{"id":426524,"date":"2022-01-15T08:58:01","date_gmt":"2022-01-15T05:58:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=426524"},"modified":"2022-01-15T08:58:01","modified_gmt":"2022-01-15T05:58:01","slug":"b%c9%99s-siz-hansi-valideyn-tipisiniz-ozunuzu-taniyin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=426524","title":{"rendered":"B\u0259s siz hans\u0131 valideyn tipisiniz? – \u00d6Z\u00dcN\u00dcZ\u00dc TANIYIN"},"content":{"rendered":"

H\u0259yatda h\u0259r k\u0259sin \u00f6z v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259ri vard\u0131r. Bu v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259r il\u0259 biz n\u0259yis\u0259 edirik, qars\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda n\u0259yis\u0259 al\u0131r\u0131q.<\/p>\n

Lakin valideynlik v\u0259zif\u0259si h\u0259r \u015feyi etm\u0259yin\u0259 baxmayaraq, qars\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda he\u00e7 n\u0259 ist\u0259m\u0259y\u0259n yegan\u0259 v\u0259zif\u0259dir.<\/p>\n

B\u0259s biz yax\u015f\u0131 valideynik?
\n<\/strong><\/p>\n

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B\u0259z\u0259n ana va ata olaraq bir cox s\u0259hvl\u0259r edirik. Valideyn ist\u0259yir ki, \u00f6vlad\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 h\u0259yat\u0131 qursun. B\u0259z\u0259n biz bel\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fck ki, valideynin v\u0259zif\u0259si \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 sevindirm\u0259kd\u0259n ibar\u0259tdir, lakin bel\u0259 deyil; valideyn \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259yata d\u00fczg\u00fcn haz\u0131rlamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259ndirilib. U\u015faqlar\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259sind\u0259 ilkin olaraq c\u0259zaland\u0131rmaq v\u0259 m\u00fckafatland\u0131rmaq bir qayda hal\u0131nda olmal\u0131d\u0131r. C\u0259za v\u0259 m\u00fckafatland\u0131rma is\u0259 d\u00fczg\u00fcn qaydada olmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r c\u0259za v\u0259 m\u00fckafatland\u0131rma yoxdursa, bu zaman usaqda ist\u0259k v\u0259 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 qaydaya salmaq \u00e7\u0259tinlik yaradar v\u0259 ya qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ala bilm\u0259zsiniz.<\/p>\n

M\u00fckafatland\u0131rma v\u0259 c\u0259za sistemini psixikam\u0131za t\u0259siri
\n<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0130nsan m\u00fckafatland\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u0259qdird\u0259 beyind\u0259 dopamin hormonu, c\u0259zaland\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u0259qdird\u0259 is\u0259 endorfin hormonu ifraz olunur.<\/p>\n

Ail\u0259 psixologiyas\u0131nda 4 c\u00fcr valideyn tipi vard\u0131r:
\n<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. Avtoritar valideyn<\/strong>\u00a0– dediyimin \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 s\u00f6z deyilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k, m\u00fczakir\u0259 olunmayacaq v\u0259 a\u00e7\u0131qlama verilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. Bu valideyn h\u0259yata \u00f6zg\u00fcv\u0259nsiz, i\u00e7\u0259qapan\u0131q, h\u0259r \u0259mr\u0259 tabe olan insan formala\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r. G\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 i\u015find\u0259 u\u011furlar qazansa da, \u00f6zg\u00fcv\u0259nsiz yeti\u015firl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

2. Liberal valideyn<\/strong>\u00a0– u\u015faq sevinsin dey\u0259 onun h\u0259r dediyin\u0259 raz\u0131 olan, raz\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 halda u\u015faq valideynin \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259 ged\u0259r\u0259k raz\u0131 sal\u0131nan valideyn tipidir. Burada ata, yaxud ana h\u0259r hans\u0131 biri avtoritar, dig\u0259ri is\u0259 liberal valideyndirs\u0259, burada u\u015faqda \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t pozuntusu olur.<\/p>\n

3. Xaotik valideyn<\/strong>\u00a0– \u00f6vlad\u0131 n\u0259yis\u0259 maraqla g\u00f6st\u0259rir, yaxud dan\u0131\u015fma\u011fa can at\u0131r valideyn is\u0259 ba\u015fqa i\u015fl\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011fuldursa, bu zaman valideyn il\u0259 u\u015faq aras\u0131nda ciddi qopuqluq ya\u015fan\u0131r. Anan\u0131n \u00f6vlada maraqs\u0131z v\u0259 diqq\u0259tsiz olmas\u0131 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 tamamil\u0259 pozur. Valideynl\u0259r anlamal\u0131d\u0131rlar ki, \u0259g\u0259r s\u0259n h\u0259r \u015feyi il\u0259 \u00f6vlada diqq\u0259t v\u0259 maraqla yax\u0131nla\u015f\u0131rsansa, o da bunu hiss edib h\u0259r \u015feyi il\u0259 s\u0259n\u0259 diqq\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259c\u0259kdir.<\/p>\n

