{"id":497101,"date":"2022-07-22T08:09:09","date_gmt":"2022-07-22T05:09:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=497101"},"modified":"2022-07-22T08:09:09","modified_gmt":"2022-07-22T05:09:09","slug":"ovcusuna-vurulan-qurbanlar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=497101","title":{"rendered":"Ov\u00e7usuna vurulan qurbanlar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>M\u0259n \u015f\u0259h\u0259rl\u0259rin ruhuna, xarakterin\u0259, h\u0259tta cinsiyy\u0259tin\u0259 inan\u0131ram. Bu d\u0259f\u0259ki q\u0259hr\u0259man\u0131m \u0130sve\u00e7in paytaxt\u0131 Stokholm v\u0259 onun sa\u011falmaz sindromudur. B\u0259li, do\u011fru t\u0259xmin etdiniz. Stokholm sindromundan dan\u0131\u015facam siz\u0259. Bu terminin k\u00f6k\u00fc k\u00fctl\u0259vi cinay\u0259tl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 olsa da m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131za da asanl\u0131qla n\u00fcfuz edib. Daha do\u011frusu, m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r t\u0259hlil ed\u0259nd\u0259n sonra bu q\u0259rara g\u0259libl\u0259r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>1973-c\u00fc ild\u0259 q\u0259rib\u0259 o\u011furluq hadis\u0259si ba\u015f verir. Yan-Erik Olsson adl\u0131 o\u011fru Stokholmun Kreditbanken bank\u0131n\u0131n \u015f\u00f6b\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259n birin\u0259 t\u0259kba\u015f\u0131na h\u00fccum edir. 6 sutka \u0259rzind\u0259 \u015f\u00f6b\u0259nin 4 \u0259m\u0259kda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 \u0259sir saxlay\u0131r. Olsson \u0130sve\u00e7in ba\u015f nazirin\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t g\u00f6nd\u0259r\u0259r\u0259k bildirir ki, 2 milyon dollar hesab\u0131na k\u00f6\u00e7\u00fcr\u00fclm\u0259s\u0259, i\u015f\u00e7il\u0259rin 4-n\u00fc d\u0259 \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u0259c\u0259k. H\u0259tta terror\u00e7u \u00f6z cinay\u0259tin\u0259 dostunu da \u015f\u0259rik edir. X\u00fclas\u0259&#8230; Bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t sonra \u0130sve\u00e7 polisinin u\u011furlu \u0259m\u0259liyyat\u0131 n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 canil\u0259r h\u0259bs olunub, \u0259dal\u0259t\u0259 t\u0259slim edilir. Girovlar is\u0259 azadl\u0131qlar\u0131na qovu\u015furlar. \u018fsl \u015fok da bu m\u0259qamda ya\u015fan\u0131r. Z\u0259r\u0259r\u00e7\u0259kmi\u015fl\u0259r b\u0259yan edirl\u0259r ki, canil\u0259r\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 kin saxlam\u0131rlar. H\u0259tta \u00f6z aralar\u0131nda pul toplay\u0131b, terror\u00e7ulara v\u0259kil tuturlar ki, biz\u0259 onlardan z\u0259r\u0259r g\u0259lm\u0259yib. \u0130sve\u00e7in say-se\u00e7m\u0259 psixiatrlar\u0131 ke\u00e7mi\u015f girovlarla bir ne\u00e7\u0259 m\u00fcalic\u0259 kursu ke\u00e7dikd\u0259n sonra &#8220;Stokholm sundromu&#8221; yaran\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Eyni hal insanl\u0131q var olduqca d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 t\u0259krarlan\u0131b. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, g\u00fcnl\u0259rin bir g\u00fcn\u00fc terror\u00e7u qrup milyarder Uilyam Rendolf Herstin 14 ya\u015fl\u0131 n\u0259v\u0259si Patrisiyan\u0131 girov g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u0259r. \u0130ki ay \u0259rzind\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259 q\u0131z zorlan\u0131b, d\u00f6y\u00fclm\u0259sin\u0259, ac saxlan\u0131lmas\u0131na r\u0259\u011fm\u0259n azad edilm\u0259k \u0259r\u0259f\u0259sind\u0259 terror\u00e7u d\u0259st\u0259y\u0259 qo\u015fuldu\u011funu bildirir v\u0259 evin\u0259 geri qay\u0131tmaq ist\u0259m\u0259diyini deyir. H\u0259tta onlarla birg\u0259 \u0259lini cinay\u0259t\u0259 bat\u0131r\u0131r. Polis Hersti \u0259l\u0259 ke\u00e7ir\u0259nd\u0259n sonra qorxu v\u0259 \u00e7ar\u0259sizliyin yaratd\u0131\u011f\u0131 psixikan\u0131n posttravmatik poz\u011funlu\u011fu sindromu ortaya \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. \u0130ndi g\u0259lin siz\u0259 11 ya\u015f\u0131nda ik\u0259n zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa m\u0259ruz qal\u0131b o\u011furlanan Ceysi Li Duqarddan dan\u0131\u015f\u0131m. 7 il zorlan\u0131b ba\u015f\u0131na m\u00fcsib\u0259tl\u0259r