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2. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn deyil, etdiyi h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tin pis oldu\u011funu bil\u0259r\u0259k h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t edirsiniz<\/strong>– k\u00f6rp\u0259ni ki\u00e7ik ya\u015flar\u0131ndan pisl\u0259m\u0259k, ona axmaq, bacar\u0131qs\u0131z, u\u011fursuz v\u0259 s.oldu\u011funu dem\u0259k g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 ciddi travmaya s\u0259b\u0259b ola bil\u0259r. Ona etdiyi davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n hans\u0131 s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n yaln\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu ba\u015fa salmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Yanl\u0131\u015f olan davran\u0131\u015fd\u0131, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fc yox. B\u00f6y\u00fck h\u0259yat t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259sin\u0259 sahib insanlar bel\u0259 h\u0259yatlar\u0131nda s\u0259hvl\u0259r\u0259 yol verir, o ki qald\u0131 balaca u\u015faq. S\u0259hv etm\u0259k insana m\u0259xsusdur.<\/p>\n 3. U\u015faq probleml\u0259rini sizinl\u0259 b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr<\/strong>\u00a0– \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131z h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda onu t\u0259nqid etm\u0259d\u0259n, q\u0131namadan dinl\u0259n\u0259c\u0259yinizi v\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k ed\u0259c\u0259yinizi bilir. Onunla etibarl\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qurma\u011f\u0131 bacarm\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z, siz\u0259 g\u00fcv\u0259nir v\u0259 h\u0259r zaman yan\u0131nda oldu\u011funuzu hiss edir.<\/p>\n 4. Siz yax\u015f\u0131 n\u00fcmun\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259lisiniz\u00a0<\/strong>– b\u0259zi valideynl\u0259r \u00e7ox sayda qaydalara riay\u0259t etm\u0259si u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 m\u0259cbur edir, lakin ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259ri bunu etmir. Misal \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 yalan dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn uzun-uzun danlay\u0131b c\u0259zaland\u0131ran amma el\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fc qaba\u011f\u0131nda h\u0259r g\u00fcn yalan dan\u0131\u015fan valideynl\u0259r var. Bel\u0259 halda \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131z sizd\u0259n n\u0259 ibr\u0259t g\u00f6t\u00fcrs\u00fcn? Unutmay\u0131n, u\u015faqlar b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259ri rol modeli olaraq g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fc \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onlar\u0131 kopyalay\u0131r.<\/p>\n 5. U\u015faq b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rin qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131na qalm\u0131r<\/strong>\u00a0– u\u015faq k\u00f6rp\u0259 ya\u015flar\u0131ndan ail\u0259nin dolan\u0131\u015f\u0131q pulunu hardan tapmas\u0131, kommunal x\u0259rcl\u0259ri nec\u0259 \u00f6d\u0259m\u0259si bar\u0259d\u0259 narahat olmamal\u0131d\u0131r. V\u0259 yaxud b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259r\u0259 aid olan m\u0259n\u0259vi probleml\u0259rin y\u00fck\u00fc onun \u00e7iynin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259m\u0259lidir. U\u015faq “u\u015faql\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131” ya\u015famal\u0131d\u0131r. Daha “Atam niy\u0259 anama x\u0259yan\u0259t edir?” , ” G\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n bac\u0131ma ayaqqab\u0131 alma\u011fa pul tapa bil\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259rmi?” kimi suallar\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 d\u0259rd etm\u0259m\u0259lidi. B\u0259lirli bir ya\u015fa q\u0259d\u0259r \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131z h\u0259m maddi h\u0259m m\u0259n\u0259vi olaraq tamam\u0259n sizd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 olur, onun b\u00fct\u00fcn ehtiyaclar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6d\u0259m\u0259k sizin m\u0259suliyy\u0259tinizd\u0259dir. Do\u011fulma\u011f\u0131 o se\u00e7m\u0259yib, bu q\u0259rar\u0131 yeti\u015fkin insanlar olaraq siz vermisiniz. \u018fg\u0259r bu y\u00fck\u00fcn alt\u0131nda qalxa bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259ksinizs\u0259, onu sa\u011flam \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259r alt\u0131nda do\u011fru yeti\u015fdir\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259ksinizs\u0259, d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirib b\u0259db\u0259xt etm\u0259yin.<\/p>\n N\u0259rmin N\u0259rimanova<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u00d6n\u0259mli olan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tirm\u0259k deyil, onu maddi v\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi olaraq sa\u011flam \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259rd\u0259 yeti\u015fdirm\u0259kdir. H\u0259r halda h\u0259r bir valideyn \u00f6mr\u00fcnd\u0259 bir d\u0259f\u0259 bel\u0259 olsa \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 bu sual\u0131 verib: ” M\u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 valideyn\u0259mmi?”. B\u0259z\u0259n psixoloq v\u0259 pedoqlar da bu m\u00f6vzuda fikir ayr\u0131l\u0131qlar\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131rlar. 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