{"id":435026,"date":"2022-02-04T20:37:31","date_gmt":"2022-02-04T17:37:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=435026"},"modified":"2022-02-04T20:37:31","modified_gmt":"2022-02-04T17:37:31","slug":"mu%c9%99llim-v%c9%99-sagird-arasinda-olan-konfliktl%c9%99rin-s%c9%99b%c9%99bl%c9%99ri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=435026","title":{"rendered":"M\u00fc\u0259llim v\u0259 \u015fagird aras\u0131nda olan konfliktl\u0259rin s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00fc\u0259llim peqadoji f\u0259aliyy\u0259ti icra ed\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsdir. Pedaqoji f\u0259aliyy\u0259t- Yetkin \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin, \u015fagirdl\u0259rin c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t olaraq yer tutmas\u0131na, \u00a0m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n bilik v\u0259 bacar\u0131qlara sahib olmas\u0131na y\u00f6n\u0259lmi\u015f f\u0259aliyy\u0259tdir. Peqadoji f\u0259aliyy\u0259t- \u00f6yr\u0259dici, m\u0259hl\u0259h\u0259t verici, t\u0259rbiy\u0259edici, inki\u015faf etdirici m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259 olur.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00fc\u0259llim-\u015fagird m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rinin d\u00fczg\u00fcn qurulmas\u0131 haqda bir \u00e7ox yerd\u0259 qeyd olunur. M\u00fc\u0259llim-\u015fagird aras\u0131nda yaranan konfliktl\u0259rin s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri n\u0259l\u0259rdir? Konflikl\u0259r daha \u00e7ox hans\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n qaynaqlan\u0131r?<\/p>\n<p>Bir s\u0131ra yana\u015fmalara g\u00f6r\u0259 \u201cM\u00fc\u0259llim-\u015fagird\u201d tipli konfliktl\u0259rin s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri a\u015fa\u011f\u0131dak\u0131lard\u0131r:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>D\u0259rsd\u0259 nizam-intizam\u0131n pozulmas\u0131;<\/li>\n<li>Ev tap\u015f\u0131r\u0131qlar\u0131na m\u0259suliyy\u0259tsiz yana\u015fmaq;<\/li>\n<li>Ev tap\u015f\u0131r\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 yax\u015f\u0131 yerin\u0259 yetirilm\u0259m\u0259si;<\/li>\n<li>D\u0259rs\u0259 zaman\u0131nda i\u015ftirak etm\u0259m\u0259k;<\/li>\n<li>S\u0259b\u0259bsiz d\u0259rsl\u0259ri \u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259k.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u015eagirdl\u0259rin fikrinc\u0259 is\u0259 konfliktl\u0259rin s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>M\u00fc\u0259llim t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n kobudluq, t\u0259hqir olunma;<\/li>\n<li>\u015eagirdl\u0259ri qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndir\u0259rk\u0259n obyektiv yana\u015fmamaq;<\/li>\n<li>D\u0259rs buraxmaq;<\/li>\n<li>M\u00fc\u0259llimin d\u0259rs\u0259 maraqla yana\u015fmamas\u0131;<\/li>\n<li>M\u00fc\u0259llimin avtoritar \u00fcslubla yana\u015fmas\u0131;<\/li>\n<li>M\u00fc\u0259llimin s\u0259ri\u015ft\u0259sizliyi.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Ki\u00e7ik m\u0259kt\u0259b ya\u015f\u0131 d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 ya\u015fanan konfliktl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>Bu d\u00f6vrd\u0259 ya\u015fanan konfliktd\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259llimin avtoritar \u00fcslubu xaraketrik olur. Konfliktin s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri: 1)M\u00fc\u0259llimin davran\u0131\u015f\u0131nda t\u0259zah\u00fcr edir.<\/p>\n<p>2) Dig\u0259r s\u0259b\u0259b m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rin \u015fagirdl\u0259rin yaln\u0131z u\u011furlar\u0131 maraqland\u0131r\u0131r. Bir \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t olaraq \u015f\u0259xsi keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 \u00f6n\u0259m vermirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>3) M\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259rin qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259 zaman\u0131 subyektiv yana\u015fmas\u0131;<\/p>\n<p>4) M\u00fc\u0259llimin qiym\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n \u015fagird\u0259 h\u0259d\u0259-qorxu g\u0259lm\u0259kl\u0259 istifad\u0259 edilm\u0259si, bi qayda olaraq \u015fagirdl\u0259rin bilik, bacar\u0131q formala\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tinin azalmas\u0131na g\u0259tirirb \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r;<\/p>\n<p>5) M\u00fc\u0259llimin