{"id":43851,"date":"2019-03-08T14:09:08","date_gmt":"2019-03-08T11:09:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=43851"},"modified":"2019-03-08T14:09:08","modified_gmt":"2019-03-08T11:09:08","slug":"sunn%c9%99t-edil%c9%99n-qizlar-kisil%c9%99rin-dunyani-silk%c9%99l%c9%99y%c9%99n-d%c9%99hs%c9%99tli-%c9%99m%c9%99ll%c9%99ri-v%c9%99-arasdirma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=43851","title":{"rendered":"S\u00fcnn\u0259t edil\u0259n q\u0131zlar, ki\u015fil\u0259rin d\u00fcnyan\u0131 silk\u0259l\u0259y\u0259n D\u018fH\u015e\u018fTL\u0130 \u018fM\u018fLL\u018fR\u0130 V\u018f… – ARA\u015eDIRMA"},"content":{"rendered":"

Bilirsiniz, d\u00fcnyada h\u0259r \u00f6t\u0259n d\u0259qiq\u0259 225 k\u00f6rp\u0259 do\u011fulur. B\u0259s onu da bilirsinizmi ki, h\u0259r \u00f6t\u0259n d\u0259qiq\u0259 bu d\u00fcnyadan do\u011fum \u00fcst\u0259 olan bir ana \u0259ksilir? H\u0259r \u00f6t\u0259n g\u00fcn \u0259rzind\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 do\u011fub, \u00f6z\u00fc q\u00fcrub ed\u0259n analar\u0131n say\u0131 1500-\u0259 \u00e7at\u0131r. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 onlar\u0131n tam yar\u0131s\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu \u00f6l\u00fcm qurtulu\u015f olur. \u201cKi\u015fi\u201d \u201cs\u0131\u011fal\u201d\u0131ndan g\u00f6y\u0259r\u0259n b\u0259d\u0259nini, h\u0259r m\u0259sam\u0259si zorlanm\u0131\u015f g\u00f6yn\u0259y\u0259n qab\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, soyunan yaral\u0131 ruhunu n\u0259m buludlarla sa\u011faltmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn g\u00f6y\u0259 u\u00e7ur. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 d\u00f6y\u00fcb-s\u00f6y\u0259c\u0259k k\u00f6rp\u0259 o\u011flundan, d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u00fcb-s\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259c\u0259k s\u00fcd qoxulu q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6zl\u0259rinin alovunda yanmaqdan qa\u00e7\u0131r qad\u0131n…<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu g\u00fcn biziml\u0259 eyni havan\u0131 udan, bir torpa\u011fa ayaq basan qad\u0131nlar\u0131n tam yar\u0131s\u0131 fiziki v\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi \u015fidd\u0259t\u0259 m\u0259ruz qal\u0131r. \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, \u015fidd\u0259td\u0259n uzaq \u00f6m\u00fcr s\u00fcr\u0259n he\u00e7 olmasa bir qad\u0131n g\u00f6st\u0259rin m\u0259n\u0259…<\/p>\n

– T\u0259r\u0259f m\u00fcqabili t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n (d\u00f6y\u00fclm\u0259, psixoloji i\u015fg\u0259nc\u0259, nikah \u0259snas\u0131nda zorlanma, q\u0259tl\u0259 yetirilm\u0259) \u015fidd\u0259t<\/p>\n

– Seksual zorak\u0131l\u0131q v\u0259 t\u0259cav\u00fcz (cinsi \u0259laq\u0259, ya\u015f\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq cinsi istismar, m\u0259cburi nikah, k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259 t\u0259cav\u00fcz\u00fc, kiberizl\u0259m\u0259 (virtual zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa c\u0259hd) v\u0259 s.)<\/p>\n

– \u0130nsan alveri (k\u00f6l\u0259lik, cinsi istismar)<\/p>\n

– Qad\u0131n cinsiyy\u0259t orqan\u0131n\u0131 iflic ed\u0259n c\u0259rrahiy\u0259 \u0259m\u0259liyyatlar\u0131<\/p>\n

– Azya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n nikah\u0131<\/p>\n

ARANTV.AZ<\/strong> m\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 ara\u015fd\u0131rmas\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259qdim edir:<\/p>\n

H\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n ist\u0259nil\u0259n an\u0131nda seksual, yaxud psixoloji \u015fidd\u0259t\u0259 m\u0259ruz qalan qad\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259m sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131, h\u0259m d\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yi b\u00f6y\u00fck z\u0259rb\u0259 al\u0131r. Ki\u00e7ik ya\u015fda seksual \u015fidd\u0259t g\u00f6r\u0259n q\u0131zc\u0131\u011faz\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k t\u0259hsili d\u0259, taleyi d\u0259 m\u0259hv\u0259 s\u00fcr\u00fckl\u0259nir.<\/p>\n

\u00d6t\u0259n ilin avqust ay\u0131nda Rusiyan\u0131n h\u00fcquq-m\u00fchafiz\u0259 orqanlar\u0131n\u0131n ara\u015fd\u0131rmas\u0131ndan sonra Da\u011f\u0131stan\u0131n bir s\u0131ra k\u0259ndl\u0259rind\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 q\u0131z s\u00fcnn\u0259tinin ger\u00e7\u0259kl\u0259\u015fdirildiyi bildirildi. Bu \u0259m\u0259liyyat qad\u0131n cinsiyy\u0259t orqan\u0131n\u0131n bir hiss\u0259sinin k\u0259silm\u0259sind\u0259n ibar\u0259tdir. \u018fn\u0259n\u0259vi ayin hal\u0131na g\u0259l\u0259n q\u0131z s\u00fcnn\u0259ti 2012-ci ild\u0259 BMT t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n insan h\u00fcquqlar\u0131n\u0131n pozulmas\u0131 kimi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirildi.<\/p>\n

2016-c\u0131 il YUN\u0130SEF-in hesablamalar\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 is\u0259, d\u00fcnyada tibbi g\u00f6st\u0259ri\u015f olmadan 200 min q\u0131z \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 s\u00fcnn\u0259t \u0259m\u0259liyyat\u0131 apar\u0131l\u0131b. Bir s\u0131ra xalqlar bu ayini 5 ya\u015fl\u0131 q\u0131zlarda, dig\u0259rl\u0259ri is\u0259 cinsi yetkinlik h\u0259ddin\u0259 \u00e7atanda h\u0259yata ke\u00e7irirl\u0259r. Qad\u0131n s\u00fcnn\u0259ti n\u0259inki fiziki, eyni zamanda,psixoloji i\u015fg\u0259nc\u0259 say\u0131l\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki \u00e7ox vaxt bu prosedur anesteziya vurulmadan ger\u00e7\u0259kl\u0259\u015fdirilir. Qeyri-iradi sidik buraxma, ayba\u015f\u0131 poz\u011funlu\u011fu, sonsuzluq, qanaxma, bir s\u0131ra infeksiyalar v\u0259 do\u011fu\u015f zaman\u0131 m\u00fcxt\u0259lif probleml\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fc\u015fai\u0259t olunur.<\/p>\n

