{"id":476561,"date":"2022-05-19T10:59:17","date_gmt":"2022-05-19T07:59:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=476561"},"modified":"2022-05-19T10:59:17","modified_gmt":"2022-05-19T07:59:17","slug":"normal-seksual-h%c9%99yati-olan-qadinlar-feminizm%c9%99-qosulmur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=476561","title":{"rendered":"\u201cNormal seksual h\u0259yat\u0131 olan qad\u0131nlar feminizm\u0259 qo\u015fulmur\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

ARANTV.AZ\u00a0<\/strong> \u00a0x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, g\u00fcnd\u0259m.az-\u0131n suallar\u0131n\u0131 yaz\u0131\u00e7\u0131, kulturoloq Ayd\u0131n Xan \u018fbilov cavabland\u0131r\u0131b.<\/p>\n

M\u00fcsahib\u0259ni t\u0259qdim edirik.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0Bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t \u00f6nc\u0259 demi\u015fdiniz ki, bo\u015fanan qad\u0131nlardan u\u015faqlar al\u0131n\u0131b internat evl\u0259rin\u0259 verilsin. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259 ciddi t\u0259nqid olundunuz, h\u0259tta sizi t\u0259hqir ed\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259 rast g\u0259lindi. Bu a\u00e7\u0131qlaman\u0131z\u0131n m\u0259ntiqini nec\u0259 izah ed\u0259rdiniz?<\/p>\n

–\u00a0“Space” telekanal\u0131ndak\u0131 “El i\u00e7ind\u0259” verili\u015find\u0259 m\u0259n u\u015faqlardan h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 istifad\u0259 ed\u0259n, y\u0259ni aliment pulunu al\u0131b \u015f\u0259xsi ehtiyaclar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn x\u0259rcl\u0259y\u0259n analar\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutmu\u015fdum. Bel\u0259 analar u\u015faqlar\u0131 n\u0259n\u0259-babas\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131na qoyur, onlar\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259sil\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olmurlar. Ba\u015fqa s\u00f6zl\u0259 ifad\u0259 ets\u0259k, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn manyak, problemli insanlar yeti\u015fdirirl\u0259r. D\u00fcnyan\u0131n h\u0259r yerind\u0259 d\u00f6vl\u0259t konfliktli ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131 al\u0131b internat evl\u0259rin\u0259 verir. D\u00f6vl\u0259t internat evl\u0259rind\u0259ki u\u015faqlar\u0131 h\u0259rbi v\u0259 dig\u0259r g\u00fcc strukturlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yeti\u015fdir\u0259 bil\u0259r. Amma t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259ki peyinba\u015flar m\u0259nim bu m\u00f6vqeyim\u0259 birt\u0259r\u0259fli yana\u015faraq ancaq qad\u0131nlarla ba\u011fl\u0131 dedikl\u0259rimi qabard\u0131blar. \u018fg\u0259r peyinba\u015flar, qoyunba\u015flar m\u0259nim dedikl\u0259rimi anlamay\u0131b t\u0259hqir\u0259 ke\u00e7irl\u0259rs\u0259, onlara cavab verm\u0259k ist\u0259mir\u0259m. Onlar k\u00fct insanlard\u0131r.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0Niy\u0259 bizd\u0259 bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f qad\u0131nlara f\u0259rqli yana\u015fmalar var? N\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn b\u0259zi ki\u015fil\u0259r bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f qad\u0131nlara “sahibsiz xan\u0131m”, “real intim partnyor” g\u00f6z\u00fc il\u0259 bax\u0131rlar?<\/p>\n

–\u00a0Bizd\u0259 h\u0259r zaman qad\u0131nlara b\u00f6y\u00fck d\u0259y\u0259r verilib. Son vaxtlar Avropadan \u00f6lk\u0259miz\u0259 z\u0259r\u0259rli ideologiyalar g\u0259lm\u0259kd\u0259dir. Onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn cins m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259si \u00f6n\u0259m k\u0259sb etmir. H\u0259tta indi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc bir cinsi d\u0259 kimlik s\u0259n\u0259dl\u0259rind\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rirl\u0259r. Bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f qad\u0131nlara “sahibsiz”, “real intim partnyor” g\u00f6z\u00fc il\u0259 baxanlar anlamal\u0131d\u0131rlar ki, onlar\u0131n da ail\u0259sind\u0259, n\u0259slind\u0259 dul qad\u0131nlar var, yaxud sabah onlar\u0131n da q\u0131zlar\u0131 bo\u015fana bil\u0259r. Biz h\u0259r g\u00fcn bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f, m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259ti da\u015fa d\u0259ymi\u015f qad\u0131nlar\u0131n q\u0259tl\u0259 yetirilm\u0259si, d\u00f6y\u00fclm\u0259si, intihar etm\u0259sin\u0259 dair x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259rl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r\u0131q.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0Az\u0259rbaycandak\u0131 feminizm h\u0259r\u0259kat\u0131 il\u0259 Avropadak\u0131 feminizm h\u0259r\u0259kat\u0131 aras\u0131nda n\u0259 kimi f\u0259rql\u0259r var?<\/p>\n

