{"id":475856,"date":"2022-05-18T07:08:08","date_gmt":"2022-05-18T04:08:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=475856"},"modified":"2022-05-18T07:08:08","modified_gmt":"2022-05-18T04:08:08","slug":"qaygidan-m%c9%99hrum-olmasin-qocalar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=475856","title":{"rendered":"Qay\u011f\u0131dan m\u0259hrum olmas\u0131n qocalar!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Bir g\u00fcn h\u0259r k\u0259s m\u00fctl\u0259q biz\u0259 b\u0259x\u015f edil\u0259n bu \u00f6mr\u00fcn son d\u0259ml\u0259rin\u0259 g\u0259lib \u00e7atacaq. \u018fg\u0259r normal, sa\u011flam h\u0259yat t\u0259rzimiz varsa, bu d\u00f6vr\u00fc ya\u015fayacay\u0131q. \u0130st\u0259r q\u0259bul ed\u0259k, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259k v\u0259 ya bu d\u00f6vr biz\u0259 \u00e7ox uzaq g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k kimi g\u00f6r\u00fcns\u00fcn, bu ya\u015fanacaq t\u0259bii hald\u0131r. Bunu n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 al\u0131b empatiya ed\u0259k. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn ki, \u0259traf\u0131n\u0131zda enerjili v\u0259 g\u0259nc insanlar var. Siz is\u0259 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r pozitiv olsan\u0131z da, insanlar\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu h\u0259yat t\u0259rzini ill\u0259r \u00f6nc\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131bs\u0131n\u0131z. B\u0259lk\u0259 onlara uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t bax\u0131b, \u00f6t\u0259n v\u0259 geri d\u00f6nm\u0259si qeyri-m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olan o ill\u0259ri arzulay\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259, ist\u0259kl\u0259rinizi realla\u015fd\u0131ra bilm\u0259diyiniz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, \u201cka\u015f ki l\u0259rl\u0259\u201d ba\u015flayan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259r ax\u0131n\u0131nda bo\u011fulursunuz. Bunlar bir k\u0259nara, h\u0259min zaman hans\u0131 ehtiyaclar\u0131n\u0131z olacaq? \u0130sti geyim, yax\u015f\u0131 yem\u0259k, t\u0259zyiq v\u0259 \u015f\u0259k\u0259r d\u0259rmanlar\u0131?.. Yox, m\u0259nc\u0259, bunlarla bitmir. B\u0259s, s\u0259mimi ail\u0259, gedi\u015f-g\u0259li\u015fli qohum m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri, toy bayramda a\u011fsaqqal, a\u011fbir\u00e7\u0259k kimi yad edilm\u0259k, h\u00f6rm\u0259t, qay\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u0259k nec\u0259? \u018fsas m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 bax budur. \u0130nsan\u0131n birc\u0259 d\u0259f\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu h\u0259yatda, \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn son d\u0259ml\u0259rind\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t g\u00f6rm\u0259si, \u0259l \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 tutulmas\u0131 q\u0259d\u0259r xo\u015f n\u0259 ola bil\u0259r ki? T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, h\u0259r k\u0259s bu xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi ya\u015facaq q\u0259d\u0259r xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmur.<\/p>\n<p>B\u0259zi insanlar sa\u00e7lar\u0131na d\u0259n d\u00fc\u015f\u0259n ya\u015fa g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 onunla maraqlanan, bir ehtiyac\u0131 olan zaman ona k\u00f6m\u0259k ed\u0259c\u0259k \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r\u0259 sahib olmurlar. Bu c\u00fcr insanlar is\u0259 m\u0259cburi \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 qocalar evin\u0259 \u00fcz tuturlar. D\u00fczd\u00fcr, qocalar evind\u0259 onlar s\u0259fal\u0259t i\u00e7\u0259risind\u0259, zindan h\u0259yat\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131rlar, lakin kims\u0259sizliyin y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc i\u00e7ind\u0259 da\u015f\u0131yanlara h\u0259r yer zindan g\u0259l\u0259r..<\/p>\n<p>Bir d\u0259f\u0259, h\u0259l\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 oxuyark\u0259n, sinifimizl\u0259 Novruz bayram\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259til\u0259 \u015eahbuzdak\u0131 Qocalar evini ziyar\u0259t etm\u0259k q\u0259rar\u0131na g\u0259ldik. Sinif r\u0259hb\u0259rimiz onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bayram pay\u0131 haz\u0131rlayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 dedi. Oradak\u0131 qocalar \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259, h\u0259r \u015feyl\u0259 t\u0259min olunmu\u015fdu, amma biz yen\u0259 d\u0259 onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn cib d\u0259smal\u0131, yun corablar, \u015farf, \u015fal v\u0259 penc\u0259kl\u0259r alm\u0131\u015fd\u0131q. H\u0259diyy\u0259l\u0259rimizi d\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcb yola d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fck..