Bu v\u0259h\u015fi d\u00fcnyan\u0131n qanunlar\u0131na \u0259sas\u0259n apar\u0131lan \u201c\u0259m\u0259liyyat\u201d \u00e7ox vaxt steriliz\u0259 olunmu\u015f tibbi b\u0131\u00e7aqla deyil, \u015f\u00fc\u015f\u0259, da\u015f, t\u0259ra\u015f b\u0131\u00e7a\u011f\u0131, h\u0259tta d\u0131rnaqla yerin\u0259 yetirilir. 2007-ci ild\u0259 Uqanda Respublikas\u0131nda 30 q\u0131z\u0131n s\u00fcnn\u0259tind\u0259 eyni b\u0131\u00e7aqdan istifad\u0259 olunmu\u015fdu. \u00dcst\u0259lik valideynl\u0259rin yaln\u0131z bir ne\u00e7\u0259 faizi keyidici iyn\u0259 al\u0131b \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 x\u0259fifl\u0259tmi\u015fdi.<\/p>\n

Bu z\u00fclm\u00fcn s\u0259b\u0259bini soru\u015fsan\u0131z, \u00e7ox sad\u0259 cavab\u0131 var. Ail\u0259 quran g\u00fcn\u0259d\u0259k q\u0131zlar\u0131n cinsi ist\u0259kl\u0259ri oyanmas\u0131n. Namusunu q\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131n cinsiyy\u0259t orqan\u0131 il\u0259 k\u0259sib atan atalar onlar\u0131n i\u015f\u0131ql\u0131 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yini d\u0259 \u0259ll\u0259rind\u0259n al\u0131r. \u018fv\u0259zind\u0259 is\u0259 ehtiras\u0131 s\u00f6nm\u00fc\u015f s\u00fcnn\u0259tli q\u0131z c\u0259nn\u0259t\u0259 daha yax\u0131nd\u0131r deyirl\u0259r. Amma m\u0259n h\u0259tta s\u00fcnn\u0259t olunmam\u0131\u015f q\u0131z\u0131n da s\u00fcnn\u0259tli ki\u015fil\u0259ri cinsi istismar etdiyini e\u015fitm\u0259mi\u015f\u0259m.<\/p>\n

\u00c7\u00fcnki, statistikan\u0131 izl\u0259s\u0259k, g\u00f6r\u0259c\u0259yik ki, ki\u015fil\u0259r cinay\u0259t\u0259 daha \u00e7ox meylli olurlar.<\/p>\n

M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, \u0259n a\u011f\u0131r cinay\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 120 ki\u015fi il\u0259 21 qad\u0131n nisb\u0259ti olur. B\u0259d\u0259n\u0259 a\u011f\u0131r x\u0259t\u0259r yetirm\u0259 256 ki\u015fiy\u0259 c\u0259mi 24 qad\u0131n r\u0259qib g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259 bil\u0259rik. Cinsi istismarda is\u0259 birm\u0259nal\u0131 olaraq zorlayan ki\u015fil\u0259r, zorlanan qad\u0131nlard\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u0130lahiyyat\u00e7\u0131\u00a0Sevinc Aslanova<\/strong>\u00a0qad\u0131n s\u00fcnn\u0259tinin he\u00e7 bir din\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 yolveril\u0259n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildirir.<\/p>\n

– Q\u0131zlar\u0131n s\u00fcnn\u0259t edilm\u0259si ad\u0259ti Afrika v\u0259 Yax\u0131n \u015f\u0259rqd\u0259 ya\u015fayan b\u0259zi xalqlarda v\u0259 q\u0259bil\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 m\u00f6vcud olmu\u015f \u0259n\u0259n\u0259dir. Bu daha \u00e7ox isti iqlim\u0259 malik olan yerl\u0259rd\u0259 t\u0259tbiq edilib. \u0130slamdan \u0259vv\u0259l v\u0259 sonra \u0259r\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259 d\u0259 bel\u0259 ad\u0259t m\u00f6vcud olub. Qeyd ed\u0259k ki, bu, din\u0259 deyil, onlar\u0131n \u00f6z ad\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 \u0259saslan\u0131r. \u0130slam dinind\u0259 o\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n s\u00fcnn\u0259t olunmas\u0131 buyurulub. Q\u0131zlar\u0131n s\u00fcnn\u0259t olunmas\u0131na dair is\u0259 h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir \u0259mr yoxdur. Dig\u0259r s\u0259mavi dinl\u0259rd\u0259 d\u0259 bel\u0259 bir \u0259mr m\u00f6vcud deyildir.<\/p>\n

\"\u00d0\u009a\u00d0\u00b0\u00d1\u0080\u00d1\u0082\u00d0\u00b8\u00d0\u00bd\u00d0\u00ba\u00d0\u00b8<\/p>\n

Qad\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 \u015fidd\u0259t \u0130slam dinind\u0259 yolveril\u0259ndirmi? Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 c\u0259zalar n\u0259 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 a\u011f\u0131r olur?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u0130slam dinind\u0259 qad\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 \u015fidd\u0259t yoxdur. \u0130slamdan \u0259vv\u0259l \u018fr\u0259bistan yar\u0131madas\u0131nda qad\u0131nlara qar\u015f\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t \u00fcmum\u0259n m\u0259nfi idi, h\u0259tta b\u0259z\u0259n q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131 diri-diri torpa\u011fa basd\u0131r\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. Q\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259l\u0259n ki\u015fi utand\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan camaat\u0131n\u0131n aras\u0131na \u00e7\u0131xmaz, insanlardan gizl\u0259n\u0259rdi. \u0130slam dinind\u0259 is\u0259 qad\u0131nlar\u0131n h\u00fcquqlar\u0131 qorunur, onlara qar\u015f\u0131 \u015fidd\u0259t q\u0259ti \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 q\u0259bul edilmir. Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimiz (s.\u0259.v) \u00f6z h\u0259disl\u0259rind\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 \u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc tutaraq qad\u0131nlara qar\u015f\u0131 m\u00fclayim olmalar\u0131n\u0131 buyurmu\u015fdur. H\u0259tta m\u00fcs\u0259lmanlara son m\u00fcraci\u0259ti olan Vida x\u00fctb\u0259sind\u0259 d\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t ed\u0259r\u0259k qad\u0131nlar\u0131n h\u00fcquqlar\u0131na riay\u0259t etm\u0259l\u0259rini s\u00f6yl\u0259mi\u015f, \u201cQad\u0131nlar\u0131n haqlar\u0131na riay\u0259t edin. Bu bar\u0259d\u0259 Allahdan qorxun. Qad\u0131nlar Allah\u0131n siz\u0259 olan \u0259man\u0259tl\u0259ridir\u201d \u2013 buyurmu\u015fdur.<\/p>\n