–\u00a0Az\u0259rbaycanda feminizm h\u0259r\u0259kat\u0131 yeni deyil. Bizd\u0259 bu h\u0259r\u0259kat C\u0259f\u0259r Cabbarl\u0131n\u0131n “Sevil” \u0259s\u0259ri il\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131b. Sovet d\u00f6vr\u00fcn\u00fcn sonrak\u0131 ill\u0259rind\u0259 bu h\u0259r\u0259kat daha da geni\u015fl\u0259ndi. Avropa feminizm h\u0259r\u0259kat\u0131 \u0259slind\u0259 mavil\u0259rin v\u0259 lezbiyanlar\u0131n h\u0259r\u0259kat\u0131na cavab olaraq yarand\u0131. Bu h\u0259r\u0259kat sonradan qlobal, siyasi xarakter da\u015f\u0131d\u0131. \u0130ndi bizd\u0259ki feministl\u0259r Avropadak\u0131 feministl\u0259rin \u015f\u00fcarlar\u0131n\u0131 “kopyalay\u0131b” burada s\u0259sl\u0259ndirirl\u0259r. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, bu k\u0259nardan \u00e7ox eyb\u0259c\u0259r g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0B\u0259zi m\u00fc\u015fahid\u0259\u00e7il\u0259r bildirir ki, Az\u0259rbaycanda feminizm t\u0259r\u0259fdar\u0131 olan qad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259tinin \u015f\u0259xsi h\u0259yatlar\u0131nda ciddi probleml\u0259r var v\u0259 onlar n\u00fcmun\u0259 ola bilm\u0259zl\u0259r. Siz bu yana\u015fma il\u0259 raz\u0131s\u0131n\u0131zm\u0131?<\/p>\n

– \u0130st\u0259nil\u0259n h\u0259r\u0259katda \u00fczd\u0259 olan q\u0259hr\u0259manlar\u0131n f\u0259rdi h\u0259yatlar\u0131 problemli olur. Onlar seksual, psixoloji, fiziki probleml\u0259ri olur. Normal ail\u0259si, seksual h\u0259yat\u0131 olan qad\u0131nlar, dem\u0259k olar ki, feminizm\u0259 qo\u015fulmurlar. Avropada feministl\u0259r \u00e7ox savadl\u0131, siyasi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n yetkin insanlar\u0131n aras\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131x\u0131rlar. Bizd\u0259 is\u0259 13-16-17 ya\u015fl\u0131 q\u0131zlar feminizm h\u0259r\u0259kat\u0131na qo\u015fulurlar. \u018fslind\u0259 onlar feminizmin n\u0259 oldu\u011funu anlam\u0131rlar. Onlar\u0131n hans\u0131 d\u00fcnya g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fl\u0259ri var ki, ba\u015fqalar\u0131na \u00f6rn\u0259k olsunlar? Bizd\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n cinsi t\u0259cav\u00fcz\u0259 m\u0259ruz qalm\u0131\u015f qad\u0131nlar sonradan f\u0259al feminist\u0259 \u00e7evrilirl\u0259r. M\u0259n ist\u0259rdim ki, bizd\u0259 feminist xan\u0131mlar intellektual, say\u0131l\u0131b se\u00e7il\u0259n insanlar olsunlar.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0Az\u0259rbaycan c\u0259miyy\u0259ti seksual azadl\u0131\u011fa n\u0259 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 haz\u0131rd\u0131r?<\/p>\n

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–\u00a0Bizd\u0259 seksual azadl\u0131q problemi yoxdur. Biz bu problemi \u00e7oxdan h\u0259ll etmi\u015fik. Ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rin\u0259 zidd olan seksual inqilab h\u0259m d\u0259 bir s\u0131ra probleml\u0259r yaratd\u0131. Seksual azadl\u0131q bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259n biridir. Biz klassik ail\u0259 modelind\u0259n liberal ail\u0259 modelin\u0259 ke\u00e7\u0259 bilm\u0259mi\u015fik.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0Niy\u0259 m\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 bakir\u0259lik axtar\u0131\u015f\u0131nda olan o\u011flanlara gerid\u0259qalm\u0131\u015f\u00a0kimi yana\u015f\u0131rlar?<\/p>\n

