{"id":493767,"date":"2022-07-11T22:25:27","date_gmt":"2022-07-11T19:25:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=493767"},"modified":"2022-07-11T22:25:27","modified_gmt":"2022-07-11T19:25:27","slug":"az%c9%99rbaycanda-bosanmalarin-sok-s%c9%99b%c9%99bi-psixoloq-aciqladi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=493767","title":{"rendered":"Az\u0259rbaycanda bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n \u015eOK S\u018fB\u018fB\u0130 &#8211; Psixoloq a\u00e7\u0131qlad\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>2022-ci ilin yanvar-fevral aylar\u0131nda \u018fdliyy\u0259 Nazirliyinin qeydiyyat \u015f\u00f6b\u0259l\u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n 9606 nikah v\u0259 2505 bo\u015fanma hallar\u0131 qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b.<\/p>\n<p>Bu is\u0259 o dem\u0259kdir ki, d\u00fcnya evin\u0259 gir\u0259n 4 c\u00fctl\u00fckd\u0259n birinin sonradan nikah\u0131 pozulur.<\/p>\n<p>Bu is\u0259 kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r narahat edici faktd\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki ail\u0259 d\u0259 bir d\u00f6vl\u0259tdir. Da\u011f\u0131lan ki\u00e7ik &#8220;d\u00f6vl\u0259tl\u0259r&#8221; sonda b\u00f6y\u00fck d\u00f6vl\u0259tin \u0259saslar\u0131n\u0131 sars\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>N\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alaq ki, \u00e7oxumuz V\u0259t\u0259n \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yox, ail\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6l\u00fcm\u0259 g\u00f6z\u00fc yumulu gedirik. Bu da onu g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, bizl\u0259rd\u0259 ail\u0259 institutunun d\u0259rin k\u00f6kl\u0259ri var. Bu ba\u015fqa c\u00fcr d\u0259 ola bilm\u0259z. \u0130nsan\u0131n h\u0259r zaman u\u011frunda can\u0131ndan bel\u0259 ke\u00e7m\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131r oldu\u011fu n\u0259yis\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0259bii ki, bel\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 ilk yada d\u00fc\u015f\u0259n ail\u0259dir. \u0130nsanlar \u00e7ox zaman ail\u0259sinin rifah\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ictimai fayda verir. Ail\u0259si olmayan insan is\u0259 t\u0259sad\u00fcfl\u0259r\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131r. T\u0259sad\u00fcfl\u0259r\u0259 s\u0131\u011f\u0131nan insansa he\u00e7 zaman v\u0259t\u0259np\u0259rv\u0259r ola bilm\u0259z.<\/p>\n<p>Avropa modeli h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r<\/p>\n<p>T\u0259sad\u00fcfi deyil ki, ail\u0259 institutunun \u00e7ox g\u00fccl\u00fc z\u0259rb\u0259 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 Avropa haz\u0131rda b\u00f6y\u00fck t\u0259lat\u00fcml\u0259r ya\u015fay\u0131r. Ail\u0259 s\u00f6z\u00fc az qal\u0131r ki, avropal\u0131lar\u0131n leksikonundan \u00e7\u0131xs\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>M\u0259hz bunun n\u0259tic\u0259sidir ki, Q\u0259rbd\u0259 \u0259ks\u0259r d\u00f6vl\u0259tl\u0259r m\u00f6vcudluqlar\u0131n\u0131 saxlamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yeni institutlar t\u0259sis edirl\u0259r. Vaxtil\u0259 Avropa \u0130ttifaq\u0131n\u0131n (A\u0130) yarad\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bi Q\u0259rbd\u0259 ail\u0259 institutunun da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131 idi.<\/p>\n<p>Yada salaq ki, A\u0130 \u00f6t\u0259n \u0259srin 90-c\u0131 ill\u0259rind\u0259 yarad\u0131ld\u0131. Bu o zaman idi ki, LGBT, cinsi orientasiyan\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k v\u0259 eyni cinsi il\u0259 evl\u0259nm\u0259k Q\u0259rbd\u0259 d\u0259b\u0259 \u00e7evrilmi\u015fdi. H\u0259l\u0259 gender b\u0259rab\u0259rliyi v\u0259 feminizm c\u0259r\u0259yan\u0131n\u0131 demirik.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ox t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, Avropan\u0131n 30 il \u0259vv\u0259l ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131na biz indi q\u0259d\u0259m qoyuruq. H\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259 cinsi azl\u0131qlara meydan verilir. Cinsini d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k, bo\u015fanmaq, y\u00fcng\u00fcl h\u0259yat ya\u015famaq art\u0131q adil\u0259\u015fir.<\/p>\n<p>Haz\u0131rda \u0259ks\u0259r televiziyalar\u0131n apar\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131 v\u0259 sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259 f\u0259allar\u0131 cinsi azl\u0131\u011f\u0131n n\u00fcmay\u0259nd\u0259si v\u0259 yaxud t\u0259nha qad\u0131nlard\u0131r. Bu da ail\u0259 institutuna z\u0259rb\u0259 vuran b\u00f6y\u00fck faktordur. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 bo\u015fanmaya maraq getdikc\u0259 art\u0131r. B\u0259zi insanlar bo\u015fanman\u0131 qurtulu\u015f, nicat yolu kimi g\u00f6r\u00fcrl\u0259r. \u018fslind\u0259 is\u0259 bo\u015fanma \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 halda f\u0259rarilikdir. Pis halda is\u0259 yung\u00fcl h\u0259yat t\u0259rzin\u0259 qa\u00e7\u0131\u015fd\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 Bizim.Media il\u0259 fikirl\u0259rini b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u0259n psixoloq G\u00fclnar\u0259 Abuz\u0259rova bildirib ki, bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n bir s\u0259b\u0259bi ail\u0259d\u0259n g\u0259lir:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;\u00c7\u00fcnki h\u0259r insan b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcy\u00fc ail\u0259d\u0259n qidalanaraq formala\u015f\u0131r. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 yeni ail\u0259 quran h\u0259r bir g\u0259ncin fikrind\u0259 konkret ail\u0259 modeli olur. Bo\u015fanmaya ikinci s\u0259b\u0259b is\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 olan sosial basq\u0131d\u0131r. Ail\u0259l\u0259r indi ke\u00e7mi\u015f d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rd\u0259n daha \u00e7ox m\u00fcasir \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131\u015flara s\u00f6yk\u0259nirl\u0259r. Bu da t\u0259hsild\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130ndi diplomlu g\u0259ncl\u0259rimiz daha \u00e7ox olsa da, onlar\u0131n \u00e7oxu savads\u0131zd\u0131r. Savads\u0131z insan is\u0259 t\u0259sir alt\u0131na daha tez d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. \u00c7\u00fcnki savads\u0131z insan\u0131n \u00f6z m\u0259ntiqi olmur. O reall\u0131qlar\u0131 d\u00fczg\u00fcn qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndir\u0259 bilmir. Buna sad\u0259c\u0259, savad\u0131 \u00e7atm\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Savads\u0131z insanlar valideynl\u0259rind\u0259n, dostlar\u0131ndan daha \u00e7ox sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 inan\u0131rlar. \u0130ndi b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u0259nclik sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259 \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 oturub. Sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259kl\u0259r, x\u00fcsus\u0259n d\u0259 TikTok g\u0259ncl\u0259r\u0259 y\u00fcng\u00fcl h\u0259yat t\u0259rzini a\u015f\u0131lay\u0131r. Y\u00fcng\u00fcl h\u0259yat t\u0259rzi ke\u00e7ir\u0259n insanlarda is\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259t hissi olmur. Bu is\u0259 art\u0131q savads\u0131zl\u0131q yox, nadanl\u0131qd\u0131r&#8221;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>2022-ci ilin yanvar-fevral aylar\u0131nda \u018fdliyy\u0259 Nazirliyinin qeydiyyat \u015f\u00f6b\u0259l\u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n 9606 nikah v\u0259 2505 bo\u015fanma hallar\u0131 qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. Bu is\u0259 o dem\u0259kdir ki, d\u00fcnya evin\u0259 gir\u0259n 4 c\u00fctl\u00fckd\u0259n birinin sonradan nikah\u0131 pozulur. Bu is\u0259 kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r narahat edici faktd\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki ail\u0259 d\u0259 bir d\u00f6vl\u0259tdir. Da\u011f\u0131lan ki\u00e7ik &#8220;d\u00f6vl\u0259tl\u0259r&#8221; sonda b\u00f6y\u00fck d\u00f6vl\u0259tin \u0259saslar\u0131n\u0131 sars\u0131d\u0131r. N\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alaq ki, \u00e7oxumuz V\u0259t\u0259n \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yox, ail\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6l\u00fcm\u0259 g\u00f6z\u00fc yumulu gedirik. Bu da onu g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, bizl\u0259rd\u0259 ail\u0259 institutunun d\u0259rin k\u00f6kl\u0259ri var. Bu ba\u015fqa c\u00fcr d\u0259 ola bilm\u0259z. \u0130nsan\u0131n h\u0259r zaman u\u011frunda can\u0131ndan bel\u0259 ke\u00e7m\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131r oldu\u011fu&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":493768,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/bosanma_001.jpg",640,400,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/bosanma_001.jpg",640,400,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/bosanma_001.jpg",640,400,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/bosanma_001-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/bosanma_001-584x365.jpg",584,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/bosanma_001.jpg",640,400,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/bosanma_001.jpg",640,400,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/bosanma_001.jpg",640,400,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/bosanma_001-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/bosanma_001.jpg",640,400,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?cat=1\" rel=\"category\">C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"2022-ci ilin yanvar-fevral aylar\u0131nda \u018fdliyy\u0259 Nazirliyinin qeydiyyat \u015f\u00f6b\u0259l\u0259ri t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n 9606 nikah v\u0259 2505 bo\u015fanma hallar\u0131 qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. Bu is\u0259 o dem\u0259kdir ki, d\u00fcnya evin\u0259 gir\u0259n 4 c\u00fctl\u00fckd\u0259n birinin sonradan nikah\u0131 pozulur. Bu is\u0259 kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r narahat edici faktd\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki ail\u0259 d\u0259 bir d\u00f6vl\u0259tdir. Da\u011f\u0131lan ki\u00e7ik &#8220;d\u00f6vl\u0259tl\u0259r&#8221; sonda b\u00f6y\u00fck d\u00f6vl\u0259tin \u0259saslar\u0131n\u0131 sars\u0131d\u0131r. N\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alaq ki, \u00e7oxumuz&hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/493767"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=493767"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/493767\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/493768"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=493767"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=493767"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=493767"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}