\"L\u00e2\u0080\u0099image<\/p>\n

Hollandiyada ya\u015fay\u0131b, f\u0259aliyy\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259n siyasi xadim, \u201cAvrasiya\u201d qad\u0131nlar d\u0259rn\u0259yinin s\u0259dri H\u00fcseynqulu xan Qacar\u0131n soyundan olan\u00a0Fatma Akta\u015f<\/strong>\u00a0is\u0259 din faktorunun qad\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 \u015fidd\u0259t\u0259 t\u0259kan verdiyini bildirir.<\/p>\n

– Tarix\u0259n t\u00fcrkl\u0259r qad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015fi b\u0259rab\u0259rliyini \u00f6n\u0259 \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n xalq olublar. \u201cD\u0259d\u0259 Qorqud\u201d dastan\u0131nda da Qan Tural\u0131 qad\u0131n\u0131 ki\u015fid\u0259n \u00fcst\u00fcn tutur. Bu fikir O\u011fuz boylar\u0131n\u0131n ham\u0131s\u0131nda qabar\u0131q t\u0259qdim olunur. \u00c7\u00fcnki ta q\u0259dimd\u0259n biz qad\u0131na \u015fidd\u0259ti l\u0259n\u0259tl\u0259y\u0259n, onu h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u00fcst\u00fcn tutan c\u0259miyy\u0259t say\u0131lm\u0131\u015f\u0131q. \u0130slam dinin\u0259 ke\u00e7id is\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda bir s\u0131ra s\u0259dl\u0259r yarad\u0131b. T\u0259bii ki, yaln\u0131z dini h\u0259d\u0259f g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k do\u011fru olmaz. Amma insan \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n, m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tind\u0259n uzaqla\u015fd\u0131qca, bir s\u0131ra d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rini d\u0259 itirir. Azad t\u00fcrk qad\u0131n\u0131 hicaba b\u00fcr\u00fcn\u0259rs\u0259, t\u0259hsild\u0259n uzaq qal\u0131b erk\u0259n ya\u015fda ail\u0259 qurarsa, h\u00fcquqlar\u0131 da \u0259lind\u0259n al\u0131nar, \u0259traf\u0131 da ona qar\u015f\u0131 \u015fidd\u0259td\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kinm\u0259z. Qan Tural\u0131n\u0131n k\u0259lamlar\u0131n\u0131 bir s\u0131ra dill\u0259r\u0259 t\u0259rc\u00fcm\u0259 edib b\u00fct\u00fcn konfranslar\u0131m\u0131zda s\u0259sl\u0259ndiririk. Bununla \u0259sl t\u00fcrk ki\u015fisinin qad\u0131n\u0131na verdiyi d\u0259y\u0259ri g\u00f6st\u0259ririk.<\/p>\n

D\u00fcnyan\u0131n m\u00fcxt\u0259lif \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 d\u0259rn\u0259yimizl\u0259 birg\u0259 qad\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 \u015fidd\u0259t m\u00f6vzusunda konfranslar t\u0259\u015fkil edirik. \u0130ndiy\u0259d\u0259k bu m\u00f6vzuda 40-dan \u00e7ox layih\u0259miz olub. \u018fsas\u0259n m\u00fcharib\u0259d\u0259 \u015fidd\u0259t g\u00f6r\u0259n qad\u0131nlar, ail\u0259daxili \u015fidd\u0259t, namus v\u0259 \u0259n\u0259n\u0259 p\u0259rd\u0259sin\u0259 b\u00fcr\u00fcn\u0259n zorak\u0131l\u0131q, el\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck toplumlarda g\u0259nc q\u0131zlara qar\u015f\u0131 \u015fidd\u0259t m\u00f6vzular\u0131na h\u0259sr etmi\u015fik.<\/p>\n

– Fatma xan\u0131m, b\u0259s bizi q\u0259rb qad\u0131nlar\u0131ndan daha aciz q\u0131lan n\u0259dir?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Holland qad\u0131nlar\u0131 \u015fidd\u0259t\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 daha g\u00fccl\u00fcd\u00fcrl\u0259r. Tabular\u0131 d\u0259f etm\u0259yi bacar\u0131blar. Bizim t\u00fcrk qad\u0131nlar\u0131 is\u0259 ail\u0259, toplum v\u0259 \u0259traf\u0131n q\u0131naq obyektidirl\u0259r. C\u0259miyy\u0259t onlar\u0131 bir \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259y\u0259 sal\u0131b ki, qorxular\u0131ndan t\u0259rp\u0259n\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r. Holland m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259ti bu qada\u011falar\u0131 \u00e7oxdan m\u0259hv edib. Hollandlar bu yolda b\u00f6y\u00fck \u0259m\u0259k s\u0259rf edibl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki Avropada da tarix\u0259n qad\u0131nlar\u0131 gah cadug\u0259r kimi ocaqda yand\u0131r\u0131blar, gah da h\u00fcquqlar\u0131n\u0131 q\u0131s\u0131tlay\u0131b t\u0259hsil alma\u011fa icaz\u0259 verm\u0259yibl\u0259r. Bizs\u0259 \u0259ksin\u0259 olduqca tolerant xalq olmu\u015fuq. Etnik v\u0259 dini t\u0259sirl\u0259r mental d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rimiz d\u0259yi\u015fib. N\u0259 yaz\u0131q ki, v\u0259t\u0259nimizd\u0259 bu g\u00fcn qad\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 \u015fidd\u0259t susmur. Hesab edir\u0259m ki, titr\u0259yib \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259liyik. D\u00f6vl\u0259t qad\u0131na sosial haqq v\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259k verm\u0259lidir. Q\u0259rb bu s\u0259ddl\u0259ri d\u0259f edib. Qad\u0131n\u0131na sahib \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. El\u0259 bilm\u0259yin ki, \u015fidd\u0259t g\u00f6r\u0259n yaln\u0131z savads\u0131z qad\u0131nlard\u0131r. H\u0259tta elm xadiml\u0259ri, g\u00fccl\u00fc karyeras\u0131 olan qad\u0131nlar da zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa m\u0259ruz qal\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

