{"id":499165,"date":"2022-07-28T08:19:02","date_gmt":"2022-07-28T05:19:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=499165"},"modified":"2022-07-28T08:19:02","modified_gmt":"2022-07-28T05:19:02","slug":"abituriyentl%c9%99ri-intihardan-nec%c9%99-qoruyaq-az-bal-toplayanlara-valideyn-t%c9%99n%c9%99sinin-f%c9%99sadlari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?p=499165","title":{"rendered":"Abituriyentl\u0259ri intihardan nec\u0259 qoruyaq &#8211; az bal toplayanlara valideyn t\u0259n\u0259sinin f\u0259sadlar\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>H\u0259r il q\u0259bul imtahanlar\u0131 zaman\u0131 xeyli g\u0259nc abituriyent psixoloji sars\u0131nt\u0131lar ya\u015fay\u0131r. Haz\u0131rda da abituriyentl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259n a\u011f\u0131r d\u00f6n\u0259mdir, imtahan n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ri elan olunur, ixtisas se\u00e7iml\u0259r\u0131 bir ne\u00e7\u0259 g\u00fcn sonra ba\u015flayacaq.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Musavat.com t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259 xat\u0131rlad\u0131r ki, art\u0131q iki abituriyent intihar edib. \u0130ddialar var ki, u\u011fursuz olan g\u0259ncl\u0259r\u0259 daha \u00e7ox valideyn t\u0259n\u0259si, onlar\u0131n etimad\u0131n\u0131 do\u011frultmamalar\u0131 t\u0259sir edir. Bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n, valideynl\u0259r h\u0259r hans\u0131 s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n imtahanlarda z\u0259if n\u0259tic\u0259 \u0259ld\u0259 ed\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259r\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 h\u0259ssas olmal\u0131, onlara h\u0259yat\u0131n bitm\u0259diyini anlatmal\u0131 v\u0259 pe\u015f\u0259 ixtisaslar\u0131na y\u00f6n\u0259ltm\u0259li, n\u00f6vb\u0259ti il imtahan\u0131na haz\u0131rla\u015fma\u011fa h\u0259v\u0259sl\u0259ndirm\u0259lidirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>\u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, intiharlardak\u0131 amill\u0259r yaln\u0131z valideyn t\u0259zyiqi &#8211; t\u0259n\u0259si deyil. Prosesin a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u0259traf m\u00fchit, pandemiya d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 normal t\u0259dris, t\u0259hsil ala bilm\u0259m\u0259l\u0259ri s\u0259b\u0259bind\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259rin depressiyaya d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259si d\u0259 ciddi faktorlard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><img src=\"https:\/\/yt3.ggpht.com\/ytc\/AKedOLQKE7AD0uk6PFuLYk7-X4bVrR48SyUBSWpO5egYvg=s900-c-k-c0x00ffffff-no-rj\" alt=\"Psixoloq Elnur R\u00fcst\u0259mov - YouTube\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Elnur R\u00fcst\u0259mov: \u201c\u0130mtahana q\u0259bul prosesind\u0259 f\u0259nn haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 psixoloji haz\u0131rl\u0131qla paralel apar\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f psixoloq Elnur R\u00fcst\u0259mov m\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 \u201cYeni M\u00fcsavat\u201da bunlar\u0131 \u015f\u0259rh etdi:<\/strong>\u00a0\u201cSon zamanlar q\u0259bul imtahanlar\u0131 v\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259rin elan olunmas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 bir \u00e7ox abituriyentl\u0259rd\u0259 suisidal hallar\u0131n ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n \u015fahidi oluruq. H\u0259tta sonuncu x\u0259b\u0259rd\u0259 abituriyent intihardan \u00f6nc\u0259 valideynl\u0259rd\u0259n birin\u0259 m\u0259ktub yaz\u0131b. \u018fslind\u0259 bu hal uzun ill\u0259rdir ki, davam edir. Q\u0259bul imtahanlar\u0131ndan sonra biz abituriyentl\u0259r aras\u0131nda intihara c\u0259hd hallar\u0131n\u0131n \u015fahidi oluruq. Hans\u0131 ki bu\u00a0intiharlar\u0131n bir qismi \u00f6l\u00fcml\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259nmir.