<\/p>\n<p>M\u0259kana \u00e7atd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zaman, i\u00e7\u0259riy\u0259 daxil oldu\u011fumuz \u00a0ilk andan q\u0259rib\u0259 bir hiss b\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fc m\u0259ni. Sanki bura sakinl\u0259rinin d\u0259rdl\u0259ri bu divarlara hopmu\u015f, divarlar is\u0259 bu yeni \u00fczl\u0259ri g\u00f6r\u00fcb dil a\u00e7m\u0131\u015fd\u0131lar. \u0130\u00e7\u0259ri ke\u00e7dik, t\u0259xmini 10-15 ya\u015fl\u0131 yana\u015f\u0131 d\u00fcz\u00fcl\u0259n stullarda \u0259yl\u0259\u015fmi\u015fdil\u0259r. Onlardan b\u0259zil\u0259ri k\u00f6vr\u0259k, b\u0259zil\u0259ri is\u0259 q\u00fcrurlu bax\u0131\u015flarla bizi s\u00fczd\u00fcl\u0259r. Daha sonra onlarla \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t\u0259 ke\u00e7ib, aram\u0131zda isti bir m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qurduq.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f6hb\u0259tl\u0259rimizd\u0259n bel\u0259 ayd\u0131n oldu ki, onlar\u0131 buraya g\u0259tir\u0259n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r f\u0259rqlidir. Kimisi bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n s\u00f6z a\u00e7\u0131r, kimisi is\u0259 inand\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bils\u0259 d\u0259, evd\u0259ki s\u0259s- k\u00fcyd\u0259n qa\u00e7\u0131b, buraya sakitlik tapma\u011fa g\u0259ldiyini deyirdi. Lev Tolstoyun dediyi kimi: \u201c Xo\u015fb\u0259xt insanlar bir-birin\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259yir, b\u0259db\u0259xt insanlar is\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259si bir c\u00fcr b\u0259db\u0259xtdir\u201d. Hans\u0131n\u0131 dindirs\u0259n, g\u00f6zl\u0259ri dolur, \u0259ll\u0259ri titr\u0259yirdi. Sanki d\u0259rinl\u0259rd\u0259ki k\u00fcsk\u00fcnl\u00fckl\u0259ri \u00fcz\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131rd\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnki \u015f\u0259raitl\u0259ri n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r m\u00fck\u0259mm\u0259l olsa da, \u00f6z do\u011fmalar\u0131n\u0131n, canlar\u0131ndan bir par\u00e7a olan \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcz d\u00f6nd\u0259rdiyi bu insanlar son iqam\u0259tgahlar\u0131nda- burada bu reall\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u0259rk ed\u0259r\u0259k ya\u015fay\u0131rd\u0131lar.<\/p>\n<p>Bu \u00f6m\u00fcr yolunun ba\u015f\u0131nda olan, h\u0259l\u0259 b\u0259rk\u0259-bo\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259n biz g\u0259ncl\u0259r\u0259 \u0259n t\u0259sir ed\u0259n s\u00f6z orada ill\u0259rdir ya\u015fayan ya\u015fl\u0131 bir n\u0259n\u0259nin s\u00f6zl\u0259ri oldu: \u201c\u00c7ox n\u00fcfuzlu bir universitet bitirdikd\u0259n sonra \u00f6z ist\u0259yiml\u0259, r\u0259hm\u0259tlik h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131mla sev\u0259r\u0259k ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurdum. Daha sonra bitirdiyim universitetd\u0259 i\u015f\u0259 d\u00fcz\u0259ldim. \u00c7ox \u00e7al\u0131\u015fd\u0131m, u\u011furlar\u0131m\u0131 art\u0131rd\u0131m, art\u0131q b\u00fct\u00fcn ist\u0259kl\u0259rim\u0259 nail olurdum. Daha sonra bir \u00f6vlad\u0131m oldu. H\u0259yat\u0131m bel\u0259c\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt davam edirdi. Lakin, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131m\u0131 itirdikd\u0259n sonra t\u0259k o\u011flum da ba\u015fqa \u015f\u0259h\u0259rd\u0259 oxuma\u011fa getdi. Daha geri qay\u0131tmad\u0131. Bu t\u0259nhal\u0131q, s\u0259ssizlik m\u0259ni \u00e7ox s\u0131xd\u0131. Ba\u015f g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcb bura qa\u00e7d\u0131m. \u0130ll\u0259rdir burada ya\u015fay\u0131ram. O\u011flumla is\u0259 \u00e7oxdand\u0131r g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u00fcr\u00fck, bilmir\u0259m sa\u011fd\u0131r yoxsa yox&#8230;\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bu s\u00f6zl\u0259r m\u0259n\u0259 \u00e7ox \u015fey \u00f6yr\u0259tdi. Bu fani d\u00fcnyada he\u00e7 n\u0259y\u0259 etibar olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 kimi, insana qalan t\u0259k \u015fey ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6z\u0259l anlard\u0131r. H\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, h\u0259r an\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n q\u0259drini bilm\u0259liyik v\u0259 unutmamal\u0131y\u0131q ki, bu c\u00fcr qay\u011f\u0131ya ehtiyac\u0131 olan insanlar\u0131n adic\u0259 x\u0259trini soru\u015fmaq bel\u0259 onlar\u0131 nec\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt edir. Bu, bizim insanl\u0131q borcumuzdur.