“Sevginin, insan\u0131n ali bir varl\u0131q olmas\u0131na inam\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir m\u00fchitd\u0259 intihar say\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131 t\u0259biidir”.<\/p>\n
Bunu Bakupost.az -a a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda ilahiyyat\u00e7\u0131, Qafqaz M\u00fcs\u0259lmanlar\u0131 \u0130dar\u0259sinin n\u00fcmay\u0259nd\u0259si Hac\u0131 \u015eahin H\u0259s\u0259nli deyib.
\nOnun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, intihar sosial probleml\u0259rd\u0259n daha \u00e7ox h\u0259yata yanl\u0131\u015f bax\u0131\u015f\u0131n, m\u0259n\u0259vi bo\u015flu\u011fun n\u0259tic\u0259sidir:<\/p>\n
“Problemin h\u0259ll yolunu tapmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onun s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rini bilm\u0259k g\u0259r\u0259kdir. S\u0259b\u0259b aradan qald\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131qda problem d\u0259 h\u0259llini tapar. \u0130ntihar ba\u011f\u0131\u015flanmaz v\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck g\u00fcnahlardand\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki onun s\u0259b\u0259bi \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck nem\u0259t olan h\u0259yata qar\u015f\u0131 sayq\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131q v\u0259 na\u015f\u00fck\u00fcrl\u00fckd\u00fcr. Quran da biz\u0259 fundamental bir sual verir: m\u0259g\u0259r insan na\u015f\u00fck\u00fcrl\u00fckd\u0259n ba\u015fqa n\u0259yins\u0259 c\u0259zas\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0259kirmi?<\/p>\n
Bunca f\u00fcrs\u0259t v\u0259 imkanlar\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u0259m\u0259k h\u0259yata v\u0259 bu h\u0259yat\u0131 biz\u0259 b\u0259x\u015f ed\u0259n yaradana qar\u015f\u0131 h\u00f6rm\u0259tsizlikdir. \u00d6z\u00fc d\u0259 h\u0259yatda qalmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn insan\u0131n instinktl\u0259ri var, insan ya\u015fama\u011fa kodla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131l\u0131b. Bu instinkt bir-iki g\u00fcn\u0259 z\u0259ifl\u0259y\u0259 bilm\u0259z, bu, uzun ill\u0259rin n\u0259tic\u0259sidir. H\u0259yat bir an\u0131n i\u00e7ind\u0259 qaralm\u0131r g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259, bu, davaml\u0131 bir prosesdir v\u0259 i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyam\u0131zla \u0259laq\u0259lidir. M\u0259yus olduqca i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyam\u0131z qaral\u0131r, n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 h\u0259yata da maraq itir, \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259n \u00fcmidimiz k\u0259silir, sonda Allaha da inam\u0131m\u0131z aradan gedir. \u0130ntihar bu m\u0259n\u0259vi hal\u0131n fiziki t\u0259zah\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fcr. \u0130ntihar ham\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 borclu bil\u0259n insan\u0131n ham\u0131dan intiqam almaq c\u0259hdidir h\u0259m d\u0259. Y\u0259ni “m\u0259nim q\u0259drimi bilm\u0259dinizs\u0259, m\u0259n d\u0259 \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcml\u0259 sizi c\u0259zaland\u0131raca\u011fam” m\u0259ntiqi”.<\/p>\n
H.\u015eahin bildirib ki, intihar s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259n biri d\u0259 sevgi \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmazl\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r:<\/p>\n
“Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 insanlararas\u0131, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 ail\u0259daxili m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 sevgi \u0259n fundamental d\u0259y\u0259rdir. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf, \u00e7oxlar\u0131 bunu ya anlam\u0131r, ya s\u0259hv anlay\u0131r.<\/p>\n
M\u00fcasir m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259t insanlara n\u0259 a\u015f\u0131lay\u0131r? U\u011fur, z\u0259nginlik v\u0259 \u015f\u00f6hr\u0259t.<\/p>\n
-Ancaq \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn, tez qazan\u0131b, tez m\u0259\u015fhurla\u015fma\u011f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn. Bunlar olmasa, h\u0259yat da yoxdur.<\/p>\n
T\u0259hsil d\u0259, \u0259xlaq da, g\u00f6rk\u0259m d\u0259, h\u0259tta ail\u0259 d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fc \u00f6zl\u00fcy\u00fcnd\u0259 insan\u0131 xo\u015fb\u0259xt ed\u0259n amil kimi deyil, z\u0259nginlik v\u0259 \u015f\u00f6hr\u0259t \u0259ld\u0259 etm\u0259k vasit\u0259si kimi t\u0259bli\u011f olunur. H\u0259m valideynl\u0259r, h\u0259m d\u0259 \u00f6vladlar bu t\u0259bli\u011fat\u0131n qurban\u0131na \u00e7evirilirl\u0259r. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259, ail\u0259l\u0259r da\u011f\u0131l\u0131r, \u00f6vladlar s\u0259hv t\u0259rbiy\u0259 olunur, yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259r s\u0259hv se\u00e7iml\u0259r edir. Sevginin, insan\u0131n ali bir varl\u0131q olmas\u0131na inam\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir m\u00fchitd\u0259 intihar say\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131 t\u0259biidir”.<\/p>\n
