Psixoloqlar hesab edir ki, “qapal\u0131 \u00fcr\u0259k” insan\u0131n u\u011fur qazanmas\u0131na mane olur. B\u0259s “qapal\u0131 \u00fcr\u0259k” n\u0259dir?<\/p>\n
ARANTV.AZ<\/strong> x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, bu, daxili t\u0259ht\u0259l\u015f\u00fcurda insan\u0131n n\u0259yis\u0259 \u00f6z h\u0259yat\u0131nda q\u0259bul etm\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259m\u0259sidir. Sad\u0259 bir misal \u00e7\u0259k\u0259k. \u0130nsanlara bir h\u0259diyy\u0259 ver\u0259nd\u0259 v\u0259 ya n\u0259y\u0259s\u0259 el\u0259-bel\u0259 qonaq ed\u0259nd\u0259, ona t\u0259m\u0259nnas\u0131z xidm\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rirs\u0259n, vahidl\u0259r bunu d\u0259rhal minn\u0259tdarl\u0131qla q\u0259bul edirl\u0259r. Lakin bir \u00e7ox hallarda “Aaa, n\u0259 z\u0259hm\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kirdin?”, “B\u0259sdir!”, “D\u0259ym\u0259z” kimi cavablar e\u015fidirs\u0259n. Daha do\u011frusu, s\u0259n insanlara yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131q edirs\u0259n, onlar is\u0259 s\u0259n\u0259 n\u0259zak\u0259tl\u0259 “T\u0259\u015f\u0259kk\u00fcr” \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 deyirl\u0259r ki, “\u00c7ox sa\u011f ol, amma laz\u0131m deyildi”.<\/p>\n Problem ondad\u0131r ki, biz\u0259 sa\u011flam \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 t\u0259qdim etm\u0259yi \u00f6yr\u0259dibl\u0259r, lakin meyv\u0259nin b\u0259hr\u0259l\u0259rini q\u0259bul etm\u0259k v\u0259 toplama\u011f\u0131 bilmirik. H\u0259tta “\u00c7ox sa\u011f olun” s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 bel\u0259 “Buyurun” deyil, “D\u0259ym\u0259z” dey\u0259 cavab veririk!<\/p>\n Siz n\u0259 edirsiniz?<\/p>\n Daxili v\u0259ziyy\u0259tiniz x\u0131rda m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259r\u0259k d\u00fcnyaya translyasiya edilir. B\u0259s siz kainata n\u0259 \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr v\u0259 sonda n\u0259 qazan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z? \u018fg\u0259r insanlardan elementar, ki\u00e7ik minn\u0259tdarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 q\u0259bul ed\u0259 bilmirsinizs\u0259, onda taleyin h\u0259diyy\u0259l\u0259rini v\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck imkanlar\u0131 nec\u0259 q\u0259bul ed\u0259c\u0259ksiniz? Odur ki, h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131za g\u0259l\u0259n b\u00fct\u00fcn yax\u015f\u0131 \u015feyl\u0259ri q\u0259bul edin. El\u0259 bu g\u00fcnd\u0259n! Siz\u0259 veril\u0259n h\u0259r hans\u0131 h\u0259diyy\u0259l\u0259ri minn\u0259tdarl\u0131qla q\u0259bul edin v\u0259 q\u0259lbinizi yax\u0131nlar\u0131n diqq\u0259t \u0259lam\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 a\u00e7\u0131n.<\/p>\n M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, \u0259g\u0259r ictimai n\u0259qliyyatda siz\u0259 yer veribl\u0259rs\u0259, t\u0259\u015f\u0259kk\u00fcr ifad\u0259si olaraq g\u00fcl\u00fcms\u0259yin. \u015eirniyyata qonaq edirl\u0259rs\u0259, q\u0259bul edin. \u018fg\u0259r siz\u0259 h\u0259diyy\u0259 etm\u0259k ist\u0259yirl\u0259rs\u0259, qoy etsinl\u0259r. “Laz\u0131m deyil” , “Ehtiyac yoxdur” kimi ifad\u0259l\u0259ri leksikonuzdan uzaqla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131n. Ancaq minn\u0259tdarl\u0131q v\u0259 ancaq raz\u0131l\u0131q.<\/p>\n Yadda saxlay\u0131n ki, q\u0259lbiniz h\u0259diyy\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r geni\u015f v\u0259 a\u00e7\u0131q olarsa, d\u00fcnyaya bir o q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr enerjisi yay\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Bu zaman h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131zda g\u00f6zl\u0259nilm\u0259z s\u00fcrprizl\u0259r v\u0259 m\u00f6c\u00fcz\u0259l\u0259r ba\u015f ver\u0259c\u0259k. Siz bir maqnit kimi yeni imkanlar v\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt bir taleyi \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259f \u00e7\u0259km\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flayacaqs\u0131n\u0131z. Ba\u015fl\u0131cas\u0131 h\u0259r yeni do\u011fan g\u00fcn, h\u0259r veril\u0259n yeni \u015fans \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn Allaha \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr edin. Ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z h\u0259r n\u0259f\u0259s\u0259 v\u0259 h\u0259yata g\u00f6r\u0259, h\u0259tta hiss etm\u0259k imtiyazlar\u0131na sahib oldu\u011funuz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr edin. Psixoloqlar \u0259min edir ki, bu sad\u0259 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t \u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcz\u0259 \u00e7ox sayda qap\u0131 a\u00e7acaq v\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131za xeyir-dualar ax\u0131n etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flayacaq!<\/p>\n P.S. Siz\u0259 “T\u0259\u015f\u0259kk\u00fcr edir\u0259m” dey\u0259nd\u0259 g\u00fcl\u00fcms\u0259yin v\u0259 “Buyurun” dem\u0259yi unutmay\u0131n.\u00a0(publika.az)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Psixoloqlar hesab edir ki, “qapal\u0131 \u00fcr\u0259k” insan\u0131n u\u011fur qazanmas\u0131na mane olur. B\u0259s “qapal\u0131 \u00fcr\u0259k” n\u0259dir? ARANTV.AZ x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, bu, daxili t\u0259ht\u0259l\u015f\u00fcurda insan\u0131n n\u0259yis\u0259 \u00f6z h\u0259yat\u0131nda q\u0259bul etm\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259m\u0259sidir. Sad\u0259 bir misal \u00e7\u0259k\u0259k. \u0130nsanlara bir h\u0259diyy\u0259 ver\u0259nd\u0259 v\u0259 ya n\u0259y\u0259s\u0259 el\u0259-bel\u0259 qonaq ed\u0259nd\u0259, ona t\u0259m\u0259nnas\u0131z xidm\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rirs\u0259n, vahidl\u0259r bunu d\u0259rhal minn\u0259tdarl\u0131qla q\u0259bul edirl\u0259r. Lakin bir \u00e7ox hallarda “Aaa, n\u0259 z\u0259hm\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kirdin?”, “B\u0259sdir!”, “D\u0259ym\u0259z” kimi cavablar e\u015fidirs\u0259n. Daha do\u011frusu, s\u0259n insanlara yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131q edirs\u0259n, onlar is\u0259 s\u0259n\u0259 n\u0259zak\u0259tl\u0259 “T\u0259\u015f\u0259kk\u00fcr” \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 deyirl\u0259r ki, “\u00c7ox sa\u011f ol, amma laz\u0131m deyildi”. Problem ondad\u0131r ki, biz\u0259…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":44207,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/730900.jpg",600,450,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/730900.jpg",600,450,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/730900.jpg",600,450,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/730900-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/730900-300x225.jpg",300,225,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/730900.jpg",600,450,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/730900.jpg",600,450,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/730900.jpg",600,450,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/730900-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/730900.jpg",600,450,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Psixoloqlar hesab edir ki, “qapal\u0131 \u00fcr\u0259k” insan\u0131n u\u011fur qazanmas\u0131na mane olur. B\u0259s “qapal\u0131 \u00fcr\u0259k” n\u0259dir? ARANTV.AZ x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, bu, daxili t\u0259ht\u0259l\u015f\u00fcurda insan\u0131n n\u0259yis\u0259 \u00f6z h\u0259yat\u0131nda q\u0259bul etm\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259m\u0259sidir. Sad\u0259 bir misal \u00e7\u0259k\u0259k. \u0130nsanlara bir h\u0259diyy\u0259 ver\u0259nd\u0259 v\u0259 ya n\u0259y\u0259s\u0259 el\u0259-bel\u0259 qonaq ed\u0259nd\u0259, ona t\u0259m\u0259nnas\u0131z xidm\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rirs\u0259n, vahidl\u0259r bunu d\u0259rhal minn\u0259tdarl\u0131qla q\u0259bul edirl\u0259r. 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