–\u00a0Az\u0259rbaycan c\u0259miyy\u0259tind\u0259 m\u00fchafiz\u0259karl\u0131q h\u0259r zaman g\u00fccl\u00fc olub. Bu, milli-m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rimizin t\u0259rkib hiss\u0259sidir. H\u0259r k\u0259sin fikirl\u0259rin\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259tl\u0259 yana\u015fmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Amma bakir\u0259lik m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259sind\u0259 h\u0259ssas olan k\u0259sim\u0259 “\u00e7u\u015fka” kimi baxmaq d\u00fczg\u00fcn deyil. El\u00e7ilik, bakir\u0259lik, yeng\u0259 laz\u0131m deyil, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259sind\u0259 olan g\u0259ncl\u0259r bizim m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rimiz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259hl\u00fck\u0259dir. Bu c\u00fcr liberal d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259li g\u0259ncl\u0259rin say\u0131 bizd\u0259 \u00e7ox azd\u0131r. Onlar m\u00fchafiz\u0259karlara nisb\u0259t\u0259n f\u0259al olsalar da bel\u0259, saylar\u0131, t\u0259r\u0259fdarlar\u0131 azd\u0131r. Bu m\u0259nada yax\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 seksual azadl\u0131q u\u011furunda m\u00fcbariz\u0259 aparan g\u0259ncl\u0259rin q\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 bayra\u011f\u0131 qald\u0131racaqlar\u0131na inanm\u0131ram.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0Ki\u015fi x\u0259yan\u0259ti il\u0259 qad\u0131n x\u0259yan\u0259ti aras\u0131nda f\u0259rql\u0259r varm\u0131? N\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ki\u015fil\u0259rin x\u0259yan\u0259tin\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t normal bax\u0131r, qad\u0131nlar\u0131 x\u0259yan\u0259tin\u0259 is\u0259 yox?<\/p>\n

–\u00a0X\u0259yan\u0259tin cinsi olmur. Qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 k\u00f6lg\u0259 salan \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259r ail\u0259 institutunun da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur. Az\u0259rbaycan kultunda ki\u015fil\u0259rin x\u0259yan\u0259tin\u0259 h\u0259r zaman b\u0259ra\u0259t olub. Tarix\u0259n \u015fahlar, sultanlar, b\u0259yl\u0259r h\u0259r\u0259mxana saxlay\u0131blar. Bizd\u0259 \u00e7oxarvadl\u0131l\u0131q t\u0259kc\u0259 \u0130slamdan g\u0259lmir, bu h\u0259m d\u0259 ki\u015finin g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcn, imkanlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7oxlu\u011fundan x\u0259b\u0259r verir. Bizd\u0259 qad\u0131n \u0259rin\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259nd\u0259 ona ilk \u015fill\u0259ni \u00f6z qarda\u015f\u0131, atas\u0131 vurur. Bunlar reall\u0131qd\u0131r. Bizd\u0259 qad\u0131n x\u0259yan\u0259tin\u0259 b\u0259ra\u0259t yoxdur.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0H\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q a\u00e7\u0131q-sa\u00e7\u0131q filml\u0259r\u0259 baxma\u011f\u0131n insanlara hans\u0131 m\u0259nfi t\u0259sirl\u0259ri var?<\/p>\n

–\u00a0Bu suala psixoloqlar, sekspotoloqlar daha yax\u015f\u0131 cavab ver\u0259 bil\u0259r. Amma d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u0259m ki, as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131q yaradan ist\u0259nil\u0259n z\u0259r\u0259rli v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259r insan psixikas\u0131na m\u0259nfi t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir. D\u00fcnyan\u0131n inki\u015faf etmi\u015f \u00f6lk\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 pornoqrafik, erotik filml\u0259r \u00e7\u0259kilir. Az\u0259rbaycanda pornoqrafik filml\u0259rin istehsal\u0131 v\u0259 yay\u0131m\u0131 qada\u011fand\u0131r. Amma bilirsiniz ki, internetd\u0259 bel\u0259 saytlara daxil olmaq s\u0259rb\u0259stdir v\u0259 bunun qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil. Bu filml\u0259r\u0259 baxmaq olarm\u0131? Bu filml\u0259r\u0259 baxmaq \u0259xlaqs\u0131zl\u0131qd\u0131rm\u0131? Bu filml\u0259r\u0259 baxmaq h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131na x\u0259yan\u0259tdirmi? Bu suallara birm\u0259nal\u0131 cavab verm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil. M\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259r\u0259 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6r\u0259rdim ki, bu c\u00fcr saytlara daxil olmas\u0131nlar. Bel\u0259 filml\u0259r g\u0259ncl\u0259rimizin psixoloji durumuna, seksual h\u0259yat\u0131na \u00e7ox pis t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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