\u0130lahiyyat\u00e7\u0131 intihar\u0131n u\u015faqlardan da yan ke\u00e7m\u0259diyini t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259 vur\u011fulay\u0131b:<\/p>\n
“\u018ffsuslar olsun ki, bu m\u0259r\u0259zin qurbanlar\u0131 art\u0131q m\u0259sum u\u015faqlard\u0131r. Onlar\u0131n h\u0259l\u0259 h\u0259yat bar\u0259d\u0259 do\u011fru-d\u00fcr\u00fcst t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcrl\u0259ri bel\u0259 yoxdur. Valideyn d\u0259, m\u0259kt\u0259b d\u0259, \u00fcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn c\u0259miyy\u0259t bu yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259rin h\u0259yat bar\u0259d\u0259 d\u00fczg\u00fcn t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr\u0259 malik olmamas\u0131nda g\u00fcnahkard\u0131r.<\/p>\n
M\u00fcasir g\u0259nc hans\u0131 t\u0259f\u0259kk\u00fcrl\u0259 h\u0259yata q\u0259d\u0259m qoyur?<\/p>\n
– M\u0259n he\u00e7 k\u0259s\u0259 laz\u0131m deyil\u0259m, ham\u0131n\u0131n m\u0259nd\u0259n g\u00f6zl\u0259ntisi var, amma he\u00e7 k\u0259s m\u0259ni e\u015fitm\u0259k ist\u0259mir.
\n\u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc t\u0259nha, laz\u0131ms\u0131z, yaln\u0131z ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6zl\u0259ntisini do\u011frultmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn vasit\u0259 kimi ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u0259n g\u0259nc h\u0259yatda hans\u0131 u\u011fur \u0259ld\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259r?”<\/p>\n
H.\u015eahin u\u011furlu v\u0259 xeyirli \u00f6vlad yeti\u015fdirm\u0259yin m\u00fch\u00fcm yollar\u0131na diqq\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kib:<\/p>\n
“U\u015fa\u011fa ilk ya\u015flar\u0131ndan a\u015f\u0131lanmal\u0131d\u0131r ki, o, h\u0259r bir hal\u0131 il\u0259 ail\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259y\u0259rlidir: “H\u0259yat \u00e7\u0259tindir, s\u0259nin u\u011fur yolun u\u011fursuzluqlardan ke\u00e7ir. Qalxmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn y\u0131x\u0131lacaqsan. N\u0259yis\u0259 se\u00e7\u0259nd\u0259 n\u0259d\u0259ns\u0259 m\u0259hrum olacaqsan. Amma bilm\u0259lis\u0259n ki, s\u0259ni sev\u0259n v\u0259 s\u0259n\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259k ver\u0259n Yaradan\u0131n var. Y\u0131x\u0131landa, ucalanda da onu unutma. O, s\u0259ni sevib dey\u0259 yarad\u0131b, s\u0259n varsansa, art\u0131q sevilirs\u0259n. Onun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn s\u0259nin q\u0259lbin m\u00fch\u00fcmd\u00fcr, h\u0259yatda kim olaca\u011f\u0131n yox. H\u0259yatda b\u00fct\u00fcn pe\u015f\u0259l\u0259r, b\u00fct\u00fcn sah\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n faydalanmaq olar. \u00c7al\u0131\u015f kim olursansa, ol, faydal\u0131 ol. Bu i\u015fd\u0259 d\u0259 ail\u0259n d\u0259, m\u0259kt\u0259b d\u0259, b\u00fct\u00f6vl\u00fckd\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t d\u0259 s\u0259n\u0259 ehtiyac duyacaq. \u0130st\u0259r k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259 s\u00fcp\u00fcr, ist\u0259r d\u0259 nazir ol, s\u0259n h\u0259r bir hal\u0131nla d\u0259y\u0259rli v\u0259 izz\u0259tlis\u0259n”. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 s\u00f6zl\u0259 deyil, \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259 t\u0259sdiql\u0259m\u0259k g\u0259r\u0259kdir”.<\/p>\n
\u0130lahiyyat\u00e7\u0131 \u0259lav\u0259 edib ki, valideyn \u00f6vlad\u0131na n\u00fcmun\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r:<\/p>\n
“Valideyn \u00f6z\u00fc \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr etm\u0259lidir ki, u\u015faq da bunu m\u0259nims\u0259sin. Valideyn ail\u0259d\u0259 bir \u00e7\u0259tinlik yarand\u0131qda dava salmamal\u0131, ail\u0259 da\u011f\u0131tmamal\u0131d\u0131r ki, \u00f6vlad \u00e7\u0259tinliyin \u00f6hd\u0259sind\u0259n g\u0259lm\u0259yin m\u00fcmk\u00fcnl\u00fcy\u00fcn\u0259 inans\u0131n. Valideyn u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fqas\u0131 il\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259 etm\u0259m\u0259li, onu h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 se\u00e7im etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259tm\u0259li, probleml\u0259rini m\u00fcst\u0259qil h\u0259ll etm\u0259y\u0259 t\u0259\u015ffiq etm\u0259lidir. \u018fn ba\u015fl\u0131cas\u0131 da \u00f6vlad\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7\u0259kdiyi \u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259r bar\u0259d\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fmamal\u0131d\u0131r, h\u0259r a\u011f\u0131r durumda t\u0259b\u0259ss\u00fcm etm\u0259yi bacarmal\u0131d\u0131r. B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar ki\u00e7ik g\u00f6r\u00fcns\u0259 d\u0259, insan\u0131n h\u0259yata bax\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 formala\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r v\u0259 onun g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yini m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n edir. \u0130ntihar sosial probleml\u0259rd\u0259n daha \u00e7ox bu amill\u0259rin n\u0259tic\u0259sidir”.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
“Sevginin, insan\u0131n ali bir varl\u0131q olmas\u0131na inam\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir m\u00fchitd\u0259 intihar say\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131 t\u0259biidir”. Bunu Bakupost.az -a a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda ilahiyyat\u00e7\u0131, Qafqaz M\u00fcs\u0259lmanlar\u0131 \u0130dar\u0259sinin n\u00fcmay\u0259nd\u0259si Hac\u0131 \u015eahin H\u0259s\u0259nli deyib. Onun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, intihar sosial probleml\u0259rd\u0259n daha \u00e7ox h\u0259yata yanl\u0131\u015f bax\u0131\u015f\u0131n, m\u0259n\u0259vi bo\u015flu\u011fun n\u0259tic\u0259sidir: “Problemin h\u0259ll yolunu tapmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onun s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rini bilm\u0259k g\u0259r\u0259kdir. S\u0259b\u0259b aradan qald\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131qda problem d\u0259 h\u0259llini tapar. \u0130ntihar ba\u011f\u0131\u015flanmaz v\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fck g\u00fcnahlardand\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki onun s\u0259b\u0259bi \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck nem\u0259t olan h\u0259yata qar\u015f\u0131 sayq\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131q v\u0259 na\u015f\u00fck\u00fcrl\u00fckd\u00fcr. Quran da biz\u0259 fundamental bir sual verir: m\u0259g\u0259r insan na\u015f\u00fck\u00fcrl\u00fckd\u0259n ba\u015fqa n\u0259yins\u0259 c\u0259zas\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0259kirmi? Bunca f\u00fcrs\u0259t…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":473061,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/usaq_81652180588.jpg",649,428,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/usaq_81652180588.jpg",649,428,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/usaq_81652180588.jpg",649,428,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/usaq_81652180588-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/usaq_81652180588-553x365.jpg",553,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/usaq_81652180588.jpg",640,422,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/usaq_81652180588.jpg",649,428,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/usaq_81652180588.jpg",649,428,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/usaq_81652180588-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/usaq_81652180588.jpg",649,428,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"“Sevginin, insan\u0131n ali bir varl\u0131q olmas\u0131na inam\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir m\u00fchitd\u0259 intihar say\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131 t\u0259biidir”. Bunu Bakupost.az -a a\u00e7\u0131qlamas\u0131nda ilahiyyat\u00e7\u0131, Qafqaz M\u00fcs\u0259lmanlar\u0131 \u0130dar\u0259sinin n\u00fcmay\u0259nd\u0259si Hac\u0131 \u015eahin H\u0259s\u0259nli deyib. Onun s\u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, intihar sosial probleml\u0259rd\u0259n daha \u00e7ox h\u0259yata yanl\u0131\u015f bax\u0131\u015f\u0131n, m\u0259n\u0259vi bo\u015flu\u011fun n\u0259tic\u0259sidir: “Problemin h\u0259ll yolunu tapmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onun s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rini bilm\u0259k g\u0259r\u0259kdir. S\u0259b\u0259b aradan qald\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131qda problem d\u0259…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/473060"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=473060"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/473060\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/473061"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=473060"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=473060"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=473060"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}