{"id":460965,"date":"2022-04-07T20:39:34","date_gmt":"2022-04-07T17:39:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=460965"},"modified":"2022-04-07T20:39:34","modified_gmt":"2022-04-07T17:39:34","slug":"usaginiza-yox-dem%c9%99yi-bacarin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=460965","title":{"rendered":"U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131za “yox” dem\u0259yi bacar\u0131n"},"content":{"rendered":"
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U\u015faqlar arzular\u0131n\u0131n d\u0259rhal yerin\u0259 yetirilm\u0259sini ist\u0259s\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 valideynl\u0259r bunu h\u0259r zaman ed\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131zla al\u0131\u015f-veri\u015f\u0259 getdiyiniz zaman, m\u00fctl\u0259q n\u0259 is\u0259 onun diqq\u0259tini c\u0259lb ed\u0259c\u0259k. Ona n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r oyuncaq alsan\u0131z da, yen\u0259 d\u0259 daha \u00e7oxunu ist\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k, \u0259lind\u0259kil\u0259rl\u0259 qane olmayacaq. Bu davran\u0131\u015f u\u015faqlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn tamamil\u0259 t\u0259biidir.<\/p>\n

Valideynl\u0259r \u0259ks\u0259r hallarda “yox” dem\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kinirl\u0259r, bunun s\u0259b\u0259bi is\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 sevm\u0259l\u0259ri v\u0259 onlar\u0131 m\u0259mnun etm\u0259k ist\u0259yidir. \u00d6vladlar\u0131na ver\u0259c\u0259yi m\u0259nfi cavab\u0131n m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259\u00a0d\u0259 m\u0259nfi t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259 ehtimal\u0131ndan qorxurlar v\u0259 m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259y\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olmamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 incitm\u0259k v\u0259 ya q\u0259z\u0259bl\u0259ndirm\u0259k ist\u0259mirl\u0259r. Valideynl\u0259rin bu qorxular\u0131 \u00f6zl\u0259rinin u\u015faql\u0131q t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259sind\u0259n qaynaqlan\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Amma ekspertl\u0259r hesab edir ki, valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131na “yox” dem\u0259yi bacarmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Bunun n\u0259 etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r?<\/p>\n

\u0130lk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 situasiyan\u0131 m\u00fczakir\u0259 etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r –\u00a0<\/strong>Ticar\u0259t m\u0259rk\u0259zin\u0259 getm\u0259zd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l b\u0259zi \u015feyl\u0259ri m\u00fczakir\u0259 etm\u0259k \u00e7ox faydal\u0131d\u0131r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, \u201cBu g\u00fcn dostuna ad g\u00fcn\u00fc h\u0259diyy\u0259si almaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn oyuncaq ma\u011fazas\u0131na gedirik. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u0259 is\u0259 yaln\u0131z bir ki\u00e7ik oyuncaq se\u00e7\u0259 bil\u0259rs\u0259n\u201d – dey\u0259 bil\u0259rsiz. Bu, ma\u011fazan\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z hallardan qa\u00e7ma\u011fa b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k ed\u0259 bilm\u0259z, ancaq n\u0259zar\u0259ti sizin \u0259linizd\u0259 saxlaya bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Bir az vaxt qazan\u0131n –\u00a0<\/strong>U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir \u015fey ist\u0259dikd\u0259 d\u0259rhal \u201cyox\u201d dem\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Bel\u0259 bir v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 u\u015faq \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00fccs\u00fcz hiss ed\u0259 v\u0259 q\u0259rar\u0131n\u0131za m\u00fcqavim\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flaya bil\u0259r. \u018fg\u0259r m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259 art\u0131q yaran\u0131bsa, o zaman u\u015fa\u011fa fikirl\u0259rinizi bildirin v\u0259 bu haqda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259c\u0259yinizi deyin.<\/p>\n

\u0130mtina etm\u0259zd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131za onun arzusunu ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcy\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc g\u00f6st\u0259rin. Bel\u0259likl\u0259, ona h\u00f6rm\u0259t etdiyinizi v\u0259 ona \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259t verdiyinizi ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u0259c\u0259kdir. O bilir ki, siz ona qulaq as\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z v\u0259 ist\u0259yini n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 al\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z, lakin \u015f\u0259rait\u00a0 bu ist\u0259yi yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259y\u0259 imkan vermir.<\/p>\n

S\u0259b\u0259bini izah edin –\u00a0<\/strong>M\u0259ntiqli s\u0259b\u0259biniz varsa, u\u015faqlar\u0131n q\u0259rar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131\u00a0 q\u0259bul etm\u0259si asanla\u015facaq. H\u0259tta sad\u0259 izahatlar da k\u00f6m\u0259k ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. \u00d6vlad\u0131n\u0131z ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n \u015far\u0131n\u0131n stula ba\u011fland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcb onu g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259k ist\u0259dikd\u0259, \u201cba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131nd\u0131r, onu ev\u0259 apara bilm\u0259rik\u201d- dey\u0259 bil\u0259rsiniz.<\/p>\n

Alternativ variant t\u0259klif edin –<\/strong>\u00a0Daha m\u0259qbul bir \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 “yox” dem\u0259yin yollar\u0131 var. \u00dc\u00e7 ya\u015fl\u0131 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131z nahardan \u0259vv\u0259l dondurma ist\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 ona alternativ yol t\u0259klif ed\u0259 bil\u0259rsiniz: “\u0130ndi \u015firin bir \u015fey ist\u0259yirs\u0259ns\u0259, alma yem\u0259k daha yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r, dondurma is\u0259 ax\u015fam yem\u0259yind\u0259n sonra\u00a0 olacaq”.<\/p>\n

Aysel Bayramova<\/strong><\/p>\n

(M\u0259nb\u0259: https:\/\/stakanchik.media\/article\/kak-govorit-net-svoemu-rebenku)<\/p>\n

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U\u015faqlar arzular\u0131n\u0131n d\u0259rhal yerin\u0259 yetirilm\u0259sini ist\u0259s\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 valideynl\u0259r bunu h\u0259r zaman ed\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131zla al\u0131\u015f-veri\u015f\u0259 getdiyiniz zaman, m\u00fctl\u0259q n\u0259 is\u0259 onun diqq\u0259tini c\u0259lb ed\u0259c\u0259k. Ona n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r oyuncaq alsan\u0131z da, yen\u0259 d\u0259 daha \u00e7oxunu ist\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k, \u0259lind\u0259kil\u0259rl\u0259 qane olmayacaq. Bu davran\u0131\u015f u\u015faqlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn tamamil\u0259 t\u0259biidir. Valideynl\u0259r \u0259ks\u0259r hallarda “yox” dem\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7\u0259kinirl\u0259r, bunun s\u0259b\u0259bi is\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 sevm\u0259l\u0259ri v\u0259 onlar\u0131 m\u0259mnun etm\u0259k ist\u0259yidir. \u00d6vladlar\u0131na ver\u0259c\u0259yi m\u0259nfi cavab\u0131n m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259\u00a0d\u0259 m\u0259nfi t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259 ehtimal\u0131ndan qorxurlar v\u0259 m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259y\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olmamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 incitm\u0259k v\u0259 ya q\u0259z\u0259bl\u0259ndirm\u0259k ist\u0259mirl\u0259r. Valideynl\u0259rin bu qorxular\u0131 \u00f6zl\u0259rinin u\u015faql\u0131q t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259sind\u0259n qaynaqlan\u0131r. 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