\u00a0 H\u0259tta \u00f6l\u00fcml\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259n vaxt da biz g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fck ki, valideynl\u0259r bel\u0259 faci\u0259d\u0259n sonra da u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n psixoloji d\u0259st\u0259k almas\u0131na ciddi yana\u015fm\u0131rlar. Bir m\u0259qam\u0131 qeyd etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, imtahana q\u0259bul prosesind\u0259 f\u0259nn haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 psixoloji haz\u0131rl\u0131qla paralel apar\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Abituriyent h\u0259m f\u0259nn haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ke\u00e7m\u0259lidir, h\u0259m d\u0259 psixoloji haz\u0131rl\u0131qdan ke\u00e7m\u0259lidir. M\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259, \u015fagirdl\u0259rin repetitor \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn getdiyi kurslarda da psixoloji d\u0259st\u0259k g\u00f6st\u0259rilm\u0259lidir. Bel\u0259 oldu\u011fu t\u0259qdird\u0259 abituriyent imtahan prosesin\u0259 kompleks \u015f\u0259klind\u0259 haz\u0131rla\u015fm\u0131\u015f olur. O da onlar\u0131n imtahanda daha yax\u015f\u0131 bal toplamas\u0131na m\u00fcsb\u0259t t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259r olsun ki, bu hal ba\u015f vermir. Yaln\u0131z bir qisim valideyn imtahan prosesin\u0259 5-6 ay qalm\u0131\u015f psixoloq yan\u0131na g\u0259tirirl\u0259r. Motivasiyan\u0131n \u00fcst s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 saxlanmas\u0131, zaman\u0131n d\u00fczg\u00fcn planlanmas\u0131, \u00f6zg\u00fcv\u0259nin formala\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 onlara m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n psixoloji d\u0259st\u0259k g\u00f6st\u0259rilir. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, bu prosesd\u0259 valideynl\u0259rin t\u0259zyiqi x\u00fcsusi qeyd olunur. Valideyn birm\u0259nal\u0131 \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 imtahan prosesind\u0259 v\u0259 imtahandan sonra \u00f6vlad\u0131na m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u0259st\u0259yi g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259lidir. Bu g\u00fcn abituriyentl\u0259rin b\u00f6y\u00fck bir qismi 9, 10-11-ci sinifd\u0259n haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011fa gedirl\u0259r. Bu m\u00fcdd\u0259t \u0259rzind\u0259 d\u0259 valideyn bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn maddi v\u0259sait x\u0259rcl\u0259yir. Valideyn g\u0259zm\u0259yind\u0259n, yem\u0259yind\u0259n, i\u00e7m\u0259yind\u0259n k\u0259sir, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259hsil almas\u0131na y\u00f6n\u0259ldir. \u015e\u00fcbh\u0259siz valideynin g\u00f6zl\u0259ntisi olur. Valideynd\u0259n d\u0259 dig\u0259r qohumlar, qon\u015fular, tan\u0131\u015flar soru\u015furlar, maraqlan\u0131rlar. Bu da valideyn-\u00f6vlad m\u00fcnasib\u0259tin\u0259 m\u0259nfi t\u0259sir g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 x\u00fcsusil\u0259 bu h\u0259ssas d\u00f6n\u0259md\u0259 valideynl\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131\u015f edir\u0259m ki, \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131za d\u0259st\u0259k olun. Bu il daxil olmay\u0131bsa, g\u0259l\u0259n il daxil olacaq. \u018fg\u0259r \u00f6vlad valideynind\u0259n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 o d\u0259st\u0259yi, qay\u011f\u0131n\u0131, g\u00fcv\u0259ni g\u00f6r\u0259rs\u0259, yenid\u0259n haz\u0131rla\u015f\u0131b ali m\u0259kt\u0259bi qazanacaq. Yox, o valideynd\u0259n o diqq\u0259ti g\u00f6rm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259, onda \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 qapanma da ola bil\u0259r, depressiyaya d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k hallar\u0131, intihar hallar\u0131 da ola bil\u0259r. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 valideynl\u0259r\u0259 s\u0259sl\u0259nir\u0259m ki, bu d\u00f6n\u0259ml\u0259rd\u0259 h\u0259ssas, diqq\u0259tli olsunlar\u201d.