– Avropada ya\u015fayan \u015f\u0259rq qad\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131n durumu bu g\u00fcn n\u0259 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 \u00fcr\u0259ka\u00e7and\u0131r?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– V\u0259qfimizd\u0259 sosial m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259txana f\u0259aliyy\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rir. H\u0259r g\u00fcn s\u0259h\u0259r saat 9-12 aras\u0131 \u015fidd\u0259t g\u00f6r\u0259n, maddi t\u0259minats\u0131zl\u0131qdan \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n qad\u0131nlar biz\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t edirl\u0259r. \u018flimizd\u0259n g\u0259ldiyi q\u0259d\u0259r h\u0259m maddi h\u0259m d\u0259 h\u00fcquqi yard\u0131m g\u00f6st\u0259ririk. \u0130ki h\u0259ft\u0259 \u00f6nc\u0259 biz\u0259 k\u00fcrd q\u0131z m\u00fcraci\u0259t etmi\u015fdi. \u018fsl\u0259n T\u00fcrkiy\u0259nin Elaz\u0131\u011f b\u00f6lg\u0259sind\u0259ndir, Hollandiyada ya\u015fay\u0131r. H\u0259m valideynl\u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n \u015fidd\u0259t\u0259 m\u0259ruz qal\u0131b, h\u0259m d\u0259 zorla evl\u0259ndirilib. \u0130ndi iki \u00f6vlad\u0131 var. Valideynl\u0259ri miraslar\u0131n\u0131 b\u00f6l\u0259nd\u0259 onu n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alm\u0131rlar. \u00c7\u00fcnki q\u0131z \u00f6vlad\u0131d\u0131r. Bir yandan da h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n fiziki i\u015fg\u0259nc\u0259y\u0259 u\u011fray\u0131r. Valideynl\u0259r r\u0259sm\u0259n bo\u015fanmas\u0131na da icaz\u0259 vermirl\u0259r ki, namusumuzla oynama. Bax\u0131n, bu g\u00fcn Hollandiya kimi \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 bu hal ba\u015f verirs\u0259, g\u00f6r\u00fcn, \u015f\u0259rqin durumu nec\u0259 ac\u0131nacaql\u0131d\u0131r. Halbuki Atat\u00fcrk t\u00fcrk qad\u0131n\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015f tac\u0131 etmi\u015fdi, ilk feminist konqresinin \u0259sas\u0131n\u0131 da o qoymu\u015fdu. Bu bax\u0131mdan analar yumruq olmal\u0131d\u0131r. O\u011fullar\u0131n\u0131 f\u0259rqli \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259l\u0259ndirm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Ail\u0259d\u0259 b\u0259rab\u0259rlik daha t\u0259miz, daha rahat d\u00fcnya dem\u0259kdir.<\/p>\n

\"\u00d0\u009f\u00d0\u00be\u00d1\u0085\u00d0\u00be\u00d0\u00b6\u00d0\u00b5\u00d0\u00b5<\/p>\n

\u0130lin bir g\u00fcn\u00fc biz qad\u0131nlar\u0131 do\u011fdu\u011fumuz ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259n qoruyan tarix kimi qeyd olunur. 1999-cu il BMT-nin Ba\u015f Assambleyas\u0131 25 noyabr\u0131nda qad\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 \u015fidd\u0259tl\u0259 m\u00fcbariz\u0259 g\u00fcn\u00fc elan edir. H\u0259min tarix BMT t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n t\u0259sad\u00fcfi se\u00e7ilm\u0259mi\u015fdi. \u00c7\u00fcnki 1961-ci ilin 25 noyabr\u0131nda Dominikan Respublikas\u0131n\u0131n diktatoru Rafael Truxilyonun \u0259mri il\u0259 siyasi f\u0259allardan olan Mirabal bac\u0131lar\u0131 v\u0259h\u015fic\u0259sin\u0259 q\u0259tl\u0259 yetirilmi\u015fdil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

O vaxtdan b\u0259ri a\u011f lent qad\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 h\u0259r c\u00fcr \u015fidd\u0259tl\u0259 m\u00fcbariz\u0259nin simvolu say\u0131l\u0131r. Bu c\u0259miyy\u0259t ill\u0259rdir m\u0259ni, anam\u0131, bac\u0131m\u0131 zorak\u0131l\u0131qdan qorumaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn hans\u0131 yollara \u0259l atmay\u0131b ki?! Amma beynimizi yey\u0259n kar u\u011fultu susmur ki, susmur.<\/p>\n

Qad\u0131n zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fna qar\u015f\u0131 diqq\u0259t\u00e7\u0259k\u0259n kampaniyalar\u0131n biri d\u0259 2016-c\u0131 ild\u0259 feysbukda yarand\u0131. Bu kampaniyan\u0131n \u0259sas m\u0259qs\u0259di ail\u0259daxili \u015fidd\u0259t\u0259 m\u0259ruz qalan qad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 diqq\u0259t \u00e7\u0259km\u0259k idi. Ovcunun i\u00e7\u0259risin\u0259 qara n\u00f6qt\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kib sosial hesab\u0131nda payla\u015fan qad\u0131nlar ciddi t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259 il\u0259 \u00fcz-\u00fcz\u0259 olduqlar\u0131n\u0131 bildirir, v\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k ist\u0259yirdil\u0259r. Lakin bu m\u0259lumat kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r gizli saxlan\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131 ki, h\u0259mcinsl\u0259rim ikiqat t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259 il\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmas\u0131nlar. El\u0259 ilk sutka \u0259rzind\u0259 d\u00fcnyan\u0131n h\u0259r n\u00f6qt\u0259sind\u0259n 6000 qad\u0131n ovcunda qara n\u00f6qt\u0259 il\u0259 \u015f\u0259kil payla\u015fd\u0131. H\u00fcquq m\u00fchafiz\u0259 orqanlar\u0131na x\u0259b\u0259r verildi.<\/p>\n

\"\u00d0\u009a\u00d0\u00b0\u00d1\u0080\u00d1\u0082\u00d0\u00b8\u00d0\u00bd\u00d0\u00ba\u00d0\u00b8<\/p>\n

H\u0259min kampaniyan\u0131n t\u0259\u015fkilat\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131ndan biri olan \u201cFemmes et F\u00e9ministes Insoumises\u201d adl\u0131 r\u0259smi s\u0259hif\u0259 il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259 saxlad\u0131m. T\u0259\u015fkilat\u0131n yarad\u0131c\u0131s\u0131\u00a0Kristin<\/strong>\u00a0bildirdi ki, bu g\u00fcn d\u00fcnyan\u0131n h\u0259r yerind\u0259 oldu\u011fu kimi Fransada da qad\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 zorak\u0131l\u0131q hallar\u0131 susmur.<\/p>\n

– D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m ki, 1980-ci ild\u0259n sonra do\u011fulan qad\u0131nlar daha azad ruhludurlar. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n m\u0259n anama baxanda, c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259n daha b\u00f6y\u00fck asl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n, t\u0259k qalmaq qorxusunun y\u00fcks\u0259k h\u0259dd\u0259 oldu\u011funun \u015fahidi oluram. Sanki anamla eyni ill\u0259rd\u0259 do\u011fulan qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z \u015fidd\u0259t\u0259 daha d\u00f6z\u00fcml\u00fc yana\u015f\u0131rlar. \u0130\u015fd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131lmaq qorxusu bel\u0259 onlarda daha g\u00fccl\u00fcd\u00fcr. Lakin m\u0259n qad\u0131n\u0131n ist\u0259nil\u0259n \u0259dal\u0259tsizlikd\u0259n daha g\u00fccl\u00fc oldu\u011funa \u0259min\u0259m. Onlar\u0131 tam m\u00fcst\u0259qil etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zda h\u0259l\u0259 \u00e7ox i\u015f var m\u0259n bir feminist kimi bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn az da olsa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131ram.<\/p>\n