qeyri-etik davran\u0131\u015f\u0131, \u015fagirdi m\u0259n\u0259vi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n al\u00e7ald\u0131lmas\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Yeniyetm\u0259lik d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 yaranan konfliktl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>M\u00fc\u0259llimin yeniyetm\u0259 il\u0259 \u00fcnsiyy\u0259tind\u0259 olan \u0259ksiklikl\u0259r;<\/li>\n<li>\u0130ntizamda konfliktl\u0259r daha \u00e7ox yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259rin s\u0259hvi, d\u0259rsd\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259rini idar\u0259 ed\u0259 bilm\u0259m\u0259k v\u0259 sevm\u0259dikl\u0259ri m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259 ziyan vurmaq niyy\u0259ti;<\/li>\n<li>Qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259d\u0259 qeyri-adekvatl\u0131q, m\u00fc\u0259llimin \u0259la\u00e7\u0131lara keyfiyy\u0259td\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq y\u00fcks\u0259k qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259si;<\/li>\n<li>M\u00fc\u0259llimin yeniyetm\u0259y\u0259 fiziki t\u0259zyiq g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259si.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Konfliktl\u0259ri h\u0259ll etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fc\u0259llim n\u0259l\u0259r etm\u0259lidir?<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>\u015eagird\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsiy\u0259t olaraq yana\u015f\u0131b, dialoq qurma\u011f\u0131 bacarmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/li>\n<li>Dialoq\u00a0 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn\u00a0 m\u00fcnasib vaxt ay\u0131rmal\u0131d\u0131rlar.<\/li>\n<li>\u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc ifad\u0259 etm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn f\u00fcrs\u0259t verm\u0259lidir. Bel\u0259likl\u0259 \u00f6z duy\u011fular\u0131n\u0131 ifad\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259kdir.<\/li>\n<li>Empatya qurmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/li>\n<li>G\u00fcnahland\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 m\u00f6vqed\u0259 olmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/li>\n<li>\u201cM\u0259n s\u0259nd\u0259n \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259m\u201d mesaj\u0131n\u0131 verm\u0259m\u0259lidir.<\/li>\n<li>Hans\u0131sa s\u0259hvind\u0259 s\u00f6zl\u0259rini\u00a0 onun davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na vur\u011fulamal\u0131d\u0131r, \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tin\u0259 deyil.<\/li>\n<li>M\u0259kt\u0259b psixoloqunu bu i\u015f\u0259 c\u0259lb etm\u0259lidir.<\/li>\n<li>Hans\u0131sa yana\u015fma il\u0259 qorxutmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Qorxu il\u0259 problem h\u0259ll olunmaz, o yerd\u0259 sevgi olmaz.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Son olaraq qeyd etm\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m ki, ist\u0259nil\u0259n ya\u015f d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 \u201cM\u00fc\u0259llim-\u015fagird\u201d aras\u0131nda olan konfliktin s\u0259b\u0259bi d\u00fczg\u00fcn balans\u0131n qurulmamas\u0131d\u0131r. Unutmaq olmaz ki, \u015fagirdl\u0259r sevdiyi m\u00fc\u0259llim\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 daha n\u0259zak\u0259tli olurlar. Hans\u0131sa s\u0259hv edirl\u0259rs\u0259, m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259r\u00a0 dostyana yana\u015fsalar, problem daha asan h\u0259ll olunacaqd\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r burda m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259r \u00e7\u0259tinlik \u00e7\u0259kirs\u0259, m\u0259kt\u0259b psixoloqlar\u0131 yard\u0131m etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Unutmaq olmaz ki, m\u00fc\u0259lliml\u0259r valideynl\u0259r q\u0259d\u0259r \u015fagirdl\u0259rin h\u0259yat\u0131nda iz qoyurlar. S\u0130zl\u0259r\u0259 bu \u015f\u0259r\u0259fli pe\u015f\u0259nizd\u0259 u\u011furlar arzu edir\u0259m.