a\u00e7\u0131lan, h\u0259tta cinay\u0259tkardan iki \u00f6vlad d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259tir\u0259n q\u0131zc\u0131\u011faz azadl\u0131\u011fa \u00e7\u0131xandan sonra da ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 c\u0259h\u0259nn\u0259mi \u015f\u00fcurlu \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 d\u0259rk etmir. Polisin n\u0259zar\u0259tind\u0259 olan 18 ya\u015fl\u0131 Ceysi 7 ilinin qatilini qorumaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259lind\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259n h\u0259r \u015feyi etm\u0259y\u0259 can at\u0131rd\u0131. M\u0259lum olur ki, Ceysi d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 qatilinin evind\u0259n qurtulmaq \u015fans\u0131 \u0259ld\u0259 ets\u0259 d\u0259 bundan k\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc boyun qa\u00e7\u0131r\u0131b.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130ndi g\u0259lin, bu tagikomediyaya ayd\u0131nl\u0131q g\u0259tir\u0259k. \u200cPsixologiyada Stokholm sindromu qurban\u0131n t\u0259cav\u00fczkara b\u0259sl\u0259diyi simpatiya duy\u011fusu kimi izah olunur. Art\u0131q real \u0259hvalatlardan anlad\u0131n\u0131z ki, bu duy\u011fu qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131qs\u0131z olmur. Bir n\u00f6v psixikan\u0131n \u015f\u00fcursuz m\u00fcdafi\u0259sidir. Qorxu v\u0259 d\u0259h\u015f\u0259t i\u00e7\u0259risind\u0259 olan qurbanla cinay\u0259tkar aras\u0131nda g\u00fccl\u00fc empatiya formala\u015f\u0131r. B\u0259li, bu, x\u0259st\u0259lik deyil- psixoloji m\u00fcdafi\u0259 \u00fcsuludur. H\u0259tta qurban bir \u00e7ox hallarda onu t\u0259cav\u00fczkar\u0131n z\u00fclm\u00fcnd\u0259n qurtaran xilaskarlar\u0131na nifr\u0259t b\u0259sl\u0259yir.<\/p>\n<div class=\"AdviadNativeVideo\"><\/div>\n<p>\u0130ndi is\u0259 g\u0259lib \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131q m\u0259i\u015f\u0259td\u0259 Stokholm sundromuna. B\u0259z\u0259n qad\u0131nlar qatil obraz\u0131na b\u00fcr\u00fcn\u0259n \u0259rl\u0259rind\u0259n bo\u015fand\u0131qlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6zl\u0259rini g\u00fcnahkar hiss edirl\u0259r. Bu hal ki\u00e7ik ya\u015flar\u0131nda ail\u0259 \u00fczv\u00fc t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n seksual zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa m\u0259ruz qalan insanlara da aid edilir. D\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 eyni cinsi istismara m\u0259ruz qalsa da ad\u0259t\u0259n bu tip qurbanlar t\u0259cav\u00fczkar\u0131n\u0131 ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259rinin g\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n salma\u011fa ehtiyat edir, h\u0259tta daha d\u0259qiq des\u0259m, vicdan \u0259zab\u0131 duyurlar. Yaxud ofis \u015f\u0259raitind\u0259 komanda f\u0259aliyy\u0259ti \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn olsa bel\u0259, \u0259m\u0259kda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131, tabeliyind\u0259kil\u0259ri durmadan ac\u0131layan, al\u00e7aldan m\u00fcdirl\u0259r\u0259 haqq qazand\u0131rmaq c\u0259hdimiz&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Buna ad\u0259t\u0259n &#8220;kooperativ Stokholm sindromu&#8221; deyirl\u0259r. F\u0259rd onu incid\u0259n, q\u00fcruru il\u0259 oynayan m\u00fcdirin\u0259 simpatiya duyaraq, onu g\u00fcnahs\u0131z m\u0259l\u0259k kimi t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edir. X\u0259yal edirsinizmi, sizi d\u00f6y\u0259n, s\u00f6y\u0259n, sizinl\u0259 irad\u0259niz xaricind\u0259 davranan q\u0259ddar partnyorunuz h\u0259m d\u0259 h\u0259md\u0259miniz obraz\u0131na b\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcr. Siz onunla daha \u00e7ox zaman ke\u00e7irdikd\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131q duy\u011fusu yaran\u0131r. Sizi davaml\u0131 \u00fczd\u00fckd\u0259n sonra onun neytral davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 bel\u0259 i\u00e7inizd\u0259 bir rahatl\u0131q formala\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r. Bel\u0259likl\u0259, qurban \u00f6z do\u011frular\u0131n\u0131n \u0259ksin\u0259 h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t ed\u0259r\u0259k toksik t\u0259r\u0259f m\u00fcqabilinin &#8220;h\u0259qiq\u0259t&#8221;ini