H\u0259ms\u00f6hb\u0259timd\u0259n f\u0259rqli olaraq m\u0259n feminist deyil\u0259m. \u00dcz\u0259rim\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259diyim b\u00f6y\u00fck m\u0259suliyy\u0259ti var, amma m\u0259n qad\u0131n\u0131n t\u00fck\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259n g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u0259 inan\u0131ram v\u0259 bel\u0259 tez t\u0259slim olub, c\u0259hal\u0259t\u0259 s\u00fcr\u00fckl\u0259nm\u0259yini ist\u0259mir\u0259m.<\/p>\n

– B\u0259s \u0259slind\u0259 feminizm n\u0259dir?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– S\u00f6z\u00fcn k\u00f6k\u00fc \u201cfemina\u201d lat\u0131n dilind\u0259 qad\u0131n dem\u0259kdir. Feminizm termini publisistikada ilk d\u0259f\u0259 XIX \u0259srin sonlar\u0131nda yaran\u0131b. El\u0259 o vaxtdan \u201cki\u015filik\u201d anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 il\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131, \u201cfemminlik\u201d d\u0259 istifad\u0259 edilm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flan\u0131b. XX \u0259srin \u0259vv\u0259ll\u0259rind\u0259 bu c\u0259r\u0259yan daha geni\u015f v\u00fcs\u0259t alaraq \u00f6z se\u00e7ki h\u00fcquqlar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259l\u0259b ed\u0259n qad\u0131nlara aid olunma\u011fa ba\u015flan\u0131b. Avropa qad\u0131n\u0131 var g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6z se\u00e7ki h\u00fcquqlar\u0131 u\u011frunda m\u00fcbariz\u0259y\u0259 h\u0259sr edib. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, \u0130taliya \u00f6z qad\u0131n\u0131na s\u0259sverm\u0259 h\u00fcququnu 1948, Fransa is\u0259 1951-ci ild\u0259 verib. Az\u0259rbaycan xan\u0131m\u0131 is\u0259 bildiyimiz kimi, 1918-ci ild\u0259n b\u0259ri s\u0259sverm\u0259 h\u00fcququndan yararlan\u0131r. Maraql\u0131 t\u0259zad… Dem\u0259k ki, Avropan\u0131n m\u0259rk\u0259zind\u0259 qad\u0131nlar \u00f6zl\u0259rini s\u00fcbut etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fcbariz\u0259 aparark\u0259n, Az\u0259rbaycan xan\u0131m\u0131 art\u0131q c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 layiqli yerini tuturdu. H\u0259tta yax\u0131nlarda bir fakt oxudum, g\u00fcn\u00fc bu g\u00fcn qad\u0131nlar\u0131 \u0259n \u00e7ox zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa m\u0259ruz qalan \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259r siyah\u0131s\u0131nda ilk s\u0131ralarda \u0130sve\u00e7in d\u0259 ad\u0131 var. T\u0259nb\u0259llik el\u0259m\u0259yib, bir ne\u00e7\u0259 isve\u00e7li xan\u0131mla \u0259laq\u0259 saxlad\u0131m. Ham\u0131s\u0131 da fakt\u0131 t\u0259sdiql\u0259dil\u0259r. Y\u0259ni cinsi b\u0259rab\u0259rliyi el\u0259 ka\u011f\u0131z \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 qalan Avropada h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 qad\u0131nlar t\u0259cav\u00fcz\u0259 u\u011fray\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\"\u00d0\u009a\u00d0\u00b0\u00d1\u0080\u00d1\u0082\u00d0\u00b8\u00d0\u00bd\u00d0\u00ba\u00d0\u00b8<\/p>\n

Feminizimin ilk cizgil\u0259ri q\u0259dim d\u00f6vr\u0259 gedib \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. Antik yunan alimi Platon \u201cD\u00f6vl\u0259t\u201d \u0259s\u0259rind\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n da hakimiyy\u0259t\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259yind\u0259 bir q\u00fcsur g\u00f6rm\u00fcrd\u00fc. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fc ki, qad\u0131n kifay\u0259t g\u0259d\u0259r m\u00fcdrik v\u0259 savadl\u0131d\u0131rsa, dem\u0259k h\u00fcquqlar\u0131 da ki\u015fi il\u0259 b\u0259rab\u0259r olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Planetin ilk feminist qad\u0131n\u0131, ki\u015fil\u0259rin qat\u0131 d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259ni XVIII \u0259srd\u0259 ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f Meri Yostonkraft say\u0131l\u0131r. Meri qad\u0131nlar\u0131n azadl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259bli\u011f ed\u0259n \u00e7oxsayl\u0131 \u0259s\u0259rl\u0259rin m\u00fc\u0259llifidir. \u018fn qalmaqall\u0131 fikri is\u0259 \u201cQad\u0131nlar \u00f6z talel\u0259ril\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 s\u0259rb\u0259st q\u0259rar ver\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r\u201d olmu\u015fdu. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 xan\u0131m Yonstonkraft d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 t\u0259zyiql\u0259r\u0259 m\u0259ruz qalm\u0131\u015fd\u0131.<\/p>\n

Feministl\u0259rin ikinci dal\u011fas\u0131 sahil\u0259 daha s\u0259rt \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131ld\u0131. XX \u0259srin ortalar\u0131nda s\u0259sverm\u0259 h\u00fcququ qazanan qad\u0131nlar indi d\u0259 siyas\u0259td\u0259 yax\u0131ndan i\u015ftirak etm\u0259k ist\u0259kl\u0259rini dil\u0259 g\u0259tirir, bununla da kifay\u0259tl\u0259nm\u0259yib, n\u00fcmayi\u015fl\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131rd\u0131lar.<\/p>\n

Bel\u0259c\u0259 zaman \u00f6z axar\u0131 il\u0259 \u00f6t\u00fcb ke\u00e7ir, t\u0259qvimin yarpaqlar\u0131 x\u0259zan yeli kimi yer\u0259 s\u0259p\u0259l\u0259nir, amma qad\u0131n h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc s\u00fcbut etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. H\u0259tta h\u00fcrr h\u0259yat\u0131na h\u0259s\u0259dl\u0259 baxd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z Avropa qad\u0131n\u0131na bel\u0259, ki\u015fil\u0259r- \u201cdirijor olmaq s\u0259nin i\u015fin deyil\u201d- deyib, \u00f6zg\u00fcv\u0259nini sars\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\"U\u00c5\u009fa\u00c4\u009f\u00c4\u00b1n\u00c4\u00b1za<\/p>\n

Frans\u0131z pedaqoq,\u00a0\u00dcget Roz<\/strong>\u00a0is\u0259 qeyd edir ki, daxili azadl\u0131\u011f\u0131 he\u00e7 d\u0259 g\u0259nc xan\u0131mlardan geri qalm\u0131r.<\/p>\n