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Z\u00fcmr\u00fcd\u00a0Haqverdiyeva,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Psixoloq<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00fc\u0259llim peqadoji f\u0259aliyy\u0259ti icra ed\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsdir. Pedaqoji f\u0259aliyy\u0259t- Yetkin \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin, \u015fagirdl\u0259rin c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t olaraq yer tutmas\u0131na, \u00a0m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n bilik v\u0259 bacar\u0131qlara sahib olmas\u0131na y\u00f6n\u0259lmi\u015f f\u0259aliyy\u0259tdir. Peqadoji f\u0259aliyy\u0259t- \u00f6yr\u0259dici, m\u0259hl\u0259h\u0259t verici, t\u0259rbiy\u0259edici, inki\u015faf etdirici m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259 olur. M\u00fc\u0259llim-\u015fagird m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rinin d\u00fczg\u00fcn qurulmas\u0131 haqda bir \u00e7ox yerd\u0259 qeyd olunur. M\u00fc\u0259llim-\u015fagird aras\u0131nda yaranan konfliktl\u0259rin s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri n\u0259l\u0259rdir? Konflikl\u0259r daha \u00e7ox hans\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n qaynaqlan\u0131r? Bir s\u0131ra yana\u015fmalara g\u00f6r\u0259 \u201cM\u00fc\u0259llim-\u015fagird\u201d tipli konfliktl\u0259rin s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri a\u015fa\u011f\u0131dak\u0131lard\u0131r: D\u0259rsd\u0259 nizam-intizam\u0131n pozulmas\u0131; Ev tap\u015f\u0131r\u0131qlar\u0131na m\u0259suliyy\u0259tsiz yana\u015fmaq; Ev tap\u015f\u0131r\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 yax\u015f\u0131 yerin\u0259 yetirilm\u0259m\u0259si; D\u0259rs\u0259 zaman\u0131nda i\u015ftirak etm\u0259m\u0259k; S\u0259b\u0259bsiz d\u0259rsl\u0259ri \u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259k. \u015eagirdl\u0259rin fikrinc\u0259 is\u0259 konfliktl\u0259rin s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri: M\u00fc\u0259llim&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":435027,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/c9504ea3164397258472426131511008043.jpg",975,540,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/c9504ea3164397258472426131511008043.jpg",975,540,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/c9504ea3164397258472426131511008043.jpg",975,540,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/c9504ea3164397258472426131511008043-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/c9504ea3164397258472426131511008043-660x365.jpg",660,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/c9504ea3164397258472426131511008043-840x465.jpg",640,354,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/c9504ea3164397258472426131511008043.jpg",975,540,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/c9504ea3164397258472426131511008043.jpg",975,540,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/c9504ea3164397258472426131511008043-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/c9504ea3164397258472426131511008043.jpg",975,540,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?cat=26\" rel=\"category\">Sosial<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"M\u00fc\u0259llim peqadoji f\u0259aliyy\u0259ti icra ed\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsdir. Pedaqoji f\u0259aliyy\u0259t- Yetkin \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin, \u015fagirdl\u0259rin c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t olaraq yer tutmas\u0131na, \u00a0m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n bilik v\u0259 bacar\u0131qlara sahib olmas\u0131na y\u00f6n\u0259lmi\u015f f\u0259aliyy\u0259tdir. Peqadoji f\u0259aliyy\u0259t- \u00f6yr\u0259dici, m\u0259hl\u0259h\u0259t verici, t\u0259rbiy\u0259edici, inki\u015faf etdirici m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259 olur. M\u00fc\u0259llim-\u015fagird m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rinin d\u00fczg\u00fcn qurulmas\u0131 haqda bir \u00e7ox yerd\u0259 qeyd olunur. M\u00fc\u0259llim-\u015fagird aras\u0131nda yaranan konfliktl\u0259rin s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri n\u0259l\u0259rdir? Konflikl\u0259r daha \u00e7ox hans\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n&hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/435026"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=435026"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/435026\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/435027"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=435026"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=435026"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=435026"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}