m\u0259nims\u0259yir. Yax\u015f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. &#8220;M\u0259i\u015f\u0259t Stokholm sindromu&#8221;ndan qurtulmaq ist\u0259yirsinizs\u0259, qatilinizd\u0259n bo\u015fan\u0131n. Korporativ Stokholm sindromundan yaxa qurtara bilmirsiniz? \u0130\u015fd\u0259n ayr\u0131l\u0131n. Do\u011frular\u0131n\u0131za, prinsipl\u0259riniz\u0259 sahib \u00e7\u0131x\u0131n. Toksik insanlarla bir otaqda, evd\u0259, ofisd\u0259 ya\u015famaq, i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tiniz yoxdur. Siz ki, Stokholm deyilsiniz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Leyla Sarabi<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u0259n \u015f\u0259h\u0259rl\u0259rin ruhuna, xarakterin\u0259, h\u0259tta cinsiyy\u0259tin\u0259 inan\u0131ram. Bu d\u0259f\u0259ki q\u0259hr\u0259man\u0131m \u0130sve\u00e7in paytaxt\u0131 Stokholm v\u0259 onun sa\u011falmaz sindromudur. B\u0259li, do\u011fru t\u0259xmin etdiniz. Stokholm sindromundan dan\u0131\u015facam siz\u0259. Bu terminin k\u00f6k\u00fc k\u00fctl\u0259vi cinay\u0259tl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 olsa da m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131za da asanl\u0131qla n\u00fcfuz edib. Daha do\u011frusu, m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r t\u0259hlil ed\u0259nd\u0259n sonra bu q\u0259rara g\u0259libl\u0259r. 1973-c\u00fc ild\u0259 q\u0259rib\u0259 o\u011furluq hadis\u0259si ba\u015f verir. Yan-Erik Olsson adl\u0131 o\u011fru Stokholmun Kreditbanken bank\u0131n\u0131n \u015f\u00f6b\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259n birin\u0259 t\u0259kba\u015f\u0131na h\u00fccum edir. 6 sutka \u0259rzind\u0259 \u015f\u00f6b\u0259nin 4 \u0259m\u0259kda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 \u0259sir saxlay\u0131r. Olsson \u0130sve\u00e7in ba\u015f nazirin\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t g\u00f6nd\u0259r\u0259r\u0259k bildirir ki, 2 milyon dollar hesab\u0131na k\u00f6\u00e7\u00fcr\u00fclm\u0259s\u0259, i\u015f\u00e7il\u0259rin 4-n\u00fc&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":497102,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/leyla-sarabi.jpg",800,450,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/leyla-sarabi.jpg",800,450,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/leyla-sarabi.jpg",800,450,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/leyla-sarabi-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/leyla-sarabi-649x365.jpg",649,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/leyla-sarabi.jpg",640,360,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/leyla-sarabi.jpg",800,450,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/leyla-sarabi.jpg",800,450,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/leyla-sarabi-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/leyla-sarabi.jpg",800,450,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?cat=1\" rel=\"category\">C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"M\u0259n \u015f\u0259h\u0259rl\u0259rin ruhuna, xarakterin\u0259, h\u0259tta cinsiyy\u0259tin\u0259 inan\u0131ram. Bu d\u0259f\u0259ki q\u0259hr\u0259man\u0131m \u0130sve\u00e7in paytaxt\u0131 Stokholm v\u0259 onun sa\u011falmaz sindromudur. B\u0259li, do\u011fru t\u0259xmin etdiniz. Stokholm sindromundan dan\u0131\u015facam siz\u0259. Bu terminin k\u00f6k\u00fc k\u00fctl\u0259vi cinay\u0259tl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 olsa da m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131za da asanl\u0131qla n\u00fcfuz edib. Daha do\u011frusu, m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r t\u0259hlil ed\u0259nd\u0259n sonra bu q\u0259rara g\u0259libl\u0259r. 1973-c\u00fc ild\u0259 q\u0259rib\u0259 o\u011furluq hadis\u0259si ba\u015f verir.&hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/497101"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=497101"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/497101\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/497102"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=497101"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=497101"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=497101"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}