– Biz azad c\u0259miyy\u0259tin insanlar\u0131y\u0131q. M\u0259n uzun ill\u0259rdir, t\u0259k ya\u015fay\u0131ram. 56 ya\u015fl\u0131 o\u011flumu da t\u0259k d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirmi\u015f\u0259m. Do\u011frudur, o vaxtlar Fransada da ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri daha s\u0259rt idi. Sevdiyim insan\u0131n anas\u0131 m\u0259ni o\u011fluna layiq bilm\u0259diyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ayr\u0131ld\u0131q. Amma m\u0259n h\u0259min vaxt hamil\u0259 idim. Lakin qad\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fc b\u00fct\u00fcn b\u0259\u015f\u0259r\u0259 yet\u0259c\u0259k q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7oxdur.H\u0259m karyeram\u0131 qurdum, h\u0259m d\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131m\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fctd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n

Bu g\u00fcn Fransa qad\u0131nlar\u0131n h\u00fcquqlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ox y\u00fcks\u0259k d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirir. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n frans\u0131z qanunvericiliyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 qad\u0131nlar\u0131 fahi\u015f\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evirm\u0259k, cinsi istismara c\u0259lb etm\u0259yin \u00e7ox a\u011f\u0131r c\u0259zas\u0131 v\u0259 pul c\u0259rim\u0259si var. Fransa \u00f6lk\u0259y\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259n m\u00fchacir qad\u0131nlar\u0131n da qeydin\u0259 qal\u0131r. Onlar frans\u0131zla evl\u0259n\u0259rl\u0259rs\u0259, ciddi n\u0259zar\u0259td\u0259 olurlar. \u00c7\u00fcnki b\u0259z\u0259n qad\u0131n bunu \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 ya\u015famaq m\u0259qs\u0259dil\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. Bununla bel\u0259 \u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n \u015fidd\u0259t \u0259 m\u0259ruz qalar. Qad\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259sizliyini s\u0131\u011fortalamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn polisin onlar\u0131 daimi n\u0259zar\u0259td\u0259 saxlamaq h\u00fcququ var.<\/p>\n

Fransada qad\u0131nla ki\u015fi b\u0259rab\u0259rliyi adl\u0131 qanun var, v\u0259 he\u00e7 kimin bu qanunu pozma\u011fa haqq\u0131 yoxdur.<\/p>\n

Fransa-Az\u0259rbaycan Dialoqu Assosiasiyas\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259dri\u00a0G\u00fcnel S\u0259f\u0259rova<\/strong>\u00a0is\u0259 art\u0131q 10 ildir Fransada ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, v\u0259 bu \u00f6lk\u0259nin qad\u0131na verdiyi b\u00f6y\u00fck d\u0259y\u0259ri vur\u011fulay\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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– Az\u0259rbaycan qad\u0131n\u0131n birinci missiyas\u0131 ana olmaq, \u0259sas m\u0259qs\u0259di is\u0259ail\u0259 qurmaqd\u0131r. Frans\u0131z qad\u0131nlar\u0131 is\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131lar\u0131na bir sual qoyurlar-m\u0259n c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 nec\u0259 yararl\u0131 ola bil\u0259r\u0259m? Onlar m\u00fcst\u0259qil olma\u011f\u0131 sevirl\u0259r. \u00c7ox nadir hallarda evdar qad\u0131nlara rast g\u0259l\u0259 bil\u0259rs\u0259n. Yar\u0131m i\u015f g\u00fcn\u00fc d\u0259 olsa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131b ail\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 yard\u0131m edirl\u0259r. Birg\u0259 ya\u015fayanda da, ail\u0259 quranda da ana olma\u011fa t\u0259l\u0259smirl\u0259r. \u00d6vlad b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259yin m\u0259suliyy\u0259tini daha d\u0259rind\u0259n d\u0259rk edirl\u0259r. Biraz a\u011f\u0131r \u00e7\u0131xsa da Az\u0259rbaycan qad\u0131n\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 daha az d\u0259y\u0259r verir. Amma \u00e7ox sevinir\u0259m ki, \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 d\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259t yax\u015f\u0131ya do\u011fru d\u0259yi\u015fir. Karyera quran qad\u0131nlar\u0131n say\u0131 art\u0131r. Do\u011frudur Az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 qad\u0131na s\u0259sverm\u0259 h\u00fcququ tez verilib, amma frans\u0131z qad\u0131n\u0131 daha azadd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

H\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131m frans\u0131zd\u0131r. M\u0259n\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 b\u0259rab\u0259r h\u00fcquqlu davran\u0131r. H\u0259tta bu hal \u0259vv\u0259ll\u0259r m\u0259ni t\u0259\u0259cc\u00fcbl\u0259ndirirdi. Ev i\u015fl\u0259rini d\u0259 aram\u0131zda b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcr\u00fcr\u00fck. Amma m\u0259n d\u0259 az da olsa az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 qan\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Onun i\u015f h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6z karyeramdan daha \u00fcst\u00fcn tuturam.<\/p>\n

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D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m ki, qad\u0131n h\u00fcquqlar\u0131n\u0131n \u0259n \u00e7ox pozuldu\u011fu qit\u0259 Afrikad\u0131r. Ax\u0131 burada ya\u015fayan m\u00fcxt\u0259lif q\u0259bil\u0259l\u0259r qad\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 h\u0259m fiziki, h\u0259m d\u0259 psixoloji \u015fidd\u0259td\u0259n qa\u00e7\u0131nm\u0131rlar. Bu is\u0259 d\u00fcnyan\u0131n n\u00f6vb\u0259ti qad\u0131n s\u0259si Nigeriyan\u0131n \u0259n m\u0259\u015fhur teleapar\u0131c\u0131s\u0131, s\u0259yyah\u00a0Cina Ehikodi Ojodur.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Xalq\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n mentalitetind\u0259, m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tind\u0259ki k\u00f6hn\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259y\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 qad\u0131n ikinci n\u00f6v insand\u0131r. Bir vaxtlar \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 zorlanan qad\u0131nlar \u00f6zl\u0259ri g\u00fcnahland\u0131r\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131lar. \u0130ndi is\u0259 cinsi t\u0259cav\u00fcz m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259 yolu il\u0259 h\u0259ll edil\u0259n cinay\u0259t i\u015fidir. Lakin ail\u0259daxili i\u015fg\u0259nc\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 g\u00f6z yumulur. Nigeriya h\u00fcquq orqanlar\u0131 bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. H\u0259r g\u00fcn qad\u0131na \u015fidd\u0259t\u0259 daha \u00e7ox insan yox deyir. Bilirsiniz, Afrika qad\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259dd\u0259n \u00e7ox z\u0259hm\u0259tke\u015fdir. Ail\u0259l\u0259rimizin maddi g\u00fcz\u0259ran\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 oldu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bacard\u0131qlar\u0131ndan da ikiqat \u00e7ox i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tind\u0259dirl\u0259r. \u00d6vladlar\u0131na daha yax\u015f\u0131 h\u0259yat verm\u0259k ist\u0259kl\u0259ri, u\u011furlu karyeralar\u0131 h\u0259m mental d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri, h\u0259m d\u0259 k\u00f6hn\u0259 fikirli b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rini susdurur. Lakin bu m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259d\u0259 b\u0259z\u0259n c\u0131l\u0131z m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259timiz qalib g\u0259lir.<\/p>\n

