\u00d6vlad\u0131n\u0131za ayaqqab\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u011flamas\u0131n\u0131 nec\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259tdiyiniz xat\u0131rlay\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131zm\u0131? \u0130lk olaraq, bunu nec\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259yini g\u00f6st\u0259rmi\u015fdiniz, daha sonra \u00f6z\u00fc etm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u015f\u0259rait yaratm\u0131\u015fd\u0131n\u0131z. Bunu etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman onu h\u0259v\u0259sl\u0259ndirib, o da qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda sizi m\u0259mnun etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn daha \u00e7ox c\u0259hdl\u0259r etmi\u015fdir.<\/p>\n
C\u0259sar\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259niz, onu qucaqlaman\u0131z, g\u00fcl\u00fcms\u0259m\u0259yiniz, etdiyi i\u015fl\u0259ri d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirib g\u00f6z\u0259l s\u00f6zl\u0259r dem\u0259yiniz, bunlar h\u0259r biri \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6n\u0259m da\u015f\u0131y\u0131r v\u0259 m\u00fcsb\u0259t davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 formala\u015fd\u0131rmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bir vasit\u0259dir.<\/p>\n
M\u0259nfi davran\u0131\u015flar s\u0259rgil\u0259diyi zaman valideynl\u0259r n\u0259l\u0259r ed\u0259 bil\u0259r?<\/p>\n
– Q\u0131sa bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t d\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131za diqq\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259yinizi k\u0259nara qoyun.<\/p>\n
– Ona aqressiv cavablar verm\u0259yin, dan\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n v\u0259 ya onu azarlamay\u0131n.<\/p>\n
– Onunla g\u00f6z g\u00f6z\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259kd\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kinin.<\/p>\n
– M\u0259nfi davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 sonland\u0131rd\u0131qdan sonra ona bol-bol diqq\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rin.<\/p>\n
Art\u0131q o zaman etdiyi davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n m\u0259nfi oldu\u011funun f\u0259rqin\u0259 varmas\u0131na \u015f\u0259rait yaratm\u0131\u015f olacaqs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n
M\u00fcsb\u0259t davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 formala\u015fd\u0131rmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259l\u0259r ed\u0259 bil\u0259rsiniz?<\/p>\n
Onun sevdiyi bir \u015feyl\u0259rl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131r\u0131n. Hans\u0131sa bir yeni davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 formala\u015fd\u0131rmaq ist\u0259yirsinizs\u0259, qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda sevdiyi bir i\u015fl\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olmas\u0131na icaz\u0259 ver\u0259c\u0259yiniz\u0259 s\u00f6z verin. Misal:<\/p>\n
\u018fvv\u0259l: D\u0259rsl\u0259rini haz\u0131rla<\/p>\n
Sonra: Televizora baxa bil\u0259rs\u0259n.<\/p>\n
\u018fvv\u0259l: Ota\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u0259liq\u0259y\u0259 sal.<\/p>\n
Sonra: Video oyunlar oynaya bil\u0259rs\u0259n.<\/p>\n
\u018fvv\u0259l: S\u00fcd m\u0259hsullar\u0131 i\u00e7.<\/p>\n
Sonra:\u00a0 \u015eokalad yey\u0259 bil\u0259rs\u0259n.<\/p>\n
Unutmay\u0131n ki, verdiyiniz h\u0259r bir v\u0259dl\u0259rinizi yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259lisiniz. \u018fks halda, \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131zda yalan\u0131n t\u0259m\u0259lini qoyacaqs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n
U\u015faqlarda rast g\u0259lin\u0259n m\u0259nfi davran\u0131\u015flardan biri d\u0259 dig\u0259r u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u0259lind\u0259ki oyunca\u011f\u0131 anid\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kib almas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu zaman valideyn: U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u0259lind\u0259ki oyunca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dig\u0259r u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n oyunca\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fdirm\u0259sini s\u00f6yl\u0259m\u0259lidir. Nec\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fdirm\u0259sini is\u0259 ilk \u00f6nc\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fc \u0259yani olaraq g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n
Dig\u0259r bir halda hans\u0131sa davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 formala\u015fd\u0131rmaq ist\u0259yirsinizs\u0259, ilk \u00f6nc\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131za\u00a0 n\u00fcmun\u0259 olun. \u018fg\u0259r \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fczd\u0259 olmayan m\u00fcsb\u0259t davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131zdan g\u00f6zl\u0259yirsinizs\u0259, s\u00f6zl\u00fc olaraq t\u0259l\u0259b etm\u0259yiniz i\u015f\u0259 yaramayacaq. Misal:<\/p>\n
Yalan dan\u0131\u015fmaq he\u00e7 xo\u015f deyil, deyib, ki\u00e7ik d\u0259 olsa \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131z yalan dan\u0131\u015fma\u011f\u0131n\u0131za \u015fahid olacaqsa, \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 s\u0259rgil\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kdir.<\/p>\n
Q\u0131sa olaraq sonda qeyd etm\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m ki, u\u015faqlar a\u011f l\u00f6vh\u0259 olaraq d\u00fcnyaya g\u00f6z a\u00e7\u0131rlar. Orada buraxd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z izl\u0259r, sizin s\u0259n\u0259t \u0259s\u0259rinizdir. D\u0259yi\u015fim\u0259 ilk \u00f6nc\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259n ba\u015flayaq.<\/p>\n
Z\u00fcmr\u00fcd Haqverdiyeva,<\/strong> \u00d6vlad\u0131n\u0131za ayaqqab\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u011flamas\u0131n\u0131 nec\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259tdiyiniz xat\u0131rlay\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131zm\u0131? \u0130lk olaraq, bunu nec\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259yini g\u00f6st\u0259rmi\u015fdiniz, daha sonra \u00f6z\u00fc etm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u015f\u0259rait yaratm\u0131\u015fd\u0131n\u0131z. Bunu etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman onu h\u0259v\u0259sl\u0259ndirib, o da qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda sizi m\u0259mnun etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn daha \u00e7ox c\u0259hdl\u0259r etmi\u015fdir. C\u0259sar\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259niz, onu qucaqlaman\u0131z, g\u00fcl\u00fcms\u0259m\u0259yiniz, etdiyi i\u015fl\u0259ri d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirib g\u00f6z\u0259l s\u00f6zl\u0259r dem\u0259yiniz, bunlar h\u0259r biri \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6n\u0259m da\u015f\u0131y\u0131r v\u0259 m\u00fcsb\u0259t…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":442013,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-442012","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cmiyyt"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t
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