\u00d6vlad\u0131n\u0131za ayaqqab\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u011flamas\u0131n\u0131 nec\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259tdiyiniz xat\u0131rlay\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131zm\u0131? \u0130lk olaraq, bunu nec\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259yini g\u00f6st\u0259rmi\u015fdiniz, daha sonra \u00f6z\u00fc etm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u015f\u0259rait yaratm\u0131\u015fd\u0131n\u0131z. Bunu etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman onu h\u0259v\u0259sl\u0259ndirib, o da qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda sizi m\u0259mnun etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn daha \u00e7ox c\u0259hdl\u0259r etmi\u015fdir.<\/p>\n
C\u0259sar\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259niz, onu qucaqlaman\u0131z, g\u00fcl\u00fcms\u0259m\u0259yiniz, etdiyi i\u015fl\u0259ri d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirib g\u00f6z\u0259l s\u00f6zl\u0259r dem\u0259yiniz, bunlar h\u0259r biri \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6n\u0259m da\u015f\u0131y\u0131r v\u0259 m\u00fcsb\u0259t davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 formala\u015fd\u0131rmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bir vasit\u0259dir.<\/p>\n
M\u0259nfi davran\u0131\u015flar s\u0259rgil\u0259diyi zaman valideynl\u0259r n\u0259l\u0259r ed\u0259 bil\u0259r?<\/p>\n
– Q\u0131sa bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t d\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131za diqq\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259yinizi k\u0259nara qoyun.<\/p>\n
– Ona aqressiv cavablar verm\u0259yin, dan\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n v\u0259 ya onu azarlamay\u0131n.<\/p>\n
– Onunla g\u00f6z g\u00f6z\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259kd\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kinin.<\/p>\n
– M\u0259nfi davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 sonland\u0131rd\u0131qdan sonra ona bol-bol diqq\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rin.<\/p>\n
Art\u0131q o zaman etdiyi davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n m\u0259nfi oldu\u011funun f\u0259rqin\u0259 varmas\u0131na \u015f\u0259rait yaratm\u0131\u015f olacaqs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n
M\u00fcsb\u0259t davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 formala\u015fd\u0131rmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259l\u0259r ed\u0259 bil\u0259rsiniz?<\/p>\n
Onun sevdiyi bir \u015feyl\u0259rl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131r\u0131n. Hans\u0131sa bir yeni davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 formala\u015fd\u0131rmaq ist\u0259yirsinizs\u0259, qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda sevdiyi bir i\u015fl\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olmas\u0131na icaz\u0259 ver\u0259c\u0259yiniz\u0259 s\u00f6z verin. Misal:<\/p>\n
\u018fvv\u0259l: D\u0259rsl\u0259rini haz\u0131rla<\/p>\n
Sonra: Televizora baxa bil\u0259rs\u0259n.<\/p>\n
\u018fvv\u0259l: Ota\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u0259liq\u0259y\u0259 sal.<\/p>\n
Sonra: Video oyunlar oynaya bil\u0259rs\u0259n.<\/p>\n
\u018fvv\u0259l: S\u00fcd m\u0259hsullar\u0131 i\u00e7.<\/p>\n
Sonra:\u00a0 \u015eokalad yey\u0259 bil\u0259rs\u0259n.<\/p>\n
Unutmay\u0131n ki, verdiyiniz h\u0259r bir v\u0259dl\u0259rinizi yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259lisiniz. \u018fks halda, \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131zda yalan\u0131n t\u0259m\u0259lini qoyacaqs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n
U\u015faqlarda rast g\u0259lin\u0259n m\u0259nfi davran\u0131\u015flardan biri d\u0259 dig\u0259r u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u0259lind\u0259ki oyunca\u011f\u0131 anid\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kib almas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu zaman valideyn: U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u0259lind\u0259ki oyunca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dig\u0259r u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n oyunca\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fdirm\u0259sini s\u00f6yl\u0259m\u0259lidir. Nec\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fdirm\u0259sini is\u0259 ilk \u00f6nc\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fc \u0259yani olaraq g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n
Dig\u0259r bir halda hans\u0131sa davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 formala\u015fd\u0131rmaq ist\u0259yirsinizs\u0259, ilk \u00f6nc\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131za\u00a0 n\u00fcmun\u0259 olun. \u018fg\u0259r \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fczd\u0259 olmayan m\u00fcsb\u0259t davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131zdan g\u00f6zl\u0259yirsinizs\u0259, s\u00f6zl\u00fc olaraq t\u0259l\u0259b etm\u0259yiniz i\u015f\u0259 yaramayacaq. Misal:<\/p>\n