C\u0259miyy\u0259timizin daha bir m\u0259nfi x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259ti d\u0259 odur ki, u\u011furlu qad\u0131nlar\u0131n arxas\u0131nda m\u00fctl\u0259q bir ki\u015fi dayand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r. Niy\u0259? Ax\u0131 biz h\u0259m \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc, h\u0259m d\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259ri sevib qoruya bil\u0259c\u0259k g\u00fccd\u0259yik.<\/p>\n

Uzun ill\u0259r Amerika Birl\u0259\u015fmi\u015f \u015etatlar\u0131nda ya\u015fay\u0131b, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan soyda\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u00a0Nahid\u0259 K\u0259rimli<\/strong>\u00a0qad\u0131na y\u00f6n\u0259l\u0259n zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n savads\u0131z g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259 sonlanaca\u011f\u0131ndan narahatd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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– Qad\u0131n v\u0259 qad\u0131nla \u0259laq\u0259li m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259rin m\u00f6vzulard\u0131r. \u018fslind\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rin, y\u0259ni a\u00e7\u0131qca des\u0259k, qad\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n k\u00f6k\u00fcn\u0259 ens\u0259k, bunun t\u0259m\u0259lind\u0259 bir \u00e7ox problemlerin dayand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u0259 bil\u0259rik. Bu problemler sosial, psixoloji, \u0259n\u0259n\u0259vi, dini, maddi, etnik ve irqi s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n ola bil\u0259r. Eyni zamanda qad\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n yaln\u0131z Az\u0259rbaycan, T\u00fcrkiy\u0259, C\u0259nubi Qafqaz, Orta Asiya, bir s\u00f6zl\u0259 \u0130slam \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yl\u0259m\u0259k do\u011fru olmaz. Bu b\u0259la d\u00fcnyan\u0131n h\u0259r bir inki\u015faf etmi\u015f v\u0259 inki\u015faf etm\u0259kd\u0259 olan \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 var. Buraya ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m AB\u015e, h\u0259m\u00e7inin Avropa kimi co\u011frafiyalar da daxildir. Sad\u0259c\u0259 burada qad\u0131nla \u0259laq\u0259li m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r miqyas\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 dig\u0259r \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 z\u0259if ola bil\u0259r, amma bu \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rin tamam\u0259n qad\u0131n zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan azad olmas\u0131n\u0131 iddia etm\u0259k do\u011fru olmaz. K\u0259nd, vilay\u0259t, q\u0259s\u0259b\u0259, qohumluq \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259ri bel\u0259 buna t\u0259sir ed\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

\u0130qtisadi, dini, t\u0259hsil ve dig\u0259r bu tipli m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r qad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u015fidd\u0259t\u0259 u\u011framas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur. Qad\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259hsild\u0259n uzaq tutulmas\u0131, onun iqtisadi v\u0259 siyasi h\u0259yata t\u0259sirini m\u0259hdudla\u015fd\u0131rmaq, dini yaxud h\u0259r hans\u0131 \u0259n\u0259n\u0259vi oturu\u015fmu\u015f d\u0259y\u0259r v\u0259 meyarlar \u0259sas\u0131nda \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 hakimiyy\u0259t qurmaq onun h\u00fcquqlar\u0131n\u0131 \u0259lind\u0259 almaq dem\u0259kdir. Bu hal onun cinsi t\u0259cav\u00fcz\u00fcn\u0259 d\u0259 yol a\u00e7\u0131r. Bir q\u0131z\u0131n t\u0259hsild\u0259n uzaq tutulmas\u0131 bir insan\u0131n savads\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 dem\u0259kdir. Bu da c\u0259miyy\u0259tin axsamas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olacaq problemin k\u00f6k\u00fcd\u00fcr. Yen\u0259 d\u0259 deyir\u0259m qad\u0131n\u0131n inki\u015faf etmi\u015f \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259 do\u011fulub b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259si fakt\u0131 da onu t\u0259cav\u00fcz t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259sind\u0259n xilas etmir.<\/p>\n

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T\u00fcrkiy\u0259nin m\u0259\u015fhur ara\u015fd\u0131rma\u00e7\u0131 alimi\u00a0Zeyno Baran<\/strong>\u00a0zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa u\u011frayan qad\u0131n qurban yox q\u0259hr\u0259mand\u0131r deyir.<\/p>\n

– Bu g\u00fcn ist\u0259r T\u00fcrkiy\u0259 olsun, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 dig\u0259r Avropa \u00f6lk\u0259si, qad\u0131nlar h\u0259r \u015ferd\u0259 zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa m\u0259ruz qal\u0131r. \u018fsas problem t\u0259rbiy\u0259d\u0259dir. Qanunvericilik sistemind\u0259 qad\u0131nla ki\u015fi b\u0259rab\u0259rliyi bar\u0259d\u0259 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r s\u0259rt qanunlar olsa da u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fclm\u0259sind\u0259 problem ya\u015fan\u0131r. O\u011flan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131na h\u0259r \u015fey m\u00fcbahd\u0131r, b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcb xan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6y\u0259 bil\u0259rs\u0259n, \u0259s\u0259bis\u0259ns\u0259, \u0259l qald\u0131ra bil\u0259rs\u0259n deyilm\u0259si \u015fidd\u0259tin davam\u0131na yol a\u00e7\u0131r. T\u00fcrkiy\u0259d\u0259 d\u0259 ka\u011f\u0131z \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 qad\u0131nlar qorunma alt\u0131ndad\u0131r. Lakin real h\u0259yatda ist\u0259r fiziki, ist\u0259r cinsi, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 psixoloji \u015fidd\u0259t g\u00f6r\u00fcrl\u0259r. \u015eidd\u0259t g\u00f6r\u0259n qad\u0131n ham\u0131dan \u00e7ox \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00fcnahland\u0131r\u0131r. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc qurban kimi hiss edir, v\u0259 geri qalan \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fc d\u0259 bunun \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 in\u015fa edir. D\u0259y\u0259rsiz\u0259m kimi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259y\u0259 qap\u0131l\u0131r. Halbuki o qad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z g\u00fcv\u0259nini b\u0259rpa etm\u0259si, h\u0259m maddi, h\u0259m d\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n aya\u011fa qalxa bilm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bir \u00e7ox \u00fcsullar var. \u015eidd\u0259t fiziki, cinsi yaxud psixoloji d\u0259 olsa onun \u00e7ar\u0259si var. Q\u0131zlar\u0131 h\u0259l\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndan etibar\u0259n daxili g\u00fccl\u0259rini k\u0259\u015ff ed\u0259r\u0259k yeti\u015fdirm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Yeri g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 etiraz etm\u0259k haqq\u0131 oldu\u011funu a\u015f\u0131lamaq vacibdir. H\u0259r \u015fidd\u0259t g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f qad\u0131n psixoloqdan, d\u00f6vl\u0259td\u0259n d\u0259st\u0259k almaq imkan\u0131na malik olmaya bil\u0259r. Bu durumda y\u00fck onu b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u0259n toplumun, \u0259traf\u0131n\u0131n, ail\u0259sinin \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Onun \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc qurban yox q\u0259hr\u0259man kimi hiss etm\u0259sini t\u0259min etm\u0259k yax\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131n borcudur. B\u0259li m\u0259n \u015fidd\u0259t g\u00f6rd\u00fcm, amma daha da g\u00fccl\u0259ndim dem\u0259lidir.<\/p>\n