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i.ytimg.com\/vi\/dguCU8tkyF0\/maxresdefault.jpg\" alt=\"Ekspert El\u00e7in \u018ff\u0259ndi t\u0259hsill\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 suallara ayd\u0131nl\u0131q g\u0259tirib - ARB24 (N\u0259  ba\u015f verir?) - YouTube\" width=\"843\" height=\"474\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>El\u00e7in \u018ff\u0259ndi: \u201c\u201cQohum-qon\u015fu n\u0259 dey\u0259r\u201d prinsipi il\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131b \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 gedirl\u0259r&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>T\u0259hsil eksperti El\u00e7in \u018ff\u0259ndi d\u0259 m\u00f6vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 \u201cYeni M\u00fcsavat\u201da fikirl\u0259rini a\u00e7\u0131qlad\u0131:<\/strong>\u00a0\u201cValideynl\u0259r\u0259 s\u0259sl\u0259nir\u0259m, \u00f6vladlar\u0131 il\u0259 dost olsunlar, daha s\u0259mimi davrans\u0131nlar. \u0130mtahan n\u0259tic\u0259sin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 getm\u0259sinl\u0259r. \u0130mtahan n\u0259tic\u0259si bu il u\u011fursuz olub, amma g\u0259l\u0259n il al\u0131na bil\u0259r. N\u00f6vb\u0259ti il olmad\u0131, ondan sonrak\u0131 il al\u0131na bil\u0259r. Amma t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259r olsun ki, 15-16 il b\u00f6y\u00fctd\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fcz \u00f6vlad\u0131 itirdiyimiz zaman n\u00f6vb\u0259ti il onu tapa bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yik. Valideynl\u0259r m\u00fctl\u0259q bu amili n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 almal\u0131d\u0131rlar. He\u00e7 bir imtahan n\u0259tic\u0259si \u00f6vladdan daha d\u0259y\u0259rli, daha \u015firin deyil. Valideynl\u0259r b\u0259z\u0259n imtahan n\u0259tic\u0259sin\u0259 k\u0259nar m\u00fcdaxil\u0259l\u0259r \u0259sas\u0131nda, \u201dqohum-qon\u015fu n\u0259 dey\u0259r&#8221; prinsipi il\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131b \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 gedirl\u0259r. N\u0259tic\u0259 etibaril\u0259 u\u015faqlar psixoloji c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n yeniyetm\u0259lik d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 z\u0259if olurlar. Psixi z\u0259iflik neqativ hallara s\u00fcr\u00fckl\u0259yir. Kimisi evi t\u0259rk edir, kimisi intihara c\u0259hd edir. Valideynl\u0259r bu amili m\u00fctl\u0259q n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 almal\u0131d\u0131rlar ki, \u00f6vladlar\u0131 bu hallarla \u00fczl\u0259\u015fm\u0259sinl\u0259r. D\u00f6vl\u0259t \u0130mtahan M\u0259rk\u0259zi t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n ke\u00e7iril\u0259n imtahan n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ri b\u0259zi abituriyentl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn o q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 u\u011furlu olmaya bilir. Burada daha \u00e7ox ciddi haz\u0131rla\u015fan abituriyentl\u0259r u\u011fur \u0259ld\u0259 edirl\u0259r. Bunu biz bir estafet\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259ts\u0259k, h\u0259r k\u0259s qa\u00e7\u0131r, yaln\u0131z bir n\u0259f\u0259r qalib olur. \u0130mtahan prosesind\u0259 d\u0259 t\u0259xmin\u0259n 100 min n\u0259f\u0259r\u0259 yax\u0131n i\u015ftirak\u00e7\u0131 varsa, plan yerin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 50 min n\u0259f\u0259r q\u0259bul apar\u0131l\u0131r. 50 min n\u0259f\u0259rin k\u0259narda qalmas\u0131 normald\u0131r. O dem\u0259k deyil ki, 50 min n\u0259f\u0259r \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 x\u0259sar\u0259t yetirm\u0259lidir. Abituriyentl\u0259r n\u00f6vb\u0259ti il\u0259 daha ciddi haz\u0131rla\u015fmal\u0131, qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na qoydu\u011fu m\u0259qs\u0259d\u0259 \u00e7atmal\u0131d\u0131r. Valideynl\u0259ri d\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131na d\u0259st\u0259k verm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131ram&#8221;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>H\u0259r il q\u0259bul imtahanlar\u0131 zaman\u0131 xeyli g\u0259nc abituriyent psixoloji sars\u0131nt\u0131lar ya\u015fay\u0131r. Haz\u0131rda da abituriyentl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259n a\u011f\u0131r