131n inki\u015faf etdirilm\u0259si vacibdir. \u00a0K\u00f6rp\u0259niz siz\u0259 \u00a0g\u00fcv\u0259ndikd\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259siz hiss ed\u0259c\u0259k. Etibar v\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259ti inki\u015faf etdirm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n d\u0259st\u0259y\u0259, qay\u011f\u0131ya v\u0259 ya k\u00f6m\u0259y\u0259 ehtiyac\u0131 olduqda haz\u0131r olun. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, k\u00f6rp\u0259niz y\u0131x\u0131ld\u0131qda onu qald\u0131rmaq.\u00a0 Verdiyiniz v\u0259dl\u0259r\u0259 sadiq qal\u0131n, bel\u0259likl\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131z dedikl\u0259riniz\u0259 etibar etm\u0259yi \u00f6yr\u0259nsin.<\/p>\n

\u00d6vlad\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 tan\u0131y\u0131n v\u0259 ona d\u0259y\u0259r verin v\u0259 onun hissl\u0259rin\u0259 v\u0259 fikirl\u0259rin\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k, onlar\u0131 sizinl\u0259 b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 davam etm\u0259si dem\u0259kdir.<\/p>\n

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