Yalan dan\u0131\u015fmaq he\u00e7 xo\u015f deyil, deyib, ki\u00e7ik d\u0259 olsa \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131z yalan dan\u0131\u015fma\u011f\u0131n\u0131za \u015fahid olacaqsa, \u00f6z\u00fc d\u0259 bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 s\u0259rgil\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kdir.<\/p>\n
Q\u0131sa olaraq sonda qeyd etm\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m ki, u\u015faqlar a\u011f l\u00f6vh\u0259 olaraq d\u00fcnyaya g\u00f6z a\u00e7\u0131rlar. Orada buraxd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z izl\u0259r, sizin s\u0259n\u0259t \u0259s\u0259rinizdir. D\u0259yi\u015fim\u0259 ilk \u00f6nc\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259n ba\u015flayaq.<\/p>\n
Z\u00fcmr\u00fcd Haqverdiyeva,<\/strong> \u00d6vlad\u0131n\u0131za ayaqqab\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u011flamas\u0131n\u0131 nec\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259tdiyiniz xat\u0131rlay\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131zm\u0131? \u0130lk olaraq, bunu nec\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259yini g\u00f6st\u0259rmi\u015fdiniz, daha sonra \u00f6z\u00fc etm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u015f\u0259rait yaratm\u0131\u015fd\u0131n\u0131z. Bunu etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman onu h\u0259v\u0259sl\u0259ndirib, o da qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda sizi m\u0259mnun etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn daha \u00e7ox c\u0259hdl\u0259r etmi\u015fdir. C\u0259sar\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259niz, onu qucaqlaman\u0131z, g\u00fcl\u00fcms\u0259m\u0259yiniz, etdiyi i\u015fl\u0259ri d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirib g\u00f6z\u0259l s\u00f6zl\u0259r dem\u0259yiniz, bunlar h\u0259r biri \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6n\u0259m da\u015f\u0131y\u0131r v\u0259 m\u00fcsb\u0259t davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 formala\u015fd\u0131rmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bir vasit\u0259dir. M\u0259nfi davran\u0131\u015flar s\u0259rgil\u0259diyi zaman valideynl\u0259r n\u0259l\u0259r ed\u0259 bil\u0259r? – Q\u0131sa bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t d\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131za diqq\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259yinizi k\u0259nara qoyun. – Ona aqressiv cavablar verm\u0259yin, dan\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n v\u0259 ya onu azarlamay\u0131n. – Onunla…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":442013,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/74c407e2164546279884737991210336405.jpg",975,540,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/74c407e2164546279884737991210336405.jpg",975,540,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/74c407e2164546279884737991210336405.jpg",975,540,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/74c407e2164546279884737991210336405-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/74c407e2164546279884737991210336405-660x365.jpg",660,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/74c407e2164546279884737991210336405-840x465.jpg",640,354,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/74c407e2164546279884737991210336405.jpg",975,540,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/74c407e2164546279884737991210336405.jpg",975,540,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/74c407e2164546279884737991210336405-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/74c407e2164546279884737991210336405.jpg",975,540,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"\u00d6vlad\u0131n\u0131za ayaqqab\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u011flamas\u0131n\u0131 nec\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259tdiyiniz xat\u0131rlay\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131zm\u0131? \u0130lk olaraq, bunu nec\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259yini g\u00f6st\u0259rmi\u015fdiniz, daha sonra \u00f6z\u00fc etm\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u015f\u0259rait yaratm\u0131\u015fd\u0131n\u0131z. 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C\u0259sar\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259niz, onu qucaqlaman\u0131z, g\u00fcl\u00fcms\u0259m\u0259yiniz, etdiyi i\u015fl\u0259ri d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirib g\u00f6z\u0259l s\u00f6zl\u0259r dem\u0259yiniz, bunlar h\u0259r biri \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6n\u0259m da\u015f\u0131y\u0131r v\u0259 m\u00fcsb\u0259t…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/442012"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=442012"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/442012\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/442013"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=442012"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=442012"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=442012"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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