4. Demokratik valideyn<\/strong>\u00a0– bu valideynl\u0259r \u00f6vlad\u0131na c\u0259za v\u0259 m\u00fckafatland\u0131rmadan istifade ed\u0259nl\u0259rdir. Bu valideynl\u0259r daha q\u0259rarl\u0131, tutarl\u0131, d\u0259qiq olurlar v\u0259 duy\u011fular\u0131 \u00f6vladlar\u0131na ke\u00e7irm\u0259yi bacar\u0131rlar. \u0130zah etdiyimiz valideyn tipl\u0259rind\u0259n \u0259n u\u011furlusu demokratik oland\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki qaydalar daxilind\u0259 u\u015faq ist\u0259diyini ed\u0259 bil\u0259r v\u0259 daha d\u00fczg\u00fcn yeti\u015f\u0259r.<\/p>\n

U\u015faq yem\u0259yini yedi, yaxud d\u0259rsl\u0259rini oxudu, bir s\u00f6zl\u0259, edil\u0259c\u0259k olanlar\u0131 etdi dey\u0259 onu m\u00fckafatland\u0131rmaq laz\u0131m deyil, \u00e7\u00fcnki bu, onun v\u0259zif\u0259sidir. \u018fg\u0259r v\u0259zif\u0259sini \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 ed\u0259rs\u0259, o zaman m\u00fckafatland\u0131rmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n: yax\u015f\u0131 oxudu dey\u0259 yox, sinif n\u00fcmay\u0259nd\u0259si oldu dey\u0259 m\u00fckafatland\u0131rmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n

2 formada m\u00fckafatland\u0131rma vard\u0131r:
\n<\/strong>
\n1. Psixoloji m\u00fckafatland\u0131rma<\/p>\n

2. Material t\u0259rzli m\u00fckafatland\u0131rma<\/p>\n

Bunlar d\u00fczg\u00fcn \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 istifad\u0259 edilm\u0259lidir ki, \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131z r\u00fc\u015fv\u0259t\u0259 meylli bir insan kimi yeti\u015fm\u0259sin!<\/p>\n

Ayt\u0259n \u018flizad\u0259, psixoloq<\/p>\n

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H\u0259yatda h\u0259r k\u0259sin \u00f6z v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259ri vard\u0131r. Bu v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259r il\u0259 biz n\u0259yis\u0259 edirik, qars\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda n\u0259yis\u0259 al\u0131r\u0131q. Lakin valideynlik v\u0259zif\u0259si h\u0259r \u015feyi etm\u0259yin\u0259 baxmayaraq, qars\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda he\u00e7 n\u0259 ist\u0259m\u0259y\u0259n yegan\u0259 v\u0259zif\u0259dir. B\u0259s biz yax\u015f\u0131 valideynik?   B\u0259z\u0259n ana va ata olaraq bir cox s\u0259hvl\u0259r edirik. Valideyn ist\u0259yir ki, \u00f6vlad\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 h\u0259yat\u0131 qursun. B\u0259z\u0259n biz bel\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fck ki, valideynin v\u0259zif\u0259si \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 sevindirm\u0259kd\u0259n ibar\u0259tdir, lakin bel\u0259 deyil; valideyn \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259yata d\u00fczg\u00fcn haz\u0131rlamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259ndirilib. U\u015faqlar\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259sind\u0259 ilkin olaraq c\u0259zaland\u0131rmaq v\u0259 m\u00fckafatland\u0131rmaq bir qayda hal\u0131nda olmal\u0131d\u0131r. C\u0259za v\u0259 m\u00fckafatland\u0131rma is\u0259 d\u00fczg\u00fcn qaydada olmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":426525,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/valideyn.jpg",530,360,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/valideyn.jpg",530,360,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/valideyn.jpg",530,360,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/valideyn-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/valideyn.jpg",530,360,false],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/valideyn.jpg",530,360,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/valideyn.jpg",530,360,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/valideyn.jpg",530,360,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/valideyn-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/valideyn.jpg",530,360,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"Sosial<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"H\u0259yatda h\u0259r k\u0259sin \u00f6z v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259ri vard\u0131r. Bu v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259r il\u0259 biz n\u0259yis\u0259 edirik, qars\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda n\u0259yis\u0259 al\u0131r\u0131q. Lakin valideynlik v\u0259zif\u0259si h\u0259r \u015feyi etm\u0259yin\u0259 baxmayaraq, qars\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda he\u00e7 n\u0259 ist\u0259m\u0259y\u0259n yegan\u0259 v\u0259zif\u0259dir. B\u0259s biz yax\u015f\u0131 valideynik?   B\u0259z\u0259n ana va ata olaraq bir cox s\u0259hvl\u0259r edirik. Valideyn ist\u0259yir ki, \u00f6vlad\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 h\u0259yat\u0131 qursun. B\u0259z\u0259n biz bel\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fck…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/426524"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=426524"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/426524\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/426525"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=426524"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=426524"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=426524"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}