d\u00f6n\u0259mdir, imtahan n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ri elan olunur, ixtisas se\u00e7iml\u0259r\u0131 bir ne\u00e7\u0259 g\u00fcn sonra ba\u015flayacaq. Musavat.com t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259 xat\u0131rlad\u0131r ki, art\u0131q iki abituriyent intihar edib. \u0130ddialar var ki, u\u011fursuz olan g\u0259ncl\u0259r\u0259 daha \u00e7ox valideyn t\u0259n\u0259si, onlar\u0131n etimad\u0131n\u0131 do\u011frultmamalar\u0131 t\u0259sir edir. Bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n, valideynl\u0259r h\u0259r hans\u0131 s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n imtahanlarda z\u0259if n\u0259tic\u0259 \u0259ld\u0259 ed\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259r\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 h\u0259ssas olmal\u0131, onlara h\u0259yat\u0131n bitm\u0259diyini anlatmal\u0131 v\u0259 pe\u015f\u0259 ixtisaslar\u0131na y\u00f6n\u0259ltm\u0259li, n\u00f6vb\u0259ti il imtahan\u0131na haz\u0131rla\u015fma\u011fa h\u0259v\u0259sl\u0259ndirm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, intiharlardak\u0131 amill\u0259r yaln\u0131z valideyn t\u0259zyiqi &#8211; t\u0259n\u0259si deyil.&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":499166,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"gutentor_comment":0,"rttpg_featured_image_url":{"full":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/43193b147283a3a023c21d3316cda591.jpg",540,372,false],"landscape":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/43193b147283a3a023c21d3316cda591.jpg",540,372,false],"portraits":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/43193b147283a3a023c21d3316cda591.jpg",540,372,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/43193b147283a3a023c21d3316cda591-500x280.jpg",500,280,true],"medium":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/43193b147283a3a023c21d3316cda591-530x365.jpg",530,365,true],"large":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/43193b147283a3a023c21d3316cda591.jpg",540,372,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/43193b147283a3a023c21d3316cda591.jpg",540,372,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/43193b147283a3a023c21d3316cda591.jpg",540,372,false],"post-thumbnail":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/43193b147283a3a023c21d3316cda591-240x172.jpg",240,172,true],"advps-thumb-one":["https:\/\/arantv.az\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/43193b147283a3a023c21d3316cda591.jpg",540,372,false]},"rttpg_author":{"display_name":"V\u00fcsal Rafiqo\u011flu","author_link":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?author=2"},"rttpg_comment":0,"rttpg_category":"<a href=\"https:\/\/arantv.az\/?cat=1\" rel=\"category\">C\u0259miyy\u0259t<\/a>","rttpg_excerpt":"H\u0259r il q\u0259bul imtahanlar\u0131 zaman\u0131 xeyli g\u0259nc abituriyent psixoloji sars\u0131nt\u0131lar ya\u015fay\u0131r. Haz\u0131rda da abituriyentl\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259n a\u011f\u0131r d\u00f6n\u0259mdir, imtahan n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ri elan olunur, ixtisas se\u00e7iml\u0259r\u0131 bir ne\u00e7\u0259 g\u00fcn sonra ba\u015flayacaq. Musavat.com t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259 xat\u0131rlad\u0131r ki, art\u0131q iki abituriyent intihar edib. \u0130ddialar var ki, u\u011fursuz olan g\u0259ncl\u0259r\u0259 daha \u00e7ox valideyn t\u0259n\u0259si, onlar\u0131n etimad\u0131n\u0131 do\u011frultmamalar\u0131 t\u0259sir edir. Bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n,&hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/499165"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=499165"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/499165\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/499166"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=499165"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=499165"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arantv.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=499165"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}