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B\u0259li, bu g\u00fcn \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 d\u0259 qad\u0131n s\u0131\u011f\u0131naca\u011f\u0131 f\u0259aliyy\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rir. H\u0259min m\u0259kan b\u00f6y\u00fck bir leysan\u0131n sad\u0259c\u0259 bir ne\u00e7\u0259 damc\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ovcunda saxlay\u0131r. H\u0259tta \u201cGo Fund Me\u201d adl\u0131 yeni yarad\u0131lan t\u0259\u015f\u0259bb\u00fcs qrupu da var. Qrupun \u0259sas m\u0259qs\u0259di \u015fidd\u0259t g\u00f6r\u0259n xan\u0131mlar\u0131 bataql\u0131\u011f\u0131n dibind\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xard\u0131b, yaralar\u0131n\u0131 sarmaq, onlar\u0131 d\u0259st\u0259k v\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 \u0259hat\u0259 etm\u0259kdir.<\/em><\/p>\n

M\u0259\u015fhur ki\u015fil\u0259rimiz d\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck plakatlara \u015f\u0259kill\u0259rini h\u0259kk ed\u0259r\u0259k, \u201cqad\u0131n insan\u0131n dostudur\u201d kimi c\u00fcml\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 mesajlar g\u00f6nd\u0259rirl\u0259r.<\/em><\/p>\n

N\u0259 is\u0259… M\u00f6vzu d\u0259rinl\u0259\u015fdikc\u0259, daha b\u00f6y\u00fck qaranl\u0131\u011fa q\u0259rq oluram. Ax\u0131 h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 erm\u0259ni \u0259sirliyind\u0259 ba\u015f\u0131na min bir oyun g\u0259tiril\u0259n, n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r zorlansa da b\u0259kar\u0259ti yaxas\u0131ndan b\u0259rk-b\u0259rk yap\u0131\u015fan \u0259timizd\u0259n, qan\u0131m\u0131zdan dan\u0131\u015fmad\u0131m siz\u0259. M\u0259sumiyy\u0259tini \u015fidd\u0259t udan b\u00fct\u00fcn \u201cM\u018fN\u201dl\u0259rin \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 ovcuma \u00fcr\u0259yim boyda qara n\u00f6qt\u0259 qoyuram. Allah g\u00f6r\u00fcb susmas\u0131n dey\u0259….publika.az<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Bilirsiniz, d\u00fcnyada h\u0259r \u00f6t\u0259n d\u0259qiq\u0259 225 k\u00f6rp\u0259 do\u011fulur. B\u0259s onu da bilirsinizmi ki, h\u0259r \u00f6t\u0259n d\u0259qiq\u0259 bu d\u00fcnyadan do\u011fum \u00fcst\u0259 olan bir ana \u0259ksilir? H\u0259r \u00f6t\u0259n g\u00fcn \u0259rzind\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 do\u011fub, \u00f6z\u00fc q\u00fcrub ed\u0259n analar\u0131n say\u0131 1500-\u0259 \u00e7at\u0131r. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 onlar\u0131n tam yar\u0131s\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu \u00f6l\u00fcm qurtulu\u015f olur. \u201cKi\u015fi\u201d \u201cs\u0131\u011fal\u201d\u0131ndan g\u00f6y\u0259r\u0259n b\u0259d\u0259nini, h\u0259r m\u0259sam\u0259si zorlanm\u0131\u015f g\u00f6yn\u0259y\u0259n qab\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, soyunan yaral\u0131 ruhunu n\u0259m buludlarla sa\u011faltmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn g\u00f6y\u0259 u\u00e7ur. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 d\u00f6y\u00fcb-s\u00f6y\u0259c\u0259k k\u00f6rp\u0259 o\u011flundan, d\u00f6y\u00fcl\u00fcb-s\u00f6y\u00fcl\u0259c\u0259k s\u00fcd qoxulu q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6zl\u0259rinin alovunda yanmaqdan qa\u00e7\u0131r qad\u0131n… Bu g\u00fcn biziml\u0259 eyni havan\u0131 udan, bir torpa\u011fa ayaq basan qad\u0131nlar\u0131n…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":43852,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/khoshonat_20182_zan.jpg",800,450,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/khoshonat_20182_zan.jpg",800,450,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/khoshonat_20182_zan.jpg",800,450,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/khoshonat_20182_zan-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/khoshonat_20182_zan-300x169.jpg",300,169,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/khoshonat_20182_zan.jpg",640,360,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/khoshonat_20182_zan.jpg",800,450,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/khoshonat_20182_zan.jpg",800,450,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/khoshonat_20182_zan-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/khoshonat_20182_zan.jpg",800,450,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Bilirsiniz, d\u00fcnyada h\u0259r \u00f6t\u0259n d\u0259qiq\u0259 225 k\u00f6rp\u0259 do\u011fulur. B\u0259s onu da bilirsinizmi ki, h\u0259r \u00f6t\u0259n d\u0259qiq\u0259 bu d\u00fcnyadan do\u011fum \u00fcst\u0259 olan bir ana \u0259ksilir? H\u0259r \u00f6t\u0259n g\u00fcn \u0259rzind\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 do\u011fub, \u00f6z\u00fc q\u00fcrub ed\u0259n analar\u0131n say\u0131 1500-\u0259 \u00e7at\u0131r. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 onlar\u0131n tam yar\u0131s\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu \u00f6l\u00fcm qurtulu\u015f olur. \u201cKi\u015fi\u201d \u201cs\u0131\u011fal\u201d\u0131ndan g\u00f6y\u0259r\u0259n b\u0259d\u0259nini, h\u0259r m\u0259sam\u0259si zorlanm\u0131\u015f g\u00f6yn\u0259y\u0259n…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43851"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=43851"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43851\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/43852"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=43851"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=43851"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=43851"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}