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eairin d\u0259 dediyi kimi:<\/p>\n<p><em>\u018fz\u0259ld\u0259n bel\u0259dir \u00e7\u00fcnki kainat,<br \/>\nCahan daimidir, \u00f6mur amanat.<br \/>\n\u018fld\u0259n-\u0259l\u0259 ke\u00e7ir v\u0259fas\u0131z h\u0259yat,<br \/>\nBiz g\u0259ldi-ged\u0259rik, s\u0259n ya\u015fa, d\u00fcnya!<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Aysel Nuriyeva,<\/strong><br \/>\n<u>NDU-nun Jurnalistika ixtisas\u0131 \u00fczr\u0259 II kurs t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259si<\/u><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bir g\u00fcn h\u0259r k\u0259s m\u00fctl\u0259q biz\u0259 b\u0259x\u015f edil\u0259n bu \u00f6mr\u00fcn son d\u0259ml\u0259rin\u0259 g\u0259lib \u00e7atacaq. \u018fg\u0259r normal, sa\u011flam h\u0259yat t\u0259rzimiz varsa, bu d\u00f6vr\u00fc ya\u015fayacay\u0131q. \u0130st\u0259r q\u0259bul ed\u0259k, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259k v\u0259 ya bu d\u00f6vr biz\u0259 \u00e7ox uzaq g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k kimi g\u00f6r\u00fcns\u00fcn, bu ya\u015fanacaq t\u0259bii hald\u0131r. Bunu n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 al\u0131b empatiya ed\u0259k. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn ki, \u0259traf\u0131n\u0131zda enerjili v\u0259 g\u0259nc insanlar var. Siz is\u0259 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r pozitiv olsan\u0131z da, insanlar\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu h\u0259yat t\u0259rzini ill\u0259r \u00f6nc\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131bs\u0131n\u0131z. B\u0259lk\u0259 onlara uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t bax\u0131b, \u00f6t\u0259n v\u0259 geri d\u00f6nm\u0259si qeyri-m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olan o ill\u0259ri arzulay\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259, ist\u0259kl\u0259rinizi realla\u015fd\u0131ra bilm\u0259diyiniz&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":475857,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/e2a08f2e16527884896268725021031706.jpg",975,540,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/e2a08f2e16527884896268725021031706.jpg",975,540,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/e2a08f2e16527884896268725021031706.jpg",975,540,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/e2a08f2e16527884896268725021031706-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/e2a08f2e16527884896268725021031706-660x365.jpg",660,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/e2a08f2e16527884896268725021031706-840x465.jpg",640,354,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/e2a08f2e16527884896268725021031706.jpg",975,540,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/e2a08f2e16527884896268725021031706.jpg",975,540,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/e2a08f2e16527884896268725021031706-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/e2a08f2e16527884896268725021031706.jpg",975,540,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?cat=1\" rel=\"category\">C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"Bir g\u00fcn h\u0259r k\u0259s m\u00fctl\u0259q biz\u0259 b\u0259x\u015f edil\u0259n bu \u00f6mr\u00fcn son d\u0259ml\u0259rin\u0259 g\u0259lib \u00e7atacaq. \u018fg\u0259r normal, sa\u011flam h\u0259yat t\u0259rzimiz varsa, bu d\u00f6vr\u00fc ya\u015fayacay\u0131q. \u0130st\u0259r q\u0259bul ed\u0259k, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259k v\u0259 ya bu d\u00f6vr biz\u0259 \u00e7ox uzaq g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k kimi g\u00f6r\u00fcns\u00fcn, bu ya\u015fanacaq t\u0259bii hald\u0131r. Bunu n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 al\u0131b empatiya ed\u0259k. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn ki, \u0259traf\u0131n\u0131zda enerjili v\u0259 g\u0259nc insanlar&hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/475856"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=475856"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/475856\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/475857"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=475856"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=475856"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=475856"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}